Aug. 25, 2025

National Civility Month

National Civility Month

manners, civil behavior, respect, acts of kindness Setting It Straight w/ Ms. Gray is broadcast live Mondays at 7PM ET and Music on W4CY Radio...

manners, civil behavior, respect, acts of kindness

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We're good evening, good evening, good evening, and welcome to

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another fabulous night of dialogue and conversation and knowledge and education.

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Welcome to another segment of setting it Straight with Miss Gray.

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I have fabulous co hosts on here. You're gonna hear

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some things. We got a great topic tonight, got some

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great updates for you and all that jazz. So just

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stay tuned. But let us take it to the throne room,

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to the feet of Jesus Lord. We just love you

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so so much, and we thank you so so much

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for allowing us just to wake up every day up

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until today, up until today, we got to had a

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chance to make this day to be the most awesome time.

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Buy new things, completing deadlines, making new associates, getting new

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tasks and projects, just regaining our strength, just allowing us

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to take another breath, another exhil and we just thank

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you so much. We're always going to be careful to

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give you all the praise and glory forever for the

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rest of our days. That's the least we can do.

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That's the least we can do. So let's get behind

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the cross. Let's let you do what you do best,

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setting captives free, delivering people left and right, showing them

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that you will make a way out of nowhere. We

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love you so much. All this and more we ask

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in Jesus' name, We pray, ain't men, and ain't men,

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and ain't men? So God, is you just? I just

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can't I if I stop to praise you for just

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Tuesday of last week. Can every day be that good day? Yes,

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every day could be that good day. But you've got

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the purpose it. You've got the purpose it. You've got

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to say, Oh, I woke up this morning, I've got

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a new opportunity here. I can deadline some things, I

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can complete some task I can make a new list.

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I could do. I could start a new chapter, a

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new book. Rather because we keep adding chapters. Some of

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y'all got volumes. This big, bigger than a telephone book,

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and you just keep adding. But no, it's somewhere along

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the way you should have started a new book of

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your life, experiences and everything. So before we go any further,

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Hello pastor welcome back. How are you? How are you doing?

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I'm doing that is so true. Yes, off, And I'm

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wearing a shirt that someone very special gave to me.

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Very good. And you wear well, blue does look good

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on you, sir, Blue really does look good on you.

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You're much amen. Amen. Well, we're just glad to see

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I know Trey Head was in there come in the

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private chat, but hopefully she'll come back and join us.

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I hope things are well. I want to give a

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shout out to two businesses. One is my veterinarian they

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you know, they just really blessed me today. We had

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to do a little unscheduled to visit. They fitted us

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in and the first thing one of the texts said

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to me was, we just enjoy Jazz. We love her.

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She's one of the most well behaved German shepherds that

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we have. So yes, we want to get her in,

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we want to keep her healthy, but we always love

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to see her. And she's you know, she she listened

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to commands and things like that. And then when they

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I also included a nail trim and they trimmed her

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and said how was she because there was other dogs

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in there and they were just barking, yelping, and she

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they said, she just laid down. We have the ability

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to write the pages of our story. Yeah, Mickey's your story.

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It's your story. If you read any of my books,

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it's my story. It's my version, it's my testimony. Yeah,

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but it includes other people. So I give them, you know,

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their rightful praise, but it's my story, you know. And

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so getting back to the bat, they just like, you know,

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she is well behaved, she she's good. Just we've probably

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got some allergies going on here. So I'm very protective

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of my little baby and I want her to be

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the best that she can be. I don't want her

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in pain. I don't want her suffering and things like that.

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So they that just really did my heart good because

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there's some other things going on and I needed to

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hear that to then I told, you know, I put

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my hand on my heart and said thank you. I

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needed to hear that today. Love the fir babies. That's

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Anastasia and that was great. And then of course the

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dog training company itself, Perfection is here in the Orlando area.

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We've got folks coming from Daytona, Deltona, you know, cities

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surrounding cities to be to participate in this like seven months,

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seven to nine month training program. It's really serious and

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they do the job. We could walk away way today.

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We can walk away today. I've got my prayers have

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been answered already because I've got the BA I've got

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the the the dictionary, the wording, i got the training

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commands down, I've got surplus, I got you know, uh equipment.

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I got the hardware to make help my baby be

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the best that she can be. So we can walk away.

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I don't need the bells and other bells and whistles

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that do come along with it. I didn't get into

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it for that. I got into to train her so

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no matter where God sends me, I could bring her

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along with me and I know that she will behave

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and she's she's there, she's there and you know, I'm

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just so thankful and that she's healthy, wealthier and wise. Amen.

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I'm still gonna try to talk to some of my

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sheriff deputies and see if I can, you know, get

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her on the payroll over there. And uh, just she's

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she's used to be a suited up, so uh I

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get her best to see how that goes. But anyway,

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so I wonder again care Vets and also Perfection, and

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they're getting ready to gear up for a whole new

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training class starting in mid September. So give them, you know,

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give them a shout if you're interested, if you're nearby

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and you have a little dog. And that's one thing

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the technician at the Vets said. She goes, I don't

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understand especially any dog, really, she said, but these dogs

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are the train The owners are not trying to train them,

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just basics. You know, they're jumping all around and everything else,

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and they're all over the place and you know, we

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can't control them. And I was like, really, yeah, she said,

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And now that you've told us the Jazz is in training,

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she was already good, you know, but she's really received

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the difference in her So I'm just thankful for that

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and when you got good people around you know, that's

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carrying and everything. It's really good and it's so funny.

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But tonight our topic is on you know, civility, and

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hang on just a second and we get back to that.

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So I can said exactly, you know, and stability. I'm

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gonna go over that, but I also it's gonna lead

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me into something else as well, So be patient. It's

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National Civility Month acts and that means acts of respect

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and good manners and consideration all the year long. So

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that's where we're going with this because we're gonna need to.

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We're gonna need to. There are things that life is

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getting ready to roll out. We've got one of the lead.

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The more you bring them around people, the more they

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get used to used to the people they get. Wait,

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the more you bring them out around people, the more

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used to people they get. Correct. That is correct, especially

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if you have a house dog. If you have a

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house dog, you got to get them out in public

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so the day can be able to She's not worried,

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she's fine with people. It's other dogs and she don't

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forget stuff. There was a dog. There was a dog

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owner who stepped on her tail from another group. She

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don't forget that, and so any time she's seeing this

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person coming close, she's reacting. And I think I shared

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with you early on. I did not know. My baby

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boy looked this up that when he was doing his

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research on German shepherds that she's her type. Her breathe

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full blooded one hundred one thousand percent is known as

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an aggressive greeter. An aggressive greet So, yeah, she jumps

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up on you, so of course you're gonna shrink away.

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But she's really hotails waggon, you know, and she's she's

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she's looking at you, but she's she's got an issue

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with other dogs she you know, so they're training her.

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Other dogs have to come around me. And that was

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kind of cute. And Jaz was like, yeah, yeah, I

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see him and I'm looking at mine. Mind you all right,

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you know, But it's it's I'm learning a lot. We've

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got a plethora of information ranging from critters that crawl

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on them to their K nine teeth and all that

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kind of stuff. It's not just somebody you know you

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got to meet once a week or whatever. Hey, tray tray,

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tray tra. I'm just giving a shout out to two vendors,

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two of my merchants to my character part of my

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family team and my bet and Perfections a training company.

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So just doing that. But yeah, tonight we're talking about civility,

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how you need to be acting. We just had an

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incident over the weekend in a controversial neighborhood. On top

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of that with the deputy shot the person, the homeowner

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that was calling for help. Civility. I don't understand that one.

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I never will understand it. We've got death all around us,

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we got shootings. I don't think it was a fatal shooting,

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but you know, I think we needed we got to

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go back to some basics. Now, you got to go

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back to the training board and understand. But let me

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tell you what civility means. It's the act of showing

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regard for others by being polite, like the civility you

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showed in speaking kindly to someone who has hurt your feelings.

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Civility comes from blacklist, meaning relating to public life, befitting

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a citizen. In other words, being friendly and nice to everybody.

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And that is a hard one. That's hard, especially when

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somebody has hurt you, when somebody has stepped on your foot.

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Somebody takes their shopping cart and roll over your foot

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when they accidentally bump you, or somebody in you know where,

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a car accident situation, when your feelings are hurt. Your

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feelings are hurt and it's hard to bounce back. I

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know some great people who are good at that and like,

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oh no, But I also know some people say, oh no,

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it's okay, and then they talk about your body at

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the next Christmas gathering. Other things. You remember a little bit,

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did we tell you not to bring that stream Beingcastle North?

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You thought we were joking. No, nobody's gonna eat that,

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you know, you know, you gotta listen to those things.

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Somebody looking at you. But when that scirt. I like

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the way you dressed, but I don't understand it ain't

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that old. You know. I've been able to get away

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with some stuff. I have trade laugh, laugh, trade to

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go think, oh lord, don't let me have to get

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on a plane. Get on the next plane. But you

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know people do that, people like you know, you know,

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and we're not being nice to one another. Now, Oh

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oh no, come back, trade, please come back there you are,

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that's all okay, But you know, okay, you know I

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just you know, it's being kind and right now. If

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we have ever needed to be kind and respectful of

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one another, despite our differences, despite my opinions, despite your

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opinion onions, despite my faith preferences, despite your faith preferences,

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if we ever needed it, we need it now. We

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need it now. And there's a lot more going on,

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and just around the corner. September is next week. It

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starts Monday. We're in a whole new month. We've got

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some celebrations, some holidays that we need to we're gonna acknowledge,

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and everything else that needs to roll out for the

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remaining of this year is getting ready to roll PI

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Mens flying by, Yes, ma'am, Anna Stasia it is. It's

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not waiting for nobody. And how productive are you? What

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are you doing with the time that you have every

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minute of the day. I you know we're gonna I'm

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gonna jump around a little bit, so hosts, you know,

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please be patient with me this weekend. Well, last month

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I went to storage and went to pay my bill.

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That's the only day I have because I'm storing these

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books that I received from a publishing company because I

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can't get them to Africa, like we've been doing, and

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all of a sudden they went up like thirty dollars

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and I'm like, wait, no, what what what? And they're like, yeah,

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you know, And I said, no, I've never been in

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this environment before with storage. It's been years, but I

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don't recall it jumping month and month like that. They said, well, yeah,

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that's what we do. I said, oh, I said, that's

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why everybody's back. The line was backed up. People were

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coming in and out getting their stuff and close of

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those units. So I said, okay, God, this was something

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I didn't really look forward to doing. And I'm like, okay, Lord,

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do I bring them to the house or do I

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take them to my office building. If I take them

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to my office building, I got to cut the air

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condition on and let it run because the books cannot

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be in a heated situation environment. And I'm going back

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and forth. So then I said, you know what, that's it.

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I got to get to this because I have it

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until before the twenty sixth of this month. To get

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it done. I'm I got to pay that high fee

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again and I don't have the money to do that.

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So I got my son, and I mean I had

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to push myself to do this, even though I know

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it has to be done. And I said, well, Lord,

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what door do He said, donate them to your good will?

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I said, okay, he said, just split them up between

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Salvation Army and Goodwill. I've got a good will will

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right around the corner. Literally. So I went and we

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got the first batch of books. Well, I thought it

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was twelve boxes. It really looked like twelve boxes, but

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it ended up being thirty boxes. I don't know how

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I missed, but it looked like the way we stacked it,

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it was just twelve boxes, and it was thirty boxes.

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And I went, I took the firs. We got to

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jump on giving. We have. We made it, donated twice

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and have more coming. Amen. Okay, nice? Nice? And so

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I went and got a nice young lady at the

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place and I was like, so do you all accept

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children's books? Was the first thing, and she said, yes, ma'am,

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we do. I said, now, explain where I got them

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from and everything. And I said, I've got several boxes,

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and I didn't count how many books were in each box,

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and so she I said, but they've got a censor

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on it. But then so I looked at it. It's

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just a bar code. And I was able to take

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the bar code off, and I'm like, God, if I

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got to go through these boxes the books and take

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this sent the bar code off, oh my god, I'm

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gonna be here all day. And I just peeled it

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off and God said, no, take it. Let her know.

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So she said, well, let me take it to my supervisor.

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I said, my manager. I said, okay, great. So she

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takes it and she comes back. She goes, we'll take them.

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I said, huh, she goes, we'll take them and we'll

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take care of the bar code. I said, okay. So

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we my sons started any little buggy thing, and I'm like, this,

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this is what you got? You think this gun because

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I don't know. So we opened up a box and

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I counted how many books were in this particular box,

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and it was seventy five books in one box. So

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we're trying to keep up with it. We dropped off

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the first night seventeen boxes. Then we dropped off another

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seventeen boxes, and then the last were nineteen boxes, seventy

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five books each kind of told thirty nine hundred books.

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Our local well just got. And the young lady was

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so kind. She was so sweet, I said, she goes, Yeah,

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I've got a coworker that wants she always come by

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and she asked she come down, and she said, do

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you have any more children's books? I said, oh, just

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tell her back of car up. Now. You ain't even

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got to put several of those boxes out. I don't

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know what she did them for. And this is what's

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going to get you, I said, got me. The Lord

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had already told me when by the time I was

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making my second trip back, the plants a seed for

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her and I said, I don't know what. I don't

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know what made her think. I was going to give

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her cash, but she said I can't accept cash. She said,

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but if you have a book you could put it in.

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That is a big donation. Miss Yes. And I was

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able to go to the front and nobody was in

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there at that break. I called it one hundred them. No,

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we closed in the unit. It's done. Ain't nothing in them,

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you know. They're like, oh, okay, we got you, got

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checked this out. Okay, we got you. I can hear it,

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make it all this, we got you. It's already done.

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I said, okay, thank you so much. So the young

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lady said to me, She said, but I can't you know,

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I can't accept cash. I said, oh, my problem. And

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then she said, well, if you got a book, and

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I think she was trying to be she was being funny, right,

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but if you got a book, you know you want

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to put something in there, you know. I said, oh, boy,

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do I have a book? And I just loaded up

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some of my new books in my little travel by

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the bag and I planted to see and I asked her,

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I said, the Lord wants me to ask you what

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bill needs to be paid today? Wow? And she said,

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you that this is good? Make you laud she said

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my storage bill.

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I was.

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And so I said, do you know how much of this?

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She goes, No, I don't. She said. I said, would

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you mind calling them? She goes, we yeah, they're across

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the street. And I'm like, okay, well could you call

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them and just to get a you know, God already

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told me what to give. So I was already getting

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my book out and I was just doing a little

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autograph and she came back. She said, was it's my

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husband's name and they won't give it to me on

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the phone. But the guy said, you could give them

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a call and he'll tell you. Okay, you ain't gonna

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tell them. I didn't even try to pursue that. I said,

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you ain't gonna tell that's the wife, but you're gonna

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tell me. So But anyway, I said, never mind. You know, God, God,

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that's fine. Don't worry about it. God's got this. Trust

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me handing her my book we made Once we made

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the last drop off, which was nineteen boxes of books,

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and she said wow, and another coworker came out because

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they couldn't believe it. So they were helping, you know,

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they just pushed the card in and stuff. So anyway,

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I said, you all to do whatever you need to.

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These books are, you know, pretty outdated, but these are

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the second This is the original copies, second copy of

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all the originals of this from this publisher company. They

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have the originals in their vault even though they've gone digital.

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But this is, you know, and I hope it will

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help somebody. She's, oh, it's gonna help, you know, So

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I don't know how that's gonna look. I was tickled,

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I was blessed, I was thankful, but the fact that

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here I am trying to empty out storage and she

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needed to pay a storage bill. And I was like,

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you know, cause first I was just gonna treat everybody

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to lunch or whatever. And I said, now, I ain't

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got done for that. Guy said no, just give her

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the seed. And I said, yes, sir, and so seed offering.

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That's how that works. God tells you what to do,

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You do it. You don't want the hots coming back,

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You don't wonder what, you don't want to nothing, You

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just and next thing I know, I think I've shared

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with you or I belonged to two grant clearinghouses for grants,

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and it was so funny. Over the weekend after this happened,

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I get an email saying, you know, you have about

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six thousand matches of grants that we qualify for six thousand.

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I said, oh, okay, I need to do some homework

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and let me look into that. So, you know, but

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being nice, and she was smiling, and she was just

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so she was just so nice and you know, very

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just shy, and and I prayed that minister to her.

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I didn't have to go in there with, you know,

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with a big old Bible and a big old cross

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on and all that. Of course I had my you know,

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my my bracelets. But you know I didn't go, oh

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the Lord tell me no, no, no, it don't it.

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Don't take all of that. If you don't look like

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a child of God, then you have to go back

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to the threshing floor. You don't have. Jesus never defied

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himself unless somebody pushed them, like and you know, hey, Peter,

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who you say I am? Matthew? Who y'all y'all been

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whirling with me for a minute. Who do you say

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I am?

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Well?

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You you're well? Okay, I see. If I was a disciple,

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I'll be like, okay, he going with the trick questions. Now,

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if we go to have pop quiz, what was it?

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I couldn't have been a disciple. I've been like uh

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uh uh. But they said you are, this is who

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you are. And many people still wanted to say, oh,

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you belong to John, or you belong to Paul or

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you you know, even the demons the spirits say you

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know Paul, Jesus, I know Paul, I know, But who

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y'all talking to the disciples? So dark can identify light

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and you don't have to say a word, but you

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have to be living this out. I'm gonna pause right here.

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Let my faithful too over here, you know, come on

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in and chime in what's on your mind about civility

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and whatever's on your mind, and then I'm gonna pick

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it back up.

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Go well, I one of the things that you kind

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of touched on, Ms. Gray, and I really think that

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that's something that we've we've kind of gotten away from it,

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and that is what what does it take be nice?

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You know, we we seemed to know when I'm gonna

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find us, but we're we don't know when we've offended

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somebody else. And it's a matter of trying to determine

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who's going to be the right one, who is in,

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who is in the who has all the rights, and

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determining who does And it really kind of makes you

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wonder when when did this really all start to happen?

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When when did we become uh the experts of determining

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who is being disrespectful and who's being respectful. It's it's

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something that uh, even as as the dad raising my

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two sons, you know, it was always like, well he

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disrespected me, and I'm like, well, what does respect have

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to do with it? No, we have to be kind

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towards one another. A lot easier said than done. How

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how hard is it to be respectful? In my Bible studies?

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I kind of confess that last Tuesday kind of lost

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it with a customer service. And I got back from

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my trip from Missouri and I was trying to organize

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my trip to Europe for next year, and I was

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going to use a particular credit card and it said

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that I only had forty five dollars available credit. So

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naturally I go into a panic because I'm like, wait

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a minute, this card has a whole lot more to it. Well,

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come to find out, I went to make the reservations.

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When I submitted the reservation request, it came back and

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told me that the systems were down. Well I'm to

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find out that I did that four times. Well, naturally,

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you don't think about it. Then when I called the

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bank and I said, hey, did you lower my credit

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limit because it says that I've got forty five dollars

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available credit, they told me no, mister lamerena, you you've

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got four holds pulling thirteen thousand dollars. I was like,

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excuse me. So they told me that I need to

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call the cruise company, and I called the crew company

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and they wanted to play ping pong, and they said, well,

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you need to call your financial company. And then I

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went back and called the cruise company and went back

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to the financial company until I got a hold of

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a cruise person and I was just absolutely it's because

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nobody really wanted to listen. Nobody wanted to understand what

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was going on. They were too busy quoting protocols. Nobody

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really wanted to take the time to explain it till

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I got a gentleman from England Customer Service and he,

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when after I canceled the card, said well, in the future,

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you don't really want to cancel it because of the hole.

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All you have to do is call us and tell

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us that you don't authorize it in the hole will

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drop off the next day. But two hours went by,

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two hours of my life went by, and all it

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took was one person with the right information that would

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have diffused the whole thing. So times we need to

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step back, to step back and say, Okay, I'm losing

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my cool. I don't want to lose my cool with

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the other person. Can I be different. It's not their fault.

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00:26:13.759 --> 00:26:16.359
They're just telling telling me what they've been trained to do.

464
00:26:16.960 --> 00:26:20.880
Nobody really wants to listen, and I'm finding out that

465
00:26:20.880 --> 00:26:23.559
that is, uh seems to be the biggest challenge because

466
00:26:23.599 --> 00:26:27.319
everybody hears, but they don't listen. And and that's where

467
00:26:27.319 --> 00:26:30.200
it really begins, because if you're hearing something, you may

468
00:26:30.279 --> 00:26:32.960
hear something and take it out of context and all

469
00:26:32.960 --> 00:26:34.440
of a sudden like, well what do you mean by that?

470
00:26:34.799 --> 00:26:37.119
And and all of a sudden the defense goes up.

471
00:26:37.680 --> 00:26:39.599
Person are like, hey, calm down, I didn't mean it,

472
00:26:39.640 --> 00:26:41.920
you know, and then before you know, it goes into

473
00:26:42.000 --> 00:26:46.160
a full blown thing. So and and that's why, that's

474
00:26:46.200 --> 00:26:50.359
why we really have to, as James thought, be quick

475
00:26:50.400 --> 00:26:54.519
to listen, slow to anger, and and and that that

476
00:26:54.519 --> 00:26:58.640
that is so true because we have two ears in

477
00:26:58.680 --> 00:27:01.559
one mouth, so we be listening twice as much and

478
00:27:01.680 --> 00:27:05.359
talking less. And that's why we need to really focus

479
00:27:05.400 --> 00:27:08.119
on what's it gonna take for me to be different

480
00:27:08.160 --> 00:27:10.559
from the other people. No one wants to take the

481
00:27:10.599 --> 00:27:14.359
time to help correct you, missy. You thank you, mickey.

482
00:27:14.799 --> 00:27:17.039
And that's that's that's just how it looks. And you know,

483
00:27:17.200 --> 00:27:19.720
and and and also that falls under the acts of respect.

484
00:27:20.039 --> 00:27:23.680
You're respecting the other person, Hesus said, new commandment. I

485
00:27:23.720 --> 00:27:27.519
give you love, love your neighbor as I have loved you.

486
00:27:28.039 --> 00:27:30.720
That way, the world will know you are my disciples.

487
00:27:30.720 --> 00:27:33.440
But if we're confessing to be disciples, and we need

488
00:27:33.480 --> 00:27:35.880
to be the example Kingdom.

489
00:27:36.119 --> 00:27:39.720
Amen, Amen, Trey. I mean it's it's so true.

490
00:27:39.960 --> 00:27:42.680
I passed this piggyback, and I'll say it all the

491
00:27:42.720 --> 00:27:46.599
time that people here and don't listen. Listening takes a

492
00:27:46.640 --> 00:27:52.599
lot more attention. That's a good point, Charles, thank you.

493
00:27:53.799 --> 00:27:57.680
It's you know, just listening and I'm trying to. Just recently,

494
00:27:57.799 --> 00:28:00.680
there was almost talking to one of my friends that

495
00:28:01.319 --> 00:28:05.119
issue that she had at work, and it was something

496
00:28:05.200 --> 00:28:08.720
she was trying to help with her staff, and so

497
00:28:09.279 --> 00:28:12.319
one part was an HR issue, the other part was

498
00:28:12.319 --> 00:28:15.759
a finance issue, and so they were going back and forth,

499
00:28:16.119 --> 00:28:18.839
now you do this, you do that, but end up

500
00:28:18.880 --> 00:28:23.759
falling back on her who's neither finance nor HR. And

501
00:28:23.920 --> 00:28:29.119
so it's like, wait a minute now, and neither one

502
00:28:29.400 --> 00:28:33.680
was willing to bend to assist. Now falls on somebody

503
00:28:33.720 --> 00:28:37.079
that's not qualified in either one of those areas, and

504
00:28:37.160 --> 00:28:41.319
so you know, that's disheartening. You know, what do you

505
00:28:41.400 --> 00:28:46.119
do in a situation like that? And so but people

506
00:28:46.319 --> 00:28:50.880
they I don't know this. I don't know if it's

507
00:28:50.880 --> 00:28:52.759
the client, I don't know what it is. But I

508
00:28:52.799 --> 00:28:55.200
see a lot of belittling and.

509
00:28:56.720 --> 00:28:58.000
No or little.

510
00:28:57.720 --> 00:29:02.039
Regard for other people's feelings or how they're going to

511
00:29:02.079 --> 00:29:06.079
affect that. It's a lot, and it's coming from places

512
00:29:06.079 --> 00:29:09.400
where it should not, you know, it should not come.

513
00:29:09.480 --> 00:29:13.359
And so I try to be what I want the

514
00:29:13.480 --> 00:29:16.759
change I want to see, you know, being cordial to people,

515
00:29:16.839 --> 00:29:19.240
greeting them. You know, you never know what type of

516
00:29:19.319 --> 00:29:23.160
day someone's having. But that be littling and name calling.

517
00:29:23.279 --> 00:29:27.000
And I don't like it. I really don't like it.

518
00:29:27.319 --> 00:29:29.880
And I don't know where we got that from. I

519
00:29:29.880 --> 00:29:32.200
don't know where it's coming from or how we got

520
00:29:32.240 --> 00:29:34.519
to the point where we're doing that. Now, this is

521
00:29:34.559 --> 00:29:37.319
what we're doing. And so when you're trying to raise

522
00:29:37.440 --> 00:29:40.400
children who see grown folks acting like this, what do

523
00:29:40.440 --> 00:29:42.359
you say to them It's okay to do this.

524
00:29:42.799 --> 00:29:43.799
Oh, it's all right.

525
00:29:43.640 --> 00:29:46.480
Because you're this, or it's all right because you're that

526
00:29:47.319 --> 00:29:50.640
little little doesn't hurt anybody, you know it. And it

527
00:29:50.680 --> 00:29:55.359
trickles into to the places of worship, but it trickles

528
00:29:55.400 --> 00:30:00.000
into places where you work you know, school it tricks

529
00:30:00.400 --> 00:30:02.279
and so you have now you know, you might have

530
00:30:02.640 --> 00:30:05.680
start creating these things that oh whatever, long as I

531
00:30:05.720 --> 00:30:07.880
get what I have to say off my desk, I

532
00:30:07.880 --> 00:30:11.079
don't care who it effects. And that is so so

533
00:30:11.079 --> 00:30:13.039
so sad, it really is.

534
00:30:13.559 --> 00:30:17.440
So Yeah, we got to it, Like I said, I

535
00:30:17.480 --> 00:30:22.079
think again, twenty twenty didn't people didn't learn some valuable

536
00:30:22.200 --> 00:30:26.160
lessons from twenty twenty where you could not go anywhere,

537
00:30:26.640 --> 00:30:28.839
you had to deal with the people in your house,

538
00:30:29.559 --> 00:30:32.119
just that, not even go outside to deal with your neighbors.

539
00:30:32.119 --> 00:30:33.839
You had to deal with the folks you lived with.

540
00:30:34.119 --> 00:30:36.000
But you know, no matter how much we show people

541
00:30:36.039 --> 00:30:38.200
how we would like to be treated, not everyone gets

542
00:30:38.240 --> 00:30:39.880
it where they don't want to Mickey, I was getting

543
00:30:39.880 --> 00:30:44.319
ready to go there because life now, life is has

544
00:30:44.359 --> 00:30:47.599
been tough for these past five years, and it's getting

545
00:30:47.599 --> 00:30:51.480
ready to jump and leap again with all this new creation,

546
00:30:51.920 --> 00:30:55.799
all this new technology. Folks go to work, the door

547
00:30:55.839 --> 00:30:59.759
is locked, pink slippers on the door, nobody's talking to anybody.

548
00:31:00.279 --> 00:31:02.880
One day you're open, the next day you're not. One

549
00:31:02.920 --> 00:31:05.200
day you're in a relationship, the next moment you're not.

550
00:31:05.799 --> 00:31:08.720
And then you're you know, you're you're using devices to

551
00:31:08.720 --> 00:31:12.400
to try to numb the situation instead of trying to

552
00:31:12.440 --> 00:31:15.920
figure out, Okay, what can I do? And for believers,

553
00:31:16.400 --> 00:31:20.039
we will we'll try to still try to figure out, Okay,

554
00:31:20.039 --> 00:31:21.559
I gotta do this, I gotta do that. I gotta

555
00:31:21.880 --> 00:31:24.039
and then I no, I have to stop and say,

556
00:31:24.039 --> 00:31:26.200
you know what, God, I can't do it. It was

557
00:31:26.240 --> 00:31:29.720
something today my mind said you should do this, and

558
00:31:29.759 --> 00:31:32.079
I said, no, I don't want to. I want God

559
00:31:32.119 --> 00:31:34.880
to do it because he gets a better result. I

560
00:31:34.920 --> 00:31:37.960
can't even pray it out. I want him to do it. No,

561
00:31:38.119 --> 00:31:41.000
I don't want to talking about flesh. My flesh is

562
00:31:41.039 --> 00:31:43.200
sitting there telling me what I should do. No, I

563
00:31:43.279 --> 00:31:46.480
don't want to, don't need to, because God has already

564
00:31:46.480 --> 00:31:48.200
showed me He's gonna take care of all of this

565
00:31:48.839 --> 00:31:52.200
and more. And that's why I really want our viewers,

566
00:31:52.680 --> 00:31:57.160
our ordinance to really make you know, continue to make

567
00:31:57.200 --> 00:32:00.680
the decision and continue to fight those of you who

568
00:32:00.880 --> 00:32:04.599
are fighting to hang on to believe in God, Jesus

569
00:32:04.759 --> 00:32:07.480
in the Holy Spirit. I need you to continue to

570
00:32:07.519 --> 00:32:11.599
do that because all it takes is one hurricane. All

571
00:32:11.640 --> 00:32:14.160
it takes is one earthquake, All it takes is one

572
00:32:14.279 --> 00:32:18.240
mass catastrophe and we can shut down any minute, and

573
00:32:18.279 --> 00:32:21.599
then what do we do. We've got food being recalled,

574
00:32:21.920 --> 00:32:26.240
products being recalled, and it's not going to get better.

575
00:32:26.920 --> 00:32:29.759
We're still in a society that likes to point fingers.

576
00:32:30.000 --> 00:32:31.839
But you know you got three pointing back at you.

577
00:32:32.319 --> 00:32:34.640
That's why I'm so glad that God pivoted me a

578
00:32:34.680 --> 00:32:37.799
while back, even before this happened to me. And to

579
00:32:37.920 --> 00:32:40.559
be at a problem solver. When I go to a meeting,

580
00:32:40.960 --> 00:32:43.519
or if I go to a town hall event, not

581
00:32:43.599 --> 00:32:46.400
to be why do they do what? No, not to

582
00:32:46.440 --> 00:32:48.839
be the judge and executioner, but come in. I'm a

583
00:32:48.880 --> 00:32:51.599
problem solver. We know what the problems are. So where

584
00:32:51.599 --> 00:32:53.680
we go? Which table shall I sit at? I need

585
00:32:53.720 --> 00:32:55.920
the folks who are here the for soution who are

586
00:32:56.000 --> 00:33:00.119
solution focused, because I don't need to I know, I

587
00:33:00.119 --> 00:33:03.240
don't need to rehear this. I've heard it already. Now

588
00:33:03.680 --> 00:33:06.480
Here is a possible solution if you're open to it.

589
00:33:06.880 --> 00:33:09.720
Now we're circling, we're coming out of that. They're not

590
00:33:09.759 --> 00:33:12.960
able to have those meetings anymore because we got folks

591
00:33:13.160 --> 00:33:19.119
in high positions or making other decisions and behaving unruly

592
00:33:19.640 --> 00:33:23.319
that we've elected into office, so they're not looking for

593
00:33:23.359 --> 00:33:26.119
the community to come with a resolution anymore. Now, this

594
00:33:26.200 --> 00:33:28.319
is what we're gonna do. We're going to tell you

595
00:33:28.359 --> 00:33:32.359
how to do this. Oh okay, oh okay. And that's

596
00:33:32.400 --> 00:33:35.200
where that anger. There was a guy I'm trying to

597
00:33:35.359 --> 00:33:39.400
get to I'm driving with my older son and my

598
00:33:39.960 --> 00:33:43.160
dog to the vet and I wasn't going fast enough

599
00:33:43.160 --> 00:33:45.480
for him. And he was in a white pickup truck

600
00:33:45.960 --> 00:33:47.599
just right on me. If I had opened up my

601
00:33:48.039 --> 00:33:49.880
hatch in the back, it would have scraped his hood,

602
00:33:50.279 --> 00:33:52.000
that's how close he was. And then he was doing

603
00:33:52.079 --> 00:33:54.480
all like that, and you know, I said, yeah, he's

604
00:33:54.480 --> 00:33:58.440
probably been vaping or he's under the influence of something literally,

605
00:33:58.839 --> 00:34:01.359
And then he cuts out real quick and it gets

606
00:34:01.400 --> 00:34:05.759
behind this tanker and he couldn't go nowhere with play

607
00:34:05.759 --> 00:34:08.039
with him, play with the tanker that can let the

608
00:34:08.079 --> 00:34:11.559
ooze out in a minute. And he had to ride

609
00:34:11.599 --> 00:34:14.760
with him to his next destination driving behind it. And

610
00:34:14.840 --> 00:34:17.119
so I look at it and I said, you know,

611
00:34:17.800 --> 00:34:19.760
not everybody need to be you know, And I was

612
00:34:19.760 --> 00:34:21.320
talking about I know, my son hears it all the

613
00:34:21.320 --> 00:34:23.480
time for me. I mean, people don't need to be

614
00:34:23.559 --> 00:34:25.920
under the influence anything. You're trying to make stuff legal.

615
00:34:26.119 --> 00:34:28.559
It doesn't make people. I know it's in your mind

616
00:34:28.559 --> 00:34:30.559
that it calms you down. If I get a drink,

617
00:34:30.559 --> 00:34:31.960
if I have a smoke, if I have a drag

618
00:34:32.039 --> 00:34:33.719
whatever that is, or if I take that, if I

619
00:34:33.719 --> 00:34:36.039
pop this pills gonna make me. No, it's gonna make

620
00:34:36.119 --> 00:34:39.320
you not be in charge of yourself. It's gonna cause

621
00:34:39.360 --> 00:34:42.360
you to be hearing something different. I may be saying, oh,

622
00:34:42.360 --> 00:34:44.840
I'm so sorry, Oh I got in front of you.

623
00:34:44.840 --> 00:34:47.440
You may hear something different because you're under the influence

624
00:34:47.519 --> 00:34:49.960
or something else, and you're ready to jump on me,

625
00:34:50.400 --> 00:34:54.599
you're ready to retaliate. All I'm saying is the profits

626
00:34:54.920 --> 00:34:58.639
have aligned folks who have the gift of prophecy. God

627
00:34:58.679 --> 00:35:02.320
has confirmed he's telling his people hold on. Just don't

628
00:35:02.320 --> 00:35:04.559
lose your faith in me. Don't let me go. But

629
00:35:04.639 --> 00:35:07.639
my Bible, my word has to fulfill itself. And I

630
00:35:07.679 --> 00:35:10.679
need y'all, the eight of y'all, the twelve of y'all

631
00:35:10.760 --> 00:35:14.559
faithful out there to promise us that you will hold

632
00:35:14.599 --> 00:35:19.159
on to God unlike ever before. Because between now Monday

633
00:35:19.159 --> 00:35:23.679
the twenty fifth and September first, a lot could happen,

634
00:35:24.079 --> 00:35:26.880
and I need you all to stay firm and steady

635
00:35:26.920 --> 00:35:29.159
because we will be on next Monday, it's Labor Day.

636
00:35:29.440 --> 00:35:32.480
We'll come back at you second Monday in the month

637
00:35:32.800 --> 00:35:36.159
to talk it through. I feel that the program, the

638
00:35:36.239 --> 00:35:38.519
podcast is going to take a shift. We're going to

639
00:35:39.079 --> 00:35:42.159
make it a turn now. So we're here to listen.

640
00:35:42.440 --> 00:35:45.000
We're here to pray for you. Don't be surprised what

641
00:35:45.119 --> 00:35:48.239
God has in store, but a shift has happened. Change

642
00:35:48.280 --> 00:35:50.840
is on the horizon. I don't have to know what

643
00:35:50.920 --> 00:35:53.639
it is. I know when God speaks, and I'm just

644
00:35:53.719 --> 00:35:56.880
ready because I know He's got some great things in

645
00:35:56.960 --> 00:35:59.599
store for his people. But you got to be careful.

646
00:36:00.039 --> 00:36:02.920
You got to be listening, willing to listen. We will

647
00:36:02.960 --> 00:36:06.159
be here for certain Thank you, y'all. You better be,

648
00:36:06.760 --> 00:36:09.719
You better be and continue to tighten up. I know

649
00:36:09.800 --> 00:36:12.360
you all have been praying for us, You're praying for

650
00:36:12.400 --> 00:36:14.639
each other. I need you, we need you to tighten

651
00:36:14.639 --> 00:36:16.519
that up. We sure we'll be here, thank you in

652
00:36:16.599 --> 00:36:19.079
the station. We need you to tighten that up even

653
00:36:19.119 --> 00:36:22.159
more to where it's not just oh, I thought about

654
00:36:22.199 --> 00:36:25.119
Pastor on, let me pray for him. No, like I'm

655
00:36:25.159 --> 00:36:27.440
going I'm paying, I'm praying for Pastor, I'm paying for

656
00:36:27.480 --> 00:36:30.079
the co hosts on Tuesday, and I'm not gonna stop

657
00:36:30.119 --> 00:36:32.679
until God tells me you're finished. That's the type of

658
00:36:32.719 --> 00:36:36.239
prayer we're talking, checking your prayer point list, making sure

659
00:36:36.280 --> 00:36:40.079
you got those prayers lined up and ready, studying your word. Ever,

660
00:36:40.159 --> 00:36:42.599
the more i get so tickled because I'm doing my

661
00:36:42.639 --> 00:36:45.239
one scripture and then I'm seeing all these other scriptures,

662
00:36:45.280 --> 00:36:46.920
I'm like, oh my god, we got I got to

663
00:36:46.920 --> 00:36:48.880
write it off my calendar for the next time. You know,

664
00:36:49.320 --> 00:36:52.960
I mean, my boys like okay, I say yes. I'm

665
00:36:52.960 --> 00:36:55.039
just so excited. I'm literally doing this. I'm just so

666
00:36:55.079 --> 00:36:58.639
exciting this word I found ten I thought, I know,

667
00:36:58.719 --> 00:37:01.679
I talked about this before the three years we've been

668
00:37:01.719 --> 00:37:05.280
on I found ten scriptures on how God views the widow.

669
00:37:05.679 --> 00:37:09.880
And I went through something this weekend thinking about my

670
00:37:10.039 --> 00:37:13.800
sister that that was also adopted, that I was raised with,

671
00:37:13.920 --> 00:37:17.880
that I'm not talked to since twenty seventeen and hearts

672
00:37:17.880 --> 00:37:21.280
and minds every day, Thank you, Missy. Every day y'all

673
00:37:21.280 --> 00:37:25.079
are with us. Thank you, Micky. And I thought about

674
00:37:25.119 --> 00:37:28.840
my biological mother, who I've not heard from or spoken

675
00:37:28.880 --> 00:37:32.480
to and well over a year, she can't even use

676
00:37:32.519 --> 00:37:35.079
a phone to say, hey, happy birthday. And I'm not

677
00:37:35.159 --> 00:37:39.679
forgotten because my older brother who's deceased, his birthday's August third.

678
00:37:40.079 --> 00:37:42.960
My birthday is August second. So I'm driving from the

679
00:37:43.079 --> 00:37:45.880
store and I'm just crying, and I'm like, why am

680
00:37:45.920 --> 00:37:49.480
I crying? But even the best of us have the

681
00:37:49.599 --> 00:37:53.760
moments where you think nobody cares, and then you ask

682
00:37:54.199 --> 00:37:57.599
what did I do to deserve us? And as I

683
00:37:57.639 --> 00:38:00.719
was getting home closer to the house, the voice of

684
00:38:00.760 --> 00:38:06.079
the Lord said to me, because you love me, Because

685
00:38:06.119 --> 00:38:09.920
you love me. They denied my son. They deny me,

686
00:38:10.519 --> 00:38:13.239
no matter how much they grace a church and they

687
00:38:13.280 --> 00:38:15.800
show up with every time the door is open. They

688
00:38:15.880 --> 00:38:20.079
denied my son, so they've denied you. And I could

689
00:38:20.119 --> 00:38:23.280
just feel him just holding me, and I sat in

690
00:38:23.320 --> 00:38:25.480
my garage for a minute til I got myself together

691
00:38:25.800 --> 00:38:28.920
because I got feelings too. They're relatives I don't talk to.

692
00:38:29.440 --> 00:38:32.320
What have I done to you? And again, guys like this,

693
00:38:32.840 --> 00:38:35.559
he said, you love me, and I love you. And

694
00:38:35.599 --> 00:38:37.880
I looked at God, I looked up into heaven in

695
00:38:37.960 --> 00:38:40.920
the sky and I say, You're all I need. You're

696
00:38:40.960 --> 00:38:43.920
all that I want. And if the day opens, if

697
00:38:43.960 --> 00:38:48.119
it's your will and they find my number, please help me, Lord,

698
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help me to let them see you and not me.

699
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And we're talking about civility tonight. My behavior, my actions,

700
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my words, my thought, my behavior, Let them see you. God,

701
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that's all I got. So it's good to be able

702
00:39:06.039 --> 00:39:09.159
to lay down your burden. It's good because you never

703
00:39:09.199 --> 00:39:11.360
know when it's gonna try to come and trip you up.

704
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You never know your subconscious I've told y'all it's one

705
00:39:15.760 --> 00:39:18.280
of your worst enemies. That's touching. Sorry, they don't see

706
00:39:18.320 --> 00:39:22.599
what they're missing. Oh, Missyve, don't make me cry. Thank you,

707
00:39:23.159 --> 00:39:26.000
love you, thank you so much. But I just want

708
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you to see we go through hours. You know, Pastor

709
00:39:29.000 --> 00:39:33.480
shed earlier customer service. You know I got him. I

710
00:39:33.719 --> 00:39:38.800
got him. He's better than me because I'm like, let

711
00:39:38.840 --> 00:39:41.960
me speak to you well, because y'all ain't listening to me,

712
00:39:42.239 --> 00:39:44.079
I don't know what your Oh. I would have had

713
00:39:44.119 --> 00:39:47.239
a whole sermon for him. You know, I would have

714
00:39:47.320 --> 00:39:49.960
hung up and discussed. I'm quitting these people. You know,

715
00:39:50.119 --> 00:39:53.760
I'm I'm subscribing. That's what I'm doing. But you know,

716
00:39:54.480 --> 00:39:58.880
hold on, stay focused, run this race. Let's run, and

717
00:39:59.079 --> 00:40:01.480
it's a race. And then times you you have to

718
00:40:01.519 --> 00:40:04.800
tap out, get some water, throw some water over your face,

719
00:40:05.360 --> 00:40:10.159
get some nourishment, even rest, even rest. And I said,

720
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go ahead, we got it. We'll take this next shift.

721
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You get some rest. He loves you all and he's

722
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just he just want you to trust him. Praying, Hey,

723
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O the K praying and I yes, amen, got to

724
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do it all right, guys, y'all, y'all close us out.

725
00:40:24.719 --> 00:40:27.159
We got three minutes. I'm gonna be quiet. I'm gonna

726
00:40:27.159 --> 00:40:28.440
truy well, I'm.

727
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Gonna say, man and let let let let pass to

728
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take it on.

729
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You know, I don't know where I could. I don't

730
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know where I could.

731
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You know, y'all got it.

732
00:40:38.639 --> 00:40:40.599
Well, I just appreciate everyone.

733
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But we appreciate you, Trey. We you know, we appreciate

734
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you and miss Grace. So one thing that h and

735
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I'll just time in here. Instead of your words remonstrating

736
00:40:54.760 --> 00:40:58.679
who you are, let your actions speak for you. You say

737
00:40:58.719 --> 00:41:03.480
you are kind, demonstrate your kind, Say you're merciful, say

738
00:41:03.519 --> 00:41:07.440
you're you know, demonstrate you're merciful. If you if you

739
00:41:07.519 --> 00:41:11.800
claim that you're under you that you are you're caring

740
00:41:12.400 --> 00:41:17.480
that your actions went straight? You're caring. It's that's that's

741
00:41:17.480 --> 00:41:20.840
what it really boils down to. You know. I I

742
00:41:21.239 --> 00:41:23.960
heard a message praying and listening with the Holy Spirit

743
00:41:23.960 --> 00:41:28.320
of guidance. Amen, I heard I heard a.

744
00:41:27.559 --> 00:41:30.960
That's another and I'm sorry another elder. That's another Tennessee

745
00:41:30.960 --> 00:41:31.920
and thank you Jane.

746
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I heard a sermon where if we have bought into

747
00:41:37.519 --> 00:41:41.280
the promise, have we bought into what God promised? That's

748
00:41:41.320 --> 00:41:45.559
that's a that was a very powerful message that was delivered.

749
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Because if we say we're Christians and we say we

750
00:41:48.960 --> 00:41:52.000
we we believe in God, So do you do? Did

751
00:41:52.000 --> 00:41:55.679
you really buy into the promise that God gave us

752
00:41:55.679 --> 00:41:58.360
that he would never leave us? Do you buy buy

753
00:41:58.440 --> 00:42:02.960
in the fact that He will never forsake you? Many

754
00:42:03.000 --> 00:42:05.960
times have we forsaken God? But He was always there.

755
00:42:06.440 --> 00:42:11.440
Let your actions speak. Words are cheap shin last rever

756
00:42:11.679 --> 00:42:14.760
because people will always say, I remember when so and

757
00:42:14.800 --> 00:42:17.800
so did this, when so and so said this? Where

758
00:42:18.239 --> 00:42:21.880
you get to reveal who you believe, who you trust,

759
00:42:22.239 --> 00:42:24.599
who you have sacrificed for me?

760
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Well, happy Labor Day, we have another month amongst us.

761
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You all be safe. We love you dearly. We take

762
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care and see you next in two weeks, same time,

763
00:42:36.079 --> 00:42:39.039
same station, Get it and not be

764
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Saves a pass a PA