April 28, 2025

Limb-loss vs Limb Difference: Similarities & Differences

Limb-loss vs Limb Difference: Similarities & Differences

losses, differences, similarities, missing, emotions, triggers for trauma Setting It Straight w/ Ms. Gray is broadcast live Mondays at 7PM ET and Music on W4CY Radio...

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losses, differences, similarities, missing, emotions, triggers for trauma

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Well, good evening, good evening, good evening. Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, salutation, salutations.

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Hey y'all, Welcome to another exciting night of dialogue and

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discussion and discovery. We got another one and Discovery sitting

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it straight with Miss Gray and her fabulous co host list.

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Pray first, and then we're going to welcome everybody in. Lord,

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we thank you and we praise you, glory to your name.

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We thank you for who you are to us. We

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thank you that you are merciful, We thank you that

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you're mindful. We thank you, Father God, that you love

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us so much that you sent your only begotten son

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to die to pay for our is to die for

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us that we may have eternal life and live in

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peace on earth as it is in heaven. We love

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you so much. Now this is your show totally, This

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is you, todight, This is really really you tonight. I

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thank you, We thank you, we give you glory. We

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got a lot of things, a few things to cover.

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We're gonna do it. We're gonna nail it. But before that,

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we're gonna get behind the cross. That's what we need

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to do. We're gonna get behind the cross. Let you

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do what you do best, and that set your captive

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is free. All this and more we ask in Jesus,

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Holy matchless magnificent mighty name. Amen and amen and amen, hallelujah.

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Good evening everybody again. Okay, you know what, y'all still

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missing that little beat there. We gotta we gotta you know,

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we gotta sew that up there. So anyway, Trey, of

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course you're the furthest away from us. How are you?

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I'm well in you? And how was your weekend? And

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how's your week been without us? And it's good.

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Weekend was very good.

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We hey, miss y'all, but weekend was okay, it was okay, Okay,

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we're gonna have a better one. We're gonna have a

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great one. We're gonna have a Actually was a great weekend.

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It was until week We gotta work on your adjectives.

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We got to work on those adjectives. Now I have

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to send you a list and you can only choose this. Yes,

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it was for your boom okay weekend. Okay, And you'd

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have to do any social work stuff over the weekend,

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did you? Did you have to confront people at the

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ice cream section of publics or anything? Nothing like that? Okay,

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like that. No, it was an enjoyable weekend. Nice, nice,

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okay with Pastor Miguel. I know you've been waiting with

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baiting breakfasts to just greet you. Hey, sir, how are you.

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How's your week weekend?

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Ben?

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We missed you last week, but you we know you

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were on the roll to handle God's business and to

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meet God at us such a pointed time. Amen.

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Yes, we had a very very very productive weekend. H

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grandkids were involved. Delivered a powerful message yesterday through the

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Holy Spirit. Got to got to include my entire family

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in the message, which was pretty pretty cool.

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Oh and and uh.

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Really kind of gave a testimony as I delivered the message,

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and many people, many people during the altar call came

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up and wanted to I wanted to get things straight.

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In their lives with God. Amen.

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And to me, it all starts with a process. And

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that was the title of the message, the process. Okay,

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So I did some amazing things yesterday. I give him

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all the glory, praise and honor, and truly been a

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wonderful weekend. Counting the counting down the days, counting down

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the days.

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Yep, Amen, getting on an airplane. Amen. Amen, Well, praise God.

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It's gonna be holy goes filled and all that good stuff.

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And don't be surprised if you have to deliver an

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impromptu sermon, you know, while we're waiting to taxi on

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the runway. So don't be surprised, because God is up

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to some things. I'm telling you, He is up to

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some things, and you have to be ready in and

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out of season, period, period, period, and little sidebar here,

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stop asking God why, Take why? When it comes to faith, journey, faith,

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walk in time, faith, walk in time, walk journey. Take

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why out of the equation, out of the conversation, and

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we'll talk about that another time. But listen, let's let'sten.

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This makes sure you just do that because you have

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to be ready in and out of season, and you

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don't know which way he's going. He'll tell you to

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text somebody or to call somebody, to speak to somebody,

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and you're thinking it's because of this, but all along,

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God's got a whole different landscape behind that thing, and

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you'll net sometimes we'll find out and sometimes we won't.

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Where's our audience, where's our audience? Where they at? Where

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they at? I know y'all out there, So so tap,

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tap in, put your initials in, whatever you have to do,

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let's go. Let's go, because this is for y'all. Okay,

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this is for y'all what we're gonna start doing in

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my co host this is news to my whole co

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host and this is God. Y'all can't blame me. This

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is God. But if we need to, if you have

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some shout outs that you want to give to people

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that have just made a difference, and you want to

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give them a shout out, like from an instance for

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me this, you know, I just want to shout out

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the a Popka staff, eyeglass staff at Walmart. They've got

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my heart. They know I get the best treatment, I

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get the courtesy. I could just be I'm not even

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going to see them, but I'll pass by and wait, hey,

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it's great, you know, you know, I just think that

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and the and the love and the courtesy, and they

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want to make sure that, you know, the glasses are

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fitting good, you know, and believe it or not, they've

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got some great frames. They've got some great frames, and

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so don't discount them at all, and some of your

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insurances will take it. So you got to ask. You

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just got to ask. And they got great uh. You know,

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Len's holders cases, eyeglass cases too, very unique ones. I

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didn't bring them on tonight, but hello, missy. Missy's like, hey, Nicky, yeah, okay,

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let's stay your high okay, George, all y'all together? What yeah,

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y'all having a sleepover where you didn't invite us. What

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y'all doing? Okay, thank you, thank you. I want to

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conclude a draw conclusion to Limb Loss and Limb Difference

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Awareness Month. I have yet to hear back from Governor

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DeSantis on my request UH to UH issue with a

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proclamation for the State of Florida to recognize April excuse

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me as Limb Loss and Limb Difference Awareness Month. Excuse me, guys,

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And so I know it's coming. It's gonna keep him up.

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It's gonna keep him up at night. You don't. I

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told him you don't have to land on it in

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this month. That's fine. I just need you to do it.

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We know when to tune in. This thing is like,

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we know when to do it. Amen. I'm gonna give

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another couple of shout outs to Kevin Gray, no relation.

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He's a gentleman in Canada that has started his podcast

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on limb lass and limb Difference, and uh my interview

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with him. I think I mentioned it briefly to you

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all months back. But my interview is up and it's

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on a new web thing called pod Bean pod Bean.

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So you look up Kevin Gray, limbloss connection dot pod

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Bean pod Bean, and then you scroll down and look

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for my name and it's Chaplain Gray interview with Chaplain Gray.

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So I want you all to check that out. It's

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all radio. You don't see me, but you already know

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what I look like, so you don't have to see me.

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But you know my boys sounded like too, and it

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was very interesting because it was very I love it,

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and it was very structured and everything, and it landed

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on it answered some questions too. So I'm want to

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give a shout out to Kevin Bobo's the number ones

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to missing missed the sounds good, Amen, Kevin Bobos, who

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is UH a professor but also UH. He has the

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advisory council for Kaiser and they're in the occupational therapy

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program and department, and I'm on the advisory board and

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he was so kind. I missed the meeting last week

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and and we only meet like twice a year, but

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it's very interesting to see they're on the cutting edge

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of education and really care for their students. And he called.

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I asked him, can you just give me a call

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today real quick? And he did and went over some

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things and he's like, you know, hey, you know miss great,

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don't worry about it. We got you. And so I've

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actually from there. A couple of the teachers are on

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the advisory or attend our meetings too, and h some

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of them have asked me to speak to their OT

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students for being, you know, both a professional side and

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the patient side. So that's been fun and I did

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that a couple of classrooms last year. So Kevin B,

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I'm just giving you a shout out and everything else.

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He don't know it yet, but I'll send this to

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it so you can hear that. But I want to

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say thank you to that and Parfection. There is a

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dog training program more on that is not for me,

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but it's for you know who. And we've gone out

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there with some dogs. She behaved us up, but she,

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you know, the male dogs were like kind of like, oh,

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look at who is this and She's like, don't even

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get it twisted. I'm not interested and she they thank

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you Jesus for that. But anyway, they're just very kind

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people and very organized. So as I've said before, I

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want to tell the Lord. I thought we were going

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to go another way, but God said no, do this.

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It's holiday time. It's Mother's Day coming up, Father's Day

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coming up, Christmas is coming up, and I know people

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are like, Okay, why do I get somebody? You know,

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what do I get them? I don't know what to

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get instead of getting somebody the same old thing again,

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especially if they have arthritis or they're having any orthopedic

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type situations, what would you get somebody somebody who has

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suffered a limb looss ephn. And I've got some things

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I'm gonna share with you, So y'all just hang on,

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just hang on just a minute, because it's really cute

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and everything. All right, this is my little facial wand

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thing and as you could tell, it fits in my hand.

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And if you go on Amazon any other place, Target's

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got some nice ones, nice little kit that it comes

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in and everything. But it helps me versus me having

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a rag and you know, not being able to control

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a washcloth. This is very good. I could I squirt

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my little facial stuff on it and do what I

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have to do, and it does this little battery thing,

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and I can rent off and everything, and I can

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put it in a cup and I can get to

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it and clean it very effectively. So if you got that,

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loved one, I'm not going to say anybody aging. We

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don't know when people are. It doesn't matter age now anymore.

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People have authoritic hands. They have they have inability to

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hold things and stuff like that. There are things that

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you could get for them as a Christmas gift or

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as a gift or just as I'm just thinking about you,

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I saw this or I heard this on this fabulous

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dynamic podcast on different things for people who you know

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don't have the strength in their hand anymore, and things

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like that. So bear with me here we go. Of course,

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having a shoehorn is very important because I don't you know,

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I don't have the assistance, but I have my shoehorn.

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And I want to say a way to saying, I

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want you all to really try your best to go

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to a hurricane preparedness awareness outreach session, any kind of

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health and safety stuff going on in your community. I

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need you all to get out and get about town.

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Here to see what they have. I got this for

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free as it's on the table. You know it's on

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the table, just take it for free. And this is

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at the Hurrie Cape parents plays a shoe orne. You know, Okay. Anyway,

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I said, I'm gonna keep going here. This is one

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of my biggest ones here. Also at the at the

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Hurricane or the Explore for some kind, they always got

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free stuff. It's the free stuff and they'll get some

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of them and give you bags and stuff. But this

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is like a pressure ball. This is this is but

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it's a basketball. It's so cute. It's so cute. And

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I got a cuter one. Oh this is gonna be cute.

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Y'all gonna want this one. Look at that the construction had.

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When it's a pressure ball, it's a fresher ball. Okay,

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McDonald they got a McDonald's cup out. There's another one

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I want to show you. Oh oh, here's a well

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it's still a cap, but you know, we're Orange County,

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so we got a cap, you know. And also for

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folks who have like a pastor, who have congregants and

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they want to get and they want to get them

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a little something, you know, for Christmas, of recognizing for

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the birthday. You go to these events and you collect

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these things. Okay, but these are something that you know,

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I could use. I have one by my chair. I

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have one in the car so if I'm sitting and

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waiting and I'm just like just wanting to do something,

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and then there are times I just do this just

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to be you know, take my mind off of things. Okay,

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so those are real. I don't know when mine. I

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had one that was a house. But anyway, all right,

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that's the team. Also, at these type of venues, they

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give you these little things. Here the little cover thing. Now,

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I normally don't use it because I use I will

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show you the handles that I use, so I always

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pour my water in a cup. But there may be

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people who don't want to do that, and they Now

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other people put other things in here too, you know,

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to be the carry. But I'm saying, if you've got

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that loved one and you want to get them some

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water or whatever, you know, give them a couple of

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these and you'll get these at these free events. Okay yo,

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Let's see. Oh, here's the house, thank you, here's the house.

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Cute.

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See you get them all and I can exercise my

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hand with it, and it's really cute. And you can't

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take them for me because I'll hide you over it.

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Anyway.

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Let's see another little thing here. I like to go

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to bed bathroom, not bid bathroom beyond a bed and

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body works. Good ideas, Thank you Bed and body Works.

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This is a little hand sanitizer holder. But I like

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the uniqueness because it's a boombox literally and there's the

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frushraenor in there. See and you can we can renew this,

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we can do it ourselves. And they're like two ninety nine.

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So when you go into bed and body go look

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on the little the bulls and that's where you'll find

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these little things. I've got a French fry one and

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from one of my nurses. One time I got there

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was one with a nurse, you know, the cavity of

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a nurse and stuff, so I got that for her.

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She's like, oh my god, I've never seen this before.

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So I'm just trying. I guess God wants you all

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to just do something different this year. Here's the popcord one.

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There's a pop one. Yeah, I see, yeah, just I mean,

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you know, and that's an embedded body. It's there, and

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you could get that much less expensive. Okay, now this

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is a big one here, so I'm hoping that I

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can get them all. Going back to that loved one

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or coworker that is in the office and he's trying,

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you know, she's trying to get coffee, but she cannot

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because she can't hold the cup and pour the things.

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You know. So most of the time they have their

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own cups and stuff like that.

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But here I take these.

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I have different colors. I'll show you different sizes. That's

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a twenty ounce, that's for a twenty ounce cup. This

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is for thirty two or sixty four ounce thirty two

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pretty much. I like the double no thiss okay, because

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I you see, that's how I hold it. And when

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I go to the movies by myself, I have an

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over large bag, my mellow looka bag. I put my

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popcorn in there, and I go to get my little

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icy and I have my cup and I sit it

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in here. Usually they have a bigger cup, but I

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sit it in there. I put my my icy drink

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in there.

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Sorry for that.

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Just want to show you some different kinds. I've got

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a gray one for large cups. Now, this is a

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funny thing. I have to I keep most of them

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in the car because I got things here and I

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got special I have cups that already have their handles

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on it here in the house. And then when I'm

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when my daughter's driving and I have to transfer to

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her car, I just have a little bag with different

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cup holder sizes in it and my mask. So all

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I have to do is grab the bag out of

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my brow and put that in her car. I'm sorry

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about that. That's probably her coming home now anyway, But

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I just wanted God wanted me to really show you all.

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It's some different things that's not going to insult anybody

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where it could help them because I always people look

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at it and they're like, oh my god, I've never

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seen that before. Amazon, Amazon, you know, adaptive equipment, tumble

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her Hole Amazon. Okay, So if you're on there, you know,

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and you're getting ready to rack up gifts and stuff

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like that, and I got them in all colors, Chusty,

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I've got them all because I never know what I'm

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wearing that name, so I have to be prepared. Okay. Now,

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I don't know how people, if anybody's into exfoliating, but

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getting the gray one the charcoal is very neat and

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it does exfoliate. And if somebody has the hands to

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do this, you can use one of these or get

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this for them. They're in different colors, but I prefer

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the charcoal because, you know, even though seven years ago

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was in the hospital, still I'm just you know, feeling

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like I've got you know, dead skin and it's coming

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off and stuff. So I used the charcoal for that.

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So just again, these are just little ideas. I'm not

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telling you what to do, but if you want to

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do something different for your loved one and show them

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that you love them, and I don't think it's going

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to insult them too much. Somebody bought this for me

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when I came home, which is a backscratcher, and you're

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seeing them they're on a little thing by themselves, and

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you really, okay, not your hair, but you really could

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get back there and scratch. And then I found one

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that was different, even more different. It's the one with

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the ruler.

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Oh.

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I think a massage or something exactly, and you could

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do your feet. If you have the massage, you get

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the kinks out. It's there. So this is different things

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that you know, for the folks that are having lost

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in their hands or their finger fingers are not straight

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enough or anything. These are little things and you could

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sit in as sits in your car holder, your cup

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holder and everything else, like when they want to go

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through the drive through and get something to drink and people.

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It was so funny. I went today through the drive

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through and I had the gray one out the window

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and I was just doing like this and she said, oh,

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and she put it right in there for me. I said,

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got it, and I put it in my cup holder

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just like that.

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You know.

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So we want to try to as we're aging or

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if things are happening as health issues and stuff and

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our body is changing, the main thing we're fighting to

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get back to is some normalcy. That's why we do

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have new normals, and you have once you accept that,

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your life will be a little bit clearer and a

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little bit cleaner because you do. I need to look

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at some of those family members. Thank you. I knew it.

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God knew it because you always sit there and say

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what can I do? But you see them struggling with

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that comp and you don't dare go and try to

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help them unless they ask for help. So what you

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could do is say, hey, you know, Auntie, I was

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seeing I was watching you know again, always use me

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as an us as an excuse, use me as an excuse.

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I was watching my favorite podcast and one of the

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hosts is an amputee, and she shows us some of

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the things that she used. And you could do that. Now.

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If you're gonna buy somebody something really cute like this,

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this is a key chain, Okay, you gotta make sure

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or if you buy something you know relate similar, you

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want to make sure that that handle is large enough

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so that they can maneuver the class of it. Okay,

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so always make sure there's nothing tiny. We cannot do

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stuff with tiny stuff. If you got hand issues, it's hard.

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But if I can get on this, I can use

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this my other arm to do the same thing and

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pull that class down and put make this active. Okay,

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So always, you know, just think about that. When you

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go to the healthfarees and the hurricane exposed, they give

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you a little cute things. These are band aids in here.

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It's cute. I use it because when I'm traveling, I

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just what throw it in my grip or I put

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it in the glove compartment on the console of my

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car because I may need a band aid. You don't

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carry around a box. You don't do it. So you know,

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hits something different. Get a nice little keychain, little pouch

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and put bad DAIDs in it for the person. That's

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a gift and it's not insulting to anybody. Now this

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is going to get a little personal to hold your

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hats there. Now, this this little baby here is for

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me to help me clean myself. And that's all I'm

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gonna say. And you put your tissue at the end,

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or you put your wet white's that's for feminine use

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and you clean yourself. You don't have to worry about

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staining in yourself and things like that. This is a

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long wand and also they put a nail clip nail

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clippers in it as for free. They don't advertise it,

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but you or whatever, and you wonder what is this?

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And it's a nail clipper and it's convenient. It lays

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very flat and it does the job. So again, where where?

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Now?

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Where did I get this wrong? Amazon? Amazon? Okay? So

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on another cute little gift I think is these coasters

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car coasters. Nobody thinks about that I did, But anyway,

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I gave some special folks those one time. But it's

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so cute and it's so different because people do drink

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in their car, but they forget to put a paper

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towel or napping down because that cup whatever you've got sweats,

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it's sweats. And then you look down at you and

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it's grind me down in there. You don't want that.

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I put a paper towel down, I put a coaster down,

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and I put a coaster on a paper towel on

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top of it, or napped it on top of this,

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and then I'm gone. All I have to do is

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just you know, wipe it off and I'm gone, I'm good.

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And some of them are faith based and stuff like that,

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so they're really cute. Anybody. Oh last, but not least. Now,

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this is gonna take me a minute. Hey, that's a second.

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And you said that is go ahead. Oh amen, thank you,

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thank you. Everybody, have any questions. It's gonna take me

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a minute to get this last advice.

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Here those don't think about it, you know, great ideas, right, yeah, yeah,

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so another thing.

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Whatever. They're all kinds of colors, all kinds of colors.

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Everybody can anybody. Everybody should have one of these, especially

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if you got stuff on the top of that closet

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in that I was it on that top shelf, you know.

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And it's not insulting anybody. Thank you for you picked up.

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It's not insulting anybody. And here you'll take this for me,

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and you take that there, move this and that, tack

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that and I just now, I think I'm not sure

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that most of you all have seen this or not.

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I think I showed this a few years ago when

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we first started, when it was this month, but I

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wanted to just show you my cosmetic hand and it's

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got a clicker inside, and this is a sock for

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it technically, okay, And you see that metal piece at

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the end. I roll this up on my arm and

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I stick it in and then it clicks, and then

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there's a little gadget on the outside that you can't

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see that when I need to take it off, all

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I need to do is press it and just twist

459
00:24:44.799 --> 00:24:46.319
it and it's off. This is what I call my

460
00:24:46.480 --> 00:24:49.759
cosmetic arm that you see in there. See the hole there,

461
00:24:50.759 --> 00:24:54.519
because they listened when they were doing the initial assessment

462
00:24:55.039 --> 00:24:57.400
and they heard that I. You know, I was an actor,

463
00:24:57.960 --> 00:24:59.920
and you know, of course you don't want your mechanic

464
00:25:00.279 --> 00:25:02.960
arm all the time. I never knew about this, but

465
00:25:03.400 --> 00:25:06.839
in some cases, unfortunately, people only have a choice because

466
00:25:06.880 --> 00:25:09.759
of what their insurance could pay for. So sometimes you'll

467
00:25:09.799 --> 00:25:12.359
see somebody with this and it doesn't move. But I'm

468
00:25:12.400 --> 00:25:15.440
fortunate the fingers bend, so if I needed the carry

469
00:25:15.480 --> 00:25:18.680
a bag with it or whatever, I can do that now.

470
00:25:19.160 --> 00:25:21.359
And I'm getting a new one because I go in

471
00:25:21.640 --> 00:25:25.519
and get tune ups. I call it for all my pieces.

472
00:25:26.720 --> 00:25:28.799
I'm not using the toe fillers as much. I just

473
00:25:28.960 --> 00:25:32.039
stuffed my regular shoe with us socks or whatever. But

474
00:25:32.880 --> 00:25:37.480
this is my assher, this is my functioning arm, and

475
00:25:37.559 --> 00:25:41.240
it's got sensors in there. Now, this is heavy, and

476
00:25:41.599 --> 00:25:44.400
only when I really need to wear it, because it

477
00:25:44.559 --> 00:25:47.079
takes a while to put it on. I've got a

478
00:25:47.200 --> 00:25:50.000
bag that I put on my arm and then I

479
00:25:50.160 --> 00:25:51.839
go in and it's a string at the end, and

480
00:25:51.920 --> 00:25:54.119
I bring it out in the little hole there. The

481
00:25:54.200 --> 00:25:57.079
glove is covering it, but I bring it out to

482
00:25:57.160 --> 00:26:00.519
make the bag, make the arm come up, pulling the

483
00:26:00.599 --> 00:26:03.759
bag out. Uh, I don't have time for that. Most

484
00:26:03.799 --> 00:26:05.000
of the time. I want to get in the car,

485
00:26:05.079 --> 00:26:06.559
go to the bak, go get me some eat, and

486
00:26:06.640 --> 00:26:09.079
come back home. That's what I wanted to do. I

487
00:26:09.119 --> 00:26:11.319
don't and I'll say, oh, I have to get dressed.

488
00:26:11.640 --> 00:26:12.960
And when I say I have to get dressed, that

489
00:26:13.039 --> 00:26:15.440
means I've got to load up and bring those It's

490
00:26:15.480 --> 00:26:18.920
difficult for me to drive with them. But I do

491
00:26:19.000 --> 00:26:21.160
what I have to do. And you know, I'm like

492
00:26:21.279 --> 00:26:23.119
this most of the time. I do have a hand,

493
00:26:23.160 --> 00:26:26.279
but I didn't bring that tonight. Any questions from anybody,

494
00:26:26.440 --> 00:26:28.240
let me start there and then we're going to segue

495
00:26:28.319 --> 00:26:31.119
into another piece here. Any questions, I just don't want you.

496
00:26:31.200 --> 00:26:33.559
I think God just don't want you to to freak

497
00:26:33.640 --> 00:26:36.960
out and be so emotional with gift giving. If somebody,

498
00:26:37.160 --> 00:26:39.880
if somebody needs a coworker needs in it, y'all you

499
00:26:40.039 --> 00:26:42.480
exchange and you got their name. You want to make

500
00:26:42.519 --> 00:26:46.480
things look nice for their Mine beloved co host and

501
00:26:46.640 --> 00:26:48.680
his wife got this for me as a and I

502
00:26:48.839 --> 00:26:50.480
just happened to have to have. No, they got to

503
00:26:50.559 --> 00:26:52.559
handle two. I think you got to handle two.

504
00:26:53.160 --> 00:26:57.519
Uh well that that's that's that's that's miss that's pastor

505
00:26:57.559 --> 00:26:58.880
Gina's department.

506
00:26:59.039 --> 00:27:02.039
So yes, just give me m She.

507
00:27:02.200 --> 00:27:03.880
Just tells me this is what I got.

508
00:27:03.920 --> 00:27:11.319
I'm like, great, Oh, sir, I thought you chose the color. Okay,

509
00:27:11.519 --> 00:27:14.319
that's I'm just joking. But it's got a little saying

510
00:27:14.359 --> 00:27:17.799
on it and it says not a day over fabulous,

511
00:27:17.960 --> 00:27:19.680
not a day over familious. So that was one of

512
00:27:19.720 --> 00:27:22.640
my it's great. And it also came with it was

513
00:27:22.759 --> 00:27:25.599
a bottle of a bar of soap and there was

514
00:27:25.759 --> 00:27:29.400
a candle and the smell was chess like, oh my God,

515
00:27:30.079 --> 00:27:32.240
just take me away, cag and I take me away,

516
00:27:32.400 --> 00:27:34.279
and it was it's just Oh I love it. I

517
00:27:34.319 --> 00:27:35.920
could sit it. I just sit it out and it

518
00:27:36.039 --> 00:27:39.880
just takes over. So candles, you know, things matching stuff.

519
00:27:40.000 --> 00:27:42.680
Though you know you're gonna get candles, you know, get

520
00:27:42.759 --> 00:27:45.240
to get something else that will go with the candles,

521
00:27:45.279 --> 00:27:48.400
maybe a bath bomb or some bubbles, you know, just

522
00:27:48.759 --> 00:27:52.359
just just basic things. And right now, all the stores

523
00:27:52.440 --> 00:27:56.519
forever have these ideas, and especially Burlington, you could just

524
00:27:56.640 --> 00:27:58.960
go and say, oh, there's for the men. They got

525
00:27:59.000 --> 00:28:01.519
the roll, they got the alone, they got the nail clipper,

526
00:28:01.920 --> 00:28:06.680
all in one box, all in one box. But tonight

527
00:28:07.359 --> 00:28:11.720
I missed the name. Thank you for you welcome if

528
00:28:11.759 --> 00:28:14.079
they god, because I'm not that bright. It's helpful to

529
00:28:14.119 --> 00:28:16.680
know these or appreciate you sharing this. And it's real.

530
00:28:16.799 --> 00:28:18.920
This is where I live. This is real time stuff,

531
00:28:18.960 --> 00:28:20.880
and that's what we do. We let you know what's

532
00:28:21.000 --> 00:28:24.480
real and what's available out there. And most of the time,

533
00:28:24.640 --> 00:28:31.079
somebody who having who's experiencing deterioration of some sort, they're

534
00:28:31.160 --> 00:28:33.720
not talking about it. They don't want to talk about it,

535
00:28:34.039 --> 00:28:36.279
they're embarrassed about it. They don't know what they're gonna

536
00:28:36.319 --> 00:28:37.559
get for. And then you get them a pair of

537
00:28:37.640 --> 00:28:40.039
socks that they can't put on or they can't tolerate

538
00:28:40.119 --> 00:28:43.240
the material so you got to say, you know what, Lord,

539
00:28:43.599 --> 00:28:46.839
help me to get something nice for them, even if

540
00:28:46.880 --> 00:28:49.720
it's not a holiday event. You know, I'm just thinking

541
00:28:49.759 --> 00:28:51.920
about you, and I'm going to go and get as

542
00:28:51.920 --> 00:28:53.680
a matter of fact, as a lady who's on my

543
00:28:53.720 --> 00:28:57.119
advisory board, and I really you know, I've only seen

544
00:28:57.160 --> 00:28:59.920
her once last year, but she doesn't know. I've got

545
00:29:00.039 --> 00:29:03.039
a lady making me a nice basket with a journal

546
00:29:03.119 --> 00:29:05.519
in it. But I need large pins because she is

547
00:29:05.640 --> 00:29:09.240
very her right hand writing hand it's arthritic. But everything

548
00:29:09.319 --> 00:29:11.440
she's gonna get, she'll be able to maneuver with it.

549
00:29:11.559 --> 00:29:13.920
She'll be able to enjoy every piece of it, and

550
00:29:14.000 --> 00:29:17.160
she'll be able to unravel the gift itself, you know,

551
00:29:17.240 --> 00:29:19.200
because I just wanted to know I'm thinking about her.

552
00:29:19.480 --> 00:29:21.880
Her kids don't think Oh god, her kids don't. I

553
00:29:21.880 --> 00:29:24.519
don't know what happened in the family, but her kids

554
00:29:24.799 --> 00:29:27.519
just you know, just ignoring her. This has taught me

555
00:29:27.640 --> 00:29:30.319
how I can be more considerate. Oh in the station. Yeah,

556
00:29:31.880 --> 00:29:34.519
it's just a little step, especially if you're thinking about somebody,

557
00:29:35.039 --> 00:29:38.079
especially and for folks who wear glasses gold. Like I said,

558
00:29:38.160 --> 00:29:42.480
there's a Amazon has a collection of all kinds of

559
00:29:43.039 --> 00:29:46.599
you know, holders, eyeglass holders and cases, and you could

560
00:29:46.640 --> 00:29:48.359
get the hard ones and stuff like that. I mean,

561
00:29:48.559 --> 00:29:51.519
you be upset if you saw mine. But I have

562
00:29:52.200 --> 00:29:55.200
my stems, you know, are different colors because of my eye.

563
00:29:55.279 --> 00:29:58.559
I wear different colors. And that's all I can bring back.

564
00:29:58.960 --> 00:30:01.759
That's all I can hold onto. That was a part

565
00:30:01.839 --> 00:30:04.960
of me. I like things to match. And then I

566
00:30:05.039 --> 00:30:06.680
showed I told you the story and I'm gonna get

567
00:30:06.720 --> 00:30:09.000
We're gonna go on here because the time is just running.

568
00:30:09.720 --> 00:30:13.480
But one of the reporters had on these malted earring,

569
00:30:14.200 --> 00:30:17.480
maulted ball other things that can be helpful. Thank you, George,

570
00:30:17.640 --> 00:30:20.160
I mean Charles. I gonna call you George. Thank you, Charles,

571
00:30:20.799 --> 00:30:25.359
your medal name. She had a white malted ear rings,

572
00:30:25.839 --> 00:30:31.559
a yellow blouse, round collar, short sleeve, and an awkward

573
00:30:32.200 --> 00:30:36.519
skirt with white pumps. I don't know what she was reporting.

574
00:30:36.720 --> 00:30:39.720
I was stuck at all these colors like she made.

575
00:30:39.759 --> 00:30:41.640
They at that time, they would make it over seventy

576
00:30:41.680 --> 00:30:44.279
thousand dollars. I can only imagine what they're making now.

577
00:30:44.680 --> 00:30:46.960
And I'm looking at her like, who dresses you do?

578
00:30:47.039 --> 00:30:49.039
You bring in your own stuff? I don't know what

579
00:30:49.160 --> 00:30:50.880
she said. She couldn't say a hurricane was coming. I

580
00:30:50.920 --> 00:30:52.799
don't even know what it was because I was stuck

581
00:30:52.880 --> 00:30:55.960
at And that's what I decided for myself. This is

582
00:30:56.000 --> 00:30:58.680
before this happened to me. I'm gonna make sure the

583
00:30:58.759 --> 00:31:01.559
two pieces of my jury match. So if I've got

584
00:31:01.640 --> 00:31:04.920
pearl earrings on, I'm gonna have well, now I'm gonna

585
00:31:04.920 --> 00:31:07.319
have on a pearl bracelet with the cross on it,

586
00:31:07.559 --> 00:31:10.039
because right now I have bracelets with the crosses on it.

587
00:31:10.480 --> 00:31:12.599
And I had to get you know, I donated my

588
00:31:12.720 --> 00:31:15.240
all my watches and things like that and anything jewelry

589
00:31:15.279 --> 00:31:17.720
that I would have to put have help putting on

590
00:31:18.160 --> 00:31:21.319
because I've got these that just rolls right on and

591
00:31:21.480 --> 00:31:24.240
do what I needed to do. It matches, But that

592
00:31:24.400 --> 00:31:27.400
was for me. I know some of y'all made like Oprah,

593
00:31:27.440 --> 00:31:30.359
but I'm still wondering who dressing her. I'm still one

594
00:31:30.400 --> 00:31:32.519
of you. You're a billionaire. I don't understand that to

595
00:31:32.599 --> 00:31:36.079
save my life, but that's not my business. She's the billionaire.

596
00:31:36.160 --> 00:31:39.079
She made a money, so I'm gonna leave it at that. Okay,

597
00:31:39.240 --> 00:31:43.079
So now we're gonna segue because some folks had homework,

598
00:31:43.480 --> 00:31:45.759
and this is what the Lord told me. Over the

599
00:31:46.000 --> 00:31:48.599
how's your daughter's new line coming? Okay, thank you, Missy,

600
00:31:48.680 --> 00:31:51.200
it's coming along really well. I'm waiting. Probably the next

601
00:31:51.240 --> 00:31:53.759
email is going to be, we're sending you the prototype.

602
00:31:53.799 --> 00:31:56.119
Because we made the decisions on all the hardware. That's

603
00:31:56.160 --> 00:31:58.279
what they call it, all the hardware, the links, the

604
00:31:58.400 --> 00:32:02.079
zippers and lining and everything. It's gonna be cute. So

605
00:32:02.279 --> 00:32:05.440
I'm expecting them the next email will be, we're sending

606
00:32:05.519 --> 00:32:09.599
this you know, FedEx, look out for it, and then

607
00:32:09.640 --> 00:32:11.920
we'll go from there. And I'm hoping and praying that

608
00:32:14.039 --> 00:32:15.960
we just gonna do a limited edition. I just wanted

609
00:32:16.000 --> 00:32:19.720
to satisfy my promise. We'll do a limited edition and

610
00:32:20.279 --> 00:32:22.720
sell about twenty five to fifty of whatever God says,

611
00:32:23.240 --> 00:32:25.079
and we call it a day for me. Now, she

612
00:32:25.160 --> 00:32:26.920
could pick it up from there and take it, you know,

613
00:32:27.079 --> 00:32:29.240
go on from there. But anybody want to do their

614
00:32:29.319 --> 00:32:31.920
handbag or clutch line, let me know because I can

615
00:32:31.960 --> 00:32:34.640
refer you to some great people. They're in the United States.

616
00:32:34.720 --> 00:32:37.640
They get their stuff from the United States and all

617
00:32:37.680 --> 00:32:40.720
that good stuff. So thank you, Missy for asking about that.

618
00:32:41.279 --> 00:32:43.319
This is what God told me out of the blue.

619
00:32:43.759 --> 00:32:46.480
I wasn't thinking about nobody it wasn't thinking about the podcast.

620
00:32:47.000 --> 00:32:51.480
He said, if anybody of your viewers want to get married,

621
00:32:51.880 --> 00:32:54.079
I know this is gonna blow y'all away. Want to

622
00:32:54.119 --> 00:32:58.240
get married, you offer them one session of premiered a

623
00:32:58.359 --> 00:33:02.680
counselor for free, and you marry them online for free.

624
00:33:03.359 --> 00:33:06.319
Or if they decide to come to Orlando, come to

625
00:33:06.400 --> 00:33:09.920
Florida for little ak. I'm a notary as well. I

626
00:33:09.960 --> 00:33:12.519
could take care of it all. And Pastor Miguel as

627
00:33:12.599 --> 00:33:14.920
well as I could call on him and he'll come

628
00:33:15.000 --> 00:33:17.680
right over. Or if you want a beach setting, we'll

629
00:33:17.720 --> 00:33:20.880
go to him. That's God. Now I'm not calling out

630
00:33:20.920 --> 00:33:23.960
no names, but I'm putting it out there and that's it.

631
00:33:24.839 --> 00:33:32.039
And as we continue, they didn't know about that either, Harry.

632
00:33:33.759 --> 00:33:34.440
I got God.

633
00:33:35.000 --> 00:33:38.279
Everybody that listens to the show are on the show,

634
00:33:38.680 --> 00:33:42.640
and if it sparks something to them, there's your offer

635
00:33:43.000 --> 00:33:48.559
for free. Again, no excuse. Okay, So we gave a

636
00:33:48.640 --> 00:33:50.519
couple of y'all, well, one person y'all that know, we

637
00:33:50.559 --> 00:33:53.480
gave homework too, But we gave some homework out there

638
00:33:54.039 --> 00:33:56.720
last time. And I told you we're gonna circle back

639
00:33:56.759 --> 00:33:58.319
and you're gonna talk to us or give us some

640
00:33:58.400 --> 00:34:01.079
ideas that you do it and you know who I'm

641
00:34:01.119 --> 00:34:04.279
talking to, because I think they're on. I'm not calling names.

642
00:34:04.759 --> 00:34:06.680
If you don't want to talk about it, I'm on.

643
00:34:06.839 --> 00:34:09.320
All four of y'all, all three of y'all, just put

644
00:34:09.519 --> 00:34:12.360
no no, no, no no, so we can't know who

645
00:34:12.440 --> 00:34:17.280
it is. No an a an a. If everybody respond

646
00:34:17.719 --> 00:34:21.320
and you know, there we go, or question mark? What

647
00:34:21.440 --> 00:34:23.800
of y'all? Two of y'all put question mark? But the

648
00:34:23.880 --> 00:34:26.840
one person knows who are talking to? Talk to me?

649
00:34:27.280 --> 00:34:27.880
Did you try?

650
00:34:27.960 --> 00:34:30.440
God? Did you give them a minute? Did you find

651
00:34:30.480 --> 00:34:33.480
out the things that keep you thought it was for everyone?

652
00:34:34.800 --> 00:34:39.760
Only one person? Kind of asks kinda but of course anybody,

653
00:34:41.519 --> 00:34:44.719
anybody could do this. It is for everybody. It is.

654
00:34:45.320 --> 00:34:47.119
I have no problem with that. Talk to me if

655
00:34:47.199 --> 00:34:49.639
you did it, talk to me, talk to us please,

656
00:34:50.039 --> 00:34:52.480
I'm running out of time. Now, come on, come on,

657
00:34:53.480 --> 00:34:57.960
anybody another little piece while you're getting yourself together. I

658
00:34:58.079 --> 00:34:59.719
got a clicker because you know I told you I

659
00:34:59.840 --> 00:35:03.480
was studying one scripture a day and you're supposed to

660
00:35:03.599 --> 00:35:09.199
recite it out loud. Past this holding things up for me? Yes, misty, okay, yes,

661
00:35:09.360 --> 00:35:11.920
I'll get with you in just a second. And you

662
00:35:12.000 --> 00:35:14.960
know I'm not gonna sit here and write down Talli's

663
00:35:15.320 --> 00:35:17.559
tally sticks on one to the up to one hundred.

664
00:35:17.800 --> 00:35:20.760
So I use my clicker. I started at zero, and

665
00:35:20.840 --> 00:35:22.920
I use my clicker, and I say this scripture out

666
00:35:22.960 --> 00:35:29.519
loud has blown me away. So yes, what are the past? Okay,

667
00:35:29.599 --> 00:35:33.760
here we go the past. Yes, it holds people back,

668
00:35:33.920 --> 00:35:37.079
family dramas one of mine. Okay, yeah, but is it

669
00:35:37.199 --> 00:35:39.159
something with the fact. Okay, let me go back, go

670
00:35:39.280 --> 00:35:43.119
to Missy's first past. Holding the past is nothing but

671
00:35:43.239 --> 00:35:47.119
a memory. That's what forgiving and forgetting comes in. Even

672
00:35:47.159 --> 00:35:50.599
though you may not forget everything, but you want to

673
00:35:50.719 --> 00:35:55.400
get the memories, the events, the people involved to a

674
00:35:55.440 --> 00:35:58.280
point where you think about them. It doesn't pinch, it

675
00:35:58.360 --> 00:36:02.440
doesn't immediately costs or cause anger. You want to lessen

676
00:36:02.519 --> 00:36:05.760
that power. It's going to be a part of your life, because,

677
00:36:05.800 --> 00:36:08.639
if you believe it or not, everything we've ever gone

678
00:36:08.719 --> 00:36:13.079
through has brought us to today. Everything how to treat people,

679
00:36:13.400 --> 00:36:16.440
how to love, how to walk away, how to not

680
00:36:16.639 --> 00:36:19.679
hurt so much, how not to hurt anybody else. I mean,

681
00:36:19.880 --> 00:36:23.920
every life lesson we've ever learned. Everybody, everybody has been

682
00:36:23.960 --> 00:36:27.239
a part of that no matter how much the hurt

683
00:36:27.559 --> 00:36:32.280
was or the embarrassment was, or the lack of you know,

684
00:36:32.559 --> 00:36:35.239
you caused me to go bankrupt and all that stuff,

685
00:36:35.519 --> 00:36:39.480
it all has brought us to today what you want

686
00:36:39.519 --> 00:36:41.440
to do. And I told you the subconscious is one

687
00:36:41.480 --> 00:36:45.639
of the nastiest parts of our ego because it holds everything.

688
00:36:46.199 --> 00:36:49.519
It holds everything. And then their scripture that says, you know,

689
00:36:49.679 --> 00:36:51.960
think not all this or I guess mine is I

690
00:36:52.039 --> 00:36:54.559
get in my own way, okay, mickey, So then you

691
00:36:54.719 --> 00:36:57.559
got to come up with some ideas to divert you.

692
00:36:58.199 --> 00:37:00.280
You've got to come up with an idea. Okay, I

693
00:37:00.360 --> 00:37:02.719
get in my own way. So you know what, maybe

694
00:37:02.840 --> 00:37:04.400
I just don't need to be apart. I don't need

695
00:37:04.480 --> 00:37:06.840
to go to every family event because we already know

696
00:37:06.880 --> 00:37:09.800
they're gonna show out. Somebody's gonna just be mad because

697
00:37:10.239 --> 00:37:12.880
the string ring castle role was cooked wrong and it's

698
00:37:12.920 --> 00:37:15.159
the same person that's been cooking it for years. None

699
00:37:15.199 --> 00:37:18.800
of y'all have any heart to tell a person don't

700
00:37:18.880 --> 00:37:21.280
cook that no more. But you let you keep letting.

701
00:37:21.320 --> 00:37:23.840
Then that gives yourself to start getting the argument about

702
00:37:24.079 --> 00:37:26.800
who does that? Who keeps doing the same thing? What

703
00:37:27.320 --> 00:37:31.840
over and over again, expecting what different results. No, you

704
00:37:31.960 --> 00:37:34.199
could just take a break. You don't need to go

705
00:37:34.280 --> 00:37:37.039
to that family event this year. Don't go because you

706
00:37:37.079 --> 00:37:39.280
already know what's gonna jump off. You know that's that

707
00:37:39.440 --> 00:37:42.039
uncle that's always gonna remind you of your past. You

708
00:37:42.159 --> 00:37:43.840
know he gonna be if he's still alive, he's gonna

709
00:37:43.880 --> 00:37:46.320
be there. That cousin that bullied you as a child,

710
00:37:46.519 --> 00:37:49.239
still bullying you. Look what I got, Look what I got.

711
00:37:49.679 --> 00:37:53.280
Remove yourself from that and it's okay. It's okay, and

712
00:37:53.400 --> 00:37:55.599
don't lie about it. Said No, I'm gonna feel like

713
00:37:55.679 --> 00:37:58.599
coming this year, y'all enjoy click now. I know some

714
00:37:58.639 --> 00:38:00.320
of y'all are not as rough as I am, but

715
00:38:00.800 --> 00:38:04.960
I've been at this for a minute. I think yes,

716
00:38:05.039 --> 00:38:06.679
go ahead, Trey, I think too.

717
00:38:06.719 --> 00:38:09.039
You can if you if that's what you're gonna do,

718
00:38:09.079 --> 00:38:12.639
if you're gonna go, I'm just using an example. If

719
00:38:12.639 --> 00:38:15.480
you're gonna go self talk, you know, you do some

720
00:38:15.599 --> 00:38:19.000
positive self talk and you know, play out what could

721
00:38:19.119 --> 00:38:21.360
possibly happen or what has happened in the past. It

722
00:38:21.440 --> 00:38:26.159
seems to do all the time that if someone says

723
00:38:26.239 --> 00:38:30.840
this practice it, I will handle it by what remove myself.

724
00:38:30.519 --> 00:38:35.039
From a walk away from it. You know, count praise something.

725
00:38:34.920 --> 00:38:37.119
To prepare you for that if that's what you're gonna do,

726
00:38:37.440 --> 00:38:40.199
and put yourself in that situation where it's not so

727
00:38:40.599 --> 00:38:43.480
you know, comfortable, but kund of preparing yourself in all

728
00:38:43.599 --> 00:38:46.480
Anguish's just you and yourself having this conversation.

729
00:38:46.840 --> 00:38:48.320
If this happens, I'm gonna do this.

730
00:38:48.880 --> 00:38:51.599
If that happens, I'm gonna do this, or I'm gonna

731
00:38:51.639 --> 00:38:54.679
say this, or I'm gonna plan on eving, go long,

732
00:38:54.800 --> 00:38:56.519
plan to stay the whole time. If your things is

733
00:38:56.559 --> 00:38:57.360
gonna get overwhelmed.

734
00:38:57.599 --> 00:38:58.400
If I feel.

735
00:38:58.199 --> 00:39:01.800
Stressed, I'm immediately move myself, say thank you, had a

736
00:39:01.800 --> 00:39:02.119
good time.

737
00:39:02.239 --> 00:39:04.599
Y'all have a good night. I'm out of here. So

738
00:39:04.920 --> 00:39:06.480
those are some things that you can kind.

739
00:39:06.320 --> 00:39:10.360
Of prepare yourself for prior to if that I'm just

740
00:39:10.519 --> 00:39:14.199
using that as an example, but write stuff that probably

741
00:39:14.559 --> 00:39:16.400
self sabotaged as well.

742
00:39:16.880 --> 00:39:19.960
Well. Charles, you know what that is. You know what

743
00:39:20.079 --> 00:39:24.159
you're doing, and you need to decide. I'm over it now.

744
00:39:24.480 --> 00:39:26.760
I'm a new person. I want to be the man

745
00:39:27.199 --> 00:39:30.239
that God has preprepped me, has destined me to be.

746
00:39:30.840 --> 00:39:33.960
And obviously what I've been doing hasn't worked, and that's

747
00:39:33.960 --> 00:39:36.280
why the Bible said judge yourself so you won't be judged.

748
00:39:36.440 --> 00:39:39.079
You sit in that quiet space for a minute. Don't

749
00:39:39.079 --> 00:39:41.519
say that too long. Go to that valley and say,

750
00:39:41.559 --> 00:39:43.719
you know what, I don't like this about me. I

751
00:39:43.760 --> 00:39:46.039
don't like this about me. I don't like it when

752
00:39:46.079 --> 00:39:49.559
I do that. Why do I self sabotage? Who am

753
00:39:49.599 --> 00:39:52.840
I hurting? Who am I preventing? Who am I denying?

754
00:39:53.280 --> 00:39:55.679
Who am I blocking? And it's going to point back

755
00:39:55.719 --> 00:39:55.840
to you.

756
00:39:56.519 --> 00:40:00.079
Go ahead, I was gonna say that that.

757
00:40:00.360 --> 00:40:00.519
You know.

758
00:40:01.039 --> 00:40:03.880
Part of my message yesterday was that we you have

759
00:40:04.000 --> 00:40:08.159
to understand that God doesn't condemn you, convicts you, and

760
00:40:08.840 --> 00:40:12.880
God doesn't hold your past for you. You become locked

761
00:40:13.039 --> 00:40:15.880
into your past and you're holding onto it. When do

762
00:40:15.960 --> 00:40:19.039
you let go? And the other thing is you're you're

763
00:40:19.079 --> 00:40:23.000
in a situation where you're wanting to ask God to

764
00:40:23.119 --> 00:40:27.519
help you. God's asking you which which path do you

765
00:40:27.639 --> 00:40:31.000
want to be on? Can't be on the path you

766
00:40:31.320 --> 00:40:32.039
want to beyond?

767
00:40:32.599 --> 00:40:33.039
Follow me?

768
00:40:33.519 --> 00:40:37.440
Doesn't work that way. I used. I used an expression

769
00:40:37.559 --> 00:40:40.880
yesterday and I learned it because I saw it on

770
00:40:41.000 --> 00:40:45.800
an advertisement on Facebook and it said, I rather stand

771
00:40:45.880 --> 00:40:48.440
with God and face the world instead of being in

772
00:40:48.599 --> 00:40:51.440
the world and face God. Know that those are some

773
00:40:52.519 --> 00:40:58.079
One of the toughest decisions you will make is wanting

774
00:40:58.159 --> 00:41:01.880
to walk with God because Jesus made it very clear

775
00:41:02.000 --> 00:41:04.800
in the Book of John when he said World's gonna

776
00:41:04.840 --> 00:41:08.400
hate you because of Me. So if you're wanting to

777
00:41:08.559 --> 00:41:12.519
know how your day's going to go tomorrow, well, if

778
00:41:12.559 --> 00:41:16.000
you follow Christ, that's what world hates. What are you

779
00:41:16.079 --> 00:41:19.280
going to do about it? Sulk? Or do you rejoice

780
00:41:19.440 --> 00:41:22.559
that you've given another day of life, another day to

781
00:41:22.639 --> 00:41:27.840
praise God? You being a reflection of the kingdom, you

782
00:41:28.159 --> 00:41:32.239
can make the difference. So you take the focus off

783
00:41:32.320 --> 00:41:36.320
of you and place it on God, and you watch

784
00:41:36.800 --> 00:41:38.199
how you become liberate.

785
00:41:38.119 --> 00:41:41.199
And you say, here I am, here am as is

786
00:41:41.840 --> 00:41:44.280
now one little thing that helps me when I'm feeling

787
00:41:44.320 --> 00:41:46.679
heavy and I'm not supposed to feel heavy, but when

788
00:41:46.679 --> 00:41:49.559
I've been, you know, dealing with just going to publics

789
00:41:49.960 --> 00:41:52.960
and dealing with the customers. Okay, I come. I'm like, oh,

790
00:41:53.679 --> 00:41:56.639
I said, God, I present myself to you, and every

791
00:41:56.800 --> 00:41:59.280
title everything that I am, I give it back to God.

792
00:41:59.360 --> 00:42:02.239
I'm a neighbor, I'm a mother, I'm a spiritual mother.

793
00:42:02.320 --> 00:42:04.840
I'm a minister, I'm a chaplain, I'm an author, I'm

794
00:42:04.880 --> 00:42:07.679
a voice actor, I'm an actress. I'm a college professor.

795
00:42:08.119 --> 00:42:11.000
I'm this, I'm that, I'm this, I'm the everything that

796
00:42:11.199 --> 00:42:14.159
I am, everything that I am, and I'll say to

797
00:42:14.239 --> 00:42:16.599
him now, I get that all back to you. And

798
00:42:16.719 --> 00:42:19.639
I do this throughout the year. I do this often.

799
00:42:20.119 --> 00:42:22.880
Now give back to me, Lord, who and what I

800
00:42:23.039 --> 00:42:26.320
need to be and do for this season. This is

801
00:42:26.360 --> 00:42:28.960
a different season. I may be called to be just

802
00:42:29.239 --> 00:42:33.159
a counselor. I've retired now, I'm not a therapist anymore,

803
00:42:33.599 --> 00:42:36.719
so that season not but I'm I'm in the chaplain

804
00:42:36.880 --> 00:42:39.920
role now and that's whole totally different. But being a pastor,

805
00:42:40.360 --> 00:42:43.679
I got to go back to be being a student

806
00:42:43.760 --> 00:42:46.519
real quick to take care of the certification I want

807
00:42:46.599 --> 00:42:49.719
to get. I'm a student in taekwondo. So those are

808
00:42:49.760 --> 00:42:52.280
the roles I am now. And that's all. He'll give

809
00:42:52.320 --> 00:42:55.599
you exactly what you need and the people. But you

810
00:42:55.719 --> 00:43:00.719
gotta be ready to let go no matter what. And

811
00:43:00.840 --> 00:43:05.840
you know my testimony college two psych exams that psychology

812
00:43:05.960 --> 00:43:09.199
was my major. I can't remember nothing on Thursday, the

813
00:43:09.280 --> 00:43:12.119
tests on Friday, and I had to say, Jesus, if

814
00:43:12.159 --> 00:43:14.599
you I know you're real, if you can help me,

815
00:43:15.159 --> 00:43:17.559
I'm crying. If you can help me, cause I got

816
00:43:17.599 --> 00:43:19.880
I can't just pass the course. I've got to get

817
00:43:19.920 --> 00:43:22.559
an a. I've got to get a high ninety on

818
00:43:22.719 --> 00:43:27.559
it to keep my GPA. And Jesus came. I accepted him.

819
00:43:28.000 --> 00:43:29.800
I said, I'll run and I won't look back. I

820
00:43:29.880 --> 00:43:32.440
promise you. That's all I got. That was my foundation.

821
00:43:33.039 --> 00:43:35.159
He was waiting on me. That's what they got, one

822
00:43:35.199 --> 00:43:37.000
of the many things out of He just waits on us.

823
00:43:37.440 --> 00:43:39.920
But heaven's closing up now because he wants all his

824
00:43:40.079 --> 00:43:43.360
chosen together, because he's getting ready to bless unlike ever before,

825
00:43:43.440 --> 00:43:47.480
as the world ends, as the world turned, So Charles,

826
00:43:47.559 --> 00:43:50.400
all you have to do, Misty, all of y'all, all

827
00:43:50.440 --> 00:43:52.760
you have to do is say I'm done. It didn't

828
00:43:52.800 --> 00:43:56.199
work for me, so I'm good. I'm done. God you're

829
00:43:56.239 --> 00:43:58.639
the only choice, because guess what, I ain't try you

830
00:43:58.719 --> 00:44:02.239
all the way he had one hundred percent. Start there,

831
00:44:02.840 --> 00:44:05.599
Start there, Go to your word and let the Bible

832
00:44:05.760 --> 00:44:08.559
comfort you. I told people, just three people in the

833
00:44:08.639 --> 00:44:11.480
last forty eight hours. You're gonna be so mad at

834
00:44:11.559 --> 00:44:14.320
yourself when you see the type of power and authority

835
00:44:14.440 --> 00:44:17.320
you would have walked in ten years ago, five years ago,

836
00:44:17.440 --> 00:44:21.039
five minutes ago, you're gonna be so mad with yourself.

837
00:44:21.239 --> 00:44:24.320
Why did I give my life to him? Sooner? Go ahead, guys,

838
00:44:24.440 --> 00:44:26.519
I don't want to take all of this got too many.

839
00:44:26.679 --> 00:44:29.960
I'm just gonna say this that you know that you

840
00:44:30.000 --> 00:44:33.400
said a mouth for Lesha, this walk has definitely been

841
00:44:33.480 --> 00:44:37.760
great for me and just trusting him, just learning to

842
00:44:37.800 --> 00:44:41.400
trust him and learning to understand him more, and just

843
00:44:41.519 --> 00:44:43.519
being getting out of my own way. I think someone

844
00:44:43.599 --> 00:44:44.960
said that I had to just get out of my

845
00:44:45.079 --> 00:44:48.679
own way and just listen to him and surrender to him.

846
00:44:48.920 --> 00:44:52.920
You know you told Melisha and Pastor too, you know,

847
00:44:53.079 --> 00:44:55.480
just tell her I surrender and just having a regular

848
00:44:55.519 --> 00:44:57.480
talk with him. But that is I'm telling you, this

849
00:44:57.679 --> 00:44:59.559
is just a great place to be Amen.

850
00:45:00.800 --> 00:45:04.559
One of the things that, as I mentioned yesterday, I

851
00:45:04.679 --> 00:45:07.199
delivered a message and it was titled the process. We

852
00:45:07.320 --> 00:45:10.559
all have to go through a process. We can't expect

853
00:45:10.599 --> 00:45:13.880
to ease your life just because we're a Christian, because

854
00:45:14.599 --> 00:45:17.679
what would be very selfish of us. The just didn't

855
00:45:17.760 --> 00:45:21.559
have an easy path. He had to suffer. He suffered

856
00:45:21.840 --> 00:45:25.119
for us, but he had to complete a process that

857
00:45:25.239 --> 00:45:28.199
he was assigned to. We all have to go through

858
00:45:28.239 --> 00:45:32.039
a process. We all have to graduate and get to

859
00:45:32.119 --> 00:45:36.360
the next level. Can't bypass a certain level because you

860
00:45:36.480 --> 00:45:41.159
don't mature. It's like it's like a human. It takes

861
00:45:41.280 --> 00:45:45.320
time for us, for us to grow because the muscle,

862
00:45:45.599 --> 00:45:49.320
I mean, the bones have to grow to be able

863
00:45:49.400 --> 00:45:54.480
to fill in the spot where you're growing well. Can't

864
00:45:54.599 --> 00:45:59.960
bypass a path, a process because you don't have to pay,

865
00:46:00.440 --> 00:46:04.719
because that's where maturity comes in. Once you learn, then

866
00:46:05.519 --> 00:46:09.119
you have to understand that once you complete the process,

867
00:46:09.519 --> 00:46:10.960
you're going to move to the next level.

868
00:46:11.800 --> 00:46:13.000
And anybody is interested.

869
00:46:13.519 --> 00:46:16.320
If anybody is interested in the sermon, I've got the

870
00:46:16.440 --> 00:46:18.039
link for it and I would send it to you.

871
00:46:18.239 --> 00:46:20.400
Just send me your email and I'll send it to you.

872
00:46:20.559 --> 00:46:23.360
Give McCall text him at that phone number down there

873
00:46:23.800 --> 00:46:25.840
and he will definitely send it to you. Thank you

874
00:46:25.960 --> 00:46:28.960
guys for coming on tonight and listening. We're going to

875
00:46:29.039 --> 00:46:32.840
see you next next Monday, the whole new month. It's

876
00:46:33.000 --> 00:46:41.559
May here we go too, oh thinking too Wednesday, huh

877
00:46:42.039 --> 00:46:45.320
fat and saying single to Maya, which is Monday. Yeah yeah,

878
00:46:45.599 --> 00:46:47.960
so here we go, here we go, you all be blessed.

879
00:46:47.960 --> 00:46:52.239
We'll see you next week, same time, same station that night.

880
00:46:52.440 --> 00:46:52.679
I am

881
00:47:02.119 --> 00:47:10.880
Chascus Ussos