March 2, 2026

Celebrating Woman's Hx Month

Celebrating Woman's Hx Month

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Yes, yes, yes, you like that groove? Yes, yes, yes,

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happy fourth year. We are here, we are live, We

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are doing the darn thing, I promise you. In the

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Holy ghostuff in the Holy Ghost.

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Welcome to another season, another week, another.

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Night of fabulous dialogue and explanations and conversations and changing things,

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life changing events. That is, life changing events, and your

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life will never be the same. To my fabulous co host,

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let's give it up. Yes, as you know, it's a

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young lady to your right there that we may have

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a vague resemblance, and you can say, wow, they look alike,

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well they should.

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She's got twenty.

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Six twenty three of my chromosomes running through her veins.

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Hall and lujah, and of course at the bottom, the

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ultimate social worker, the ultimate social worker.

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We're celebrating Social Work Awareness Month.

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It's our month, it's our year, it's our time, and

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we're going to talk about that doing women's history as

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we celebrate women's history.

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But before I go any.

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Further, let's take it to the thrown room of grace.

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Father God, we just thank you tonight. We thank you

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for your love, your saving grace and your mercy.

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Lord.

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You just I tell you, there's no words. Words cannot

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explain being in the presence. The words cannot explain hearing

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your voice and receiving direction.

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Words cannot explain.

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There's not enough words in the alphabet in the dictionary

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to just say how much we want to say. Thank

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you for choosing us, thank you for waiting on us.

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Thank You for igniting that which is in us through

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the releasing and through the prom the communication of the

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Holy Spirit. Thank you Jesus for what you did on

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the cross. We can't we have to go to our

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grave thanking you. That should be the last conversation, the

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last set of words that escape from our lips as

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we are on our deathbed and we know we're getting

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ready to come home.

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We just thank you.

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But more importantly, you left the Holy Spirit behind to

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to love us, to guide us, to comfort us when

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we can't even do it ourselves.

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We love you so much. Now, Lord, you know this

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is your.

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Show, this is your podcast, this is your opportunity to

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speak to your people. We're gonna get behind the cross

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and watch what you do, listen to what you say,

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and get our marching orders for the rest of the evening,

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not even thinking about tomorrow.

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We just thank you, Father God, have you waited and

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do one of the.

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Many millions of trillions of things you do best, And

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that's set your captives free. Right now in the mighty

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majestic name of Jesus Christ, we pray, and the church said, Amen,

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we're gonna get a little.

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Better with that. We're gonna get a little bitter with that.

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How y'all doing, how you doing, How you're doing, how

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you're doing?

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Tell me tell me something good?

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Okay, snow, we had some snow, A little bit of snow.

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Wasn't look about the claim, I declared my car before

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I left work. What it's light, But it's you know,

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it's it's yeah.

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Well we just I think we're in the eighties right now.

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And amen. Amen, Hello, good evening, it's Tennessee.

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Come on on the roll call, everybody checking in, Come

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on roll call right now.

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In the name of Jesus, thank you. Wow. Make sure

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you like it.

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Share wherever you're watching or hearing or listening this this

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to the program, make sure you like it, share it,

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do all that fun stuff.

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That's what we do. I'm pleased to announce had the

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It's like taking meat from a tiger.

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But last month, February, we had over five thousand shares.

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That was y'all.

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Yes, I don't know why. I can't get the rest

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of the demographics, but that's okay. I know we're saying,

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even if it's just the five faithful, the twelve faithful,

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I know we are making change. I know we're making

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a difference. And everywhere your feet is treading, the Holy

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Spirit is with you. God is with you, And I'm

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telling you we're making a difference, and we're gonna go

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forward and do itever the more. Got one more year

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of this and we're gonna we're gonna mix it up

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a little bit. How did y'all like the new music.

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Listen.

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I love this.

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Yes, do it again.

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I said, okay, you know, brother doing what he do,

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doing what he do, and I mean it was like,

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you know, pulling teeth, but.

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He got it, he got it. He was not satisfied.

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I said, make it magic. There we go.

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I said, oh man, it's so different. So I want

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you to go back and listen just to the theme.

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Is very cool.

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Thank you, missy, thank you so much. Yes, and that's

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that's in him. This is the little, same little fellow.

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When he started walking made his way to the kitchen

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all of a sudden, I don't know how he got

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this spatula and the pots were kept blow. I don't

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know who he got this spatula.

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To this day, I'll never know. And he's been in

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there hitting the pots, keeping a beat, maybe musically a cloud. Look,

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I beg you, boy making beats.

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For his mom's and his auntie Tray and his twin

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sisters podcast making beats.

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That's beats.

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That's not music. I mean, he's got all that. And

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you should see his room. I mean he's he's a

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full orchestra all by himself. But anyway, I just you know,

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I got flowers where they they're do and all the.

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Theme music we've ever had.

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He produced it, Amen and hours, So try try me,

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try me trump.

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You can't mix it. You can't.

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You could sit there all day and try to wrap

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it up up your mind around and call it. Put

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the strings and the and the oo and everything else.

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You'll You'll never hit it, I promise you.

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Thank you well.

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We had a question towards the end of the show

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from one of our youngest listeners, and I do not

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want to forget about this because it was all my

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mind the whole weeks.

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Music is in him.

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Yes, very thank you, Yes, yes, yes, come on in here,

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roll call where you at? No, let me call your

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name now, please don't let me call you by your name.

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Let me do that because I know some names. So

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please come on in. You ain't got to be shy.

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Ain't nobody gonna bother you, Nobody try to track you.

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Troll you.

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I rebuked that in the name of Jesus, so you're safe.

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This is a safe space. So we just need you

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to roll call to see who's listening in. Amen and amen,

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And I go back sometime and and put in the

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setting it straight page on the setting, the straight page.

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Uh that you're listening and things like that. So sweet

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of him to make the music. Well, now, don't don't

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don't go I have to live with this boy. Don't

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don't go there. We ain't gonna let him know that

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what you said, no, because I got to get more

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out of him. But we thank you and let me

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get back to purpose. Okay, that's what I want to do.

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Young, there's a young.

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Like one of my youngest listeners wanted to know the

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meaning of ash Wednesday, and I hope he is able

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to listen and let me just read it off.

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Now, it's a Catholic thing.

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I know other religions may practice it and may do it,

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or people just do it who are not even religious

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at all or don't have the faith for some reason.

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I've known people who don't declare anything that they belong to,

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anything that's religious or faith oriented, but they will go

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by a church who, particularly a Catholic church that does

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the ashes.

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And there was a pastor.

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I don't know what if it's an episcopale, you look

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like you had an episcopale, Young garment on African American gentlemen.

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He and two of his adjutants were.

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Standing on the side of the street on Wednesday, on

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Ash Wednesday.

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Uh and and you know asking, you know.

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Being available for people who wanted you just pull in. Now,

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I'm sure there was no questions asked. He did that

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in the name of the Father, Son and the Holy Spirit.

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But listen, just dive into it a little bit because

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one of my youngest listeners want to know what that

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was all about. And nobody tells you stuff. So you're

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walking around like why everybody, like five people in the

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road got black ash on their forehead in the side

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of a cross.

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Here we go. Ash Wednesday is celebrated as the beginning of.

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Lent, before the day period of their fasting and repentance,

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before Eastern civilizing mortality and the need for spiritual renewal

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through receiving ashes in the shape of a cross while

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hearing reminders like remember you are dust and to dusk

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you shall return.

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And that is scripture. You bore ashes to ashes, dust

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to dust you we were.

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We came from the ash and the dust we will

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return that way, Okay. It marks a call to self examination,

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morning sins, and preparing for Christ's resurrection by acknowledging human

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brokenness and seeking God's mercy, drawing parallels to Jesus forty

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days in the wilderness, and you need to have your

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parents go over that. When Jesus was in the wilderness,

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he went on the ultimate fast, and that's where a

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lot of these fasts come from, where he ate nothing.

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And that's when the devil also joined him and tempted

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him and basically wanted Jesus to bound.

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Down to him. And I want to take you a

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little story.

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I woke up maybe months back, maybe before the New Year,

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and all of a sudden, I woke up and I

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heard this conversation and I'm like, okay, but I realized.

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It wasn't It wasn't in the house, but it was

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in my.

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Room, and the books was saying, come on, just throw

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yourself down your angels. They won't let you hurt yourself.

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I was like, oh, this is forty this is that

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conversation with Satan, the devil in Jesus, And I'm telling.

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You this is what I heard. Jesus like, who do

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you think? Who you tripping? Who you messing with?

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I know you were there in the beginning, but you

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lost that space, your rights.

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So what you're trying to do.

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You think I'm.

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Gonna say you who made you nothing? I'm seeing now, I'm.

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Just hearing this boy, this conversation, and I'm doing it

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like a tennis match, like what you're gonna say, what

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you're gonna say, And Jesus like, homie homes and you

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see that, homes we give the earth. You leave me

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because I got work to do. Get out of here.

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And I'm like, and I'm looking at.

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Yeah, get out of there, you know. So so what

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that was?

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That opened up a whole lot of revelation from me

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as far as knowing your authority, knowing your power, knowing

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what what what your commands are, what you have the

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right to do. And that's why you need to study

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your Bible, not read it. Need to show yourself a

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proof and then you meditate. You don't have to memorize scripture.

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Trust me. If you go over you're.

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Like, oh my god, I saw this one scripture, one

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of my favorites, Psalms eighty one and six. And I'm

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gonna teach myself. But don't be trying to figure out

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how old I am. But I graduated from high school

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in eighty one and thinks it the number for mankind.

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So I remembered it.

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I removed you know, I will remove your shoulders.

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From the burden and free your hands from the pots.

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And that's when God began to show me, no, get

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out of my way, let me do this. I know

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how this story begins. I know what the mental is.

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I know the crescendo and the essence. I know when

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it's gonna go up. I know when it's gonna go down.

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I know the next hurdle, I know the next obstacle,

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and I know when the ends. And in the end,

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no matter what we win, we leaguers win.

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No what is going on because He's giving direction. That's

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how loving God is. Parents don't sit there and own

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up to their own situation. They want their child, the

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children suffering, and you know, saying that they won't like, yeah,

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you know what.

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When I was twelve, I did the same thing. Are

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you so surprised? Surprised in the middle of it, said oh, no,

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we're not doing that.

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We're not getting that. That's a generational curse. Just because

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you see that, you may men may not know that

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I went through this. I did the same thing. I

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treated my parents the same way. So what you're doing

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the side. Remember say to me, I told them, I shown.

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Me, I wrote my first book.

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The whole thing is saying to me was that's what

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you wanted to do. And then they were asking how

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the kids, Well, you know, DJ didn't believe they're drawing.

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Oh well you don't, Auntie, so she drew and so

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it's so true, and I'm like, oh, okay, but where's

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their work reading from there is you can't even say that.

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Relatives didn't even say, well, that is so nice. Those

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kids are gifted.

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That is nice.

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Can't even say that, but you want to throw it

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in my face. Oh they got that from something. No,

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we've taken it. And I'm proud of my daughter.

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She's taking the entrepreneurial level, which I was not meant to.

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I didn't think I was supposed to be any of that.

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That's her, that's her, that's her corner, that's her, that's

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her feel, that's her lane, that's her building, that's her masterpiece.

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But she's beyond me. I just be sitting back in

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the cut and watch it. I'm proud of her business

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wise and everything you're supposed to do. And I set

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my kids down over the years and said to them,

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this is where I this is where your mom, this

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in faults, this is this is this is that other

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side of your mom. And they're like, uh uh yeah,

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I know what I'm talking about, and I know it

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when I see it outcause it's not you're not gonna

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you can't follow my footsteps.

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People say, oh, they got shoes the field.

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No, I take my.

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Shoes with me. You bring your own shoes when you're

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dealing with me, whether.

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It's my business, whether it's the podcast, No.

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Don't know.

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Uh uh me and mimic me that that's mine. Hey,

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that is really cool to know how to do business

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stuff and follow your dreams.

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Amen, Hey, Charles, thank you, Yes and together all the time.

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Jesus, when Gunna said I knew you before your mother's

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womb knew you, y'all got to go back and find

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that script in Jeremiah and the Book of Jeremiah.

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That's really real and it temples me.

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Even when I was doing therapy work and everything up,

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people were like, oh, my goodness, I should write a

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book and the story cells all their gifts are coming

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out and everything. And I just said that chuckle, because

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I said, God, they don't realize you you downloaded that

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in them before their mother's womb knew that.

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They were coming.

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And here right the pregnant you can get health and safety,

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is safe, delivery of your child, can get any generational

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curses from the family.

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You start praying for that and about that.

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If you care, if you're proud that life growing in me,

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and tonight we talk about motherhood, women, celebrating women from

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cradle to the grave.

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I want female That's.

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What we're talking about. I don't know about those other people.

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I really don't. And that's not my mission. That's not

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my mission. I'm not called for that. I'm I call

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to disciple any but I am not called for that.

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Most people get let too much get in their way

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and they don't follow that.

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Thank you, Mickey.

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They don't even stop long enough. Thank you, Elder kse

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see to the scene.

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Thank you. Most people don't stop.

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Do you know out of the over four thousand people

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that I've counseled.

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Since I've lived in Orlando, and I've been here.

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For twenty four years, and I say the last fifteen

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of those years, sixteen of those years I was doing

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work with the Department of Correction and probation, and in

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my assessment, I have a question, what is it that

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you wanted to be when you were a little girl?

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What were your dreams where when you were a little boy.

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Some people can't even remember, some can tell me. You know,

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I never dreamt, I never had a goal. I just

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wanted friends for me me.

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I just wanted to be a good kid.

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I wanted my parents to be proud that they chose me,

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they accepted me, they adopted me.

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Do you know my adoption papers.

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I was born on August second in the Seven months

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later the judge signs off and makes me legal. Nobody

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came looking for me, nobody came knocking on the door.

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My parents didn't skip a beat. I don't know if they.

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Didn't realize it or not. Seven months God's number completion rest.

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So I can't say this about everybody, but I know

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who I am in him, and I'm gonna finish. I'm

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gonna finish this race, and I will finish it strong,

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even if I'm by myself.

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I will.

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So that's what we want to talk about. So I

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hope that I answered the young man's question, and of

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course those if I haven't, please.

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Get it back. I will.

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We will definitely answer questions from this point on. You've

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got questions, put them out there.

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We will go back.

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We'll do our best. If we could get to it tonight,

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on the on the very eve of it, we'll try.

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If not, we'll we'll circle back. I promise you. Hey

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at the Stagia, thank you, check in, check in, everybody.

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Let's go. Let's go, because I know you're sitting there listening.

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I know you're sitting there listening. I know you're driving

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and I know you're listening. I know you're gonna go

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back and you're gonna listen. I know you and your

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life has changed. You don't have to give me, don't

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We don't want the credit. Don't put that bulls out

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on our back. We are just little people.

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We like you. We're children are the most high. We

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just try to mind our.

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Business and do what we were called to do. And

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this is social workers Aware that Social Workers Awareness Month. Yes,

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I got my social worker shirt on.

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Let me see if I can show y'all. Okay, that's

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all you're gonna get anyway.

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Yes, two things I will die with being a minister,

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being a child of God, and being a social worker.

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I can retire and I don't have to clock in

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bring to anybody. But I'm always gonna be a social worker.

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People. I'm always listening to people saying, well, what did

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you know that? You know?

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I was wondering and I said, well, you know you

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could check this this. Oh, thank you so much. I

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can't we can't help the right trade right, you can't

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help it. You can't help but get you can't help it.

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Talk to me, tray, come on and help it.

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Can't help it, I mean, because it's just so the

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human service field itself is just gratifying, you know, especially

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when you assist people with identifying their strengths. You know,

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because you know the solution solution focused. You know, you

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don't focus on the problem, you focus on solution.

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Yeah.

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So being able to assist people with finding what their

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strengths are through it all, how they make it day

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by day, you know.

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And we're problem solvers. That's who we are. A true

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social worker, a true social worker. We are problem solved.

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We're already thinking, okay, how do we get how we

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can help. I need to know how you got into it.

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First of all, I didn't like going into the field

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early on, in case management working in the middle health field.

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I didn't like going back and asking my seventy eight

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year roles, you know how long you've been not only

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how long you've been diagnosed, but when did you I

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had to come back to their childhood every time I

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had to go back, or they can say, you know,

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I remember.

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When I was five years old.

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My mother used to say it that I oh, and

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then I started putting it together.

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I have to ask about your past. Not going fast forward.

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Generational curses learn situations. The DNA dinah don't lie. According

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to Medea, Dinah don't lie. DNA don't lie it. Don't

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you keep telling your child or you just like your

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uncle Charles, Well, uncle Charles been in prison for all

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this child's life.

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Why do you keep And then you you're surprised that

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he's stealing at age eight?

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That over him who's under child's well you know, well

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that's your mother's brother and he's been, you know, trouble maker.

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He's been the black sheep for the Oh, black sheep,

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let me go look that up, black sheep.

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Oh, ain't nobody paying attention to you? You can do

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whatever you want. You could just be evil as all right? Oh,

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I could become the black sheep. Like Uncle Charles, you

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keep telling him, you know, we don't realize this. We

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don't realize this. Women, you know, God, bless y'all, bless y'all.

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And we go through it. We go through a lot

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because we are life carriers. We carry life. What Tolanes will.

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Do, I don't care what science is trying to do.

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I don't care what story comes out. I don't care

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how you what they do. Remember the game operation, you know,

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and you can take the little tweezer. You try to

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get the bone out and try to get the you know.

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And if you pick that little and you get shot,

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yeah you should. Okay, Scientists, beware you, other strange people beware.

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Keep trying to master God's work. You will get shot,

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and ain't nobody thinking about you. Okay, okay, thank you,

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thank you. You're going to be what you want to be.

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You go, and you will never be got. Scientists even

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though they found some matter, which I don't know what

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that looks like, but they opened up some portals. So

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somewhere in stratosphere they tore a hole and they got

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something out. Okay, well, now we're talking about aliens. Okay, Okay, okay,

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keep messing, keep messing.

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God separated the planets for a reason, for a reason.

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Now all let's talking everybody.

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Oh my, I'm like, yeah, well, duh, what's to say.

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If you're go looking for something hard enough, you will

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find what you're looking for. You'll find what you're looking for.

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But dude, is that your calling? Is that something you

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should be concerned about?

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Why? Watch Walking Dead? Just in case the zombies, just

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in case we're going to some zombie. I know how

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to get you.

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I know how to kill you because I'll see you

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first before you see me. Watched the Twilight grew up

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with the Twilight Zone, don't we kick heyers were making for.

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A reason me thank you Lord.

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Yeah, so you can sit there and wonder and stay

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in the past and let's get back to eating and

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live on top of the world. I got a problem

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with that song because but he not studied. It didn't

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end well for people, two people, it didn't end well.

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But that's okay. You like the song.

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I like my Redeemer lives, you know, like he's got

474
00:23:10.480 --> 00:23:11.799
the whole world in his hands.

475
00:23:12.920 --> 00:23:13.559
I got you know.

476
00:23:13.799 --> 00:23:17.799
Your presence is a gift. Your presence is a gift

477
00:23:17.680 --> 00:23:20.400
and grace. How sweet that? Oh, we can go there,

478
00:23:20.440 --> 00:23:22.640
We can go all night, We can go all night

479
00:23:23.000 --> 00:23:24.559
because all you have to do is sing the first

480
00:23:24.640 --> 00:23:27.279
couple of words and amazing grace. How sweet that sound?

481
00:23:27.599 --> 00:23:29.680
That seemed direct like me.

482
00:23:30.000 --> 00:23:33.319
Stay right there and do all your evaluating of yourself.

483
00:23:33.599 --> 00:23:35.680
Get the mote out your own eye before you try

484
00:23:35.720 --> 00:23:39.119
to tell me about the mote in mind. It's time now, guys,

485
00:23:39.640 --> 00:23:42.079
so preyferly you all hang in with us, But we

486
00:23:42.200 --> 00:23:45.720
go on straight. We are pushing envelopes, we are pushing

487
00:23:45.759 --> 00:23:48.359
people back. It's not I'm not gonna ask you. Are

488
00:23:48.400 --> 00:23:50.599
you a believer? That's not even a question on the

489
00:23:50.599 --> 00:23:53.319
belief of those of us on these streets. If I

490
00:23:53.319 --> 00:23:56.119
got if God said go tell her this, guess what

491
00:23:56.200 --> 00:23:58.039
I'm gonna go tell you that, and said you be

492
00:23:58.079 --> 00:24:00.920
blessed and walk out of your life. It's not about

493
00:24:01.039 --> 00:24:03.319
I love it that God. If I do have a word,

494
00:24:03.359 --> 00:24:06.079
when God gives me a word for people, he helps me.

495
00:24:06.160 --> 00:24:08.640
He makes sure I forget it. He's been that like

496
00:24:08.920 --> 00:24:11.960
most of my spiritually adult life. I forget it. And

497
00:24:11.960 --> 00:24:14.240
people say I heard a nice version of that song.

498
00:24:14.319 --> 00:24:17.839
Think yes, Charles, They mixing up. Boy, you can you know,

499
00:24:18.160 --> 00:24:19.720
I ain't gonna get into it, but you can.

500
00:24:23.240 --> 00:24:27.519
Stay right there. Some people just stay right. It was

501
00:24:27.559 --> 00:24:33.839
amazing grace, y'all. Hallelujah. Do you remember that thing? Amazing grace.

502
00:24:33.960 --> 00:24:35.079
Halleluja y'all.

503
00:24:35.519 --> 00:24:38.279
Anyhow, there we go. When I was a little boy,

504
00:24:38.359 --> 00:24:40.559
I remember we used to walk to school. I had

505
00:24:40.599 --> 00:24:43.039
to run down and you know, no shoes and had.

506
00:24:42.920 --> 00:24:46.720
To carry my my, my, my, my bread sandwiches, and

507
00:24:47.200 --> 00:24:53.319
you know, yeah, we can go there. I'm not because

508
00:24:53.359 --> 00:24:55.839
you know what, sometimes.

509
00:24:55.359 --> 00:24:58.240
When you're in that time of loneliness and you in

510
00:24:58.279 --> 00:25:01.319
your valley and you start to walking, you just be

511
00:25:01.359 --> 00:25:03.960
thinking about the goodness of God, and you have you

512
00:25:04.079 --> 00:25:08.799
have no words when you moan. We say that moan

513
00:25:09.519 --> 00:25:11.440
you know back in the old that church, back up

514
00:25:11.480 --> 00:25:19.279
in the woods. That about moany. Okay, I'm sorry, that's

515
00:25:19.279 --> 00:25:20.440
not supposed to be tonight.

516
00:25:20.680 --> 00:25:21.079
Anyway.

517
00:25:21.400 --> 00:25:27.599
My father is like crying out him live and see

518
00:25:27.839 --> 00:25:30.599
you see how it flows, See how it flows.

519
00:25:31.000 --> 00:25:35.319
I'm black. We're not scripted. We're not scripted. It's whatever whichever. However,

520
00:25:35.559 --> 00:25:37.960
we're not scripted because we don't have to be. We're

521
00:25:38.039 --> 00:25:41.160
living epistols for the Lord. Jesus Christ. I don't even

522
00:25:41.200 --> 00:25:42.079
know what's on his mind.

523
00:25:42.119 --> 00:25:44.480
He just gives us the topics and we flow and

524
00:25:44.519 --> 00:25:45.960
we open up in prayer.

525
00:25:46.160 --> 00:25:47.920
When you he said, we're two of them? How great

526
00:25:47.960 --> 00:25:52.599
that are? Okay? All right, that's okay? Or keep me

527
00:25:52.640 --> 00:25:55.119
at the cross. At the cross, oh boy, you can.

528
00:25:55.200 --> 00:25:57.160
We gonna do that one night. We just gonna go

529
00:25:57.240 --> 00:25:59.400
through some old schools. My daughter like, ain't gonna be.

530
00:26:00.880 --> 00:26:04.920
But guess who likes the rocking rocking? Not too much,

531
00:26:07.839 --> 00:26:09.880
oh mama, And she saying, I said, how do you

532
00:26:09.920 --> 00:26:14.000
know about that song? Gotta love the Mississippi mass cry Mississippi.

533
00:26:16.559 --> 00:26:21.920
Okay, we don't have choirs anymore.

534
00:26:22.359 --> 00:26:24.640
Man, they could take you there, boy, BArch it into.

535
00:26:24.759 --> 00:26:27.519
I remember I was part of marching in with the

536
00:26:28.440 --> 00:26:29.640
we know on a TV.

537
00:26:32.480 --> 00:26:34.640
No, not that one that was before we weren't on TV.

538
00:26:35.880 --> 00:26:40.519
No talking about sandwiches. Is miss Caake cooking something special

539
00:26:40.519 --> 00:26:40.680
than that?

540
00:26:40.759 --> 00:26:44.160
She already I did, uh chicken?

541
00:26:44.599 --> 00:26:49.559
Okray right, ticket, we're gravy with the b and oprah

542
00:26:49.599 --> 00:26:55.839
and tomatoes. So train you need to make your way

543
00:26:55.880 --> 00:26:59.920
to Orlanda Alada, not Orlando Alanda. You need to make

544
00:27:00.079 --> 00:27:04.359
your way when my man, when.

545
00:27:04.200 --> 00:27:07.079
I woke up. I mean, k she's going by herself.

546
00:27:13.119 --> 00:27:15.160
You got me started something.

547
00:27:16.400 --> 00:27:19.920
When I woke up. This board, Yeah, started me on

548
00:27:20.079 --> 00:27:25.480
my way. Okay, I'm come number two version probably a

549
00:27:25.519 --> 00:27:30.240
Tennessee version of that too, you know. But but you

550
00:27:30.240 --> 00:27:31.119
see it can happen.

551
00:27:31.160 --> 00:27:34.039
Pray, so just start singing. I remember walking.

552
00:27:33.759 --> 00:27:36.480
Into the church, the primitive Baptist church, and when it

553
00:27:36.519 --> 00:27:38.960
was getting close time to start, all of a sudden,

554
00:27:38.960 --> 00:27:41.519
you here, father.

555
00:27:42.640 --> 00:27:46.039
A stretch and you're looking around. Who's singing? Ain't nobody

556
00:27:46.039 --> 00:27:54.240
got a micro? Not my hand to I'm like, go ahead,

557
00:27:54.519 --> 00:27:55.799
it's from the deacons.

558
00:27:56.039 --> 00:27:58.480
And all of a sudden the older deacon come and

559
00:27:58.559 --> 00:28:00.880
he just stand up getting there no mic.

560
00:28:01.240 --> 00:28:03.359
We can it's a huge church, but we can hear it,

561
00:28:03.759 --> 00:28:04.720
and he starts it all.

562
00:28:04.799 --> 00:28:09.759
But there is nothing like a good organist. This lady

563
00:28:09.839 --> 00:28:12.480
used to play the organ for our church, and she

564
00:28:12.519 --> 00:28:16.799
would it was almost like she well she was in

565
00:28:16.880 --> 00:28:20.400
a trance you ever see, like the dracula and somebody

566
00:28:20.400 --> 00:28:23.160
playing the music, and then like in trance, she would

567
00:28:23.200 --> 00:28:26.480
when they say make the organs talk, she would make

568
00:28:26.559 --> 00:28:28.559
that organ talk beautiful.

569
00:28:28.640 --> 00:28:31.000
I mean, you amazing grace on an organ.

570
00:28:31.039 --> 00:28:33.079
When the old organs with the pedals and the hands

571
00:28:33.079 --> 00:28:37.279
and the layers and all that. That lady would would

572
00:28:37.599 --> 00:28:41.680
would would make it sank. It's Wilhelmine Payton, that that lady.

573
00:28:43.039 --> 00:28:46.079
That would do it all.

574
00:28:46.680 --> 00:28:49.400
I'm telling you she she played for our church for

575
00:28:49.559 --> 00:28:53.759
years and she when I say yeah, she she would

576
00:28:53.799 --> 00:28:55.559
make she would make that that.

577
00:28:55.599 --> 00:28:58.440
She would make that thing talk beautiful and it would

578
00:28:58.480 --> 00:29:00.559
just draw. You didn't even have to have a new words.

579
00:29:00.880 --> 00:29:01.680
You know.

580
00:29:01.880 --> 00:29:04.559
Que music can get you.

581
00:29:04.640 --> 00:29:06.799
Yeah, the music will get you because you sit there

582
00:29:07.000 --> 00:29:09.559
and if you see somebody starting the rock, they're gone,

583
00:29:09.960 --> 00:29:14.319
they gone. They listening and they're rocking. You see somebody

584
00:29:14.400 --> 00:29:16.799
just crying tears or floating like, oh my god.

585
00:29:17.319 --> 00:29:19.519
That's how we've been warriored. The first week in Warrior

586
00:29:19.599 --> 00:29:20.119
came about.

587
00:29:20.400 --> 00:29:23.480
I went to doctor Martha Sharmona's church up here, put

588
00:29:23.519 --> 00:29:27.119
stamp and handclapping. I love the organ. Yes, I'm telling

589
00:29:27.200 --> 00:29:32.559
you the organ. If you got somebody that, yeah, we

590
00:29:32.599 --> 00:29:33.119
don't have that.

591
00:29:33.160 --> 00:29:38.119
You don't hear anymore people were doing it that much

592
00:29:38.119 --> 00:29:40.640
anymore like that, not like that.

593
00:29:40.680 --> 00:29:43.720
I mean that's old school. And if you're old school,

594
00:29:43.759 --> 00:29:44.880
you know what I'm talking about.

595
00:29:44.920 --> 00:29:48.319
That organ that's truly old school, because I mean they'll

596
00:29:48.359 --> 00:29:50.799
just start and and and they hit that.

597
00:29:50.759 --> 00:29:52.480
One note and stay right there.

598
00:29:52.480 --> 00:29:55.440
And sometimes even the speaker will say, okay, don't start nothing,

599
00:29:55.480 --> 00:29:58.440
don't start nothing. And then that they and they start

600
00:29:58.440 --> 00:30:00.319
playing with those keys. And it was it was all

601
00:30:00.480 --> 00:30:04.240
the church just just explode. Church would just explode. People

602
00:30:04.319 --> 00:30:07.200
just take off running, just take off running. I remember

603
00:30:08.079 --> 00:30:09.920
one year, I think it was a I think it

604
00:30:09.960 --> 00:30:13.519
was New Year's Eve service, and that day the Lord

605
00:30:13.680 --> 00:30:17.440
was just all over me just it was just so beautiful.

606
00:30:17.680 --> 00:30:22.200
And so the pastor asked us to, you know, give testimony.

607
00:30:22.240 --> 00:30:25.480
And I remember us, there's a pastor, a gentleman here

608
00:30:26.640 --> 00:30:28.359
could get on that. He can make the key like

609
00:30:28.400 --> 00:30:31.920
you said, make that keyboard, just just stand up and attention.

610
00:30:32.519 --> 00:30:34.839
And he was just sitting there. And so I didn't

611
00:30:34.839 --> 00:30:36.160
want to go up. I didn't want to go up.

612
00:30:36.200 --> 00:30:38.720
And I'm just sitting, I'm rocking in my chair. I'm

613
00:30:38.759 --> 00:30:40.640
just like, oh, Lord, no, I don't want to go.

614
00:30:40.680 --> 00:30:42.160
I don't want to go. And it was a song

615
00:30:42.240 --> 00:30:44.920
the Lord began to sing to me earlier that day.

616
00:30:45.279 --> 00:30:47.279
And when I got I had to get up. Nobody

617
00:30:47.319 --> 00:30:50.000
was getting up. I got up and everybody's oh amen, Amen.

618
00:30:50.160 --> 00:30:52.839
And he just sat there and he did like this.

619
00:30:52.920 --> 00:30:55.119
He just did this. And I said, God is so

620
00:30:55.240 --> 00:30:57.680
good and he let me know and he sing this

621
00:30:57.720 --> 00:30:59.599
to me. God sang this to me today.

622
00:31:00.160 --> 00:31:05.000
You are so beautiful to me.

623
00:31:05.720 --> 00:31:10.920
Everybody faster Morrison hit those keys, landed right where I

624
00:31:11.200 --> 00:31:13.759
was and paid behind me.

625
00:31:13.839 --> 00:31:17.000
I was just and people just falling out. You are.

626
00:31:17.359 --> 00:31:20.400
And the pastor's parents were there from Africa, and the

627
00:31:20.480 --> 00:31:22.680
mom came up and hugged me, and.

628
00:31:22.680 --> 00:31:25.839
I said, can't you see I'm singing. I'm thinking. I

629
00:31:25.839 --> 00:31:27.240
didn't care what it sounded like.

630
00:31:27.279 --> 00:31:30.079
This is this is what my God had ministered to

631
00:31:30.160 --> 00:31:32.920
me earlier that day. And I went all the way,

632
00:31:33.000 --> 00:31:35.160
I mean, singing a cappella and the Holy Ghost. It

633
00:31:35.319 --> 00:31:37.759
will rock you because you're like, you know, you don't

634
00:31:37.759 --> 00:31:39.680
think about it. If I'm hitting a note, you don't

635
00:31:39.680 --> 00:31:42.039
think about nothing. You just I'm trying to get these

636
00:31:42.079 --> 00:31:45.640
words out. He's saying, I'm so beautiful. You're everything that

637
00:31:45.759 --> 00:31:48.599
this is God speaking to me. You're everything that.

638
00:31:48.559 --> 00:31:52.559
I hoped for, and you're everything that I need. You

639
00:31:52.640 --> 00:31:54.319
are so fut to me.

640
00:31:54.680 --> 00:31:56.880
And boy, I was done. I was done. I mean

641
00:31:56.920 --> 00:32:00.039
I couldn't finish it. But that gentleman on that he

642
00:32:00.079 --> 00:32:00.440
took it.

643
00:32:00.759 --> 00:32:01.480
He took it.

644
00:32:01.640 --> 00:32:03.640
I mean he, I mean it was the church just

645
00:32:03.759 --> 00:32:06.640
was on a fight. Pastor the pastor Harley could preach

646
00:32:06.960 --> 00:32:07.599
it was a fight.

647
00:32:07.640 --> 00:32:09.519
The mom was up, the lad was up. The mother

648
00:32:09.599 --> 00:32:11.440
came over to me. I didn't even go to my seat.

649
00:32:11.480 --> 00:32:13.079
She hugging me. Thank you for that.

650
00:32:13.160 --> 00:32:15.440
You know, just I mean God, when you get caught

651
00:32:15.519 --> 00:32:20.119
up in the spirit of God, knowing his presence, his presence,

652
00:32:20.160 --> 00:32:22.680
it's just something that's beautiful and you're missing.

653
00:32:22.480 --> 00:32:25.240
Out on it. And I didn't realize I was kind

654
00:32:25.279 --> 00:32:28.279
of danging this weekend and I was just like, and

655
00:32:28.359 --> 00:32:30.720
somebody did ask me, you know, why, why are you

656
00:32:30.720 --> 00:32:32.440
You know you're looking you don't sound like this.

657
00:32:32.759 --> 00:32:36.000
I said, yeah, I feel sorry for people. And once

658
00:32:36.079 --> 00:32:39.359
upon a time I never would feel sorry for the unbeliever.

659
00:32:39.680 --> 00:32:42.720
I didn't feel sorry for the atheists. But this weekend,

660
00:32:43.200 --> 00:32:47.079
before the news of everything going on came, I said,

661
00:32:47.119 --> 00:32:51.119
I really feel sorry for people who don't know the Lord, really.

662
00:32:50.799 --> 00:32:52.960
Feel sorry for them.

663
00:32:53.000 --> 00:32:55.240
And I couldn't shake it off for a minute. I

664
00:32:55.319 --> 00:32:58.319
just I sat in that for a minute, because you

665
00:32:58.359 --> 00:32:59.359
don't know what you're missing.

666
00:32:59.680 --> 00:33:02.400
You know what you're missing. And God is good. God

667
00:33:02.480 --> 00:33:05.799
is good. So women, you know, women, we'll celebrate. We

668
00:33:05.839 --> 00:33:07.519
get one month, we get there. At least we get

669
00:33:07.519 --> 00:33:09.480
thirty days, you know the days.

670
00:33:09.519 --> 00:33:11.640
You know, and like Black history you only get twenty eight.

671
00:33:11.680 --> 00:33:14.920
But you know, for women's history, we get thirty one days.

672
00:33:15.079 --> 00:33:17.079
And you need to celebrate.

673
00:33:16.839 --> 00:33:19.960
Who you are. How do you do that? Treat yourself,

674
00:33:20.279 --> 00:33:21.480
Go buy yourself something.

675
00:33:21.559 --> 00:33:25.000
There's all kinds of discounts everywhere, every story. You can

676
00:33:25.079 --> 00:33:28.039
imagine that fifty sixty seventy percent off.

677
00:33:28.359 --> 00:33:29.079
I was gone.

678
00:33:29.119 --> 00:33:31.119
Got all kinds they try to do a prime deal

679
00:33:31.279 --> 00:33:33.839
thing again. I mean, they got all kinds of stuff.

680
00:33:33.920 --> 00:33:37.240
Go treat yourself ten dollars, go to five below. I

681
00:33:37.319 --> 00:33:41.599
guarantee you you'll find something for you for yourself. Celebrate

682
00:33:41.720 --> 00:33:46.759
your womanness, that little girl in you, that grown woman. Yes,

683
00:33:46.880 --> 00:33:53.839
let's have church, all right, you know that. Celebrate celebrate

684
00:33:54.240 --> 00:33:57.519
my God. We are gods. I mean, it's something about

685
00:33:57.519 --> 00:34:00.599
when a woman cry. It's something about when God here's

686
00:34:00.640 --> 00:34:04.880
a woman travailing and moaning. And that's a form of prayer,

687
00:34:05.200 --> 00:34:07.440
believe it or not. That's a form of fasting.

688
00:34:07.880 --> 00:34:10.920
Believe it or not. And as you're sitting here and celebrate,

689
00:34:11.000 --> 00:34:11.760
you know we're getting ready.

690
00:34:11.800 --> 00:34:15.639
We're heading into we're into Lent, we're heading into Resurrection time,

691
00:34:15.719 --> 00:34:16.840
which is Easter Sunday.

692
00:34:16.880 --> 00:34:20.599
We're Resurrection Sunday. You know, you need to be self reflecting,

693
00:34:20.599 --> 00:34:25.000
and God is so mindful to remind us. You need

694
00:34:25.039 --> 00:34:28.880
to be self reflecting every almost every day and asking

695
00:34:28.920 --> 00:34:32.400
God to forgive you every day because somewhere along the way,

696
00:34:32.760 --> 00:34:33.719
you do mess up.

697
00:34:34.079 --> 00:34:36.360
If you scream at the person that just cuts you

698
00:34:36.440 --> 00:34:39.760
off and you're in the inner car road rage, or

699
00:34:39.800 --> 00:34:41.960
you remember something that your child said to you and

700
00:34:42.000 --> 00:34:45.639
they never apologized, or they've decided to go on one way,

701
00:34:45.679 --> 00:34:48.519
whatever your thoughts have been, they have to say, Lord,

702
00:34:48.559 --> 00:34:51.360
I'm so sorry, and look at me, because old wretched

703
00:34:51.400 --> 00:34:54.039
man that I am, had Jesus not come through.

704
00:34:54.480 --> 00:34:58.480
When God ended after Noah, after the flood, God ended it.

705
00:34:58.480 --> 00:35:01.920
It's four hundred years before the New Testament comes on

706
00:35:01.920 --> 00:35:04.599
the scene, and that opens up with John the Baptist

707
00:35:04.679 --> 00:35:07.880
being in the wilderness talking about the Messiah is coming.

708
00:35:08.079 --> 00:35:10.280
For one hundred years, it could have ended there. We

709
00:35:10.320 --> 00:35:12.320
don't need to be we wouldn't even be here. It

710
00:35:12.480 --> 00:35:15.800
may be animals roaming the earth, if there was an earth,

711
00:35:16.119 --> 00:35:19.239
you have hands to get your life straight.

712
00:35:19.719 --> 00:35:23.599
Now, talking to everybody, I'm not talking to everybody because.

713
00:35:23.360 --> 00:35:27.039
Not everybody that's listening. It's a believer. My main our

714
00:35:27.079 --> 00:35:30.639
main crew are they're believer the state of.

715
00:35:30.800 --> 00:35:34.320
Darkness listening in and that's me.

716
00:35:34.840 --> 00:35:38.840
That's fine because everybody can listen. Are you willing to change?

717
00:35:39.119 --> 00:35:39.800
I was watching the.

718
00:35:39.760 --> 00:35:41.679
Court show the other day and the girl said, well,

719
00:35:41.679 --> 00:35:42.880
I guess I have I have to. I know I

720
00:35:42.920 --> 00:35:44.639
have to change, but I don't want to change. And

721
00:35:44.679 --> 00:35:46.840
I said, we can cut that off right now.

722
00:35:46.760 --> 00:35:50.559
Right, but that's the scene. We're done. You don't want

723
00:35:50.559 --> 00:35:52.159
to change. She just mentioned it.

724
00:35:52.199 --> 00:35:55.800
She just said I don't want to change, and goodbye.

725
00:35:55.840 --> 00:35:58.000
I can't even say I wish you well. It's we're

726
00:35:58.039 --> 00:36:01.400
serious about here out this andre in it now, we're

727
00:36:01.440 --> 00:36:04.519
in it. You gotta know where you're staying. And you're

728
00:36:04.559 --> 00:36:07.760
gonna be tried on every hand. You're gonna be tried.

729
00:36:07.800 --> 00:36:10.320
People are lying to you. I'm trying to reach this

730
00:36:10.440 --> 00:36:14.000
attorney people. I'll pass the message along what women see.

731
00:36:14.000 --> 00:36:16.400
That was the first clue right there. Why would you

732
00:36:16.440 --> 00:36:20.599
pass the message along? Who I'm getting Another person says,

733
00:36:20.840 --> 00:36:22.039
I'm gonna send this right over.

734
00:36:23.400 --> 00:36:25.559
Where is it? Where you're sending it? Why can't you

735
00:36:25.559 --> 00:36:29.320
get a hold of one of your lead you know trying?

736
00:36:30.199 --> 00:36:30.679
That's okay.

737
00:36:30.840 --> 00:36:33.199
I said, go find her. You know where to go

738
00:36:33.239 --> 00:36:36.599
find her? Oh okay, And I set the message.

739
00:36:37.280 --> 00:36:38.559
Know I'm mean, try to reach you.

740
00:36:39.079 --> 00:36:41.800
Those two you know they I don't know if they

741
00:36:41.880 --> 00:36:45.559
got the message to you or not. But people awkwardly lying,

742
00:36:46.079 --> 00:36:47.880
I don'ton't just ask them a simple question.

743
00:36:48.280 --> 00:36:50.360
Why do you got to lie? Why you got to

744
00:36:50.400 --> 00:36:52.719
call me with your issues and you ain't ready to change?

745
00:36:53.000 --> 00:36:56.400
You should know me by now. I don't have much time.

746
00:36:56.599 --> 00:36:58.960
I didn't want to talk to anybody, and I didn't.

747
00:36:59.320 --> 00:37:01.320
I didn't. I binge, watch some shows.

748
00:37:01.320 --> 00:37:04.800
I got my energy back up. It's time to fight.

749
00:37:05.199 --> 00:37:08.280
I was being to fight who that is? It's time

750
00:37:08.320 --> 00:37:10.880
to fight anything else. I'm gonna be quiet for a minute.

751
00:37:11.000 --> 00:37:12.880
We got a little bit minute, y'all talking.

752
00:37:13.159 --> 00:37:16.000
Well, I'll just say as far as it being you

753
00:37:16.039 --> 00:37:19.559
know women's history again, do for yourself and make share

754
00:37:19.599 --> 00:37:22.239
you're a priority as well in your life and that

755
00:37:22.280 --> 00:37:23.239
you're taking care.

756
00:37:23.119 --> 00:37:24.119
Of you again.

757
00:37:24.280 --> 00:37:27.800
Go shopping if you can eat something different, trying new food,

758
00:37:28.239 --> 00:37:30.199
maybe go on a trip something like that, you know,

759
00:37:30.400 --> 00:37:34.320
get yourself something nice, just because I mean, we have

760
00:37:34.440 --> 00:37:37.440
to think about our mental healths and think mental health

761
00:37:37.519 --> 00:37:39.920
and decipher if we are okay or not.

762
00:37:40.199 --> 00:37:42.280
If not, then you need to be looking for.

763
00:37:42.280 --> 00:37:46.559
Solutions as far as okay, what can make me feel better?

764
00:37:46.639 --> 00:37:48.400
Things I could do to make me feel better and

765
00:37:48.400 --> 00:37:51.440
stuff like that, and ensuring that's a part of your life.

766
00:37:51.480 --> 00:37:55.719
Sound now, I'm really big on mental health, really big

767
00:37:55.760 --> 00:37:59.239
on just doing for yourself because you are a priority.

768
00:37:59.519 --> 00:38:03.000
I mean, continue to encourage yourself. You're beautiful.

769
00:38:03.039 --> 00:38:07.119
Everybody is beautiful the way they are smart at like

770
00:38:07.199 --> 00:38:10.119
it always and just believe it as well.

771
00:38:10.599 --> 00:38:12.079
And that's what I wanted to share.

772
00:38:12.440 --> 00:38:15.320
But here I go with the scaling question. So I

773
00:38:15.440 --> 00:38:16.000
like scuailling.

774
00:38:16.320 --> 00:38:20.599
I like scaling questions, especially working with mental health, is

775
00:38:20.679 --> 00:38:24.159
because you get an idea of where someone is and

776
00:38:24.199 --> 00:38:26.760
so you can do it like a self thing.

777
00:38:26.880 --> 00:38:28.920
Why do we feel so guilty when.

778
00:38:28.800 --> 00:38:30.800
We I'll say it because you don't feel as if

779
00:38:30.800 --> 00:38:34.480
you deserve it, And that's only the devil telling you that,

780
00:38:34.559 --> 00:38:37.079
because you deserve it with everything you put up with,

781
00:38:37.159 --> 00:38:40.159
but everything you allow on your life, whether it's negative

782
00:38:40.159 --> 00:38:43.639
word of it's positive, you deserve it. So you know,

783
00:38:44.119 --> 00:38:46.119
always make sure you guys, are not listening to any

784
00:38:46.119 --> 00:38:47.880
type of negative thought or.

785
00:38:47.960 --> 00:38:48.880
Voice in your head.

786
00:38:49.119 --> 00:38:55.400
Obviously it's not from God, it's yourself and whomever telling you, Nah,

787
00:38:55.480 --> 00:38:58.039
you don't deserve it today. You shouldn't do that today. No,

788
00:38:58.280 --> 00:39:00.000
you didn't do that much today. But you deserve it.

789
00:39:00.320 --> 00:39:04.400
You deserve it. As women, we deserve it. And I

790
00:39:04.559 --> 00:39:06.880
like that trying a new flood something you haven't had

791
00:39:06.920 --> 00:39:07.320
any while.

792
00:39:07.639 --> 00:39:10.920
Yes, I love trying new foods. You know.

793
00:39:11.519 --> 00:39:14.679
I want to try African food next. And my mom's

794
00:39:14.960 --> 00:39:19.519
seaweed now, guys, so that's brightens up my day because

795
00:39:19.519 --> 00:39:21.599
she does. She's the time to not expect her palette.

796
00:39:22.400 --> 00:39:26.840
She doesn't like spicy food. She's very special. But yeah,

797
00:39:26.880 --> 00:39:29.840
I'm proud of her for trying to actually, which is ironic.

798
00:39:30.199 --> 00:39:34.360
I saw a little package of Karaokey's seaweed and I've

799
00:39:34.360 --> 00:39:37.159
seen two people eat seaweed.

800
00:39:36.719 --> 00:39:42.199
And I'm like, yeah, seaweed, Okay.

801
00:39:41.880 --> 00:39:42.599
It's very nice.

802
00:39:42.639 --> 00:39:45.559
It's a crispal little for me, you know, just season

803
00:39:45.719 --> 00:39:47.719
just right, it's done and you're done.

804
00:39:47.719 --> 00:39:48.880
And my daughter was surprised, to go.

805
00:39:48.960 --> 00:39:49.559
Did you eat the whole?

806
00:39:49.559 --> 00:39:52.599
Banker said, yeah, I did, well. I bought it. It

807
00:39:52.719 --> 00:39:55.480
was still kind of scared to try. You know, She's like,

808
00:39:55.519 --> 00:39:56.000
why don't you.

809
00:39:56.760 --> 00:39:59.159
I definitely did force her to eat it because I

810
00:39:59.199 --> 00:40:00.840
really wanted to see her reaction.

811
00:40:00.920 --> 00:40:01.639
And I liked it.

812
00:40:01.840 --> 00:40:07.719
Yeah, trying and try some protein based, protein based foods

813
00:40:07.719 --> 00:40:08.079
as well.

814
00:40:08.159 --> 00:40:10.320
So you have not had a sushi roll with she?

815
00:40:14.920 --> 00:40:16.239
Yeah, I've had some sushi.

816
00:40:16.280 --> 00:40:20.440
But let me tell you, I get the I get

817
00:40:20.440 --> 00:40:21.920
the California.

818
00:40:21.320 --> 00:40:24.960
Role exactly, you know, because that's the safest thing.

819
00:40:25.199 --> 00:40:25.440
Huh.

820
00:40:26.039 --> 00:40:30.119
It's the safest, the California role. Yeah, with the young

821
00:40:30.199 --> 00:40:32.760
yum sauce. So yeah, that that's really good.

822
00:40:33.360 --> 00:40:35.719
I love you a good That is a good.

823
00:40:35.920 --> 00:40:36.280
Go ahead.

824
00:40:36.760 --> 00:40:39.599
Okay, Okay, we said what kind of palette you have?

825
00:40:39.880 --> 00:40:43.320
Okay, when y'all do your trip, when y'all come to

826
00:40:43.320 --> 00:40:46.599
the floor, Orlando, it's gonna be interesting. We're gon we're

827
00:40:46.599 --> 00:40:49.079
gonna have to you know, Belicia will definitely, you know,

828
00:40:49.119 --> 00:40:49.639
get y'all.

829
00:40:50.360 --> 00:40:52.480
Let me show you what I meane yesterday, I sold out.

830
00:40:52.920 --> 00:40:53.960
I just want to show y'all.

831
00:40:54.199 --> 00:41:02.599
Okay, nobody text me, Yeah the pasta wow?

832
00:41:03.639 --> 00:41:09.079
If I said ghost stuff.

833
00:41:10.320 --> 00:41:15.719
Girl. That's enough. Girl. I'm like, did I hear her

834
00:41:16.039 --> 00:41:19.800
junior day? I don't. We don't, we don't. What was it?

835
00:41:19.840 --> 00:41:21.599
What did he say?

836
00:41:22.639 --> 00:41:25.360
Okay, you can't go wrong with chicken. I'm sorry. The

837
00:41:25.480 --> 00:41:28.280
messing with the chicken so bad. I'm so sorry. But

838
00:41:28.320 --> 00:41:30.280
you can't go wrong with chicken. And you can bake it,

839
00:41:30.360 --> 00:41:35.840
fry a diet, lay it to the side, gone, you know. Okay,

840
00:41:35.880 --> 00:41:37.880
if anybody's on the fast, I'm sorry. I don't mean

841
00:41:37.920 --> 00:41:40.480
to mess with y'all. But anyway, you know, you know

842
00:41:40.679 --> 00:41:42.920
you you you could do something with a chicken. I'm

843
00:41:42.960 --> 00:41:44.280
telling you that I could eat chicken.

844
00:41:44.320 --> 00:41:44.559
I know.

845
00:41:44.599 --> 00:41:47.639
My my holistic health people are just really surprised and

846
00:41:47.760 --> 00:41:49.199
much how much chicken I eat.

847
00:41:49.400 --> 00:41:50.320
But I could eat some.

848
00:41:50.360 --> 00:41:53.920
Chicken and and and go on for days and don't blink,

849
00:41:54.320 --> 00:41:55.960
you know, but God is good.

850
00:41:56.719 --> 00:41:58.639
Anything else out there for the audience to come up.

851
00:41:58.679 --> 00:42:01.360
We got three more minutes. Thing y'all want to know,

852
00:42:01.480 --> 00:42:03.840
just a scaling question, like find out what you are?

853
00:42:03.880 --> 00:42:04.599
You know, how you feeling?

854
00:42:04.599 --> 00:42:08.159
The down scale? I just don't do too spicy. Yeah,

855
00:42:08.239 --> 00:42:11.199
me neither, Charles, I don't like it. Ask reflux.

856
00:42:11.239 --> 00:42:18.000
I can't do it. Head let's yeah, yeah, I can't.

857
00:42:18.000 --> 00:42:18.679
I can't do that.

858
00:42:18.760 --> 00:42:21.559
But yet it's good to always take care of yourself

859
00:42:21.599 --> 00:42:25.960
and also try to monitor and watch what you what's

860
00:42:26.000 --> 00:42:28.119
the last thing you listen to before you go to sleep?

861
00:42:30.360 --> 00:42:30.840
Excuse me?

862
00:42:30.880 --> 00:42:33.599
Yes, so it can be kind of you know whatever.

863
00:42:34.679 --> 00:42:36.880
I know you like spicy. I just knew it. I

864
00:42:37.039 --> 00:42:40.000
just knew it. I don't tell me, don't ask me

865
00:42:40.079 --> 00:42:41.599
how I knew it, but I just knew. Yeah, you

866
00:42:41.760 --> 00:42:44.119
like you, like you some spice. I know you do.

867
00:42:44.199 --> 00:42:46.360
It's all good. It's all good.

868
00:42:46.880 --> 00:42:49.679
It just God is so good and and and uh

869
00:42:50.000 --> 00:42:51.519
and he made those you know.

870
00:42:51.679 --> 00:42:53.639
And but you got to look at your health. You've

871
00:42:53.639 --> 00:42:55.599
got to put your health in check back.

872
00:42:55.679 --> 00:42:58.199
Like I shared with you all before that when you

873
00:42:58.239 --> 00:43:00.480
get those results back, because now you get it through

874
00:43:00.480 --> 00:43:04.440
your medical portal, you look at those things and research

875
00:43:04.440 --> 00:43:06.800
it a little bit more. Okay, what does bowel gas mean?

876
00:43:06.840 --> 00:43:09.639
I never heard of that? What does bowel gas mean?

877
00:43:09.719 --> 00:43:12.360
You know? Go look it up so that you could

878
00:43:12.400 --> 00:43:13.039
better pray.

879
00:43:13.480 --> 00:43:15.159
Now, go back in and tell the doctor, well, I

880
00:43:15.159 --> 00:43:17.000
don't think I have this, so you know you need

881
00:43:17.039 --> 00:43:18.159
to give me this medication.

882
00:43:18.400 --> 00:43:19.880
Don't be piled on the meds.

883
00:43:20.880 --> 00:43:23.000
We got to stop being dependent on that because the

884
00:43:23.000 --> 00:43:24.719
doctor said, well, this is what you're gonna need, and

885
00:43:24.719 --> 00:43:26.559
most of them have the audacities that you have to

886
00:43:26.559 --> 00:43:27.800
take this for the rest of your life.

887
00:43:28.000 --> 00:43:28.800
It's like, wait a.

888
00:43:28.800 --> 00:43:30.679
Minute, So you tell me if I don't lose them,

889
00:43:30.719 --> 00:43:34.239
if I lose weight, it's not eating more greens and

890
00:43:34.320 --> 00:43:36.840
drinking more water. This ain't This is not gonna go away,

891
00:43:37.159 --> 00:43:38.519
is that what you're trying to say? Well, no, not

892
00:43:38.599 --> 00:43:42.480
exactly what stop saying. Stop saying that. Check your words.

893
00:43:42.960 --> 00:43:45.039
So don't go into the doctor's a woman trying to

894
00:43:45.079 --> 00:43:46.920
tell them what to do. You do what you need

895
00:43:46.960 --> 00:43:48.880
to do, but you need to be honest with yourself.

896
00:43:49.159 --> 00:43:50.679
You got to do this because you got to have

897
00:43:50.760 --> 00:43:53.679
the stamina. You got to have that stamina. You got

898
00:43:53.679 --> 00:43:58.360
to think clear, very clear. Most people are viping, vaping

899
00:43:58.440 --> 00:44:00.320
and doing all kinds of stuff they say, and then

900
00:44:00.360 --> 00:44:02.280
I think it clear at all. How about the lady

901
00:44:02.280 --> 00:44:04.079
on the news ran into the people house, I mean,

902
00:44:04.360 --> 00:44:06.000
drive right into the deep bombs.

903
00:44:06.039 --> 00:44:07.519
You're gonna beat thing on the seat.

904
00:44:07.679 --> 00:44:12.119
Come on, now, come on, I love watching doctors. Don't

905
00:44:12.119 --> 00:44:15.360
always know no always you know yourself better, right you?

906
00:44:15.400 --> 00:44:18.519
They know what you tell them, Mickey. You know people

907
00:44:18.519 --> 00:44:21.119
you can go in and lie, but they believe you.

908
00:44:21.199 --> 00:44:24.719
Mental health doctors don't. But medical doctors too.

909
00:44:25.079 --> 00:44:27.599
But I'm not a a problem.

910
00:44:27.639 --> 00:44:30.639
And then you you're escalating, you you grow, you're going big,

911
00:44:30.639 --> 00:44:32.920
and you said you just get ready to blow up.

912
00:44:32.960 --> 00:44:34.679
Oh no, you don't have an anger problem. I have

913
00:44:34.760 --> 00:44:35.079
your name.

914
00:44:35.119 --> 00:44:40.119
Please all right, guys, that's our time. Thank you, because

915
00:44:40.559 --> 00:44:42.199
music to listen to the music.

916
00:44:42.360 --> 00:44:43.360
We love you.

917
00:44:43.400 --> 00:44:47.119
Self improvement, go do something for yourself this week, testify

918
00:44:47.280 --> 00:44:55.000
next week you'll last Night Night

919
00:45:07.800 --> 00:45:14.320
Ass