Oct. 13, 2025

Nat Depression & Mental Health Screening Month

Nat Depression & Mental Health Screening Month

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Good evening, good evening, and good evening. Welcome, welcome, Welcome.

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You're on the set of Setting it Straight with Miss Gray.

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You're gonna hear life changing opportunities, examples, testimonials, just dialogue, period,

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because we are here to help you to be your

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better self, to do better, to bounce better, to walk better,

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to think better. And I'm not alone. I have my

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fabulous co hosts right there, right there. I got trade

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trade from all the way from VIRGINIAA how's the weather

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out there? Man?

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We had a northeastern come from here, so there's a

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lot of rising waters and.

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Yeah, a lot of rising waters. Yeah, but it's calmed down,

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it's cooler.

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Yeah, yeah, thank you, Miss Kay, Miss Kay, break or record.

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You're here.

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What's going on with you? And you're part of the

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world to the north of me. Okay, let's pray. Father,

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I thank you, We praise you forever and ever and ever. Lord,

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I thank you that you show up and you show out,

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you do what you do best, and you love us unconditionally.

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You give us a peace that passes all understanding. You

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give us grace on just unmeasurable grace.

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We just thank you.

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We thank you for your favor, for your faith in us.

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We thank you for the blood that was shed for us.

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We thank you so much, and thank you for meeting

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me this morning where I was at. Thank you for

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just just letting me have, giving me that sacred place,

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that safe place to just car out my heart to you.

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I thank you, and I thank the heavenly hosts as

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they stood quietly giving me that safety, that safety net. Now, Satan,

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I'm gonna speak to you. No weapon formed against me

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or my family, the co hosts, my engineer, my faithful followers, viewers,

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their faithful followers, your faithful God's faithful followers, and viewers

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no weapon formed against them, shall prosper. You've messed with

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the wrong crew. Now more than ever we see you,

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We know what you're doing. You're not gonna get away

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with it. You are your workers of iniquity. We protect.

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We're asking God to protect America. Right now, in the

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name of Jesus. Lord, please cover our borders importing and exporting.

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Cover the food that's coming, that's being produced and sold

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and marketed and placed in our grocery stores. Cover our

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oceans and our seas, and our ships and our airplanes

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and our trains and automobiles. Father God, right now, in

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the name of Jesus, we know the enemy. It's been

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a set time. It's been a set time. We are aware.

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There are gonna be wars and rulors of wars. There's

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gonna be threats of peace that's nonexistent. That's gonna be

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a fashionable human made fathoms and shortages and everything else.

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We know.

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We know, and you've been called out, Satan. So let

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no weapon formed against this people in this country. Prosper now,

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Father God, this is your podcast. This is your opportunity,

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unlike many others, that's out there for you to address

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the people that you know that will come on and

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listen with all intent and purposes to change their lives

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and anyone around there, set them free. We're gonna get

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behind the cross. We're gonna let you do what you

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do best. You love us unconditioning, We love His Lord

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and than thank you all this and more. We asked

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in Jesus name, Amen and amen, Yes, yes, yes, yes yes.

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There are times that you've got to be real with God.

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If you've not been real with yourself and with God,

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that that door that you know, heaven's closing the windows,

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its windows. It's not hearing stuff right now. You've got

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to make sure you come clean, and come clean quick.

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I'm not gonna go into it, but I got my

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I went through the house this morning setting an alarm.

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I've got a confession. I've got a confession. I've got

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a confession. And I had to say what I had

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to say about me dealing with me, and then I

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asked my children to forgive me and to pray for me. See,

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I'm not running to get on the phone. I don't

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have pair of partners, never did. Nobody's picking me up

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in this. I was at a final really rough, really

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rough nobody picking me up. And that's okay because I

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know how to pray for myself. But I had to

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first confess and be honest and be real. How many

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of you did that this week? How many of you

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did that this week? Now we're talking about mental health,

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mental wellness. We are acknowledging it. The show has been

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on for two three years now. This second round, we've

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talked about self care. We talked about healthy places, safe places.

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We talked about you know, unclooring your homes and your minds.

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It will lead to the uncloloring of your mind. We've

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given you all the steps, but how many people have

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actually done it?

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Hey, missy?

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How many people have done it and continue to do it.

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It's not a one time thing. You don't ask for

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forgiveness one time. You don't forgive another person just one

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time because stuff be popping up, stuff be popping up.

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You think, right, Wait a minute, I forgave her ten

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years ago.

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Here we go.

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I lost my step one, of my stepson from my

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first marriage, out of the blue. He just turned thirty

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eight years old in July, got a testimony out of

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this world. Having of chaining his doctorate degree. I've only

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I was only hoping to talk with him one more time,

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just to say, hey, how you doing? Check in with it?

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And in four days he's gone, and I'm finding out

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about it on the fourth day, in three days he's gone,

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He's I'm finding out about it on Thursday. No man

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knows the day of the hour. I can only hope

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and pray that he did give his life to the Lord.

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I don't know, but I got people calling if you

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could just check in, check in for what to hear

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you on this There are people who like to hear

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hear themselves talk. I'm not one, even though I'm a talker,

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I'm not that one. But if you listen to this show,

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this podcast, a lot of your answers, you'll be amongst

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a mass, a group, a selected few who are in

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search of and then hopes of how dare you ask

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me to check in? I'm sorry, thank you, Mickey, thank you.

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I'm sorry. Here with your Lord, thank you, Missy. Prayers yes, please,

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because my ex husband he's lost his identical twin brother,

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and now he's lost his son, his oldest son. I

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still have our we still have our son, but it's

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a different thing. It's a different thing, especially when he went.

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You know, he just he was an amazing person, you know, achiever.

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He just burst through and achieved and doing his thing,

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and you know despite medical any type of medical hindrances

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and things like that. And you know, I'm sure he

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wasn't alone when he passed, but he was in the

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hospital and thirty eight years old, y'all, thirty eight years old?

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What I say, yeah, go ahead, trade.

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I was looking when trying to find some topics, you know,

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things for this month, and I was looking about, you know,

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just looking just to see what was out there, and

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it's just something.

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Just came across me when I was looking.

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This is not my best time of year, you know,

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because it gains darker earlier, it's colder. It's actually my

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birthday month, so Monday when we were on the show,

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will be my birthday.

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But what it said, autumn is the time of a

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new you know, that's time where you should things are refreshed.

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So it's a switch over.

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So when I read that, I said, you know what,

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let me go in to fall a different way, let

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me start looking at it differently.

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And so this weekend I.

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Was able to travel with some friends to a homecoming

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game in North Carolina, you know, for the weekend.

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You know, we got an airbnb.

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Some ladies, some lady friends of mine and typically do

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this trip every year, and we got an airbnb.

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We were fortunate, you know, we all pretty much had

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a room to ourselves. Didn't make the game.

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Didn't make the game, which is fine, which is good

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because you know, I was just going before the fellowship

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and also the change of environment.

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And when I tell you that changes scene read even

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just for that little bit of time, did something for me.

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And so I started crying.

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I started reading some scripture and I just like look

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through the back of the Bible just to see where

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my where God would lead me to read. And the Lemmit,

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I said, okay, God, and I just got still because

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I read it in the room that I was in

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and I got still.

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The lights were on, the nothing was on. I said, okay,

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let me just be still. And when I tell you

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a little bit of time, that made a difference.

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And so you know, I'm going in the autumn with

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different things, with things on my mind, and you know, Lisia,

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I'd like to to try to think of some ideas

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and I just put some in place, you know, and

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so I'll share with you a little later some things

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that I that I that I presented to someone and

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I and at some point I want to mention it and.

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Bring it into fruition.

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And so it's gonna be evolved around domestic violence.

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You know, that's my passion. That's my baby awareness, mental

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health awareness. So I said, you know what, Lord, let

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me do what you need me to do. I'm gonna

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be still. You show me what it is you would

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have me do, and and just I just want to

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honor you and do what you ask me. And so

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that's where I am.

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That, that's where I am with that, you know, And

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you have to take care of yourself and to reflect

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and just let's get away.

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Let's get away for a couple of minutes.

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Steal away, steal away, steal away. Yes, yeah, you got

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to make that leap. You got to prioritize. You have

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to do whatever you need to do. You have to

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do whatever you need to do for you, for your

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for your for just for your and you've got to

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fight your flesh throughout all of this. You're fighting your

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flesh because your flesh don't want you to do nothing.

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Mainly depend on God Jesus in the Holy Spirit. It

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does not want you to do that, even though we

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were we were, ain't it?

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By God?

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Your brain wants all the recognition your flesh, you, your pride,

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your emotions. Oh you hurt my feelings. Oh I'm in

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my feelings?

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What what?

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What?

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But why did you come out the door? If you're

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in your feelings, stay home. We don't need to be

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subjected to that. I don't please. You've made me into

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almost this monster I have in car road rage and

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only the people in the car hearing me raging, And

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I'm like, what is that doing for Anyba? What is

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it doing for anybo? Nothing? And God, and I had

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to repent. Lord, Please this morning I was like God,

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as I was just pouring out, pouring out, I said, God,

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forgive me, but I allowed other things that have nothing

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to do with the kingdom, have nothing to do with

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other people, have nothing to do with my calling. It's

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all flesh. Please forgive me, but I allow any of

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my energy to go towards it, because that could have

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been a moment that I missed, a phone call, that

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could have been a moment that I didn't see because

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I'm so in my thoughts in my head. I didn't

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even see a lady in front of me crying or

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a man looking despondent looking down forgive me, forgive me.

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But yeah, you got to check yourself so you won't

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be checked. The Bible said to judge yourself, not so

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you won't be judged. People want to just talk about, Oh,

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you're judging, you know, don't judge me, don't judge. Get

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over that. You're making me look at you. You're making

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me look at you. I wasn't even thinking about you.

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Then all of a sudden, I'm over, like, what's going

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on with this person? Why am I looking at you?

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Where are you getting my attention? It reminds me of

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the clown that appeared in my workshop eight o'clock in

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the morning, fully dressed, nose shoes, make up, everything, And

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I'm like, okay, she wants attention, and I was. It

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was confirmed. But she also gave me a revelation about myself.

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She said, well, like you, I tell jokes and I'm like,

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I've never told the joke. I'm talking about real people

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when I talk about are real people because I can't

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remember the joke, so I've never Yeah, I'm telling you

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I'm telling yeah, that's why I won't invite you to

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the comics show. I won't know you probably probably improv nobody.

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I know, we'll go. You'll hear about it later that

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I was there. Amen. But yeah, you you got to.

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I don't know how much more we get. It's here now.

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Stuff is getting ready to fall out. I'm telling you,

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everything is gonna it's gonna get out of the out

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of whack. We've got wars, we got rumors of wars.

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And in the Bible it talks about there will be

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a time that there's gonna be a peace talk. It's

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gonna talk about peace. It's gonna look like peace, but

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behind it it's not. It's just a setup. And we're

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we're there. We're there, so you gotta be careful. That's

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why I'm praying for my country. I'm praying. Things are

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coming back into the country. Dealerships are moving back into

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the United States, even though the government is shut down.

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I'm not gonna deal with that just yet. But we got,

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you know, schools, new schools, trade schools are opening in

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the United in the States. We got it's slowly, it's unwinding,

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but here we go. We've got people who are farming now,

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they're purposely looking for land that they can farm on.

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And we've got government, and well government was if we

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got talks federal you know, grants out there for these people.

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Money's out there, small business loans for these people that

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want to go into and have livestock and things. It's

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coming back, and I'm staying on that prayer point until

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we are back in full and we have been repaid

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with interest the moneys that we've loaned since the eighteenth century.

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I got it, and I got another praise before it.

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I'm sorry, like I said, it's like when I went

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went down there. It was when at this particular home.

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It's knock, not an ante, and I'm not a graduate.

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Of there, but you know, I'm friends with someone whose

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parents graduated from there, and the door to go there,

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and when we went usually we have a typical routine

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of going to the vendors.

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Know everybody's selling stuff for at.

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Or you know Greek pair form that when I say that,

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you know, sororities, fraternities, shade butters.

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It's a lot of small businesses. And when I tell you,

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I was had walked around said I don't really see

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anything that grabbed me.

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And I met with a sorority sister and she was

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talking about someone who was selling glasses frames, you know,

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just eyeglasses, and she said, yeah, I said, and she said,

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and they're nice, and she talked it up and she.

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Said, and they're heavy frames and they feel good and

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they sit on your face. And I said, let me look.

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And I went back. She said, let me show you,

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and she said, I brought you a customer. And I

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was looking at it and I saw some frames, and I.

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Said, do they take the flex Spinning account, which is

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my job offers. So it's a certain amount of money

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you could pay into, but you can use it for

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your co payments or things that you need related to

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your medical And so God has it that they accept

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my flex spinning account.

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And I was able to and and and the lady

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was saying, you know what.

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The my sorority sister, she said, you know, gonna seek

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money into a big business, Gonna do that, stink it

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into somebody that is smaller business.

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And when I say, I walked out, well, not that

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same day I saw glasses.

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I had my car, my flex cart, but I didn't

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have the right one because somebody tried to hack it,

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and I left the other one at the Airbnb.

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That had just gotten and so I asked my roommate,

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I said, do you see maccars?

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She said, your card is here. So I thought I

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was gonna go back Saturday night. Didn't go back, had

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it Except Sunday we went. The vendors were still there

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but packing up, and they said, we were just asking

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if you were wondering if you were gonna come back.

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We still have your glasses that you picked out. And

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I was able to get the two pairs that I liked.

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And when I say that made that made my day

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one because I got locked had it there, and I said, Lord,

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just not there. It wasn't meant the same glasses.

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They had it on me.

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My car was working, and I just walked in there

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just being and you you would have thought I had

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won a million dollars. But I was also helping a

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smaller business too as well, and and and it changed

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my mindset and I was just happy.

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I really was very happy.

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One of all because my inssurance paid for it, and

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I said, okay, okay, God, let's let's keep it moving.

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And so it's the little things. It really is it

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really is. And so I'm just excited and and and

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just feeling blessed. I really am, I really am.

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That's my well, thank you, thank you, and you know,

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and it's so funny you should mention that because me

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and miss Kate went just went ran over the loved

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to help the small businesses, all right, went over to

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Walmart and to get hurt because I said, you need

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some new glasses. How do you see out of those?

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You know?

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And and we went through all the I mean all

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the truth and everything. So how do these looking? Most

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of the time she kept saying, kind, I look just

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like you. And I'm like, you know, no matter what

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glasses you get, you were going to look like me.

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You know. I'm sorry, I mean it like that, boss,

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I ain't gonna take it like that, but you still

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gonna look like me, you know. And she finally found

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a pair and everything, and and it was still less

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expensive than we I thought it would be and everything else,

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and it's just you know, and we had our favorite

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employee working that day, working today, and all the baskets

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are in the parking lot at Walmart. I'm like, why

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is it that they've not come out here to get

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the baskets because I know people are in me. Hundreds

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of people are piling into the store, and I'm like,

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all of these baskets out here, I cannot believe this

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in all the stalls, and you've not gone to smaller

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business have nicer things at times. And I like that

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one of the kinds. I like one of the kinds

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I don't like to buy something and in a minute

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I see it again. I really don't like that. So

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I'd rather go to a small business and and and

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and do my shopping and things. I really enjoy that.

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This past weekend, I was I had my book signing

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at a local Christian bookstore and I was just talking

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to customers. It was just like I was just like, oh,

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that's why, Okay, that's not my thing. Okay, thank you

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lord Plisi. If that's your email with all those emails,

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yeah I know girl. Excuse me, Guys, I gotta take

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a moment.

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Because I'm like, why is she on my email? But

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I forgot a log out. I'm like, that's my email.

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He was losing I'm going I'm coming down the stage

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and just give me a minute here. You almost gave

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me a heart attack. I'm like I don't know fifty

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nine thousand people that's gonna send me fifty nine thousand

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worth an email. That's you and you this side.

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I try to gurl.

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If you don't get off of this, I'm getting you

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in your own PC. That's it. I can't. Oh my god, no,

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I have this almost. I deleted a lot of your

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deleted a lot of your Wow, excuse me at the stage.

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I'm coming back. I'm coming back, y'all. I'm having a

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moment here. You see, earl. I might assume you was

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gonna figure it out if you look at the name.

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I didn't see it.

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Just now you saw me. I'm looking at the head

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and I'm like, no, I didn't see you because I

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was walking behind y'all, trying to get some motions. You

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see who I live with? You see who I live with?

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Who's got a mother in law cottage on the property.

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I'm just bringing my dog. I'm just me and my dog. Okay.

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Then anyway, yes, Anastagia, it was. It was awesome as always.

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I a few people. One person. One person showed up

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that made a promise that he was obedient and purchased

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some books. Now that's the funny part when the people

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come to the thing, you don't purchase anything. I'm not

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gonna go there. But this past Saturday, great event. I

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got another one coming up this coming Saturday. I think

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I'm may be the only author out there at this event.

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But it was really nice. And I'm talking to the

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people in the store, just the customers, not about the book.

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I'm like, you know, this is the place. This place

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has one of a kind, you know, little items and

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stuff like that, unique little things. Bellisia even did a

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little shop because she goes, say, let's do a little

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shopping before we before we go home. Let's pack up

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the car. But listen do and so she found I said, yeah,

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and if I was shopping for a massive amount of people,

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you'll be getting stuff from here. I'm telling They've got

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everything from a kitchen ware stuff to you know, coasters,

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all kinds of unique things.

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And I like to do that.

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I like to give, you know, buy and purchase. But

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I only got a couple of people I'm shopping for,

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so thank you Jesus, Holly do. And I had to

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leave because I said, I don't want to be buying

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out the store because I will go there. But pouches

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and just affirmation things. It's just and people are busy

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out here. They're they're busy that people are doing. I

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met a young lady and her fiance and she's she

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does bridal retreats well, bridal parties and Brian's in their

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bridal parties and she does Christian retreats. I said, I

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need to have you on this ship on my podcast.

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She said I would, yes, I would love to. I

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was like, see that, I mean, people doing things to

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help other people. It was just an idea. And she said,

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you know, and it's clean and wholesome and everything else,

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and we pray for each other. I said, I like

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that kind of stuff. I would hire her. I would

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give that. I would see that into someone's uh you know,

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as for their wedding gifts. I would do that. That

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makes sense. That's so unique. That's so different. So here now,

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you know, two saturdays in a room, I'm hearing new things,

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creative opportunities and things like that. Like I'm and I'm

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you know, thumbs uping everybody, but hearing the store, Like

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I said, if the customers they were coming in just

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just coming in and and even know the all the

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staff were directing them to me. But I was just

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telling them to go shop at the store and look around,

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you know, don't stop at my table, go look around

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because there's a lot of stuff in here. And people

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were walking out with stuff, bags and stuff, so you know,

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And that was not even about sales, things being gonna sell.

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So people are doing things. People are still reading books.

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They're still reading hardcover books and stuff like that. So

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you know, where do you go from here? What's your

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hold of that? I had several I asked several customers

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of that as they were just telling me about where

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they're at and stuff, and I'm like, well, why are

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you stuck? Who's causing you to be stuck? And don't

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mention your money, don't mention your money, but who's causing

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you to be stuck? And they had to think for

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a minute, like what's me?

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It's me?

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And I'm like, yeah, so what are you gonna do

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by it?

463
00:24:14.039 --> 00:24:14.200
See?

464
00:24:14.200 --> 00:24:16.400
I was trying to get make people mad. See I

465
00:24:16.440 --> 00:24:19.440
think if I can make you mad, that makes you like, oh,

466
00:24:19.759 --> 00:24:22.440
not to where you want to hit or curse or whatever,

467
00:24:22.720 --> 00:24:24.480
but you get mad. But you know what, I am

468
00:24:24.640 --> 00:24:28.720
frustrated with this. This I can make this call. I

469
00:24:28.799 --> 00:24:31.920
can make this leap. I can make this jump. I

470
00:24:32.039 --> 00:24:34.319
can do this. I am the one helding it out.

471
00:24:34.799 --> 00:24:37.039
I'm the one that can make the decision. So what's

472
00:24:37.079 --> 00:24:39.559
holding you back? What's keeping you from doing that? Now?

473
00:24:39.839 --> 00:24:44.640
Mental mental illness, mental illnesses have caught up with the

474
00:24:44.759 --> 00:24:50.400
physical illnesses, neurological illnesses. They're here, they are here, they're here,

475
00:24:51.079 --> 00:24:51.839
and what are we.

476
00:24:51.880 --> 00:24:52.359
Doing about it?

477
00:24:52.599 --> 00:24:55.720
Because the medications and any medication. Let me just say

478
00:24:55.759 --> 00:24:58.440
this is a disclaimer. Any medication, I don't care. If

479
00:24:58.480 --> 00:25:01.559
you're on an antibiotic, there's a side effect, there's a

480
00:25:01.640 --> 00:25:04.000
side effect, then you gotta take a side effect pill.

481
00:25:04.440 --> 00:25:07.400
So be careful with that. Look at what the medications

482
00:25:07.440 --> 00:25:10.279
you are taking. Make sure you're listening to your doctor.

483
00:25:10.440 --> 00:25:14.079
Make sure you're monitoring your own statistics, your own vidals,

484
00:25:14.240 --> 00:25:15.440
because you don't need to be on it for the

485
00:25:15.440 --> 00:25:17.640
rest of your life. I don't care what the doctor says.

486
00:25:18.000 --> 00:25:19.599
You don't have to be on them. You don't have

487
00:25:19.720 --> 00:25:21.839
to do that. And I've already shared with you all.

488
00:25:21.920 --> 00:25:24.119
As I take my medication, as I'm brushing back in

489
00:25:24.319 --> 00:25:27.279
Jesus' name, as I'm swallowing my pill, go to every

490
00:25:27.519 --> 00:25:31.759
crack every crevice, every corner. Go do what you need

491
00:25:31.880 --> 00:25:35.519
to do and uproot whatever's in me. Kill it at

492
00:25:35.559 --> 00:25:38.240
the root, burn it up with fire, by the fire

493
00:25:38.359 --> 00:25:42.720
of God, never to return again. I don't like medication.

494
00:25:43.240 --> 00:25:45.680
I don't like going to the doctor, because they gonna

495
00:25:45.720 --> 00:25:47.759
do what they're in their field. They're only gonna do

496
00:25:47.839 --> 00:25:50.119
what they can do, whether they believe in God or not.

497
00:25:50.319 --> 00:25:50.880
I don't know.

498
00:25:51.559 --> 00:25:54.119
No one has ever said to me, let's pray before

499
00:25:54.200 --> 00:25:58.559
we read these results. Let's pray before this I examine you.

500
00:25:59.000 --> 00:26:02.359
No one has said that. Even in physical therapy out

501
00:26:02.440 --> 00:26:05.599
patient and patient in my house, no one has ever said,

502
00:26:05.640 --> 00:26:08.680
let's pray. In my counseling sessions, I've done that. You

503
00:26:08.759 --> 00:26:11.920
know what, Let's pray. I don't even ask, do you

504
00:26:12.039 --> 00:26:14.359
believe in God? I don't have time for that. If

505
00:26:14.440 --> 00:26:17.039
God is ushering me to pray, We're gonna pray. And

506
00:26:17.119 --> 00:26:21.880
I've been so blessed even despite the colleges, even if

507
00:26:21.880 --> 00:26:25.119
it was a public college, a public university, I still

508
00:26:25.319 --> 00:26:29.039
opened my class with prayer. And they were secular universities.

509
00:26:29.400 --> 00:26:31.759
Let's pray because I don't know what y'all coming in

510
00:26:31.839 --> 00:26:34.599
here dragging for. But here we go, and I've got

511
00:26:34.640 --> 00:26:37.440
to teach on top of that, you're not gonna hear

512
00:26:37.480 --> 00:26:40.519
one thing. We're saying that, you're not gonna remember remember anything.

513
00:26:40.680 --> 00:26:42.759
So let's get to your day. What was going on?

514
00:26:43.200 --> 00:26:45.119
And I shared with you all over the years if

515
00:26:45.200 --> 00:26:46.359
this one class was that night.

516
00:26:46.440 --> 00:26:46.720
It was a.

517
00:26:48.319 --> 00:26:51.519
Mandatory class for every freshman. So my class was always

518
00:26:51.559 --> 00:26:54.559
full of twenty eight students. And one night that everybody

519
00:26:54.640 --> 00:26:57.559
coming and dragon and I'm like, what what everybody? I

520
00:26:57.640 --> 00:27:00.559
had five students that were due enroll, meaning that they

521
00:27:00.559 --> 00:27:02.839
were in high school but they were taking the class,

522
00:27:02.920 --> 00:27:05.720
allowed to take a college class. And they sat up

523
00:27:05.799 --> 00:27:08.359
in the front and you know, and I'm like, let's

524
00:27:08.559 --> 00:27:11.359
you know what, guys, we're gonna pray. Let's pray, I pray.

525
00:27:11.880 --> 00:27:14.880
I said, okay, I'm gonna take attendance and then we're

526
00:27:14.920 --> 00:27:17.960
going to have a conversation. This was a financial a

527
00:27:18.079 --> 00:27:22.119
stress stress, how to handle stress, financial management class all

528
00:27:22.200 --> 00:27:25.200
in one. It's a mandatory class for every fresh And

529
00:27:25.319 --> 00:27:28.240
then I did that took you know, everybody was there.

530
00:27:28.599 --> 00:27:31.039
I said, okay, here we go. What's going on with y'all?

531
00:27:31.400 --> 00:27:33.160
I moved a podium out the way and I was

532
00:27:33.200 --> 00:27:35.480
sitting on my school. I said, let's go. I don't know.

533
00:27:35.680 --> 00:27:37.680
I'm not teaching on top of this. I don't know

534
00:27:37.720 --> 00:27:39.359
what y'all have had a bad day, you had a

535
00:27:39.440 --> 00:27:43.079
bad week. Let's go. First row, a young a mom

536
00:27:44.000 --> 00:27:46.759
of a sixteen year old. She's a doctor's assistant. Worked

537
00:27:46.759 --> 00:27:49.680
as a medical assistant in a doctor's office. A sixteen

538
00:27:49.720 --> 00:27:53.079
year old daughter had a starker a student who came

539
00:27:53.160 --> 00:27:56.240
to their property trying to see the daughter, even though

540
00:27:56.279 --> 00:28:01.240
he's been trespassed and everything. Dad's a Sheriffy goes to

541
00:28:01.400 --> 00:28:03.799
his car to get a back because you not listening.

542
00:28:04.200 --> 00:28:06.920
You've been trespast. The daughter's afraid to even go out

543
00:28:06.920 --> 00:28:11.799
and leave the house. Second row, young lady from Morocco, engaged,

544
00:28:11.920 --> 00:28:14.519
just found out the fiance was cheating on her. She said,

545
00:28:14.519 --> 00:28:17.319
I'm not giving back the ring. So my high school

546
00:28:17.400 --> 00:28:20.880
was a life what and they're looking like, huh. Third

547
00:28:21.079 --> 00:28:24.359
road it was something. Fourth row, it was something, and

548
00:28:24.480 --> 00:28:26.880
I said, well, let's talk about it again. I didn't

549
00:28:26.920 --> 00:28:28.920
ask you. Are you all the people of faith? Are

550
00:28:28.960 --> 00:28:30.119
you people that believe in God?

551
00:28:31.000 --> 00:28:31.920
We're gonna have time for that.

552
00:28:32.319 --> 00:28:34.119
I got a two and a half hour class. I

553
00:28:34.160 --> 00:28:36.680
gotta teach. This is already at night. It's eight o'clock

554
00:28:36.720 --> 00:28:39.079
at night, seven o'clock at night, so let's go listen,

555
00:28:39.160 --> 00:28:42.559
listen how we resolve this. And then you young lady

556
00:28:42.599 --> 00:28:44.480
with the wedding ring, just keep the ring, you know,

557
00:28:44.720 --> 00:28:47.319
and everybody laughing. So finally we got some humor going

558
00:28:47.599 --> 00:28:49.960
and I said, okay, to my high schoolers, y'all got that.

559
00:28:50.000 --> 00:28:51.720
We got to cover this lid back up. I was

560
00:28:51.759 --> 00:28:54.039
always I knew that my class would open up a

561
00:28:54.079 --> 00:28:57.440
can of worms. I was determined every session to close

562
00:28:57.519 --> 00:29:00.680
it before they left my presence because they were wide open,

563
00:29:01.000 --> 00:29:02.960
and that's what the devil was waiting on. So I'm

564
00:29:02.960 --> 00:29:05.880
not gonna have that. So I said, okay, guys, y'all

565
00:29:05.960 --> 00:29:08.559
have any questions you want to ask him? And they're

566
00:29:08.599 --> 00:29:11.599
like no, I said, well, this is adulthood. These are issues.

567
00:29:11.640 --> 00:29:14.480
This happen, it can happen, So I can imagine what

568
00:29:14.519 --> 00:29:16.960
the world's going through right now. I almost got. I

569
00:29:17.119 --> 00:29:20.319
was walking and uh, what's the CBS and the guy

570
00:29:20.519 --> 00:29:22.079
just looking at his phone and head look, heads up,

571
00:29:22.119 --> 00:29:24.880
heads up. He said, oh, I'm sorry about to hit me,

572
00:29:25.359 --> 00:29:28.000
I mean coming straight for me, and the eyes were

573
00:29:28.039 --> 00:29:31.079
small so I didn't have much room wiggle room. I said,

574
00:29:31.200 --> 00:29:34.200
heads up, heads up. Oh oh, I'm sorry. We're out

575
00:29:34.279 --> 00:29:37.920
to eat yesterday. And this lady comes from an another table,

576
00:29:37.960 --> 00:29:41.079
this couple, two sets of couples come in. They're trying

577
00:29:41.119 --> 00:29:43.680
to sit down. The lady come on. The man is

578
00:29:43.799 --> 00:29:46.599
moving the bench, my bench, my seat with you know

579
00:29:47.119 --> 00:29:50.039
in those fast in those restaurants, we share the same bench.

580
00:29:50.079 --> 00:29:52.319
He's on one side, I'm on the other. He's moving me.

581
00:29:52.400 --> 00:29:53.839
I was like, what's going on? What's going on?

582
00:29:54.799 --> 00:29:57.279
He said, oh, I'm sorry, No, I had nothing.

583
00:29:57.359 --> 00:29:57.680
What was that?

584
00:29:57.799 --> 00:29:58.680
What if I was eating?

585
00:29:59.039 --> 00:29:59.880
What if I was eating?

586
00:30:00.440 --> 00:30:02.079
And I'm sitting there and Belie she's like, do you

587
00:30:02.240 --> 00:30:03.680
need to move on? Do we need to move us

588
00:30:03.759 --> 00:30:06.400
in there? And they think it was funny, but I

589
00:30:06.480 --> 00:30:10.079
know they were already a little tipsy. You've got to

590
00:30:10.119 --> 00:30:12.680
be tipsy about three o'clock in the afternoon and getting

591
00:30:12.680 --> 00:30:14.960
ready to drink some more. And I tell you, every

592
00:30:15.000 --> 00:30:17.559
time I go to Public's, people got four bottles of

593
00:30:17.599 --> 00:30:20.440
water in the bask in the shopping cart. Four bottles

594
00:30:20.880 --> 00:30:23.440
And I'm like, oh my god, so it's here. What

595
00:30:23.559 --> 00:30:26.000
are you doing about it? And please be very careful

596
00:30:26.240 --> 00:30:30.799
Now that commercials talks about it's a well they're talking

597
00:30:30.799 --> 00:30:34.799
about tartar dyskinesia, you know, the shakes and the involuntary movement,

598
00:30:34.960 --> 00:30:38.119
facial movements. Well, they're finally admitting and this is a

599
00:30:38.200 --> 00:30:44.200
side effect from mental mental medicaid, psychotrophic medication for mental illnesses.

600
00:30:44.759 --> 00:30:48.000
They're finally they've been soon enough. I'm sure you've got

601
00:30:48.079 --> 00:30:50.319
to say this. This is why these people who are

602
00:30:50.440 --> 00:30:54.000
normal but they're they're having issues and they get diagnosed

603
00:30:54.000 --> 00:30:55.839
and they're placed on medication, and all of a sudden

604
00:30:55.839 --> 00:30:59.599
they've got involuntary body movements. It's from the medication that

605
00:30:59.720 --> 00:31:03.079
they need to stabilized. So now so you've heard the commercial.

606
00:31:03.519 --> 00:31:06.680
Now this medication is known to you know, it comes

607
00:31:06.759 --> 00:31:10.559
from it stems from, you know, mental health medication. So

608
00:31:10.680 --> 00:31:13.599
you got to check everything. Guys, don't leave it depends

609
00:31:13.640 --> 00:31:17.599
on the medication. Don't leave. It depend on the doctors nurses.

610
00:31:18.119 --> 00:31:20.839
They're only doing what they could do. They can't think

611
00:31:20.960 --> 00:31:26.599
outside the box of what they've been Go ahead, just just.

612
00:31:26.640 --> 00:31:29.680
To interject with some of that with two because I

613
00:31:30.119 --> 00:31:32.079
know the medication.

614
00:31:31.759 --> 00:31:33.640
Piece is a stickler for folks.

615
00:31:33.960 --> 00:31:36.400
But one of the worst things that you can do

616
00:31:37.240 --> 00:31:40.720
if you're on a medication or prescribe a medication, a

617
00:31:40.759 --> 00:31:45.960
psychotropic medication to manage your mood is to say that

618
00:31:46.079 --> 00:31:47.160
it's not working.

619
00:31:47.000 --> 00:31:48.279
If you have not been taken it.

620
00:31:48.799 --> 00:31:50.319
So sometimes they say, well, how is it because you

621
00:31:50.359 --> 00:31:52.039
don't want to tell the doctor you haven't been taking it,

622
00:31:52.559 --> 00:31:55.400
and so when you tell the doctor it's not helping,

623
00:31:55.839 --> 00:31:58.160
he's gonna up it, or you know he's gonna up

624
00:31:58.200 --> 00:32:00.799
it or try something else. I want to just kind

625
00:32:00.799 --> 00:32:04.400
of just kind of explain to people understand the side

626
00:32:04.400 --> 00:32:07.839
effects of it. Don't understand ask the side effects of it.

627
00:32:08.480 --> 00:32:11.240
Ask what will happen if you not take it? You

628
00:32:11.319 --> 00:32:13.119
know what a risk if you do not take it.

629
00:32:13.240 --> 00:32:16.519
So you weigh taking it versus not taking it, and

630
00:32:16.720 --> 00:32:19.680
take it. If you're prescribed it, take it. If you're

631
00:32:19.759 --> 00:32:23.440
noticing something, document it, let your doctor know. If it's

632
00:32:23.480 --> 00:32:26.000
too much, then they can tweak it and bring it down.

633
00:32:26.119 --> 00:32:28.400
If it's too little, then tweak and bring it up.

634
00:32:28.839 --> 00:32:31.000
So it is people say, I feel like again in people,

635
00:32:31.039 --> 00:32:33.400
we basically you are because it goes by body weight,

636
00:32:33.640 --> 00:32:35.640
symptoms and all this other stuff.

637
00:32:35.680 --> 00:32:37.200
But you have to be consistent.

638
00:32:37.680 --> 00:32:39.559
That's the only way the doctor's going to get you

639
00:32:39.720 --> 00:32:45.519
a real the correct dosage of anything, and so try it.

640
00:32:46.160 --> 00:32:48.720
But immediately if it's making you do if you have

641
00:32:48.839 --> 00:32:51.039
to work it, it's making you sleepy, let that doctor

642
00:32:51.200 --> 00:32:53.359
know so they can tweak it for that. But you

643
00:32:53.640 --> 00:32:55.799
have to kind of monitor it. And then once they

644
00:32:55.920 --> 00:32:58.079
monitor it, say okay, I've been taking this for six weeks,

645
00:32:58.400 --> 00:33:00.279
this is what I'm seeing in the doctor. To have

646
00:33:00.359 --> 00:33:01.640
to kind of play with it till it gets to

647
00:33:01.720 --> 00:33:05.319
the point where you're aligned in to it. But don't

648
00:33:05.359 --> 00:33:08.519
be afraid to ask questions. If you're afraid to ask questions,

649
00:33:08.960 --> 00:33:11.880
take somebody with you that doesn't mind asking questions and

650
00:33:12.000 --> 00:33:14.599
will help you with that. Don't be afraid to ask.

651
00:33:14.880 --> 00:33:16.720
You know, the doctor is the doctor, but this is

652
00:33:16.799 --> 00:33:17.279
your body.

653
00:33:17.640 --> 00:33:19.319
So I just want to kind of say that. Never

654
00:33:19.400 --> 00:33:23.160
say that it's not working and you haven't taken it consistent.

655
00:33:23.480 --> 00:33:27.599
Amen, Thank you, Trey, Thank you, great catch, great catch.

656
00:33:27.680 --> 00:33:31.240
You're absolutely right. And I know our men and women

657
00:33:31.400 --> 00:33:35.440
who have been dishonorably discharged your honorably discharged at an

658
00:33:35.480 --> 00:33:39.359
early time because of their mental emotional status, and they

659
00:33:39.480 --> 00:33:42.119
got there they have to hook up with or you know,

660
00:33:42.279 --> 00:33:46.039
align themselves with the local vas and their states and

661
00:33:46.400 --> 00:33:49.440
their cities. And all I'm knowing is that psychiatrists. That's

662
00:33:49.480 --> 00:33:52.599
the psychiatrist you're seeing, and they're saying, you know, they're

663
00:33:52.599 --> 00:33:55.799
asking three questions. Are you are you eating? Are you

664
00:33:56.000 --> 00:34:00.240
sleeping well? Has your appetite change? And what's that is

665
00:34:00.279 --> 00:34:02.839
a third one? That's all they ask is fifteen minutes,

666
00:34:03.319 --> 00:34:10.239
fifteen minutes and you're on fifteen medications fifteen eight. I'm

667
00:34:10.280 --> 00:34:13.119
not an advocate for medication, but oh my god, how

668
00:34:13.159 --> 00:34:15.800
are you even able to think You've got to take

669
00:34:16.000 --> 00:34:19.639
eight to fifteen minutes a day and it's nothing working

670
00:34:19.639 --> 00:34:22.039
because you have nobody to talk to to talk these

671
00:34:22.119 --> 00:34:24.440
things out and to encourage you to go do some

672
00:34:24.559 --> 00:34:25.159
other things.

673
00:34:25.760 --> 00:34:29.079
So what I would like to interject to is, so

674
00:34:29.280 --> 00:34:31.719
typically psychiatrists and I know you know, Lisia, but I'm

675
00:34:31.760 --> 00:34:35.360
just saying it for an audience. Typically psychiatrists prescribe medications.

676
00:34:35.719 --> 00:34:38.719
Our patient therapy is something totally different. But what I

677
00:34:38.840 --> 00:34:42.760
would suggest, having worked with people in the mental health field,

678
00:34:43.320 --> 00:34:46.719
have both so that way, your doctor, like Lisha was saying,

679
00:34:46.800 --> 00:34:50.320
typically when you're with a psychiatrist, the session is only

680
00:34:50.360 --> 00:34:51.199
fifteen minutes.

681
00:34:51.519 --> 00:34:52.760
When you're with a therapist.

682
00:34:52.960 --> 00:34:55.840
Your sessions run from anywhere from thirty minutes to forty

683
00:34:55.920 --> 00:34:59.079
five minutes, which gives the therapists kind of a gist

684
00:34:59.159 --> 00:35:01.840
of what's going on with you. Then your opportunity was

685
00:35:01.880 --> 00:35:04.280
speaking with the therapist, and then you're talking.

686
00:35:04.079 --> 00:35:06.639
With the therapists. The therapists who say, okay, we kind

687
00:35:06.679 --> 00:35:09.599
of medications and help you modify. Then when you go

688
00:35:09.679 --> 00:35:09.960
back to.

689
00:35:10.000 --> 00:35:13.440
The psychiatrist, you're saying this, so they go kind of

690
00:35:13.559 --> 00:35:15.920
hand in hand, you know, if you need the medication.

691
00:35:16.280 --> 00:35:19.039
I would also suggest you having an outpatient therapy piece,

692
00:35:19.280 --> 00:35:21.719
so you'll have both and in that way you'll get

693
00:35:21.840 --> 00:35:24.880
more time. So get an hour's worth of time, fifteen

694
00:35:24.920 --> 00:35:26.840
minutes with the person that's going to give you the MADS,

695
00:35:27.199 --> 00:35:29.239
forty thirty to forty five minutes with the person that's

696
00:35:29.239 --> 00:35:32.119
going to help you process all the symptoms and stuff

697
00:35:32.159 --> 00:35:33.079
that you're going through.

698
00:35:33.559 --> 00:35:37.559
I cannot speak for social workers and program people and

699
00:35:37.639 --> 00:35:40.679
case workers and what they're doing today, but back in

700
00:35:40.800 --> 00:35:43.079
my day when I worked at the local community mental

701
00:35:43.159 --> 00:35:46.360
health facility, I had a client that will all my

702
00:35:46.440 --> 00:35:48.480
clients always will tell me where they've gone to the

703
00:35:48.559 --> 00:35:51.920
dentists and the dentists prescribed something when they went to

704
00:35:52.000 --> 00:35:54.280
this doctor. That doctor prescribed. So I was like, you know,

705
00:35:54.360 --> 00:35:57.159
what are you and I'm telling my asking my client.

706
00:35:57.440 --> 00:35:59.519
Are you telling your doctors what's going on? You know

707
00:35:59.760 --> 00:36:02.119
that you're taking all these meds now? I said, can

708
00:36:02.199 --> 00:36:04.559
I get your permission? I'll write a letter to all

709
00:36:04.599 --> 00:36:07.400
the doctors. You just give me addresses and names. I'll

710
00:36:07.480 --> 00:36:10.039
take it from here. And she said, yeah, sure, no problem.

711
00:36:10.360 --> 00:36:14.119
The dentist calls me, identifying himself. He said, are you

712
00:36:14.280 --> 00:36:17.519
serious that she is on these medicines? I said yes, sir.

713
00:36:18.000 --> 00:36:20.079
He said, oh my god. Well everything I'm giving her

714
00:36:20.159 --> 00:36:24.800
is contradicting it, canceling it out. The dental medication is

715
00:36:24.920 --> 00:36:28.960
canceling out the mental health medication. I said, well, thank god,

716
00:36:29.039 --> 00:36:31.360
I just want to I would love to just gather

717
00:36:31.480 --> 00:36:34.960
y'all all. And but she gave me permission to talk

718
00:36:35.039 --> 00:36:37.960
with you all to release her medications, so you all

719
00:36:38.000 --> 00:36:40.239
can take a look at what she's on now today.

720
00:36:40.440 --> 00:36:43.559
I know my doctors ain't asked are you are you?

721
00:36:44.199 --> 00:36:46.840
Are you active with your dentists? Are you active with

722
00:36:46.920 --> 00:36:50.480
the ear nose and throat doctor or physical You know who?

723
00:36:50.519 --> 00:36:50.719
Are you?

724
00:36:50.800 --> 00:36:53.519
You know who are your active and who's prescribed medication?

725
00:36:54.159 --> 00:36:56.880
Now they're asking in some sectors, but you got to

726
00:36:56.960 --> 00:37:00.679
let your primary doctor know, especially a primary And when

727
00:37:00.719 --> 00:37:04.000
you're filling out the application at the new patient information,

728
00:37:04.360 --> 00:37:07.480
they ask you what medications you're taking. Put them down

729
00:37:07.559 --> 00:37:09.760
there so they can see and make sure they're not

730
00:37:10.000 --> 00:37:14.480
canceling out or causing more side effects or injuring your organs,

731
00:37:14.519 --> 00:37:17.559
your internal organs. And this is all about mental health

732
00:37:17.599 --> 00:37:18.159
and wellness.

733
00:37:19.280 --> 00:37:20.239
This is all about that.

734
00:37:20.719 --> 00:37:23.440
Because you don't need to be getting sick and nobody

735
00:37:23.559 --> 00:37:25.440
and most of the time, what we're finding out we

736
00:37:25.519 --> 00:37:27.440
don't know. We don't have a diagnosis. We really don't

737
00:37:27.440 --> 00:37:29.880
know what's going on, what this has happened, this is,

738
00:37:30.280 --> 00:37:31.920
but it could be so much. And now you're going

739
00:37:31.960 --> 00:37:35.280
to the emergency rooms. They're only going to treat that what.

740
00:37:35.480 --> 00:37:36.320
You came in for.

741
00:37:37.039 --> 00:37:39.599
Even though you could say that I have hives and

742
00:37:39.760 --> 00:37:41.719
this is gone and my left knee but you know

743
00:37:42.239 --> 00:37:45.960
it's popped, and no, they take the information down, they

744
00:37:46.039 --> 00:37:48.440
take they do an assessment, but they're not dealing with

745
00:37:48.559 --> 00:37:50.960
all that other stuff. They're dealing with what you came

746
00:37:51.039 --> 00:37:54.199
in here for. We can't see no break, so you can.

747
00:37:54.320 --> 00:37:56.760
We're gonna, you know, just guise your talent all but

748
00:37:56.920 --> 00:37:59.960
check in with an orthopedic doctor and things like orthopedic doctor,

749
00:38:00.159 --> 00:38:02.719
what's a MIKI. You ain't seen nothing, but they can't.

750
00:38:02.920 --> 00:38:06.000
They don't even do MRIs. We went to a care unit,

751
00:38:06.360 --> 00:38:08.599
that's what they're in the neighborhood for. So I thought

752
00:38:08.679 --> 00:38:10.800
that could reduce the amount of people going to the

753
00:38:10.800 --> 00:38:15.039
emergency room. They did a basic extray, but they're like, well,

754
00:38:15.039 --> 00:38:17.239
you're gonna probably have to go to your doctor and

755
00:38:17.440 --> 00:38:19.960
you know, go on to and have have an MRI.

756
00:38:20.599 --> 00:38:24.320
You don't have that capability here. So what we should

757
00:38:24.320 --> 00:38:25.960
have went on? Yes, I saw that. I thought I

758
00:38:26.079 --> 00:38:28.559
heard that right. I was like, well, are you you

759
00:38:28.679 --> 00:38:31.320
know my mom and dad did not take any medicine.

760
00:38:31.320 --> 00:38:33.840
They both were in their late nineties when they went home. Amen,

761
00:38:34.880 --> 00:38:38.519
but they had uh, they had healthy vegetables and things

762
00:38:38.639 --> 00:38:41.599
like that. They didn't have fumigated you know, laws and

763
00:38:41.679 --> 00:38:43.719
stuff like that. You should get all mess from the

764
00:38:43.760 --> 00:38:45.719
same pharmacy and ask the pharmacies to review your mess

765
00:38:45.760 --> 00:38:47.960
to make sure there's no comp Thank you, missy. Have

766
00:38:48.119 --> 00:38:52.760
the conversation. Have the conversation. They they're mixed. You know,

767
00:38:53.079 --> 00:38:55.639
they have that capability of pulling your mans from that

768
00:38:55.800 --> 00:38:58.960
pharmaceutical place, and they'll pull your mass from that pharmaceutical place.

769
00:38:59.159 --> 00:39:02.280
There is all integrate it right now, it's really neat.

770
00:39:02.519 --> 00:39:05.480
I like this my chart thing I went on there.

771
00:39:05.519 --> 00:39:08.119
I had to let them know that, hey, they pharmacy

772
00:39:08.199 --> 00:39:11.599
didn't have my blood pressure medicine, just to let them.

773
00:39:11.639 --> 00:39:13.480
I was able to write that the like, okay, thank

774
00:39:13.480 --> 00:39:16.280
you for letting us know, keep us, keep us posting

775
00:39:16.360 --> 00:39:18.559
on that next thing. I know my pharmacy was called me.

776
00:39:18.719 --> 00:39:21.599
We got it. So I don't know if somebody ran

777
00:39:21.679 --> 00:39:25.199
that up to risk management or administration or whatever and

778
00:39:25.280 --> 00:39:27.880
they called over a CVS. No, do these people need

779
00:39:27.960 --> 00:39:30.920
their medication? So what we're doing? Do we need to

780
00:39:30.960 --> 00:39:32.679
switch locations? What we're doing?

781
00:39:33.079 --> 00:39:33.800
I kid you not.

782
00:39:34.119 --> 00:39:36.800
It was ready in twenty minutes, even from them saying

783
00:39:36.840 --> 00:39:39.719
we don't have it right now. You know, so you

784
00:39:39.840 --> 00:39:41.639
got to get that. You've got to talk to people.

785
00:39:41.760 --> 00:39:43.679
And yes, I agree, Thank you Trey for saying that,

786
00:39:44.159 --> 00:39:46.480
not only do you have a psychiatrist, you need a therapist.

787
00:39:46.719 --> 00:39:49.679
You need a psychologist, you need a social worker. You know,

788
00:39:49.840 --> 00:39:52.880
you need a therapist also to get that emotional piece going.

789
00:39:53.159 --> 00:39:58.119
We got your holistic every discipline. Don't treat you holistically.

790
00:39:58.719 --> 00:40:01.239
As a social worker, as a therapist, I cannot. I

791
00:40:01.280 --> 00:40:04.760
don't prescribe medication. I can only know what you're taking,

792
00:40:04.880 --> 00:40:07.800
be aware of its after effects, its side effects, and

793
00:40:07.920 --> 00:40:10.800
make sure you're aware of it. That is all I

794
00:40:10.880 --> 00:40:14.000
can do. But I'm here to treat the emotional mental

795
00:40:14.079 --> 00:40:16.960
part of you, the economical part of you, the financial

796
00:40:17.039 --> 00:40:20.719
part of you, the physical diet part of you. The psychiatrists,

797
00:40:20.719 --> 00:40:23.400
they're just to monitor that medication. Are you sleeping, are

798
00:40:23.440 --> 00:40:26.800
you eating? Has your appetite? And any mood swings, That's

799
00:40:26.840 --> 00:40:30.400
what it was. Any mood changes, It's like, that's all okay,

800
00:40:30.480 --> 00:40:34.159
thank you. Ell seeing ninety days only to refill the medication,

801
00:40:34.760 --> 00:40:38.159
so please. People were asking and the world is nasty.

802
00:40:38.639 --> 00:40:42.719
It's going to get nastier. Keep your head on a swivel.

803
00:40:43.239 --> 00:40:45.880
Don't be going out at night by yourself. Have a

804
00:40:46.000 --> 00:40:48.440
weapon or to a small bat in the car, whatever

805
00:40:48.519 --> 00:40:51.199
you need to do to make sure you're comfortable. But

806
00:40:51.320 --> 00:40:55.599
don't let fear overtake you. Be aware of how you react.

807
00:40:55.760 --> 00:41:00.559
Are you a fight or flight or frozen? Fight will flow?

808
00:41:00.679 --> 00:41:01.920
Let someone know where you're going.

809
00:41:02.440 --> 00:41:05.800
Let let somebody know where your destination is or where

810
00:41:05.840 --> 00:41:08.519
you're going, especially you know your loved ones.

811
00:41:08.599 --> 00:41:11.079
If you're going to take a certain route, you know,

812
00:41:11.440 --> 00:41:12.840
just just the back of Hey.

813
00:41:12.760 --> 00:41:15.360
I'm gonna take this way to go because there's so

814
00:41:15.440 --> 00:41:18.000
many people missing now, so much stuff. You don't know

815
00:41:18.079 --> 00:41:20.639
what's what's real, what's not you know what's going on

816
00:41:20.760 --> 00:41:23.880
in areas, So always say I typically take this particular

817
00:41:23.960 --> 00:41:26.679
way that way, and if that's not, whay, I'm going

818
00:41:26.719 --> 00:41:30.119
to take this way. But keep somebody posted on where

819
00:41:30.159 --> 00:41:34.840
you're going. And this climate is it's scary, it's crazy.

820
00:41:35.199 --> 00:41:37.599
Lets someone knowing check in with people. And thank you

821
00:41:37.719 --> 00:41:40.920
trading in a Stasia for bringing that up. Last night

822
00:41:41.559 --> 00:41:45.039
I post reposted something on Facebook. They were talking about

823
00:41:45.119 --> 00:41:47.840
the fact that food stamp folk recipients.

824
00:41:47.599 --> 00:41:50.559
Will be getting a letter and some of you will be,

825
00:41:51.039 --> 00:41:53.679
you know, being taking off the list for foods. No

826
00:41:53.880 --> 00:41:56.440
for section eight. I'm sorry that food'stap section eight. So

827
00:41:56.519 --> 00:41:58.719
it's like, oh wow, and the person so sound the

828
00:41:58.760 --> 00:42:01.079
real serious. So I I was sending it to key

829
00:42:01.119 --> 00:42:03.800
people and the Holy Spirit a kid. You not said,

830
00:42:03.880 --> 00:42:07.039
check the messages, look at the comments. So I looked

831
00:42:07.039 --> 00:42:08.599
at the comments and they're like, no, this is fake,

832
00:42:08.679 --> 00:42:11.239
this is not happening. Yeah, you're not gonna get a

833
00:42:11.320 --> 00:42:12.199
letter on section eight.

834
00:42:12.239 --> 00:42:12.440
You're not.

835
00:42:12.559 --> 00:42:14.280
You can only it's not limited that you've been on

836
00:42:14.320 --> 00:42:16.559
this for two years, as said all God, So I

837
00:42:16.760 --> 00:42:19.760
went and deleted everything. I pray people are listening. Hey,

838
00:42:19.840 --> 00:42:24.800
elegant Jannis, Yes, amen, Amen, Amen, this is what we're

839
00:42:24.880 --> 00:42:28.480
here for. We set things straight. We dig up the myths,

840
00:42:28.760 --> 00:42:31.079
we dig up the lies, we dig up the conversation.

841
00:42:31.239 --> 00:42:34.480
Let's dissect it. Is it pertainable to everybody? Is it real?

842
00:42:34.559 --> 00:42:36.480
Like I just said, and I'm like, I just I've

843
00:42:36.559 --> 00:42:40.039
sent this to people so they feel incredible, and they

844
00:42:40.079 --> 00:42:42.199
may be thinking, oh my god, section eight is you

845
00:42:42.280 --> 00:42:46.840
know section eight. Don't be surprised because they're examining everything now,

846
00:42:47.159 --> 00:42:50.800
especially under the social service of Umbrella, from food stamps

847
00:42:50.840 --> 00:42:54.039
to snap. Everything is being and everything's gonna be revamped.

848
00:42:54.360 --> 00:42:57.159
Don't be surprised, don't be mad at it, because most

849
00:42:57.199 --> 00:43:00.280
of these services were for specific things and had a

850
00:43:00.559 --> 00:43:03.000
timeline on it, a deadline not for you to be

851
00:43:03.079 --> 00:43:05.280
killed on going out there getting pregnant every year so

852
00:43:05.400 --> 00:43:07.400
that you could get on all these benefits. That's what

853
00:43:07.519 --> 00:43:09.639
are you doing, what are you doing? And you can't

854
00:43:09.639 --> 00:43:12.559
afford everybody in the house. And then once they start

855
00:43:12.599 --> 00:43:14.639
pulling that carpet from that rug out from under you,

856
00:43:14.719 --> 00:43:16.599
what are you gonna do then? And you know family

857
00:43:16.719 --> 00:43:19.000
is not gonna help, They ain't gonna change. But be

858
00:43:19.079 --> 00:43:21.440
careful of what you're posting, what you're reading on social

859
00:43:21.559 --> 00:43:25.119
media because Facebook ain't all that. They ain't catching everything

860
00:43:25.639 --> 00:43:28.519
I said, ain't They're not, And then you look like

861
00:43:28.559 --> 00:43:31.559
the buffoon because it's wrong, and then they're gonna come.

862
00:43:31.800 --> 00:43:34.079
Facebook comes after you saying then you're spreading, you know,

863
00:43:34.880 --> 00:43:37.039
rumored information. And I'm like, well, I got it off

864
00:43:37.079 --> 00:43:39.920
of here. I got it off of here, so check

865
00:43:40.000 --> 00:43:43.199
the comments. I'm now this whole. I was checking comments.

866
00:43:43.239 --> 00:43:45.239
I said, oh no, I am I posting that, not

867
00:43:45.360 --> 00:43:48.079
posting it, not reposting it. But you still have to

868
00:43:48.199 --> 00:43:51.519
be aware of what's going on. You need to be

869
00:43:51.880 --> 00:43:55.599
downsize and budgeting, getting rid of junk, getting rid of things.

870
00:43:55.639 --> 00:43:58.760
I put my another piece of my medical equipment after

871
00:43:58.840 --> 00:44:01.679
seven years. I just had it in my bathroom just

872
00:44:01.760 --> 00:44:03.920
in case I needed and I looked at it. I said,

873
00:44:04.000 --> 00:44:07.440
I don't have room for this. I don't need this anymore.

874
00:44:07.719 --> 00:44:09.400
I put it out, watch it. I say, ain't nobody

875
00:44:09.480 --> 00:44:12.920
taking it anybody? Finally somebody took it. Just put it outside.

876
00:44:14.440 --> 00:44:16.840
You gotta do it. We gotta do it. So we

877
00:44:17.000 --> 00:44:20.760
love you so much. Our time is up. Please stay well,

878
00:44:21.360 --> 00:44:25.239
be well, stay safe, go the extra milet go out

879
00:44:25.280 --> 00:44:27.800
of the way. If you take the same route every

880
00:44:27.880 --> 00:44:31.000
single day, or in the evening or on the weekend,

881
00:44:31.400 --> 00:44:33.920
take a different route sometime, mix it up a little bit.

882
00:44:34.039 --> 00:44:38.000
You just don't know who's watching. Don't park by vans

883
00:44:38.079 --> 00:44:40.320
and white vans and things like that, even if you

884
00:44:40.480 --> 00:44:43.280
have to walk a little distance, and try not to

885
00:44:43.320 --> 00:44:46.320
go out at night if you can alone, if you can,

886
00:44:46.920 --> 00:44:49.639
try not to go out. And if these games, make

887
00:44:49.679 --> 00:44:52.280
sure you get on jackets and stuff thick enough. You

888
00:44:52.360 --> 00:44:55.159
know what they were doing in Europe last year people

889
00:44:55.199 --> 00:44:57.360
were getting stuck with needles and stuff like that. Didn't

890
00:44:57.360 --> 00:44:59.960
even know it and ended up going to the emergency room.

891
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:02.360
Didn't know what was going on. So make sure, you know,

892
00:45:02.400 --> 00:45:04.360
don't go out there, you know, just clack you know,

893
00:45:04.800 --> 00:45:08.119
all out, you know, no, put on a jacket, you know,

894
00:45:08.360 --> 00:45:10.679
and be careful people rubbing up against you and everything.

895
00:45:10.800 --> 00:45:13.159
Thank you, ladies for this information. L OK, thank you,

896
00:45:13.519 --> 00:45:16.280
Tennessee was in the house. We're out. I'm gonna say

897
00:45:17.039 --> 00:45:20.039
you know, farewell. We'll see you next time, same station.

898
00:45:20.559 --> 00:46:09.400
Be blessed now night night by pass.