Aug. 18, 2025

National Happiness Happens Month

National Happiness Happens Month

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Hallelujah, hallelujah. Anyhow, good evening, good evening, Welcome, welcome, welcome

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to one and all. Just setting it straight with Miss

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Gray and our fabulous co hosts. We're one co host

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down tonight. He's on vacation, so we're praying for safe

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travels and just having a good time. But before we

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go any further, let's pray, Father God. We just love

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you so much. Oh my God, I could just exhaling

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you be with your people tonight, use our voice to

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express what the message that you have for your people.

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We just thank you, Father God for your love and

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your saving grace and your mercy. None of which we deserve,

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none of which we deserve, but you give so willingly

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and so unselfishly, just because we're your children and you

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don't have no respective person. So tonight, Father God, have

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your way on like ever before, speak to your people.

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We get behind the cross. We love you so much.

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All this and more we ask in Jesus most holiest

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a holy name. Amen and amen. Well, thank you guys

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for joining us tonight. Where's my audience out there? Come on, viewers,

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tap in, let us know who's on who's on board

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with that?

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All right?

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Even at the gate, George, Charles, why do I keep

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calling you George? George must be talking about me anyway, Charles,

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thank you for at the gate. Thank you so much. Yeah,

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when somebody you accidentally call somebody else's name, they talking

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about you, you're on their mind for some reason. So

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there we go. But anyway, Yes, vacations can be fun.

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We're going to talk about that tonight. Uh just uh

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what it means. And again tonight this month we're celebrating

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National Happiness Happens Month, and we're gonna talk about happiness

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tonight and I'm gonna, I'm gonna, we're gonna get it.

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What does it mean to say when you stand behind

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the cross? I let the cross shows Jesus is on

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at this point, even though we've already titled the show

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for him, it could change because of what the audience needs.

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I don't know what y'all need tonight, but God knows,

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Jesus knows, the Holy Spirit, and I go accordingly to them.

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Thank you Charles for asking it. But yeah, I stand

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behind the cross. I'm not in front of the cross.

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We don't know nothing. We stand behind the cross. So

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I like to say that that that humbles me personally,

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that sets my direction, That tells my flesh to stand down.

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It's not about you. It's all about what God and

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his people and the message for his folks tonight. Thank you, Charles.

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I know other people were wondering, what does that mean.

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I appreciate that. Thank you so much. Oh he is

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on a roll tonight. Ain't many now, But anyway, how

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you doing this happened? Has just happened?

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Ah?

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Come on, Mickey, come on, you're getting ahead of it.

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That Mickey, you're getting ahead of it. Well, let me

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ask Tracy how she's been doing. See about her vacation.

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What she wants to share we're gonna.

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Keep this rolling.

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So, so, Trey, what was you. How's your weekend?

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Well, fantastic, really every day of it, just separating from

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work and spending time with family and friends, loved ones,

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just doing whatever the heck I wanted to do, you know,

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without having such a clock, and just rejuvenate and and

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meditate and pray and praise and just all of that.

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I needed that that we It made a different. It

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made a difference.

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Amen, that is so cool, because have you seen the

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new progression of progressive commercial Well she's asking her, so,

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what do you go on vacation? Goes, Oh, you mean

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when I sit in the truck and I she said no, no, no,

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she said, no, oh, when I have to answer calls

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and everything else and I sit this. I love it

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is so classic. But what is vacation?

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You know?

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What is that? And I watched people y'all seem happy.

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I feel happy coming through the radio at the same

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time we are. I mean, I don't know about table Trey,

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but a whole load has come off my shoulders. I

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went strategically. It wasn't so much a vacation. I have

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not flown in an airplane for twenty nine years twenty

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nine years. So I didn't eat anything or anything. I know,

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my medical people are upset with me because I said, nope,

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I'm not taking any chances. I'm going to be up

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in the air. I can't just get up. I don't

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want to cramp. I don't want my you know, I

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didn't want my flesh to you know, start cramping. I

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didn't want nothing, my feet to go numb, nothing. And

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I had to toy between what what kind of shoes

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do I take and things like that, and I need

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to be able to put on clothes by myself. My

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daughter went with me, but I don't like putting so

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much on me on her as a heavy load. So

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and I got on the plane. We had to get

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through that. Thank god, they asked you to if you

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need assistance, and so she's like, oh, yeah, you're gonna

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need assistance. And so from Orlando to our first stop

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because we had to take another plane because it's not

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a straight flight. Orlando treated me, you know, got the wheelchair,

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let's go, you know, and everything else. Got me right

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up to the door almost of the plane. Once we

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landed in North Carolina, there's a shortage at the airport

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So if you know anybody that works in Charlotte, North Carolina,

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you they need jobs at the airport. Their jobs has

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got to be because there was nobody hardly in sight.

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It was really kind of very It started that aggravation.

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You know. The flight leaving, I was just talking to

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God and I saw my angels show up, and I

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was breathing and everything else and trying not to hear

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the external noise of the plane, you know, going down

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the tarmac and everything. I don't remember the last time

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I got on a flight. Wow, miss DC. See I'm

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not I'm not alone. But I had to I had

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to add that up those years up. I had to

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go back. Let's see, it was not I was. It

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was in I was in AmeriCorps. And you know, I

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had to add all of Donald was one, you know,

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so twenty nine years ago, because he's gonna be thirty

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one in October. So the flight people were nice and

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and everything, but like I said, when we landed in Charlotte,

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I don't know, I don't know. They were unhappy. I'm

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talking about the staff. They were angry. One person was nice.

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The man that checked us in. The person that checked

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us in, he was nice and friendly and and but

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and he was a little funny and stuff like that.

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But it was just like everybody else was like, whoa,

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what a day. I mean, it's like we knew where

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their mindset was and that was kind of they were

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talking out loud. Then we went on to our destination,

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which was Tennessee and uh once again, uh it seemed

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like they forgot uh to see the assistance checked off there.

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It's just well, people are not happy and it's so funny.

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I don't know if I mentioned it to my daughter then,

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but I said, Monday Night show us about happiness, and

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you know, I got the print in it up. I

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can't make this stuff up. You know, it's a sad day.

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It's a sad day because people are miserable. They were

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rushing and you know, and hustling and bustling and and

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you and and people brought their issues inside the store,

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inside the restaurants, inside the whole tel. You can you

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just I just I didn't want nobody to pull out,

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you know, and start, you know, laying hands on folks.

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I just wanted to just kind of let me get

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to my room. Can I get to my room? The

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hotel was just getting up on the sidewalk to walk

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into the hotel. It's about a twelve inch sidewalk here

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from the street, and I'm like, what am I supposed

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to do with that? And I'm like, oh God, thank

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god my daughter was here, you know, with me, because

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somebody would have had to help me to get up

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on the sidewalk just to walk into the hotel. And

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it was all downtown. They're not meeting eighty eight requirements.

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And I don't know whose job that it is, but

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that sidewalk has been there forever and it's you know,

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but you know, people, you know, the staring does nothing

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to me, but you know, just getting in. I went

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there to achieve, first to get on the plane for

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the first time and to really be able to conquer

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that just in case we have to flee Florida. And

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then also I had some work that I needed to

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do by p per God, and it went really well.

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And as I'm coming back again, Tennessee was like they

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didn't want on the wheelchair piece of it. And then

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got to Georgia, I mean to North Carolina, and I

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didn't expect I mean, and they were all the folks,

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the staff that's supposed to do the wheeling. They're all

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in and you know, sitting there laughing and everything. And

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you got people who useful that wheelchair is ready for

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them to get and get them and you standing there

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and all that. So the North Carolina's not doing well.

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Charlotte's airport is not doing well, not doing well. And

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finally got a young lady and she was wheeling and

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dealing and so to get me to our plane because

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we only had twenty some minutes, and they changed the gates.

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They kept changing the gates while we were there waiting.

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I think in North the folks that got off of

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North Carolina. We were in North Carolina and his husband

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and wife and new baby. They're like, yeah, we had

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to take the other plane. We took somebody's plane because

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they had to order the door for the plane. The

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door became loose or something, and they had the land

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and get them all off the plane and put them

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on another plane. So our plane became I was like, wow,

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y'all ordered the door and that was being flown in

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that is. We can't make this up. I told the gentlemen,

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I said, you need it's a good book. Good evening.

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Stephanie with the City Stephanie with the city. Hey, okay,

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And so I was just like, y'all floated flying in

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the door. What about our airplane? And now we got

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all these people that have to transfer and get on

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our plane and stuff, and to get get us to Tennessee.

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Everybody was going to Tennessee. They were going there. They

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weren't going down places, so there was another flight, but

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they all had to get and I'm messing some some

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of the passengers were fom but others was just they

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just walked right in front of the wheelchair. I mean,

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and my people were going they were just we gotta go.

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And they were They weren't saying excuse me, they say

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ooh nothing. They were like, okay, you hit her, Okay,

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that's just you. Just we're gonna bump into you. People

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were on their phones on their phones. It wasn't like

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they were looking for their flight, because the people were

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telling you where to go overhead, but they were talking

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to people and just walking right in front of you,

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just walking right in front of each other. Oh excuse me,

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oh excuse me. If I mean, if it hadn't been

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for the Lord on my side, I tell you. But

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we met on back and again, like I knew North Carolina, well,

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you know, being at the Tennessee Airport and then North Carolina.

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I knew when I landed in Orlando, wheelchair God was

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right there. I already know about. They came down to

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the plane door to get me, and it made everybody

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say okay. I no, y'all in a hurry, but chill

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because she's priority, I said, And we're very courteous and everything.

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The young man took me to the baggage. He said, no, ma'am,

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you wait right here. Tell me what your baggage look like.

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I mean, he went, you know, he did not have

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to do that. I said no, and he wielding outside.

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I said, okay, it's good. Our transport is going away,

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so we're good. So let's talk about happiness. Now, let's

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talk about happiness not The definition of happiness is a

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state of well being and contentment. Joy, joy okay, a

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pleasurable or satisfying experience, wishing you happiness in life and

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and felicity and aptness, a striking happiness of expression and

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good fortune. Prosperity uh oh. Definition number three. Prosperity, money

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and happiness is connected a sense of wealth, a sense

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of managing money management. There's a connection and I you know,

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and some of the synonym words of felicity, fitness, propriety, rightness, uh, suitability,

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you know, but people are not happy. I've been answering,

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I'm a I am. I answer a lot of survey

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still and one is you dot gov a lot and

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I've been with them for years. And you can your rewards,

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you can redeem your points and stuff like that from

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anything from Adidas to Amazon to you know, oh, cash

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in your bank account. And the latest one is, you know,

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do you think the world is happy? Do you think

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the world's in a better place right now? And I'm

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like no, And my choices were, is the world in

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a prevention mode or is it intervention mode? Or is no?

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We're in crisis. We've been in crisis since I'd say

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twenty twenty. For me, it was it was before that too,

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but twenty twenty really just sucker punched us all. And

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that's just my opinion. But yeah, I was answering that

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survey actually today and I was like, no, we're in

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crisis and we're gonna be here for a while because

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now it's it's just time is winding up. It's like

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that volcano is bubbling over it. It's time. It's time.

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And people who are mistreating people, people who are not

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saying speaking good will towards people, and people who are

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judging people. Uh, people who are pointing fingers at people,

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people who are lying. And I'm not talking about in politics.

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I'm talking about your neighbor. I'm talking about somebody you

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know who owe you money and they lying to the government.

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All kinds of things, all kinds of things, and everything

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is sporadic now everything you you know, you got to

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be very careful. You got to be extremely careful now,

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you know, and you've got to be watchful. But what

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is happiness to you? What is happiness for me? Years ago,

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I wanted everybody to be happy. I wanted everybody to

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make it into heaven. I wanted everybody to be happy,

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whatever that means, whatever that meant. And now, because I

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realized over time and the closer I got to the Lord,

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I counted more people who did not want to be

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the Lord to be a part of their life, and

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they were not telling the truth and all that kind

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of stuff. So my, my, you know, I'm happy. I

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had to figure out what my happiness is especially what

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you know I've been through these last seven years. What

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is happiness for me? Money don't make me happy. I

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appreciate money, though I appreciate that I got it. I

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had to go and get some insurance, medical, some medications

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and stuff. I didn't like that. And everybody shocked, like

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you not had any you know, medicare partsy plan? You

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do not? No, because I didn't need it. And now

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I got to appeal because they say, well, it looks

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like you've not had insurance since you know. No, I

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didn't need it. So now I got to, you know,

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go and here's a fight. I got to go and

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say I didn't need it, and I hope they understand that.

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So anyway, getting back to happiness and everything, what is

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happiness now? What does it look like now? You know

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for you all, so trade you come on in first,

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and then everybody else, you know, put your comments in there.

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We're gonna get to you. That is a good question.

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Happiness It can be small, it can be very minute

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or very grandiose. So like on the smaller end, it's

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happiness could be enjoying your favorite food or being able

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to access it, or it could be enjoying a nice day,

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or being able to do some of the things that

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you want to do. It doesn't it doesn't really take

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a whole lot for me to be happy, like I

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think on vacation, not just being able to wake up

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without having to go anywhere, you know, wake up at

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different times, go to sleep at different times, watch you know,

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different shows if I wanted to. I really don't watch

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a whole lot of television anyway, I cut that out

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a while back.

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But just being able to enjoy what life has.

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To offer, not always work work work, you know, sometimes

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you have to take time out for yourself.

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But it's enjoying people.

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That being around people that you enjoy, that make you happy,

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that inspire you to uplift you, that motivates you, that

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encourage you, that sometimes test you, because sometimes you need

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that test to see what you're able, what you're capable

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of doing, are you able to respond? And so it's

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like I said, it's simple things nature, beach scenes, I mean, beautiful,

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just I mean, I just I just sucked it all in,

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I really did, you know.

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So, like I said, it's not a whole lot money. Definitely,

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this is true. There's true, there's different yes, right, but.

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You grow, go ahead. I'm sorry, go ahead. Hard to

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find those to find right?

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You are so right.

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But it's like I said, it's just really smart money.

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I know, you need money to be able to survive.

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You got to pay rent or place to stay. You

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got to have food to eat, you got to shelter,

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you have to have clothing, you have.

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To be able to pay bills and stuff like that.

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But you know, being able to do so without worry

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to sometimes cause happiness or happiness being able to have

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something in some type of income for a lot of people,

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just being able to have an income or have a job,

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it's happiness, especially if you've experienced a time where you

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weren't employed or you know, weren't you know able to

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you know, it could be anything, you know, but for me,

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those are similar things. Now, if I was fortunate to

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be rich, of course that I think I can be

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very happy with that because I would know some things

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that I would want to do, you know, want to

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bless people. I would want to uh do more unnecessarily

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do more things that I enjoyed the human service field

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without having to worry about doing things. Philanthropy that that

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type of stuff, you know, I you know, Melitia. I

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love the human service field and being able to explore.

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Sometimes when you have things that you have to do

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during the day, it's hard to kind of like work.

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Sometimes work can can take you away from what your

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passion is. Sometimes your work could be if you're fortunate,

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your work could be your passion. But sometimes work there's

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something that you just you need to be able to survive, right,

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you know, just to live day by day.

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are struggling.

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Is a lot of like you said, a lot of hate,

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a lot of lying, a lot of deception, a lot

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of manipulation and stuff like that. And people are struggling

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in employment. I see it all the time. People want

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to halfway do their jobs or don't do it at all.

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You know, that's not my position. I don't need to

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do that.

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I said.

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Money does open more possibilities to help out. You're right,

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but that's not my job, Christion. But I remember other

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duties as a sign.

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I remember that people my job other duties as a

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sponsor yeah number seventeen.

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Wait men, you know, yeah, so yeah, I would want

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to be able to help people that, especially our most

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vulnerable folks, you know, those with who are are elderly

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or incapable, or have certain you know, disabilities, mental health.

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You know, just empowerment.

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I love it.

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I love to help people anyway. I I guess that's

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a social work icide, just being able to do more

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of it because there's a lot that needs to be done.

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So nothing.

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It's never gonna be ended. It's never gonna end. I'm

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sorry to interrupt your tray. It's never gonna stop. I

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want people to understand this, this poverty thing, all these

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ills in society, it doesn't stop. It doesn't end until

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the world is done. So God says, okay, I'm bringing

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y'all home. Now, come on and let me give you

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some rest. But every stage of your life there's different happiness.

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First when you're first having children. Then you got that

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little baby and you know that whole thing you you're

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in that new marriage and relationship is fun. And then

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it's like, oh, then it gets it and now you're

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in year number five. You know, people, we don't look

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the same anymore, we don't you know, and stuff, what

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is the priorities? Some of usself don't have the jobs

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that we used to have anymore. And as a social worker,

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I learned early on that if I want to at

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least try to make fifty thousand a year, I had

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to have at least a full time job and two

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part time jobs that would end up be full time.

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Sad thing is the end may be coming sooner than

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we think. Oh it is, but it's not. There's a

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difference between the world is ending and the end of

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the world. Let me break that down a little bit

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better because I know we said that, you know, these

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are end times, and that means biblically, these are in time.

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So everything in the Bible that's supposed to come the

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past is coming. The past. That's the end time. The

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world ending will be when the world ends, there's nothing

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breathing anymore. Plan like everything's gone. However that's going to be.

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But it's the progression of that, it's the procession of that.

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It's the journey of that that we're you know, time

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is winding up for people. You know, I just solved

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like three additional two to three people that we know

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have passed away. Of the gentleman that paid the doctor there,

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I think it was Scorpio in general hospital. He just passed.

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And the guy who played on Superman stuff. He just passed,

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and there's another person that just passed, so you know,

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for their time is done. The world has come to their.

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World, Daniel Spencer, and.

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From what's happening. Yes, oh my gosh, you know, I

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had no idea she was battling cancer in the early sixties,

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so you know, and so no more can we say, oh,

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they've lived a life of they're eighty seven. You know,

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look at Malcolm, you know, he's in his fifties and

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and you know, and so on and so forth. So

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there's that difference. But how you're living it each day

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is the I think it's the happiness that I really

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I want to focus on how are you living? How

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are you living? Because the folks I just encountered, whether

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they were tourists or residents and two different cities states, rather,

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they weren't happy. And I'm talking about both people behind

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a count a punch of the time clock and people

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who's supposed to be going on a vacation to get free.

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But yeah, that's that I agree with you, Trey. I

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was able to. I had to do something specific along

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the way. But I also want to, you know, give

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my daughter times and she wanted to go to the mall.

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So I said, okay, we're going to the mall. We'll

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get an uber. And did y'all know that you can't

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rent a car without a major credit card. I know

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most of y'all got them. I don't, So you cannot.

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They don't want your debit card, they don't want your cash.

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You cannot. You have to have a major credit card.

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So we had to utilize taxis, ubers and the pastor

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who we went to visit at the church we went

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to visit. Pastor gave us a ride for the whole day,

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took us around and and it was our tour guide

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on Thursday. But we you know, we met nice taxi people.

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We got one guy was uber. He was kind of weird,

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but you know, I just I had my eye on him.

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He looking at me through the mire and I'm looking

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at him. You know, let's go, son, I know where

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I'm at. I know how to get back to the

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hotel too, Let's go. You know, we're looking at her daughter.

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You don't know her and you don't know us. Okay, anyway, Yeah,

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but you know, what is happiness at this stage of

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the game. What's happiness for you? What does it take

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because you look at the reality shows and everybody, at

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least one person on there has a therapist and they

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got and they're toiling their hair. Yeah, they're twirling their hair,

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especially the Kardashian you know, you know you got pieces

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in your head now, not all that hair is theirs.

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So all the secrets come out and stuff like that,

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and you're like, okay, you're normal. Wow, you know so

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you know some of the questions there, I think we

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00:26:42.720 --> 00:26:46.559
if you can play those back forwards rebel sad thing

460
00:26:46.640 --> 00:26:49.759
and is coming to answering and then we think, yeah, yeah, yeah,

461
00:26:50.000 --> 00:26:52.480
money doesn't open it does open more possibilities to help

462
00:26:52.519 --> 00:26:55.119
others now. And thank you for saying that, Anastagia, because

463
00:26:55.119 --> 00:26:57.000
you still got to be careful. The Bible said, don't

464
00:26:57.240 --> 00:27:01.640
don't cast your money to pigs to line. Okay, be

465
00:27:01.759 --> 00:27:04.839
careful where that money is going, because you wanted to

466
00:27:04.880 --> 00:27:07.960
come back to you however, whether it's favor, whether it's

467
00:27:08.000 --> 00:27:11.599
good health, whether it's monetary, whether it's a better place

468
00:27:11.640 --> 00:27:14.079
to live, a better car to drive. You want that

469
00:27:14.160 --> 00:27:16.960
coming back. So you need to be listening to God saying,

470
00:27:17.000 --> 00:27:19.160
because he'll tell you I don't, I don't, I don't

471
00:27:19.359 --> 00:27:22.640
give to everybody I see and seeds that he's had

472
00:27:22.680 --> 00:27:25.799
me planned that behind closed doors, people don't even know

473
00:27:25.880 --> 00:27:30.839
it's coming. Amen. So and he blesses me openly, I said, word,

474
00:27:31.240 --> 00:27:33.799
he said, I'll reward you that what you do in secret,

475
00:27:33.799 --> 00:27:38.279
I will reward you openly. Amen. So be careful now,

476
00:27:38.440 --> 00:27:41.400
even more so where you're planting your seed. Now, I

477
00:27:41.440 --> 00:27:44.079
know there's a group of y'all working on some items

478
00:27:44.160 --> 00:27:46.680
or for Thanksgiving and things like that. So as you're

479
00:27:46.720 --> 00:27:49.839
putting money into that, you're buying that that crochet needle,

480
00:27:49.920 --> 00:27:54.160
you're buying that material, that yarn is that's all seed money?

481
00:27:54.480 --> 00:27:57.880
Did you mentioned Billy Bobs? He passed on in June? Oh,

482
00:27:57.960 --> 00:28:00.599
Billy Cobbs. I'm sorry. He was an amazing and man,

483
00:28:00.720 --> 00:28:03.200
I'm not sure if that was in June, though I'm

484
00:28:03.279 --> 00:28:06.160
sure it came up on Facebook. I'm not sure. I

485
00:28:06.440 --> 00:28:08.640
don't The name doesn't sound for me to me. But

486
00:28:08.839 --> 00:28:10.960
for those of you who are planting, you you're giving

487
00:28:10.960 --> 00:28:13.279
your money, You're going to get your You're going out

488
00:28:13.279 --> 00:28:15.960
of your way to go to the little thrift shop

489
00:28:16.000 --> 00:28:18.799
that's gonna have the yarn on sale and and you know,

490
00:28:19.039 --> 00:28:21.680
or at a discount of price. That's all seed offering there,

491
00:28:22.079 --> 00:28:25.799
that's all seed offering, okay. And what you do is

492
00:28:25.839 --> 00:28:27.960
designate that seed is. He's like, Okay, I got to

493
00:28:28.000 --> 00:28:30.359
do my part on the croche, you know, I got

494
00:28:30.359 --> 00:28:33.440
to do my section of the patch work, the clip

495
00:28:33.559 --> 00:28:36.799
work or whatever. That's money you're giving, and that's God

496
00:28:36.880 --> 00:28:39.720
will count that as a seed offering because he's asking you,

497
00:28:39.759 --> 00:28:42.480
he's telling you to do that, he's governing you. He's

498
00:28:42.720 --> 00:28:46.599
placed that on your hearts. The time you spend talking

499
00:28:46.640 --> 00:28:49.839
about that organizing that, that's seeding time. So what you

500
00:28:49.920 --> 00:28:53.079
have to do is you need to designate the seed Lord,

501
00:28:53.200 --> 00:28:56.400
is I'm going to buy this this knitted, this uh yarn,

502
00:28:56.480 --> 00:29:00.000
and the equipment, the supplies that I need. Lord, Please,

503
00:29:00.319 --> 00:29:02.640
if I would like to see this as I'm seeding

504
00:29:02.680 --> 00:29:05.880
this to whoever we're gonna send it to in November

505
00:29:05.920 --> 00:29:08.720
or whenever you tell us to release it, Lord, please

506
00:29:08.880 --> 00:29:11.799
let let that be attached to my health. Let that

507
00:29:11.880 --> 00:29:15.279
be attached to my children's health. I'm designating that seat

508
00:29:15.279 --> 00:29:20.640
towards my children's health, my family's health, my health, me

509
00:29:20.759 --> 00:29:24.279
being able to do well on my job and get promotions. Yeah,

510
00:29:24.440 --> 00:29:27.079
you got It's on your heart. You gotta just you

511
00:29:27.119 --> 00:29:30.079
gotta say it. You gotta say it, whether the mother

512
00:29:30.160 --> 00:29:33.720
statements out there that we missed anything else, or to

513
00:29:33.759 --> 00:29:35.240
find people those people at the time. You have to

514
00:29:35.279 --> 00:29:38.759
be careful, Mickey, be careful. You can't give it all

515
00:29:38.799 --> 00:29:42.200
to everybody. I did something out of my heart because

516
00:29:42.200 --> 00:29:44.480
of the relationship I had I thought I had with

517
00:29:44.559 --> 00:29:48.680
this person and they have drugged me through. I can't

518
00:29:48.680 --> 00:29:51.279
believe that they will even fix their mind to do

519
00:29:51.359 --> 00:29:54.359
what they've done to me. And my health became a

520
00:29:54.400 --> 00:29:57.599
factor because I'm like, because every day I'm saying, what

521
00:29:57.640 --> 00:30:00.160
did I do to this person to deserve this? I

522
00:30:00.240 --> 00:30:02.000
just want my money back it. What did I do?

523
00:30:02.039 --> 00:30:04.119
I don't want what you got. I don't really want.

524
00:30:04.200 --> 00:30:06.519
I don't want nothing else to do. Just give me

525
00:30:06.559 --> 00:30:09.799
back mine. But you at like, I don't know what

526
00:30:09.799 --> 00:30:12.480
that is and I'll never understanding. So those are one

527
00:30:12.480 --> 00:30:13.559
of the things that's why I had to give it

528
00:30:13.599 --> 00:30:16.519
to finally give it to God. And because some of

529
00:30:16.559 --> 00:30:20.480
y'all know how God treats my enemies. Vengeance is his,

530
00:30:21.400 --> 00:30:24.880
vengees is his, and my happiness is in the Lord

531
00:30:25.359 --> 00:30:28.079
because He's the author and the finisher of my faith.

532
00:30:28.640 --> 00:30:31.000
I don't have to prove anything to anybody. If he

533
00:30:31.039 --> 00:30:35.559
doesn't bless me anymore with favor, with anything. I'm satisfied

534
00:30:35.799 --> 00:30:38.359
right now, right now. Thank God for his wisdom to

535
00:30:38.400 --> 00:30:42.200
know when to say no. Thank you Elvi Janus Tennessee

536
00:30:42.200 --> 00:30:48.440
in the house again. Thank you very true. Yes, yes,

537
00:30:49.359 --> 00:30:54.240
so your happiness, as we just went over it, prosperity, joy,

538
00:30:54.599 --> 00:30:57.759
the state of being. Happiness is attached to that. Do

539
00:30:57.839 --> 00:31:00.559
you know how hard it is to drive with the smile?

540
00:31:01.279 --> 00:31:04.039
That's gonna be your homework over the week. I want

541
00:31:04.079 --> 00:31:06.240
as you're driving, I want you to just like that.

542
00:31:06.400 --> 00:31:08.680
I want you to smile. I don't want you to frown.

543
00:31:09.039 --> 00:31:11.240
You can't make I don't care if they jump in

544
00:31:11.279 --> 00:31:13.880
front of you. I want you to see how hard

545
00:31:13.920 --> 00:31:17.599
that is. See how hard that is the smile while

546
00:31:17.599 --> 00:31:22.559
you're driving. That's funny, that's funny. Come on, And you

547
00:31:22.599 --> 00:31:24.160
know my kids keep asking me some mom, what do

548
00:31:24.200 --> 00:31:25.720
you want to do? Now? What do you want to do?

549
00:31:25.960 --> 00:31:29.599
Because some doors have closed and I've sealed shut. You

550
00:31:29.599 --> 00:31:31.200
don't even know that there was a door there. And

551
00:31:31.240 --> 00:31:34.480
I'm you know, I'm God is good and I'm like,

552
00:31:34.559 --> 00:31:38.000
you know what, I don't know honestly. So when we

553
00:31:38.079 --> 00:31:40.799
got back in town Saturday, all I could do. I

554
00:31:41.200 --> 00:31:43.000
greeted my dog and played with her a little bit,

555
00:31:43.039 --> 00:31:45.599
and then I got on TV and just started going

556
00:31:45.640 --> 00:31:48.119
back to all the shows because the TV in the

557
00:31:48.200 --> 00:31:51.480
hotel room didn't They only went up to forty six channels.

558
00:31:51.880 --> 00:31:54.839
I don't and you couldn't have said, hbowl, HBO on

559
00:31:54.880 --> 00:31:59.400
there and HD and you couldn't get in there, get

560
00:31:59.400 --> 00:32:01.599
on there. I learned a new happiness listening to the

561
00:32:01.640 --> 00:32:06.119
show and participating in healthy others. Thank you, Missy, Thank you, Missy.

562
00:32:06.400 --> 00:32:10.359
We love you so much. See how thing's changed. God

563
00:32:10.480 --> 00:32:13.400
knows what we need. There was for some of y'all

564
00:32:13.440 --> 00:32:17.440
that barrier had to break, That that shyness, that ooh,

565
00:32:17.559 --> 00:32:20.000
I'm not worthy, they had to break. So he said,

566
00:32:20.039 --> 00:32:22.519
I'll tell you what, here's the here's the challenge. Go

567
00:32:22.559 --> 00:32:25.160
and feed some people, Go and do this for some people,

568
00:32:25.400 --> 00:32:28.920
and come back and talk about it. You know, and

569
00:32:29.000 --> 00:32:32.119
your testimonies. I've taken your testimony especially. I think it

570
00:32:32.160 --> 00:32:36.759
was a misty with the little bit folks that you transport.

571
00:32:37.000 --> 00:32:39.799
I can imagine. I can't even imagine that is the truth. Amen,

572
00:32:39.880 --> 00:32:44.319
Thank you, as I can't imagine last week's show about guardianship,

573
00:32:44.400 --> 00:32:49.559
not guardianian, but will I can see what the little

574
00:32:49.599 --> 00:32:56.480
people say, Oh, mam, I beneficiary.

575
00:32:54.480 --> 00:32:58.400
Who told you that.

576
00:32:58.559 --> 00:33:01.559
Whose name was on my checking it? Have a savings acount?

577
00:33:01.759 --> 00:33:04.240
Is that the piggy bank that's in my room? Or

578
00:33:04.279 --> 00:33:06.599
do you have my name at a bank somewhere? And

579
00:33:06.680 --> 00:33:08.359
I know the parents are like looking at each other

580
00:33:08.319 --> 00:33:13.000
like what's wrong? You know, But I don't know if

581
00:33:13.000 --> 00:33:15.160
that happened or not. But I'm waiting for that testimony.

582
00:33:15.440 --> 00:33:17.200
But you know, I laughed about that. I was laughing

583
00:33:17.440 --> 00:33:19.759
thinking about that, you know, while I was out, and

584
00:33:19.759 --> 00:33:21.440
it was so funny. I was like, Yeah, these kids

585
00:33:21.440 --> 00:33:25.920
are there listening, you know, and they're taking that conversation back,

586
00:33:25.960 --> 00:33:29.440
a healthy conversation back to their parents, like did you

587
00:33:29.559 --> 00:33:32.400
know this? Is this true? Are you doing this? Are

588
00:33:32.400 --> 00:33:34.400
you saving for us? Do we have a trust that

589
00:33:34.440 --> 00:33:37.519
we don't know about? Can I put my little wagon

590
00:33:37.559 --> 00:33:39.279
in the trust? You know, you got to put things

591
00:33:39.359 --> 00:33:41.720
in the trust? And I hope the parents, you know,

592
00:33:41.799 --> 00:33:45.240
didn't freak out. But you know, what is happiness to you?

593
00:33:45.319 --> 00:33:48.880
What and at this stage, at this place in your life,

594
00:33:48.920 --> 00:33:52.039
because I have a new normal every day so I celebrate.

595
00:33:52.079 --> 00:33:54.519
What did I have to do. I had to open

596
00:33:54.599 --> 00:33:57.920
up the top of the soap dispenser, right, the soap

597
00:33:57.960 --> 00:34:00.000
that you'd hand soap that you get so I'm home.

598
00:34:00.279 --> 00:34:03.119
But of course the whole cap is screwing off, and

599
00:34:03.160 --> 00:34:05.200
I'm like, no, no, no, and I said, I'm gonna

600
00:34:05.200 --> 00:34:06.279
put it here and I'll just have one of the

601
00:34:06.319 --> 00:34:08.559
kids come. I said, no, what am I talking about?

602
00:34:08.920 --> 00:34:11.320
So I got it, and I'm trying. I said, I

603
00:34:11.360 --> 00:34:14.119
hope the soap no Papa for me? And finally I

604
00:34:14.159 --> 00:34:17.079
got it. I finally yeah, you know, stuff be popping.

605
00:34:17.119 --> 00:34:20.960
I'm like, oh my god, okay, oh, but I got it,

606
00:34:21.239 --> 00:34:24.000
and I felt so happy because I love living there soap.

607
00:34:24.360 --> 00:34:28.760
I'm Apple green girl, you know, cool breeze, you know,

608
00:34:29.400 --> 00:34:31.800
and so I'm very particular about my soaps, even just

609
00:34:32.000 --> 00:34:33.840
though it's a hands opening, even though I got one

610
00:34:33.920 --> 00:34:39.119
hand saw that saw you anyway, you know. But yeah, yes,

611
00:34:39.239 --> 00:34:42.079
I'm going to smile as I tried. When I listen too,

612
00:34:42.199 --> 00:34:46.320
helps me to smile. Elder k But you know, you

613
00:34:46.360 --> 00:34:46.800
know what.

614
00:34:48.960 --> 00:34:49.239
I think.

615
00:34:49.400 --> 00:34:53.400
Sorry, but listen to two different things like happiness. You

616
00:34:53.519 --> 00:34:56.639
ever think about childhood and some of the things that

617
00:34:56.760 --> 00:34:59.800
just made you happy, you know what it was Once

618
00:35:00.159 --> 00:35:04.000
when I was working with adults, you know, doing mental

619
00:35:04.039 --> 00:35:07.440
house skill building, and so one of the things I

620
00:35:07.440 --> 00:35:12.360
would do is teach them how to use blowing bubbles

621
00:35:12.719 --> 00:35:15.880
as a way to learn breathing technique. And I would

622
00:35:15.960 --> 00:35:18.360
get the ones with the big ones and the ones,

623
00:35:18.400 --> 00:35:20.519
you know, the little ones, so they can kind of

624
00:35:20.599 --> 00:35:25.119
see and to try to focus redivert their focus on something.

625
00:35:25.360 --> 00:35:28.519
You know, look at the bubbles. What colors do you

626
00:35:28.599 --> 00:35:31.000
see in the bubble? How high did that bubble go?

627
00:35:31.519 --> 00:35:33.719
You know, just and they would like it, and I

628
00:35:33.760 --> 00:35:37.400
would love it, you know, I'm splashing bubbles. And it's

629
00:35:37.440 --> 00:35:40.800
the little things that do that didn't get a chance

630
00:35:40.840 --> 00:35:43.440
to do, like kite flying, but some of the things

631
00:35:43.440 --> 00:35:45.800
that you just to watch a kite fly said, wow,

632
00:35:46.280 --> 00:35:49.119
how did you get up there? While you know, I

633
00:35:49.119 --> 00:35:51.519
can hold it up that high? Look at the wind,

634
00:35:51.599 --> 00:35:53.800
take it and look hout it blows in the breeze.

635
00:35:54.199 --> 00:35:55.119
Just the little things.

636
00:35:55.119 --> 00:35:58.519
And I think kids, sometimes you have to resort back

637
00:35:58.559 --> 00:36:02.320
to those those simple things that just make you happy.

638
00:36:02.800 --> 00:36:05.440
And blowing bubbles. Like I said, they got the big ones.

639
00:36:05.519 --> 00:36:07.400
Now you can make all kinds of things. You got

640
00:36:07.400 --> 00:36:10.360
the bubble gun that you can just blow it all

641
00:36:10.360 --> 00:36:12.920
these but you know, and if you got a pet,

642
00:36:13.039 --> 00:36:14.960
pets love it because they like to chase the bubbles

643
00:36:15.000 --> 00:36:19.079
and try to bite the bubbles. But it's it is amazing,

644
00:36:19.599 --> 00:36:25.559
and I think sometimes people may forget have forgotten what

645
00:36:25.920 --> 00:36:27.840
some childhoods can be like.

646
00:36:29.800 --> 00:36:33.039
But it's, you know, bringing back adult games.

647
00:36:33.079 --> 00:36:36.360
You know, just things you used to play, Trouble and

648
00:36:36.519 --> 00:36:39.519
Twister and you know, candy Land. I know some adult

649
00:36:39.559 --> 00:36:41.519
people like candy Land and that's one of the first

650
00:36:41.519 --> 00:36:42.159
game board.

651
00:36:42.000 --> 00:36:43.039
Games you learned as child.

652
00:36:43.400 --> 00:36:45.760
You know, just different things because it takes your mind

653
00:36:45.880 --> 00:36:49.480
off of adulting. At times, sometimes you need to escape

654
00:36:49.480 --> 00:36:53.920
from adulting because adulting is stressful and it could be strenuous,

655
00:36:53.920 --> 00:36:56.599
but you have to find a balance. And I just,

656
00:36:56.679 --> 00:36:59.159
you know, want to encourage people to find things that

657
00:36:59.320 --> 00:37:03.039
balance you thing, identify, write it down. When this is

658
00:37:03.119 --> 00:37:06.000
happening to me, I'm going to resort to my toolbox,

659
00:37:06.280 --> 00:37:09.039
whether it be calling somebody that I know that I try,

660
00:37:09.480 --> 00:37:12.800
whether it be watching some of my favorite shows, listening

661
00:37:12.840 --> 00:37:15.639
to my favorite songs. If you're feeling down, don't go

662
00:37:15.679 --> 00:37:18.559
to anything that's melancholy. You don't want to go things

663
00:37:18.559 --> 00:37:20.800
and talk about breakups and loss and stuff like that.

664
00:37:21.119 --> 00:37:22.880
You want someone with some beat that will get you

665
00:37:23.039 --> 00:37:27.360
moving and popping. You know, it's fun things like that.

666
00:37:27.400 --> 00:37:29.400
And I think you did a homework of Simon Alisha

667
00:37:29.800 --> 00:37:32.840
and people bought crayons and a coloring book. You know,

668
00:37:33.039 --> 00:37:36.079
those are the things we used to do growing up.

669
00:37:36.280 --> 00:37:39.760
Pages and pages of them. You know, I got markers

670
00:37:39.800 --> 00:37:41.800
and stuff like that. And then you say, but I

671
00:37:41.840 --> 00:37:45.280
have markets because I'm doing something else on the side.

672
00:37:45.400 --> 00:37:47.000
Then something that ever I'm doing.

673
00:37:47.199 --> 00:37:50.960
But I got markers and different things and adult coloring books.

674
00:37:50.960 --> 00:37:54.800
Something that makes you happy, if only for five minutes,

675
00:37:55.079 --> 00:37:58.159
if only for five just make a list of things

676
00:37:58.199 --> 00:38:01.559
that make you happy, and when you feel a certain way,

677
00:38:01.679 --> 00:38:05.079
go to that list or a toolbox, pulled something out.

678
00:38:05.159 --> 00:38:07.920
I'll blow some bubbles for five minutes, or I'll do that.

679
00:38:08.000 --> 00:38:11.599
But create something that balances you. Because it's a lot

680
00:38:11.719 --> 00:38:14.760
going on. I see it at work, I see it

681
00:38:14.800 --> 00:38:18.199
in the communities. I see it people doing their jobs.

682
00:38:19.039 --> 00:38:23.480
It's talking here. People are going through some things and

683
00:38:23.519 --> 00:38:28.000
it can be detrimental. It's some nasty things are happening

684
00:38:28.320 --> 00:38:30.079
to people globally.

685
00:38:30.519 --> 00:38:35.039
You know, human rights stuff. You know, and I just.

686
00:38:36.599 --> 00:38:38.840
I think about stuff that I'm going through Bresting Lord

687
00:38:38.960 --> 00:38:41.480
is not nearly as what other folks going through, you know,

688
00:38:41.559 --> 00:38:44.400
And I'm saying wow, wow, and we can all be

689
00:38:44.760 --> 00:38:49.880
in that same situation if something change, something drastically change.

690
00:38:50.000 --> 00:38:51.840
Well, thank you for bringing that up. Yes I have.

691
00:38:51.920 --> 00:38:53.960
We had a homework assignment. We didn't get to it

692
00:38:54.000 --> 00:38:57.360
too much last week, but I like that. Okay, audience,

693
00:38:57.480 --> 00:38:59.400
I need to know. I know some of you text

694
00:38:59.440 --> 00:39:01.559
me personally. He said, I got my coloring book and

695
00:39:01.639 --> 00:39:04.480
my crayon, so I appreciate that. So I just wanted

696
00:39:04.480 --> 00:39:07.760
to know, how did you feel just just doing one

697
00:39:08.199 --> 00:39:10.840
one page? How did that make you feel? I want

698
00:39:10.880 --> 00:39:13.039
to talk about that the few moments that we have.

699
00:39:13.559 --> 00:39:15.840
Come on now, don't be shy. Now, don't be shot,

700
00:39:15.840 --> 00:39:18.039
don't let me to let the teacher and me call

701
00:39:18.119 --> 00:39:20.480
your name out. Come on now, talk to me. Even

702
00:39:20.519 --> 00:39:22.119
if you didn't get a chance to do it, and

703
00:39:22.159 --> 00:39:24.880
you're going to do it, that's fine, but I want

704
00:39:24.920 --> 00:39:27.079
you if God wanted you to do that. And it's

705
00:39:27.119 --> 00:39:31.440
oddly enough it was national Crayon and Crayon collection months

706
00:39:31.480 --> 00:39:36.719
it is still that. That's the Creola company here one

707
00:39:36.760 --> 00:39:40.039
of the dj announced on the Christian station that they're

708
00:39:40.039 --> 00:39:42.519
doing they got a whole family pack of to come

709
00:39:42.559 --> 00:39:44.800
into Crayola. I don't know what you could get with that,

710
00:39:44.880 --> 00:39:47.559
but they're you know, they're honoring. He didn't go into

711
00:39:47.679 --> 00:39:51.400
depth about this. You know, it's an awareness for this month.

712
00:39:51.719 --> 00:39:54.800
But okay, that guy, so, I guess y'all didn't do anything. Huh.

713
00:39:55.239 --> 00:39:57.599
Trey already says she did something, But y'all didn't do

714
00:39:57.639 --> 00:39:59.199
anything where yet?

715
00:39:59.440 --> 00:39:59.639
Where?

716
00:39:59.719 --> 00:40:03.119
Yeah? I see you listening. I hope it's okay. I

717
00:40:03.119 --> 00:40:04.719
got a page for one of the kids. Yeah, and

718
00:40:04.840 --> 00:40:07.800
color the picture with them perfect. Yeah, So, how did

719
00:40:07.840 --> 00:40:14.639
it make you feel? Misty crickets? Yeah, okay, somebody.

720
00:40:14.360 --> 00:40:18.199
Else you can, but you can, but you can, you know,

721
00:40:18.239 --> 00:40:21.239
while we're feeling in time, but we can. It's never

722
00:40:21.280 --> 00:40:23.440
too late. And then you could you have your other

723
00:40:23.480 --> 00:40:26.760
people to have a color party, you know, coloring party

724
00:40:26.920 --> 00:40:30.000
or something like that, and some fun, some chips and

725
00:40:30.599 --> 00:40:32.480
little drinks or whatever and.

726
00:40:32.559 --> 00:40:33.280
Just have fun.

727
00:40:33.480 --> 00:40:34.599
You know, people you enjoy.

728
00:40:34.920 --> 00:40:37.360
You know, I was on vacation and with one of

729
00:40:37.360 --> 00:40:40.599
my girlfriends, we put you know, she'd already started a puzzle,

730
00:40:41.039 --> 00:40:44.199
but we do puzzles. We enjoy puzzles. That's one of

731
00:40:44.239 --> 00:40:48.599
the things. And it's calm and it's relaxing. It's interesting,

732
00:40:48.679 --> 00:40:51.519
depends on what com but that's something too.

733
00:40:51.639 --> 00:40:53.639
And you don't have to start with a big puzzle.

734
00:40:54.000 --> 00:40:57.159
Get your something maybe with two hundred pieces, one hundred pieces,

735
00:40:57.400 --> 00:40:58.679
and don't you don't have to put it all in

736
00:40:58.719 --> 00:41:03.079
one setting like the piece for the piece that's oh

737
00:41:03.159 --> 00:41:05.559
that goes, you know. Sometimes it's okay, I got one,

738
00:41:05.599 --> 00:41:08.199
maybe I can get two. So it's this simple thing

739
00:41:08.320 --> 00:41:11.400
that you can do to kind of create a happiness

740
00:41:11.719 --> 00:41:14.559
the midst of all this chaos and stuff.

741
00:41:15.159 --> 00:41:17.000
And you can do put the jigsaw on your phone

742
00:41:17.000 --> 00:41:18.119
as well. I love that.

743
00:41:18.280 --> 00:41:18.800
I do that.

744
00:41:19.039 --> 00:41:23.079
There are three this game things I do, Puzzles, the

745
00:41:23.119 --> 00:41:28.199
solitaire and missing things, go and find I'm starting then

746
00:41:28.239 --> 00:41:31.239
when I get off the line. Okay, you know the

747
00:41:31.320 --> 00:41:34.039
kids had fun too, see, I mean, you know, just

748
00:41:34.559 --> 00:41:36.239
I didn't get the book and it's okay, I thought

749
00:41:36.239 --> 00:41:38.119
it had I had somebody that didn't find them yet.

750
00:41:38.119 --> 00:41:40.239
That's okay. Just go to the dollar store, mickey, don't

751
00:41:40.280 --> 00:41:43.079
don't make this all out, you know, Oh my god,

752
00:41:43.159 --> 00:41:44.960
you know, no, go to the dollar store. Get the

753
00:41:44.960 --> 00:41:48.599
two two for one dollar and get a little pack

754
00:41:48.599 --> 00:41:51.119
of crayons, eight crayons, and you you're good, you know.

755
00:41:52.360 --> 00:41:55.679
But if y'all were to go to your different type

756
00:41:55.679 --> 00:41:59.440
of community events like Hurricane Expo and stuff, you get

757
00:41:59.440 --> 00:42:01.880
free crap. It's four of them in there, but you

758
00:42:01.920 --> 00:42:04.440
get them for free. Okay. I'm just saying, And you

759
00:42:04.440 --> 00:42:06.679
can store that stuff. I got a whole basketfull of

760
00:42:06.719 --> 00:42:11.079
them over there, so I I don't have to buy crayons.

761
00:42:11.119 --> 00:42:14.280
I got a whole bunch. But see, it's just a

762
00:42:14.360 --> 00:42:16.559
little things like that. And you can get the safety

763
00:42:16.599 --> 00:42:19.559
coloring books too, And that's a conversation for a Bible

764
00:42:19.559 --> 00:42:22.960
study at your home about kids in the safety. See,

765
00:42:23.440 --> 00:42:25.880
we got the material out there, but we're so busy

766
00:42:26.000 --> 00:42:29.119
or we don't know, we forget. You know, you got

767
00:42:29.119 --> 00:42:30.960
to slow it down. And that's one thing about this

768
00:42:31.239 --> 00:42:34.719
arts and crafts and just taking a breather and taking

769
00:42:34.960 --> 00:42:38.559
a steak k or a bak you breathe. When I

770
00:42:38.639 --> 00:42:41.480
landed finally, I looked at my daughter. At some point,

771
00:42:41.519 --> 00:42:43.719
I think it's maybe Thursday Friday, while we were walking

772
00:42:43.719 --> 00:42:45.119
in them, I think it was Friday, and I said,

773
00:42:45.360 --> 00:42:50.679
I conquered the thing. I conquered the thing. Now you

774
00:42:51.199 --> 00:42:52.920
set the page, but I didn't finish it. In stage,

775
00:42:52.960 --> 00:42:54.920
I used the crowns for the kids menu at a

776
00:42:55.079 --> 00:42:59.880
restaurant's thank you, thank you stopped me from doing that.

777
00:43:00.760 --> 00:43:04.679
But yet you know, no, no, no, But that's congratulations,

778
00:43:04.719 --> 00:43:06.880
though the congratulations are.

779
00:43:06.960 --> 00:43:08.280
I don't want to. I don't want to many.

780
00:43:08.320 --> 00:43:11.079
I don't want to minimize that because that is a

781
00:43:11.119 --> 00:43:14.400
big feat in itself, and I'm just so proud of

782
00:43:14.440 --> 00:43:20.039
you and you you are leading others to to to

783
00:43:20.239 --> 00:43:24.719
conquer things that, to conquer things that that that bother

784
00:43:24.880 --> 00:43:29.199
them more unnerved them. So I want to That's why

785
00:43:29.239 --> 00:43:33.760
I love doing this show. It's people get to see

786
00:43:33.800 --> 00:43:39.400
that we we we try to lead and guide, but

787
00:43:39.519 --> 00:43:43.280
we also follow, you know, we also have to follow,

788
00:43:43.360 --> 00:43:46.039
follow what God wants us to do and and and

789
00:43:46.119 --> 00:43:48.559
try to and be confident. There's some things that I

790
00:43:48.639 --> 00:43:52.000
want to conquer myself, and uh, it'll it'll get there,

791
00:43:52.639 --> 00:43:55.280
It'll get there. But you know, but that's showing everybody.

792
00:43:55.320 --> 00:43:58.519
It's a work in progress and we are not perfect.

793
00:43:58.599 --> 00:44:02.719
We're flash we believe no, and so my.

794
00:44:02.840 --> 00:44:04.840
Nephew and his coloring book, but just a bit does

795
00:44:04.840 --> 00:44:10.239
that count? Yes? It does, yes, it does nice. Nice. Now,

796
00:44:10.280 --> 00:44:12.199
next week we're gonna talk about how y'all felt, because

797
00:44:12.239 --> 00:44:14.280
y'all ain't talking about feelings tonight. So don't go in.

798
00:44:14.280 --> 00:44:14.920
Tie right now.

799
00:44:15.079 --> 00:44:17.559
We're gonna pick that up next week. Okay, because we run.

800
00:44:17.639 --> 00:44:20.079
You know, we're about two minutes out, but you know,

801
00:44:20.320 --> 00:44:22.400
just just keep doing it. I want you all to

802
00:44:22.480 --> 00:44:26.400
get the books, get the coloring books. Follow through this week. Okay,

803
00:44:26.639 --> 00:44:29.639
follow through this week so we could talk. I want

804
00:44:29.639 --> 00:44:32.000
you to connect to how you feel. I want you

805
00:44:32.039 --> 00:44:34.440
to be able to connect to how you're breathing, how

806
00:44:34.480 --> 00:44:37.440
you're clearing your mind while you're coloring. Are you're not

807
00:44:37.519 --> 00:44:40.440
thinking about the bills? You're not thinking about that and

808
00:44:40.480 --> 00:44:43.280
the ik and the ikey awi You're like, oh my god,

809
00:44:43.280 --> 00:44:45.280
I can't believe this? Or what color should I pack

810
00:44:45.360 --> 00:44:48.920
the feathers? You know, your mind is someplace else, and

811
00:44:48.960 --> 00:44:51.679
I want you to feel that and tell us how

812
00:44:51.719 --> 00:44:54.679
you felt with that. How did you feel with that?

813
00:44:55.199 --> 00:44:59.719
You know I took him. We did an arts class,

814
00:45:00.159 --> 00:45:03.000
expressive arts class a while back when I was in school,

815
00:45:03.480 --> 00:45:06.239
and you had to put the pencil and the plate

816
00:45:06.639 --> 00:45:10.320
over the pencil, So congratulations. I flew about about years

817
00:45:10.320 --> 00:45:14.320
ago for the first time. Okay, okay, and you the

818
00:45:14.400 --> 00:45:17.679
color and the paper is down there and you're you

819
00:45:17.719 --> 00:45:19.440
can't see what you're drawing. You just got that. You

820
00:45:19.440 --> 00:45:21.519
can't pick the pencil up, and you just got to

821
00:45:21.599 --> 00:45:23.400
let it go and let it go, and then finally

822
00:45:23.480 --> 00:45:25.320
you take it up and you're like, oh my god,

823
00:45:25.320 --> 00:45:28.079
I did figure eights and I wasn't trying to do

824
00:45:28.119 --> 00:45:31.039
figure ads, but it was making its own design and

825
00:45:31.079 --> 00:45:33.840
stuff that that because you had no control. You couldn't see.

826
00:45:33.960 --> 00:45:36.199
You can't make nothing that we could see. You couldn't

827
00:45:36.239 --> 00:45:38.039
make a coffee cup, you can't make a pen you

828
00:45:38.079 --> 00:45:40.519
can't make a dog. And you just had to have

829
00:45:40.599 --> 00:45:43.599
that plate paper plate over that pencil and it couldn't

830
00:45:43.599 --> 00:45:45.639
have blocked your view. But you don't pick up the

831
00:45:45.639 --> 00:45:47.280
pencil until you're finished.

832
00:45:49.360 --> 00:45:49.719
Fast.

833
00:45:50.079 --> 00:45:52.519
Okay. I found a lot of restaurants don't have the

834
00:45:52.559 --> 00:45:55.719
coloring pages for kids anymore. You're right, you're right, that

835
00:45:55.840 --> 00:45:56.800
sounds funny. It was.

836
00:45:56.880 --> 00:45:57.679
It was misty.

837
00:45:58.079 --> 00:46:00.639
Yeah, you're absolutely right. A lot of it. Getting back

838
00:46:00.679 --> 00:46:04.039
to the hotel. We were at the Hyatt. We were

839
00:46:04.079 --> 00:46:07.320
out all day Thursday, all day until like four or

840
00:46:07.320 --> 00:46:10.079
five o'clock. We brought the rain, and I get to

841
00:46:10.159 --> 00:46:13.079
my room when nothing's been done, trash, nothing's been picked up.

842
00:46:13.360 --> 00:46:15.519
So I'm calling on the phone like you don't. They

843
00:46:15.519 --> 00:46:19.440
don't have daily service in somebody's hotels anymore because they

844
00:46:19.480 --> 00:46:22.800
don't have the people. They don't have the people. That's shortage.

845
00:46:23.239 --> 00:46:25.880
That's shortage. I'm sorry to leave that on a note.

846
00:46:25.920 --> 00:46:28.400
On that note, get your coloring books and crayons. We're

847
00:46:28.400 --> 00:46:30.760
gonna talk about it next week. We love you, guys.

848
00:46:30.920 --> 00:46:33.760
Stay safe out there. You know we've got aaron and

849
00:46:33.880 --> 00:46:37.280
a possible storm behind it. We gotta stay preble. Get

850
00:46:37.320 --> 00:46:40.039
your stuff now. Get your stuff now. I don't care

851
00:46:40.119 --> 00:46:43.159
if it's in the water. Get your stuff now that

852
00:46:43.280 --> 00:46:45.800
you need, okay, because we don't know, we don't know.

853
00:46:46.280 --> 00:46:48.880
All right, We're gonna see you next week, same time,

854
00:46:49.360 --> 00:46:53.079
same stay night night,