Jan. 23, 2024

Are You Where You Want to Be?

Are You Where You Want to Be?

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hopes, passion, dreams, achievements, disappointments, celebrations, what's your next

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for choosing W FOURCY Radio. Good
evening, good evening, good evening house.

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Everybody out there, and you worship
land. You better not say that

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too fast, because you may me
saying some other words. Hallelujah to your

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name. God is good and good
all the time. Let's pray. Father,

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We just thank you, we praise
you, we give you glory.

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But you alone are worthy to be
praised. Have your way tonight, God,

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have your way tonight and forever.
The more we stand behind the cross,

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do what you do best, setting
your captives free. In Jesus' name,

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we pray, Amen and amen.
The church said, amen, hallelujah,

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ah okay, how come I okay
are y'all mute it on purpose.

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Hi'strey, how you doing over there? You're doing all right? All right?

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There we go, there we go
and miss Tommy. How's the weather

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on j Bill? Okay, very
good, We're all on one occore.

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Thank you. I think the Northerners
pray that we would definitely be getting this

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freezing weather. They're tied to Florida. They're tied to Florida. Bragg.

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I don't know why y'all want to
brag when people are suffering, you know,

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because you know they're gonna try to
send it our way. Okay,

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So, but God is good.
Now tonight we're gonna talk about where you're

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at, and we're hoping that our
regulars and plus some new visitors come on

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board. We've got some new things
in store the co hosts are not even

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aware of. I'm telling you,
when you steal weigh unto God and you

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purpose to hear from him, when
you purpose to hear from him the things

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you're gonna hear, you, trust
me, you mostly will be totally surprised.

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It's time for change. God is
getting is more serious than ever in

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reaching his his his his elect his
remnant within the room, net and I'm

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telling you it's no joke. And
you all, most of y'all have kept

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up with the news. For those
of you who look at the news at

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least once a month, you're gonna
be surprised because some folks have dropped out

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of the presidential race. Other people
are still there. People already know who

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they're not going to elect. People
already know who they are gonna elect.

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I'm telling you, I see where
doctor King's I guess the baby boy has

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passed away from prostate cancer. Yes, you know, so. I think

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it's just doctor Bernice that's still alive
because the other everybody's gone. Everybody's gone.

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So and there he makes the ninth
person that has passed away since January.

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And the gentleman, the actor,
the director who created oh what was

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the name of his movie? I
just had him right here anyway, he

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just passed away. And you said, doctor. But now doctor King's youngest

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boy, the only remaining boy,
I think because the other brother passed away

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a while back. Mary Jefferson,
who made move struck, I'm sorry,

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hang on tray and moves struck and
in the heat of the night, has

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passed. But yes, Trey his
youngest boy just passed away with prostate cancer

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and he was in his late fifties. No, he was sixty two.

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Oh sixty two okay, sorry,
okay. I thought there was one more

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Martin Martin. Doctor Bernice is the
daughter. It was another sign. I

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thought, no, Dexter is done. Yeah, well this Martin Martin third

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I thought was left. I think
that's that's who we're talking about. I

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think, oh Jesus, heitha because
I want to say I thought it was

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Yeah, there was there's four kids. There was two girls or two boys.

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Yeah, so the sister had and
then the oldest the other son.

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I think it's just doctor Bernice has
left. I could be wrong, yeah,

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but I believe that because I was
like, oh my god. You

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know, I was shocked every time
you hear that when it passed, you

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know. So that brings us to
tonight topic of you know, where are

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you right now? And your your
your dreams, your goals, your accomplishments,

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accomplishments, your relationship, Where are
you? Are you where you wanted

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to be? Are you where you
want to be? Are you almost there?

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Are you close? I've been running
into folks left and right. That's

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just hitting bumpers. I don't know
why they're hitting obstacles they're hitting I don't

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I don't know the why, and
I'm having to help. I'm having to

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help them figure out their why.
Why am I? Why are you here

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at this place? Why do you
feel that you've not accomplished anything? The

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why of this? And where do
you want to be? Where do you

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want to be? A twenty for
me, in my opinion, with us

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shutting down for twenty twenty twenty,
when you were beginning, we were when

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things were beginning to open up,
you had a whole different perspective. We

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had whole different sets of technology available
to us. We I mean, you

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know, you didn't have to do
an in person meeting anymore. You didn't

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have to get online, get on
not only you know, Zoom, you

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had you know, you could do
team X and WebEx and you know you

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had all these options. You did
never have to come back to work again.

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You know, It's okay. We
still got to make the companies run.

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So technology opened its door to us. Technology could well continue. That's

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who we are, this is this
is who we are, this is these

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We're a nation. We are part
of the nations that are out there.

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Technology has to fuel growth, it
has to fuel growth. Unfortunately, there's

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always the evil folks out there that
will pervert it, that will make it

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nasty. We'll make it, you
know, do evil stuff and all kinds

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of crazy stuff. But hacking and
the catfishing and all that kind of stuff.

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So you know, so what happened. What happened. And now we

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got a whole world out here.
And I can't say what's going on in

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Germany or or or Europe or France, but here in the United States,

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people look like they don't want to
work. They don't want to work.

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I mean, we were my son
was on an insurance company call trying to

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just get to talk to somebody,
like they didn't even give the option of

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talking to somebody, like you could
choose from one through nine. Then they

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threw a survey in there. If
you like what you've done so far,

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please press foks zero to ten.
I said, press three, press three,

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maybe we get somewhere, and they
just kept, if you're gonna refer

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somebody to us, what we haven't
talked to anybody. So people don't want

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to work now, So getting back
to us, where are you now?

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Are you? Where you want,
so where are our folks? Where are

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are are? Where's our audience out
there? We need you to come on

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in. I mean, and I
know there's people who sit there just looking.

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You can come on in and tap
it it. Don't be looking.

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You know what we look like.
Let's go. You know, where are

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you at? Where are you?
Where are you? And we're not gonna

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lead it off this time, so
we will sit in darkness. Rebel.

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You have some crickets a cricket sound
bite? I don't think, I don't

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think. Thank you, we'll take
it. Take it, amen, Come

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on, audience, talk to us. Where are you at? We don't

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want you sitting back and suffering anymore. We don't want you sitting back saying,

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oh this is nice, you know, oh this is great. No,

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come on, let's talk to us. Come on, I know country

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seat, somebody's coming through. They're
coming through real fast. Oh let me

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call our names now, don't let
me call our names. But we don't

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want to talk to you all.
We want you talking to us. Where

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are you at? Have you achieved
everything that you thought you would would?

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Are you doing exactly what you intended
to do? Is this fake? You

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know? You have some consultants out
there. They loved it. Oh this

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is quarter one, this is quarter
two. You know it's all fancy jargon.

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But you know, I don't even
know where. I ain't come out

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with the bullpen yet that long.
I'll talk about quarter one. You know

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what I have, but you know
most people haven't. You're back behind the

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eight ball again. What's slowing you
up? What's keeping you what's holding you

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down? Or who? Who?
I'm sorry, I'm not letting the misty.

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I believe I'm where I need to
be right now, raising my family.

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Amen, Okay, misty, we
will accept that you're right. Let

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me tell you. For some people, people are called to their family.

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People are called to their family.
People are called to raise their family,

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no matter what generation it is.
People are called to do that, no

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matter how many other people are involved. People are called I have a friend

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of mine back home. When I
got married and moved up here to Orlando.

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I called on pat. I said, she's the one. She will

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go to the nursing home for you. She will go to the hospital for

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you. I said, when you
look in on my aunt, she lives

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over here on this particular street.
I told my aunt, this young lady's

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going to be calling you on the
regular. You tell her the truth,

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because it's going to be like you're
talking to me, and if you need

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anything, or if she sees that
you need something, you best believe she'll

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let me know. Some people are
called to do that. She's called to

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do that. She's teaching in the
ED. She's in the education system still

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as a prayer professional for disabled students
in wheelchairs. She will stick with a

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student until they twenty thousand years old. I am working, but out in

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the job I want. But working. I'm raising plants to eat. Okay,

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so work in the land a bit. Okay, there you go,

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there you go, there you go. Because God's people. God wants his

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people at ease. He wants his
people and in perfect peace, his perfect

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peace. So what are you doing? Good? So far, so good?

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And waiting for our other young lady
that always pops in and we got

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some other folks. I say,
you're sitting up there and looking, and

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I see that you viewed the page
later on, and you don't want to

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come on. Ain't nobody going to
say nothing to you. Ain't nobody go

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call your name, nothing, but
come on and talk to us. Because

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you ain't calling me two days from
now and say you need prayer. I'm

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giving you a chance right now.
They don't even know who you are.

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Put ABC, you know, one, two, three up there, let's

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go, let's go, all right, co hosts, let me give you

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a quick break while you think about
coming on for us. Yeah, why

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do? The third is still living, thank you, and your niece is

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still living. So it's just too
down. It's just too that's gone.

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It's too that's living, and too
that's gone. Okay, that update is

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done. Then I want to say
for me, I'm gonna help them out

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a little bit tonight. I'm on
my way to where God will want me

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to be. We've been having great
communion. We've been conversing and he's been

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sharing some things to me that I
need to do and some things. But

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I have a sense of peace of
where I'm at to where He's striving me

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to be. So I'm in peace, But yet I'm in stride. I

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have some goals and some things I'm
trying to accomplish, so not some of

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the things I was expecting. But
then there's some things that has not shown

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up that I thought I wanted to
do. But I guess he's saying not

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right now or hold up, you
know. So I'm just being in peace

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with him right now, allowing him
to continue to minister to me, and

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I I'm thankful for him allowing me
to serve others. I did the other

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day it felt so good, and
continue to be that servant. And like

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I said from the beginning, well
I don't know if I said it to

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everyone on this show, but God
has placed in my heart this year one

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the ministry that I've been listening to
under is being in his presence. His

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presence and that has been very notable
to me. But also, like when

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I read in Michael six, he
gave three commands. He say live just,

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he say love, mercy, and
the last one was walk humbly with

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him. So I'm trying to stay
in that aspect of my life and allow

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him to continue that I walk with
him. He's taking me through the hurdles.

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He allowing me to jump through the
hurt, jump over the hurdles.

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Let me say that way that have
tried to come against me and my surroundings.

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So I'm just trusting God and my
faith is just stronger than ever everything.

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Me and my fiance do now.
God First, God first, you

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know before your doing, say well, Lord, you know, no,

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it ain't Lord, you know,
Father God, I place this before you.

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Is this where we are? Is
this where you want us to be?

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Is this where I'm supposed to be? Father? God, direct my

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path and leave me today, Give
me my words to speak today, Let

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my heart give to those that you
want my heart to go to. So

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that's where I'm at today. I
haven't achieved or arrived at some of the

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goals, but I'm on my way. That's my all right, tray,

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tray, all right? But here
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I say? Am I where I
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but I think I'm where I need
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You know, I'm on this big
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last couple of years have definitely been
a journey in a different light. And

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so now it's it's time for trade, you know. It's that's where I

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am. And so what does that
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a little wiggle room. You know, I don't have any obligations right now

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as far as being a caregiver,
I don't. I don't have that you

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know it when I trade it,
of course, but you know that's life.

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Life is life. And but I
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being prayerful, trying to figure out
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of show me where it is I
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So during this walk, I'm very
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as I probably would have done in
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to be silent and like I said, be still and to try to hear

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what he's saying to me. You
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heard him, but you know,
I'm just listening now. It's it's like

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I don't have anything else to kind
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it's so I don't have you know, don't have kids, not in relationship

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right now, so hopefully one day, but you know, like in God's

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time, and he will move and
shake like he does, and I'm just

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just depending on Him to show me
and and and and help me through,

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you know, whatever's going on.
You know, I'm very glad that I'm

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above ground. That's a good thing. You know. I'm happy that I

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have family and friends and you know, people that I enjoy in my circle,

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and very blessed to have you,
ladies, you two rebel in my

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life. Really it makes a difference. And so I look forward to our

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mondays when we are you know,
getting on. I don't know where God

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is going to lead this, but
I think he's pleased with what we're doing

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or what we have been doing,
or what insight. I know, Lisha,

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he talks to you all the time. So but I just you know,

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there's some things that I want to
take care of. There's some things

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I need to take care of.
But right now I'm okay, I'm good.

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Like I said, He's leading me, and I'm just waiting to see,

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Okay, God, if I moved
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so no, that's not the way
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just moving in faith and you know, my creative juices, trying to get

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them back and get it in the
flow. You know, there was some

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things that I wanted to do and
I started doing and like I said,

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getting back into it. And so
but I'm good, I'm good. Well,

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thank you, ma'am. Trey.
You have a vision board, don't

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you do you you know what you
know what I have not done? A

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vision board and I said, I
know, I said that. Look I

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know, I said I was.
I said I was gonna do that.

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But you know this is one thing
too. I was gonna incorporate some other

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folks. So if they want to
do it as well, you know me.

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Let me stop you right there.
Let me stop you right there.

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You have lived a life from the
moment I met you, serving and serving

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others. You have let so much
go by you. You didn't even give

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it a thought because no, I
gotta go do this. No, he's

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gonna need this. She's gonna need
clients too. I'm not even talking about

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family. I'm going about clients.
Eight to nine to five, nine to

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six, eight to four, eight, that's seven. Call me. You

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could call me, give it,
give it everybody your phone number. And

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then you get mad because everybody call
it. I've done give up too many

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secrets. But I need you need
to do this for you, because if

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you incorporate other people because of your
heart, you'll be checking on them more

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than you'll be checking your board.
Mm hmm. You'll be trying to put

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down I told you my law and
God tried to put ask me to put

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him in my vision board. What
man, you better do y'all. What

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are you talking about? It ain't. I don't put the people that the

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professionals that I hire to take care
of effort. I'm not putting you in

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my vision board, you know.
Bless his heart. But and I know

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he got it because he wanted to
make sure I'm covering him in prayer,

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and I got you. That's a
different. You don't go on to prayer.

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You don't go on the vision board. You go over there. So

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what everybody name? But just for
you, yes, I need you to

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do this for you though, m
you crying? Oh Jesus, I didn't

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mean to do that. Oh God, I'm not you. It's not that.

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No, no, no, it's
not it's not. I met the

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hang on. I met one of
my spiritual son's girlfriends the yesterday because she's

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like, I met your mama,
and I met you your grandmother, But

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who is this miss Gray? You
keep talking about miss Gray, you know,

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And so I need to meet her. And she came in that restaurant

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and looked. She walked real slow
when she saw me, real slow.

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I was like, because I'm sitting
at the table, like, come on,

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and I looked at he said,
what can I do for you,

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She's like, and eventually she began
to cry. Didn't know it. I

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was just talking about if you want
to feed the hungry, go feed the

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hungry. Don't wait for anything,
go feed them. Get you some bread

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and get you some mayonnaise and cold
cuts or lunchibles. I did lunchibles one

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time. Just go do it,
you know, Trey. I can say

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this over the air out of love. Yes, I said it behind the

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scenes on the phone. You got
I want you to do this for yourself

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now now that I know you don't
want to sit in and take a look

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at yourself. And some things you
did start and they did not we didn't

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complete them. I get that.
But if it's if God tells you and

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your spirit while you're sitting there with
your journal, don't go getting no corkboard

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and getting magazines and cutting stuff out. That's not you write it down line

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upon line, precept upon precept.
And I'm gonna give you a deadline.

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You got a week to do it, and Sunday will be your your deadline,

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daddy. And I'm calling you,
okay, yeah, and you need

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to at least have seventy five seventy
five yeah, I said it. That

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could be cleaning out your closet,
that could be cleaning the car, that

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could be looking at another car.
I don't care what it is. What

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kind of favorite pet you want?
You want to eat on? We can

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get you one, I think.
Okay, that's true. Okay, we'll

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get your bird. Look at your
bird. Have your moment. What's talking?

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I got you bird? Not the
bird, not the bird? Ooo,

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not the bird. Some fish.
We get you some fish. I'll

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get you a gift card and you
go to Petsmark. They'll get you a

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big old quarterial and sit there,
name every last one of them. That's

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that's what you do. Yeah,
it's your time. You just spoke it.

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He said, it's my time.
It's trade's time now, and now

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you're gonna do it. You got
you got a few days. Sunday,

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I'm calling you, and you're gonna
right. You're gonna just tell me.

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You'll be honest. She's very honest
with me. I can tell you that

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she's very honest. She'll say,
at least I only got thirty, No,

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seventy five, you can go for
seventy five. Your business, not

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my vision board. I have two
businesses. I have my nonprofit I have

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MYLC. I got that in there. I still I put the three kids

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in there just for their future stuff, not right now, but for their

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future, their mates and everything,
the house that they'll have way away from

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me, you know, pets and
everything for me way over. Well I'm

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going out of the country. But
you know, you see what I'm saying.

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So you put everything in your curriculum. Just your business alone, your

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curriculum guides. You're trading guys.
I was talking to her friends about the

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show, and one of the girlfriends
thought I had been and she was only

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listening to some of the conversations and
thoughts I was doing something wrong. She

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said, I sound all into something. I told her, I really am

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a better person listening to this show. Wow. Well we got your crime

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or we got people accused of you
stuff, But you see, you got

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my heart. You got my heart. Sir, you got my heart,

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and we cover you in prayer.
Lord have mercy. You should tell us,

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sister girl, you need to be
listening because maybe you will learn a

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thing or two instead of misinterpreting stuff, because you can get you know,

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that's that's trouble. You can go
back and tell somebody, well I'm gonna

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tell you. Listen, there's some
women on the show. Come on now,

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come on. But it's all good. And thank you sir, thank

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you for and country. See that's
the whole part and point of this.

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When you're open, when you're ready
for change, God will send you a

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mechanism. It may be a podcast, it may be a new church,

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it may be something online. It
may be just a commercial that you've been

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looking at forever, but all of
a sudden, this particular day, it's

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a whole different mes same commercial.
But when you open yourself up to change,

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there's got to be something different.
There's got to be something better.

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It's a whole different ball game.
And he's standing right there with it all.

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God goes say, Okay, he's
getting he's gonna change a few minutes.

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Let me go get it. No, it's right there, because any

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moment you can say, you know
what, I surrender God, I surrender.

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I don't know anything. Please forgive
me for waiting this long. I

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told her she is a messy one. She needs to listen to learn this.

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I told her she was a busy
one. She needs to listen to

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learn to this show, to learn
to be a better person. Hallelujah,

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Amen and Amen. I can't make
this up. I can't make this up.

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There's not much time. There's not
that much time in the world to

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try to come up with No.
That's why we pray. We give it

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to God. That's why we do
it, because he knows who's hurting out

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there. He knows who has questions
that they would dare not ask anybody else.

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He knows. And the young lady
I met, I said, are

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there any questions you've ever had about
a faith walk or anything that you couldn't

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ask anybody. I'm here and if
I don't have the answer, I know

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somebody who does. And she looked
at him and she said, I see

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why you kept her a secret.
And she said, I'm honored to have

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met you. It's not me,
it's not me. You don't know what

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it took to get here. I
had no idea that I'll be back on

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the air, had no idea.
It wasn't in the plan. I'm just

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trying to wrap my head around just
surviving and being able to move unsupervised every

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single day. But I had to
accept some things. I tell people about

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the show all the time, and
I posted on my Facebook so others can

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find it. God bless you,
misty, God bless you. We can't.

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We're not making this up when you're
ready to change. And that's why

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dealing with people in your life space, if they're not ready to change,

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you got to dust the dust off
and walk on. I was hoping twenty

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twenty should have taught some people.
People had to stay in the house.

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People were about to get a divorce, but they could not afford to live

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anyplace else, so they had to
stay together. They just moved to the

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next room. The kids are all
over the place. Then when school opened

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up online and you're trying to why
Johnny is not sitting still. This is

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what the teacher's been telling you.
She's not making it up. She doesn't

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have anything. He doesn't have anything
against your child. Your child needs help.

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And you would think that you learned
something. Yes, it's hard to

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look at your ugliness. It's hard. If you ask God to show you

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yourself, you will be crying for
days. But His love covers us.

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It covers the multitude of stin your
thoughts and what you think you could do.

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You lean into your own understanding.
God's like, okay, I don't

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know when she's gonna get it.
I don't know when she's gonna understand.

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It don't work that way. I
want what's best for her, and the

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best is yet to come. The
best is yet to come. We gotta

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do it because guys, God,
I don't know if you've been looking at

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the use, but a certain state
who had a governor running ain't running no

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more. I ain't running no more. A certain state got other things going

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on, taking people off the balance
and stuff, a certain state discriminating against

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still removing books out of the library, foods all over from all the name

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brands now have been recalled. It's
only gonna get worse because we don't have

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any farmers out there anymore, because
you don't want to pay them. We

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got the weather. The weather said, you know what, y'all not gonna

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get this right. We're gonna have
We're gonna do what we do. Mother

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nature is wreaking havoc everywhere now,
everywhere. Now and then you're gonna look

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up, and when we had the
chance to make a difference to being a

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difference within ourselves, within our homes, within our sphere of influence, We're

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not going to have that chance anymore
either. What you do, will do?

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You do it now, and you
sit back and call it a day.

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Because there have been major things that
have happened in our country, happened

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throughout the world. Winter one day, spring the next. Here yeah yeah,

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yeah, but I'm here to tell
you you got where are you?

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Are? You where you want to
be, And even if sometimes there have

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been times I'm in their places.
I had to go get a job when

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I separated from my husband because child
support is not an income. Child support

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takes care of the children. It
sits in the account. I don't touch

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it. I don't care what bills. I had to go to work.

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Did I want to go to the
work work at the hospital? No,

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everybody trading me was took the stairs. We didn't take no element like what

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the devil? But I lost over
twenty pounds in ninety days. Come on

396
00:32:08.039 --> 00:32:14.920
now because it's what I needed.
And I told God, I said God,

397
00:32:15.079 --> 00:32:16.960
thirty five hours a week. I
know I got to do one week

398
00:32:17.000 --> 00:32:20.319
in a month. And at that
time I didn't think. I didn't know

399
00:32:20.359 --> 00:32:22.880
what's it going to be a hospital? I needed a job for thirty five

400
00:32:22.920 --> 00:32:27.640
hours a week because I was still
doing my acting, still doing my commercials,

401
00:32:27.759 --> 00:32:32.279
so I want to make time for
that. There's some of the things

402
00:32:32.319 --> 00:32:36.400
other come thank you Lord, some
other things coming up. I'm gonna find

403
00:32:36.400 --> 00:32:39.039
out more tomorrow and i'll report next
week when we come on. But there's

404
00:32:39.079 --> 00:32:45.160
this thing called a Transparency Act that
came out of nowhere from Washington, DC.

405
00:32:45.799 --> 00:32:52.319
And if you have a public business
or an LLC, there's one sheet

406
00:32:52.359 --> 00:32:55.759
of paper you've got to complete.
And I one of my spirit other spiritual

407
00:32:55.759 --> 00:33:00.480
songs. He explained it to me, is to make sure you're not laundering

408
00:33:00.559 --> 00:33:04.480
money and make sure that the business
is legit. So you got to send

409
00:33:04.480 --> 00:33:07.759
that to the Secretary of State and
I'll find out more next week to tell

410
00:33:07.759 --> 00:33:12.720
you exactly that. But if you
started a business this month, you've got

411
00:33:12.759 --> 00:33:16.440
thirty days to claim to put this
paper in motion and I'll find out whether

412
00:33:16.640 --> 00:33:20.920
the form isn't exactly and i'll bring
it to the show next week. Things

413
00:33:21.240 --> 00:33:24.000
happening. We don't know about this. Nobody talked about it. Nobody said,

414
00:33:24.039 --> 00:33:30.319
well house build number you know twenty
nine is gonna be this form what?

415
00:33:32.599 --> 00:33:37.640
And there's gonna be more stuff coming
out. I mean, the church

416
00:33:37.759 --> 00:33:42.960
is I don't even I'm not gonna
even go there. But a lot of

417
00:33:43.000 --> 00:33:46.960
secrets, a lot of stuff that's
been going on for years. It's at

418
00:33:47.000 --> 00:33:54.079
our doorstep right now and coming out
everthemore so where you're at now. For

419
00:33:54.200 --> 00:34:01.240
me, I've learned. I wrote
my dream down, my goals, my

420
00:34:01.480 --> 00:34:07.799
hopes of what I know. I'm
supposed to be doing, phases of that

421
00:34:07.559 --> 00:34:13.320
and all that reaching some of them. Getting ready to start the fourth book,

422
00:34:13.800 --> 00:34:19.239
supposed to be out by my birthday, doing a book signing tour.

423
00:34:20.079 --> 00:34:23.679
Okay, okay. But for me, just like over the weekend, the

424
00:34:23.760 --> 00:34:29.079
last two days, especially this morning, God has changed some things that has

425
00:34:29.199 --> 00:34:34.159
flipped it, and I gotta go
with it. I gotta go with it

426
00:34:35.239 --> 00:34:38.880
because I trust him. Is that
only in the state of Florida or country?

427
00:34:38.920 --> 00:34:43.679
Why it's country? Why I believe
Misty, I'll find out definitely,

428
00:34:43.800 --> 00:34:49.719
Tommy, you know something I had. I don't know who it was.

429
00:34:49.800 --> 00:34:55.039
I was listening and was talking about
the transparency, but I didn't fully understand

430
00:34:55.239 --> 00:35:02.679
all of it. And so I've
been waiting for to be where I can

431
00:35:02.880 --> 00:35:08.480
understand it because a lot of times
some of our legislators around here will put

432
00:35:08.519 --> 00:35:13.760
out information breaking it down so they
don't have to read the whole thing,

433
00:35:14.199 --> 00:35:22.679
but give you a good summary of
what it's about. And I I think

434
00:35:22.719 --> 00:35:29.360
in a lot of cases it needs
to be because so often these company embezel

435
00:35:29.519 --> 00:35:36.360
money for their own personal gain as
opposed to the people that are putting the

436
00:35:36.440 --> 00:35:43.480
work and making it happen. So
I think it's a good thing. I

437
00:35:43.519 --> 00:35:52.000
think it's gonna expose and possibly hurt
some smaller businesses. Yeah, but I'm

438
00:35:52.039 --> 00:35:55.159
feeling for these young girls who live
the pop up shops, stops and right,

439
00:35:55.599 --> 00:36:00.480
because if you got an LLC,
you got the show. It's it's

440
00:36:00.519 --> 00:36:07.679
almost like having a fible one three
A for profit. Yeah, it's not

441
00:36:07.760 --> 00:36:12.119
like if one three C Yeah,
for profit, Yeah, exactly like it.

442
00:36:12.159 --> 00:36:15.480
That's the great, that's right,
that's perfect, that's spot on.

443
00:36:15.039 --> 00:36:19.000
And so that's and that's what I
was kind of taking it, but I

444
00:36:19.079 --> 00:36:24.000
just wanted to make sure that was
what I understood. But looking at it,

445
00:36:23.719 --> 00:36:28.920
it is strong, it is very
strong, and it's it's going to

446
00:36:28.960 --> 00:36:36.000
break some people down. So that's
it. But I thank God for you

447
00:36:36.159 --> 00:36:44.719
ms Gray because of me journaling,
it's helping me to be able. I

448
00:36:45.000 --> 00:36:54.000
think I'm taking on the how you
said the division board in a list.

449
00:36:54.039 --> 00:36:59.079
When you said that to trade,
I'm like, if you don't, get

450
00:36:59.119 --> 00:37:08.000
out of my business, just because
I've been writing things down and kind of

451
00:37:08.960 --> 00:37:13.280
trying to see so I can go
back and check and check it off.

452
00:37:13.440 --> 00:37:15.920
Is this done? Is that done? Can I cover this? You know?

453
00:37:16.320 --> 00:37:20.679
How do I cover this? How
do I? Can? You stop?

454
00:37:20.719 --> 00:37:23.360
You? Right there? There's no
eye in it? Well, God

455
00:37:23.559 --> 00:37:30.000
is exactly and I under saying what
you're saying. Yeah, I do understand.

456
00:37:30.360 --> 00:37:32.679
However, no, you got to
take yourself out of it because you'll

457
00:37:32.760 --> 00:37:37.280
never achieve it right, and you
never achieve it. And you're trying to

458
00:37:37.320 --> 00:37:39.480
have a good heart. You have
a good intentions, yes, but things

459
00:37:39.719 --> 00:37:44.159
happen. Life rolls up on you. We're almost at the end of the

460
00:37:44.239 --> 00:37:49.079
month. Already half of it is
lone. It's gone. We're the twenty

461
00:37:49.159 --> 00:37:53.119
second of January, Yes, the
twenty eighth, this weekend, that's it.

462
00:37:53.920 --> 00:37:59.679
Listen, We're done. Jere is
here with this twenty nine days.

463
00:38:00.360 --> 00:38:05.239
That's hope. The smoke, it's
a plus of smoke. Yeah, yeah,

464
00:38:05.599 --> 00:38:07.800
so you you you want to have
those goals and then, like I

465
00:38:07.840 --> 00:38:12.039
said, the Lord has me to
check mine off every thirty days. Steve

466
00:38:12.079 --> 00:38:15.280
Harvey supposedly checks his off every day. That's how tight he had to put

467
00:38:15.320 --> 00:38:19.440
himself on it on a leash.
You know, I got checked. He

468
00:38:19.519 --> 00:38:21.760
checks his every day. That's what
he did when he first started. I

469
00:38:21.760 --> 00:38:23.559
don't know where he's at right now, but I know for me it's every

470
00:38:23.639 --> 00:38:28.960
thirty days. And those dates sometimes
change because the whole experience said, okay,

471
00:38:29.280 --> 00:38:30.599
check your board, and I won't
question and say, well, I'm

472
00:38:30.599 --> 00:38:34.039
supposed to do that on such Okay, you told me go check it,

473
00:38:34.320 --> 00:38:36.519
and I miss check it. Just
check it. I'm like, oh my

474
00:38:36.639 --> 00:38:38.440
god, just check it. And
I put my favorite scriptures on their too.

475
00:38:38.519 --> 00:38:43.039
Trade that may help too. Put
your favorite scriptures on there. Put

476
00:38:43.079 --> 00:38:46.480
your prayer points on there. That
could be helpful as well, list of

477
00:38:46.599 --> 00:38:50.920
one at a time. But I
just recently put my prayer points on mind.

478
00:38:52.199 --> 00:38:58.559
Yeah, thank you. Yeah that
sounds great. MH tray you all

479
00:38:58.639 --> 00:39:00.760
right, Oh no, no,
no, I am. You know.

480
00:39:01.000 --> 00:39:06.519
It's like I said, it's just
sometimes you just need to hear things,

481
00:39:07.519 --> 00:39:08.800
you know, sometimes you just need
to hear it. And I think,

482
00:39:08.920 --> 00:39:15.400
too, uh, it's time for
me to do that, and I think

483
00:39:15.519 --> 00:39:20.000
to just the gratification of being able
to help somebody else as well, because

484
00:39:20.039 --> 00:39:23.679
it makes it makes me feel like
I'm making a difference. And so you

485
00:39:23.760 --> 00:39:27.159
know, if I ever leave this
earth, and when I leave this earth,

486
00:39:27.400 --> 00:39:30.039
you know, I just want to, you know, let the work

487
00:39:30.079 --> 00:39:34.159
out done speak for me and good
job, my good and faithful service.

488
00:39:34.239 --> 00:39:37.400
So you know, I servant.
I just want to be able to know

489
00:39:37.559 --> 00:39:43.119
that I've been productive in between those
dashes, you know, And you have,

490
00:39:43.519 --> 00:39:47.559
Trey, you have You've got timber
stored up in heaven. I promise

491
00:39:47.639 --> 00:39:55.119
you a little dust stick, but
it's up there. Okay, we've been

492
00:39:55.159 --> 00:39:59.280
at this for a while, but
now it's for you. And you know

493
00:39:59.360 --> 00:40:02.559
what the beauty think about you,
it's not so I don't know how you're

494
00:40:02.639 --> 00:40:05.960
thinking it, Like, okay,
I gotta take this time. I got

495
00:40:06.079 --> 00:40:10.360
to wipe down my passion, my
goals, my dreams, my hopes.

496
00:40:10.440 --> 00:40:14.079
Well, guess what I will tell
you. Over fifty percent of it is

497
00:40:14.119 --> 00:40:21.440
for other people. And you're probably
right. I mean, I'm pretty sure

498
00:40:21.519 --> 00:40:24.599
you are. It's it's not a
whole lot of things. I said.

499
00:40:24.639 --> 00:40:30.719
Okay, of course I would love
to be a philanthropist. That's my goal,

500
00:40:30.840 --> 00:40:36.639
because you know, I just see
a passion for folks and in organization,

501
00:40:36.800 --> 00:40:38.639
and I don't know, I thrive
off of it. It's like a

502
00:40:38.800 --> 00:40:44.280
natural high and I can't explain it. But when I'm in emotion and I

503
00:40:44.480 --> 00:40:51.719
see that somebody who's voiceless getting the
benefit of either something I've said or something

504
00:40:51.800 --> 00:40:57.199
I've done, and nothing like grandiose, How is your morning? How are

505
00:40:57.280 --> 00:41:00.559
you doing? A smile? These
things are very important because people are going

506
00:41:00.599 --> 00:41:04.760
through some stuff. They are.
When I say people are going through things,

507
00:41:05.360 --> 00:41:08.679
they are going through some things.
They're angry, they're frustrated. You

508
00:41:08.800 --> 00:41:13.760
know, they don't have some of
the resources. You know, homelessness,

509
00:41:13.920 --> 00:41:19.760
hopelessness, you know, hungriness,
you know, not having shelter, all

510
00:41:19.840 --> 00:41:24.159
the job that's unemployed, underemployed,
folks are medical issues, Folks are going

511
00:41:24.239 --> 00:41:29.920
through some things and so and it's
not It doesn't cost anyone a thing to

512
00:41:30.039 --> 00:41:35.000
say, how is your day?
How are you doing? I hope your

513
00:41:35.079 --> 00:41:37.880
day is going well? And I
try to do that. When I'm emailing

514
00:41:38.000 --> 00:41:43.199
something, I always start off with
that, or if I'm texting, how

515
00:41:43.320 --> 00:41:45.159
are you? I hope your day
is going well? Because you do.

516
00:41:45.599 --> 00:41:51.039
I really do hope people's days are
going well because they might not be and

517
00:41:51.199 --> 00:41:58.159
that might be the only only positive
bird phrase that they hear during the day.

518
00:41:58.800 --> 00:42:00.840
You know, they got the boss
on them that frustrated with the job

519
00:42:00.920 --> 00:42:05.719
and can't afford to leave it.
You know, folks experiencing stuff. You

520
00:42:05.800 --> 00:42:08.119
know, you got children, children
are going through stuff. You can't make

521
00:42:08.280 --> 00:42:12.840
ends meet, they're sick, you're
taking time off work. The boss wants

522
00:42:12.880 --> 00:42:15.719
you there, but you got your
child that you don't have anybody to take

523
00:42:15.800 --> 00:42:20.239
care. These are everyday things that
people don't think of, So it doesn't

524
00:42:20.400 --> 00:42:22.960
you know, it doesn't hurt when
you say I hope you're doing okay.

525
00:42:22.679 --> 00:42:27.320
You know a pound, a dap
or you know, a smile or something

526
00:42:27.440 --> 00:42:31.239
like that. There's enough grumpiness and
grouchiness and hatiness around. We don't need

527
00:42:31.360 --> 00:42:36.280
all that. And I think if
each person just did that one time a

528
00:42:36.400 --> 00:42:38.599
day, at least one time a
day, to someone, how are you,

529
00:42:39.760 --> 00:42:44.440
Oh, I'm fine because it shocks
them. Thank you for asking.

530
00:42:44.800 --> 00:42:49.159
You know, it's it doesn't hurt. It doesn't hurt to do that.

531
00:42:49.360 --> 00:42:52.800
And I think kindness and I don't
know, my heart is for folks.

532
00:42:53.320 --> 00:42:58.079
If I make a smile or something. Wow, it was just something that

533
00:42:58.239 --> 00:43:01.639
simple. Let me do more of
that because maybe that person needed that today.

534
00:43:02.840 --> 00:43:06.880
And I you know, I'm fast, I feel blessed. You know.

535
00:43:06.960 --> 00:43:09.360
It's not like I have a whole
lot, but you know, I'm

536
00:43:09.440 --> 00:43:13.480
living. Yes, things happen in
my life could have taken me out of

537
00:43:13.519 --> 00:43:16.639
here, but it didn't. And
so that was the opportunity for me to

538
00:43:16.719 --> 00:43:21.400
say, Okay, you need to
do some stuff, you know, to

539
00:43:21.480 --> 00:43:24.159
make sure you do more of and
then you know, try to make a

540
00:43:24.239 --> 00:43:29.960
difference somewhere and try to be the
best person. And I really every day

541
00:43:30.039 --> 00:43:34.599
going into say I will treat somebody
the way I would want to be treating

542
00:43:34.639 --> 00:43:37.320
it. And people that know me, it's not too many people that I

543
00:43:37.400 --> 00:43:40.719
say I don't care for you know, it's no if I'm close to you.

544
00:43:40.840 --> 00:43:45.440
There's some folks that are not in
my circle, some politicians and stuff

545
00:43:45.480 --> 00:43:49.360
I don't care for I don't like, but in my circle or people that

546
00:43:49.440 --> 00:43:52.599
I've encountered, people don't say she
doesn't care. If I don't care for

547
00:43:52.679 --> 00:43:55.119
you, it is something that you
have done. Because I try to be

548
00:43:55.440 --> 00:44:00.320
good in everybody, because there is
good is you keep telling people you bad

549
00:44:00.400 --> 00:44:05.320
bad to gonna be that. So
I just try to that's just my emo.

550
00:44:06.519 --> 00:44:09.760
Well, as you can tell now, God is snatching the tablecloth off

551
00:44:09.800 --> 00:44:14.280
of a whole lot of stuff because
we look at people and we were like,

552
00:44:14.400 --> 00:44:17.800
oh wow, that person's inspiring,
that person's motivating. But there's stuff

553
00:44:17.840 --> 00:44:22.719
that goes on behind closed doors.
There are hidden agendas. There are all

554
00:44:22.880 --> 00:44:25.400
that and more. So. I
don't want people hurting after the covers are

555
00:44:27.400 --> 00:44:34.280
taking off. So it's best to
prepare yourself. Don't worship people, don't

556
00:44:34.360 --> 00:44:39.159
idolize things, be careful of what
that looks like. Check yourself daily if

557
00:44:39.199 --> 00:44:44.639
you have to, until it becomes
a habit and you walk it out.

558
00:44:44.920 --> 00:44:50.360
There's nobody perfect. You will never
be a sin less. You try not

559
00:44:50.519 --> 00:44:53.159
to sin. You try not to
have a negative thought. You try not

560
00:44:53.320 --> 00:44:57.840
to cut somebody out. You try
not to say, you know what,

561
00:44:58.480 --> 00:45:01.079
I gotta go do this, and
try trying. As long as you're trying

562
00:45:01.360 --> 00:45:07.840
your best, God is looking at
that. Even the disciples walking with Jesus.

563
00:45:09.360 --> 00:45:13.519
Jesus had to look at Peter and
say you're gonna deny me. Three

564
00:45:13.559 --> 00:45:15.880
times Peter said no, God,
I want I can imagine Peter got up

565
00:45:15.920 --> 00:45:19.519
in his face, but I said, I will never deny you. How

566
00:45:19.559 --> 00:45:23.320
can you say that? And before
Jesus could be taken away in shackles,

567
00:45:23.480 --> 00:45:28.639
he's already people like you walk with
him. No I didn't, aren't you

568
00:45:28.719 --> 00:45:32.000
one of the other those fellows don't
know? I'm not. And then he

569
00:45:32.039 --> 00:45:38.119
did it before the crow, you
know, sounded off three times. Jesus

570
00:45:38.199 --> 00:45:43.599
told them, before the crow,
the chick and the rooster, you know,

571
00:45:44.000 --> 00:45:52.639
does this thing three times, you
will have denied me. And Peter

572
00:45:52.800 --> 00:45:54.159
was the one. He said,
upon this rock, I build my church

573
00:46:00.039 --> 00:46:04.599
so that there. So let's let's
let's not get too deep here, you

574
00:46:04.679 --> 00:46:07.079
know, and said, oh,
well, we're not like you. Well,

575
00:46:07.199 --> 00:46:10.519
no, you can't be like me, and you won't be like me.

576
00:46:10.800 --> 00:46:16.440
But be the best you you can
be and check yourself. I don't

577
00:46:16.480 --> 00:46:20.960
need to hear the excuses. Where
are we going, what are we doing?

578
00:46:21.360 --> 00:46:27.480
What's next? It was a blessing
the Lord, young lady, I'm

579
00:46:27.480 --> 00:46:30.760
gonna finish this, and everybody,
you all have your We got got about

580
00:46:30.800 --> 00:46:32.920
three minutes when I was meeting the
young lady and stuff, and I mean

581
00:46:34.159 --> 00:46:38.119
we were there for hours. And
then I said, I'm gonna put a

582
00:46:38.159 --> 00:46:42.159
demand upon your the anointing of God
in your life. I like doing that

583
00:46:42.280 --> 00:46:44.519
to some people. And she said, oh no, no no, I

584
00:46:44.559 --> 00:46:45.360
said, no, what do you
see for me? Oh no no no,

585
00:46:45.639 --> 00:46:50.360
yes, yes, yes, yes, talk to me. Talk to

586
00:46:50.440 --> 00:46:52.800
me. If you if we were
just meeting here for the first what do

587
00:46:52.880 --> 00:46:57.239
you see and meet? She couldn't
help it. It had to come out,

588
00:46:58.119 --> 00:47:01.199
and she said some things, and
I looked at my spiritual sund he

589
00:47:01.360 --> 00:47:06.519
just went I said, there you
go. Now, you just tore it

590
00:47:06.599 --> 00:47:09.880
up. You just charted out my
next course and you just confirmed it.

591
00:47:09.920 --> 00:47:15.119
Then you don't know nothing about me. So that's I think that's the biggest

592
00:47:15.159 --> 00:47:19.280
thing he's gonna have me do.
He's having me do, really pull out

593
00:47:19.360 --> 00:47:22.880
the best in people that they can't
see for themselves and help them just see

594
00:47:22.920 --> 00:47:29.800
how they can start on their way
on that new journey. And someonere not

595
00:47:29.920 --> 00:47:35.159
gonna like it because sometimes you have
to stop and pivot. And you thought

596
00:47:35.199 --> 00:47:37.719
you were supposed to go down in
this way, but God said no,

597
00:47:37.199 --> 00:47:43.360
we're going this way today. We
only got two more minutes. Anybody want

598
00:47:43.360 --> 00:47:51.719
to say anything else, Okay,
I'm just gonna pick it back off of

599
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what Trey said. I love it
makes my day. I've been working in

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a high school and I'll say good
morning or how you doing, and the

601
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kids a turn is saying I'm doing
good, thanks for asking, and it's

602
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like their face turn as if they're
saying, I'm gonna looking for nobody to

603
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say that to me. But so
it's like, wow, somebody care,

604
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and it's you know, it's it's
it's a great feeling. But I'm not

605
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gonna take the whole two minute trait
because you got to have your part.

606
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But anyway, I just want to
say I just enjoy lifting other people up

607
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and seeing their faces smile and look
different, like oh, I'm so surprised

608
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somebody care and thinking of me.
Tray. Well, I'm not gonna take

609
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a oh my goodness. But anyhow, so I think, you know,

610
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before you looking at things, just
you know, think about what you're gonna

611
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say. And and that's are you
trying to build someone up or tear someone

612
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down? Just ask us two questions. If you're trying to build someone up,

613
00:49:05.960 --> 00:49:07.960
just think about what you're about to
say. In the impactage, it

614
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might need some silence or whatever to
be able to do that, but just

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try to just acouraging word every day. That's that's all I'm saying couraging word

616
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and act Alicia back night. We'll
see you next week, same time,

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same station. How could we do
better? Get a path that we should

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be on? Misty tune in next
week. We'll pick that up right there.

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I promise you take care. Now
I can die