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Well, good evening, good evening, good evening. Yes, we are back.
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We are here, We are good, and we pray that
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each and every one of you are doing your best
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to be your best. Let's pray. Father. We just thank
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you and we praise you. We love you so much. God,
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we love you so much. Thank you Jesus. Thank you
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Holy Spirit for your love, your unconditional love, your mercy,
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your grace that is sufficient. Thank you for your unconditional love.
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Thank you for your favor. Thank you for the Blood
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of Jesus. Thank you for the blood, the sacrifice you
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made just for us. We love you so much. We're
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so honored to be able to represent you, and we
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pray that we do it to our best, that you
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are pleased in everything that we do. Now, Father, we
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get behind the cross. This is your time to speak
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to your people. We're gonna listen in intensely and intentively,
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and we just thank you for this opportunity. We praise you,
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We give you glory in Jesus' name. We pray amen
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and amen and amen and amend woo. It has been
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the past couple of weeks, the past couple of days,
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the past couple of hours. Oh, if you were on
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the wrong side, you would be aging. You would be aging.
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This week you would be aging. There'll be more grace
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fits and stuff on your head, there would be more.
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Oh my god, I gotta drink more coffee. Oh my god,
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I think I'm in a panic attack. Oh my god,
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I'm anxious for nothing. Oh my god, Oh my god.
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Many people call on God this week. Many people called
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on God this week. Many people called on God. But
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we're thankful. We're thankful here in Florida. We know that
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the prayers were going one thousand miles a minute for us,
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and we thank you. I tell you, you know, it's
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it's it's it was it's something, it's something, and we
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just give him praise and honor. I was at an
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event last night as the MC and the first thing
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I did was to ask. I asked the host if
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we could but prior to but, I said, we need
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to do a moment of silence, because we everybody did.
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Somebody lost something, whether it was power, time, water, food,
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a person, an individual, little pet. Somebody lost a tree,
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the fruit tree, you know, lost a roof, somebody lost
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something in these last few days, and just just a moment,
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just just breathe and I could feel the air. Hey,
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we're glad y'all. A good thank you country, see good evening,
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thank you. Yeah. Yeah, And tonight we're talking about aging
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at your best when it's not about a number. I
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know we always went, well, this is what I can't stand.
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Here's a pet peeve, and we'll give you a little nugget. Well,
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how old was she? Well she was eighty eight years old.
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She lived a good life. Who wha, whoa, whoa, whoa,
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whoa whoa whoah woh. I got ancestors that lived to
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be over one hundred, So I got biblical ancestors that
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lived to be nine hundreds. So wait a minute, now,
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just because she was eighty eight doesn't mean that it
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was her age that took her, you know, allows her
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to transition. It was just probably her time up. That's
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I guess. We don't know what kind of life. And
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I go into this whole litany of well, how did
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they live, you know, what were their beliefs, what was
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their faith? Did they have faith? You know? So I
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want to talk gently about aging at your best, being
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your best. I just received a beautiful compliment the daughter
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of my wound care nurse and I keep in touch,
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and she's making something for me, and I sent her
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some pictures, recent pictures of me doing some things, and
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she said, miss Gray, you just I know, she's shaking
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her head and she's saying that she goes you just
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you just amazed me because the last time she saw me,
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I was in my lift chair, still bandaged up from
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my surgeries and from the amputations, and I had her
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to come in, and you know, I wanted to meet her.
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And she's a social worker, she's going to school for
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social work. I had nothing to do with that. It
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just so happened. But you know, she's like, wow, she
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just looked at the pictures. She goes, this is amazing,
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This is amazing. No one get wants to age, but
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if you could do it gracefully, it would be best. Yes, missy,
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miss d Z is here in the house. Halelujah. Yes
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you're right. But you got to make up your mind
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how you're going to live. And it goes back to
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that phrase how you living? How you living? If you're
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living rough and tough and you know, business as usual,
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how are you living? What are you doing differently? Okay,
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you knew that there are things of the DNA. You
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knew that the things are in the family. We got
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blood high blood person, we got cardiac issues, we got
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heart attacks, we got this. Okay, So when do you
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decide that you don't want to be a part of that?
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When do you decide that I already know. I was
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thinking today ironically about my aunts on both sides of
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my biological family, that all of a sudden, after they
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hit like sixty, they begin to have all of these
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medical problems coming from left right. I'm like, she got one. Now,
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not what I need to be doing exactly. Hey, Mikky,
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you know, and I'm like, where did this come from?
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It's like it was sitting there waiting and the moment
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they had their sixtieth birthday. Whoosh, it just came from nowhere.
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How are you living? What are you? What are you allowing?
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What are you not allowing?
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You know?
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What are you telling yourself? What are your thoughts? What
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are your conversations with yourself? That's what's what. That's that's
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that's important because we all talk to ourselves, don't and
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we hear voices. So don't get there those those sorry
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tripping By the time you leaving the house, you wonder
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now did I cut the stove off? I had the
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coffee maker on? Now was she supposed to come home? Well?
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One time? Wait a minute, this is a late night.
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But you talking to yourself. So I'm driving by you,
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I'm looking over you, just having a full flashed conversation.
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The only thing I don't know is who you're talking to?
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Are you on the phone? But you're talking because you're like,
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did I many times? How many times I had to
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turn around to make a U turn because I wasn't
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sure the garage door went that? So we all talked
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to ourselves. So let's get over that, all right. It's
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just some of us know when to turn it off.
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Some of us need help doing that simple. But what
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are you telling yourself? What are you telling yourself? But
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you sold some of us, not y'all, not our viewers,
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not the folks on here, not our engineer in the
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back back there. I'm not talking to y'all. I'm just
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saying for the folks who's gonna see this in the future.
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What you know, you know what to do?
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Very true? Hey station, Hey, you're right, probably not what
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we need to be doing. You gotta stop it. You
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gotta stop it. Either you want to live long and
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prosper in the words of Spock, or you just want
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to say, you know, you want somebody to feel sorry
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for you and you want to have this lifelong commentary. No,
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that's not my narrative. No, I'm okay, thank you for
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telling me the history of the family, but that is
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not It stops with me. And I heard a prophet
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confirmed that today. The reason why God is letting you
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know of these health issues and all these things in
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your family, it comes for your daddy's side, it comes
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from your mother's side. But you're here to stop the
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generational curse. And that's what a generational curse is It
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comes through the generations. Most of the time you don't know.
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You hit a certain age and all of a sudden,
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you left me just goes out. It just goes like,
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what happened. I'm working out and I'm doing this, I'm
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eating have them taking my supplements. I eat three salads
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a week. Wait a minute, my knee. Then you go
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to the you can't walk. Then you get to the doctor.
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The doctor says, you're to the arthrow guy or gal.
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And then they do X ray saying, oh, yeah, your
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knee cap has deteriorated. What that which is suppot to
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help the bearding and knee and everything. But guess what,
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you knew Uncle Joe had the same problem and you
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kind of was around the age that he the history
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of the family. They started talking about luck your uncle
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Joe had some knee problems. Oh thanks, uncle Joe. But
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you can't blame uncle Joe. What you doing about it?
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The Bible says in Psalms one, O, three and five,
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I believe pastor please check me. I'll renew your youth
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like the Eagle. And it's more that God says on
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that isn't Psalms. I renew your youth like the egle.
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What does that mean? If you believe in him, you
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gotta ask him to and you thank him as well
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when people get The young lady gave me a compliment.
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That's what I put in the text. Yes, you know
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that's God just renewing my youth like the eagle. She said,
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you look great. You don't look you look great. My
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kids are saying to me mine, you don't look your age.
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I said, well, thank you, y'all. Just try to store
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up on the Christmas gifts, aren't you'll? I know what
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y'all trying to do. I raised y'all, I gave birth ticket.
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I know you're looking at you. But ironically, on both
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sides of my grandmothers were wrinkled at all. Their skin
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was very well preserved, their hair was very well. They
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didn't lose hair. They great up, but they didn't lose hair.
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And I believe they had their natural teeth the rest
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of them. So you know, I've got, I've got. And
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I had to say, oh my God, because I'm always
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talking about I hold the lives of three lineages, three
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sets of family together. No, it's about legacy, and it's
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also about breaking generational curses. That's why I'm here. That's
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why I'm here. He brought me back. I know better.
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I know better. So aging sir, did you did you?
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Was I correct in this? In the in the okay,
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the whole thing? Please if you don't mind, like we
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were Sunday School, could you read the whole please?
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You you are a King James person, so I'll read
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it through King James.
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Okay.
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He satisfie thy mouth with good things, so that thy
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youth is renewed like the eagles.
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Our God, our God wants to do that for us.
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He don't want us hurting, He don't want us limping.
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He doesn't because we represent him. We said, we believe
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in him. And yes we freak out, you know, pastor
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with the blood pressure and me over here trying to
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get my balance and stuff, like I'm sure trade got
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a story or two where she just like totally lost it,
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like why is this happening to me? Where did this
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come from? We've had those. You're gonna have my audience,
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my beautiful audience, my engineer. We all have it. We
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got it, we've had it. But then God wants to
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kick it back to He said, with what you doing
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about it? God said, don't put all this on me.
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We you know, I say, you know, my burden is easy.
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You know my yok is easy, My burden is light.
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I'll remove your shoulders from the burden, but the burden
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will still be there. The history will still be there,
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the narrative will still be there, the DNA is still there.
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Now that you know all of this, what we did,
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what you're doing about it, what you're doing about it.
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And another piece of this God was talking about I
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don't know if he was just having these conversations with
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me about people and borrowing money. And you know, I
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love all and I know somebody's gonna who who has
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borrowed money gonna hear this, so hear my heart. Let
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me tell you something, I don't care who you are.
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If you had to borrow money, you didn't have enough
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to meet whatever the bill or whatever the situation came up.
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And emergencies do happen. Some of us try to have
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a little safety safety kid on the side. We try
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to put a little piece of money along the side.
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Especially if you have a vehicle that's not new, You're
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gonna put some money to the side. So just a
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case I tire or battle something, just in case. That's
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how you should be living, just in case. But you
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have to understand something. God gave me things. He's told
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me today. He said, please tell my people that when
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people borrow money, if you think that they're reputable of
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death and they're gonna pay it back, then go ahead
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and do a promise. There, I regrettedly say, nowhere near enough.
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I need to get better with things. Hey, Charles, thank
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you for joining us today. Please know that the person
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borrowing the money didn't have it, can't make it out,
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can't go and get it, can't get it, can't borrow
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it from nobody else. They had no other choice but
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to call you. Okay, either you give it to them