Happy Father's Day

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Well, good evening, Good evening, and welcome to God's mighty,

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mighty children of faith and of belief
and of hearers and doers. In the

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name of Jesus, how's everybody welcome
to another Monday night show. A segment

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discussion full of the Holy ghosts on
setting it Straight with Miss Gray. We're

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gonna have an awesome night tonight.
I have with me my fabulous co host

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Passor Migal. How are you,
sir? I'm doing well. I'm digging

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your new glasses. I just yes, I got a little little little supply

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little arson of them. Yes,
yes I do. God is good.

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But let's pray Father God We thank
you, we praise you, We give

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you glory, for you alone of
worthy to be praised. Father, God,

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have your way tonight, Have your
way tonight. I know what the

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devil is trying to do. He
has failed. He will never succeed,

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he will never ever be able to
distract us, steal from us, annoy

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us. We already got the victory, and we thank you Father God.

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Now Lord, as always, this
is your show. We are your children.

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We get behind the cross. You
have your way on like ever before.

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In Jesus' name, we pray,
Amen and amen. How are you

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again? Fabulous audience out there,
I know you all will be signally in

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shortly. I'm just so glad.
We are supposed to have a guest tonight,

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so he still may show up.
And when he does, then we're

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gonna cut to the camera. The
camera cut to him, and we'll introduce

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him and we'll go from there.
But if not, you know we can

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handle this. You know we can
handle this in the it ghost. So

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this is God's will, God's way. We step out of the out of

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the light and light we stepped.
We don't even be in the light.

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We're in the darkness, waiting.
We wait for the call. We wait

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for the call, We wait for
the call. Well, I've been thinking

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about our audience that checks in with
us and hangs out with us, and

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was praying strategically about them and for
them this weeken as the Lord led.

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So I pray that things are well. And I know right now we've got

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a tornatic and and hurricane type and
just rain and craziness with heat and everything

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else going on. We've got odd
animals appearing in the United States that don't

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belong here, from birds to fish. We've got the elephants taking off because

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they finally realized they're a little stronger
now so they can pull that peg out

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of the dirt and just run.
Yeah, we're here. This is it,

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This is it, And we don't
know from day to day what's gonna

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happen. We've got people who,
uh, you know, I'm not gonna

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get I'm not gonna do political on
here at all, but that's gonna impact

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our lives. We've got inflation.
Interest rates are going up. We've got

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utility companies are gonna impose bills if
you use your a desk. Got you

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see he said, we are here, thank you, sir. We've got

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utility companies getting ready to hike up
the bill during if you run your AC

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during peak hours, which is between
one and six, Uh, they're gonna

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charge your extra. And at least
I mean that's Orlando. Oh you see

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y Orlando utilities. But you know
when one go, when one starts it

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off, the domino effect happened.
And as you see every day now every

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week, at least there's a vegetable
or a candy or a beverage. Uh,

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that's being recalled after the fact,
you know. So you know,

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we got cars and vehicles being recalled
and we've got here lately. I just

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happened to glimpse the news. I
don't watch the news every day, but

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the Lord will tell me don't change
the channel. Two young kids were hit.

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Two sets of accidents where a car
hit kids here in Orlando. So

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you know it's here and it's time
for safety. I'll say it until I

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take my last breath. You need
to be safe. You need to be

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using wisdom. You need to be
using discernment. If you don't feel you

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have discernment, you need to ask
God for discernment. That's a spiritual nor.

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Most people decide to describe it as
their gut or their instinct or I

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had a hunch, Well it goes
a little deeper. We want one hundred

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percent. We need to be living
in our homes, outside our homes,

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functioning at our jobs, at the
church, whatever, understanding with a heightened

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sense of discernment, so that you
will be alert in the spirit of what's

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happening in the natural. I think
that's the best way I could describe it.

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Past Or, do you agree or
can you add to or change that

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definition. What's interesting you bring that
up because one thing, one thing I

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learned that whatever we see in the
physical already happened in the spiritual world.

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So it's a very interesting that you
bring that up. And it also interesting

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you bring up that intuition. You're
absolutely right. Intuition is a form of

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discernment. And what people don't understand
is that when God speaks to us,

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he speaks to us in the spiritual
realm called fellowship, and this is where

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God communicates to us, and then
from there the spirit then starts to discern

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whether it's true or not. The
electric builds are going up, so I

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completely understand that. And then from
there, when you go from the discernment

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part, it goes to the mind
of the spirit, and then from the

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mind of the spirit it goes to
the soul and that just goes into a

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whole new different realm there. And
I'm not going to get too deep,

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but we have to understand that when
it gets to the soul, emotions will

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and emotions and will gets involved in
that because it affects us emotionally. And

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then we decide whether we want to
do it or not. And that's where

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we get ourselves into trouble. And
just as you said, it's great that

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that that's something that we have to
really implement that what we hear is it

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coming from God? Is it just
coming from from from the enemy side,

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Because we want to trick ourselves in
the sense of what we want to do

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this and I really want to do
it. And then the first indication and

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you get, oh, there's a
sign, and then you start going and

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then it blows up in your face
and you're like, well, well,

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it was a sign, but it's
it was a sign to yourself that you

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wanted it. But God's plan is
much greater and and and it has more

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rewards. It doesn't let you crash
into walls, so it was a very

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very very good segue that you you
brought up, Miss Gray, and and

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thank you so much. Oh yeah, it's hard, yeah, yeah,

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because you'll hear your voice, Mickey, You're hear your voice. And I

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shared with you all before that one
of this I used to just I could

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hear five voices. I used to
hear six voices, and one of those

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voices was mine, you know.
And out of that old that was at

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least three was God and Jesus of
the Holy Spirit, but there was those

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others, you know. And I
finally decided to sit and I said,

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Lord, I'm not going to church. I'm not praying for another per said,

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I'm not reading my words until you
speak to me. And I know

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your voice distinctly. I need to
know the three of you, all your

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voice distinctly. I'm not moving until
you do it for me, until you

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do it. And one more thing, and and biblically and to your point,

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mis Gray, when Mary, you
know Mary was was was engaged to

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Joseph, and then when the angel
showed up bringing the good news that you're

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going to have the savior of the
world. When she came back to Joseph,

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Joseph was ready to hide tail it
out of there. That was a

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confirmation of it's what's going to happen
is going to be according to God's will.

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So whenever you man do something and
we're going to do it according to

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God's will, we should be prepared
for confrontation for or discouragement for dowbt,

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for whatever wants, whatever it wants
to get in the way. That's what's

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going to happen. And that's going
to be the confirmation of, oh,

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I'm getting all of this pushback.
This is for God, and that's why

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you need to focus on completing the
task ahead of you. So this way

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you're honoring God through your actions and
through your words. Amen. Amen,

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and yeah, yeah, I hear
you allowed and clear on that. Hey

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tright try that's right. Hey,
good evening family. You know what,

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I think the reason our guest is
in North Carolina and I believe the time

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is different there, but I thought
he would know his Eastern time, but

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I don't know, and I'm not
able. I can't. I'm all my

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I'm using my phone tonight because of
course, you know, the devices want

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to act up. So you know, I said nothing, no devil will

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stop the show and never will.
So I got on here, so I

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can't contact him to say, hey, hop on now if you can,

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because it may be a time difference
from North Carolina. It's not. It's

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the same, Okay, all right, So I'm off of that. We're

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gonna just go ahead and wing it. This is We're gonna talk some more

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about what we are talking about,
but we're gonna also say Happy Father's Day.

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There's a chat here. Okay,
okay, thank you, Happy Father's

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Day. I know it's coming up, it's coming up, and we have

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Pastor Miguel representing, but also you
have two women who are daddy's girls,

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and and you know, so you
know, we could talk about that,

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but I think we wanted to our
guest was it's gonna he was. Our

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guest represents the Chaplains, uh and
the Mark Chaplain in the marketplace where I'm

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certified to be one, and I
thought he would be ideal because now he

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is the father of many, even
internationally as well. So if we don't,

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if we're not able to get him
tonight, we'll bring him back.

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We'll get in next week or whenever
we can. But I wanted to talk

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about, you know, has fatherhood
changed. Has it changed? How is

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it looking? Is it the same? Because I know I was just telling

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my oldest son yesterday or maybe earlier
today. I think it was yesterday.

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You know. I wish my father
would have lived long enough to meet you,

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because you would be out on a
fishing boat with him. I probably

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would never see my child because he's
a boy, and he would have been

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taken him, you know. And
I don't care if my daddy could be

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ninety nine years old, if he
could drive, he come get him or

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he tell me, you take us
to the creek over there. You know,

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I want to go fishing. And
I tell my kids all the time,

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I wish you would have met my
dad because he would have loved you

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guys, my mom as well.
But my daddy would have been like,

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oh my god, I got a
grand child, you know. And he

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wouldn't know what to do with the
twins. I know he wouldn't know what

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to do. He wouldn't even know
what to do. But yeah, so

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in your mind, so happy Father's
Day, pastor ahead of time and all

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the past, all the fathers out
there, Happy Father's Day early. We

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appreciate you all. We we we
asked God to strengthen you and to be

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help you, to be the rest
of what you're supposed to be, and

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to know that even though you may
not feel it all the time, but

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you're loved, you're needed, and
we need you, you know, to

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do what God has purposed you all
to do. So, Pastor, I

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don't know if y'all, if you
know, if there's some surprise that's coming

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up for you this weekend, or
if you all as a family celebrate that,

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I don't know, what does that
look like for you? Sometimes?

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Well, it's it's it's it's it's
gonna be interesting because I have my youngest

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son and my youngest daughter in Orlando, so that's kind of nice. And

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then my oldest daughter is in Sarasota, and my oldest son isn't Indianna.

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So it's all over the place.
And to answer your question, Miss Gray,

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fatherhood has changed a great deal.
When I grew up watching my dad

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work, it was something that I
saw and it was something that I said,

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I have to do for my family
when the time comes. But I

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really in my spiritual walk is where
I really had my eyes open, where

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I bought the fathers were the ones
that reared children and it was the fathers

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that taught the children. I'm from
a Hispanic background, Hispanic culture, and

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it was reverse mom was the one
that reared the kids while the father went

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hunting. And this is where we
really get to see the big difference between

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the Jewish culture, which the Bible
really touches on, and the importance of

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fatherhood and teaching their sons their children
not only the Jewish culture, but the

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way of the Lord. And today
today that's something that truly is missing because

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since the sixties, and I'm going
to go back from the sixties till today,

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a lot of single moms out there, a lot of single moms out

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there, and without a father figure, it becomes challenging. And I went

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to a situation where I had to
raise my two sons because their mother and

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I went our own separate ways,
and I had to rear two teenage boys.

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That explains the gray hair all over
myself. So that was but but

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it, you know, for you, for the single moms out there,

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I applaud you. You guys are
absolutely amazing you You you not only did

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you bring a child onto the world, but you also reared the children that

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that's a lot of hats and miss
Gray, I know your children, and

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I give you accolades because outstanding job. Outstanding job. And we fathers have

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to understand that we've got a role
and we cannot take it lightly. We

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cannot take it lightly. And in
fact I follow. His name is doctor

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Evans, doctor Tony Evans, and
he is very very passionate about fathers leading

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the way of rearing the family,
leading the family and how men should be

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involved with their sons, with their
family, because it's a significant role that

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we're given. So it's something that
we should not take lightly. It's something

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that we should really focus on,
and not to discount mothers, but we're

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there to be their partners. We
need to be there beside them, walking

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and being able to raise the family
as as a as a unit. Not

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that's your job. My job is
to work. It doesn't work that way.

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And and I definitely learned that from
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but seeing the errors of my ways. And tell you something that I've come

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to realize, and I and fathers
that are out there, I think it's

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it's time that we should kind of
look in the mirror and saying what can

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I do different to make a difference
in my family, and to me,

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that's that's absolutely essential. Yes,
well, congratulations and and we need you.

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You know, everybody's situation is different. I know, folks, you

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know we know the back back,
everybody's backstory, everybody's narrative, however you

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want to pin. It is different, and people have reasons for doing and

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feeling the way they do, and
and we get it. But at the

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end of the hour now, because
we are in the times more than ever

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before, we only have a few
more things left before you know, Jesus

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says, Okay, that's it.
It's a wrap. Unlike twenty years ago

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or last year even you know,
we're closer now. Get things right.

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And I'm not saying you go back
into the situation or whatever and it wasn't

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really your fault, but get it
right with your heart. Get it right

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with your heart before you lay it
out, before you take you close your

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eyes tonight, because we are not
promised tomorrow. I know now five people

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that will never see today, five
people, and one almost had a critical

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accident in another state and his wife
had to fly out to one and he's

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you know, and and he's you
know there he's surviving. So tomorrow is

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not promised at all. And I've
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family and that I can live with. I prayed through it. I asked,

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God, you direct me on this. He corrected me, He showed

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me, yes, in many ways, your feelings are valid, and I

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didn't. You're not in the family
to be this and be that. You

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take your stand. What you want
to tolerate. You don't want to,

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you don't have to. That's not
that's that has nothing to do with the

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Kingdom, nothing to do with you. I'm not gonna let people continue to

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use you and may I'll treat you
and mistreat you and talk about you and

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try to use you. No.
So if you want to opt out from

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the pain, I opt out from
the pain. I opt out because I

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did good. I took care of
my mother and my father like we all

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have here on the show. And
I don't lose any sleep. I know

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that my days are going to be
long. You know so. But you

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have to make a decision, and
now more than ever, prophecy prophetically,

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God is saying, I'm gonna have
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you because you wonder why you're not
moving ahead, you're wondering why you're every

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time you turn it as a block. Well, you keep telling everybody what

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you're doing. Next, you keep
telling everybody where you are. On the

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Kardashian show, Kendall, uh,
you know, she's posting on everything she

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supposed to them, going here and
going there, see where I'm going,

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see you know, in California.
And then all of a sudden she gets

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holding her house was broken into What
did you think you're exempt? Where were

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your security people? No? Oh
they were with you. Nobody was watching

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the house. What's wrong with this
picture? So if you tell everybody everything,

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and I had to stop even sharing
the blessings of the Lord on my

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social media because you got somebody want
to jab back at Oh, well,

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you know God's not gonna do that
for everybody. Oh you know you're gonna

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make it happen for your kids.
Whoa whoa whoa tive out double drippling.

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You know what you're talking about here. You're supposed to be a christ believer

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and you're coming after me. You're
judging me, you're telling whoa. Okay,

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So I said, well, Lord, I can't even post the glory

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the goodness of you I'm trying to
encourage people. It's a sad day,

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but there this season right now,
it's not evenna see right now, this

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very moment seven twenty three p m. On June tenth, twenty twenty four,

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You're gonna have to make some decisions
on cutting people out of your life.

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You've been carrying dead way for a
long time and you're wondering why I'm

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not getting ahead. I know,
we talked about this last week. We

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began to talk about it. It's
real now like ever before. And it's

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hard. I get it because if
you're obligated, if you're you're obligated,

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Well, that's my child, Well, that's my brother, that's my sister,

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that's my mom. But if they've
been talking about you, they have

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not a nice thing to say.
You try to say I had a relative

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say that. I said, oh, I wrote my first book. Go

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if that's what you wanted to do. No, hey, that's great.

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Or my child, my kids that
they're just drawing, Oh, well your

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aunt do that. She do that
all the time, And I'm like,

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well, does she produce her work
anywhere? My kids taking it to the

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next level. They're producing their work, they're getting paid to do other drawings

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and illustrations for people. I can't
even say nothing. You can't even bring

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it to yourself to celebrate me.
You can't even say a good thing about

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us. So no, you're dead
weight. You're done. You don't have

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access to me anymore. I don't
care who you are. And if you

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say, oh, well now,
it's great you really you know, we

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trust you, we like you,
You're funny and everything. But that's taking

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it a bit far. Well.
I could give you some scriptures. Go

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to the New Testament. Read any
of the four Gospels. See how they

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treated Jesus. Family included, family
included who hunging, who hunging? Who

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always criticized. You're healing on the
sabbath? Really really? Oh, we

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ain't supposed to heal all the Sabbath. Oh my God, Really, it's

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time, guys, and we only
I'm only saying this because I love you

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with the love of the Lord.
I know that there are those out there

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that are chosen that theyn't know they're
chosen. They don't think they're worthy.

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And I'm telling you you can't be
worthy enough. You can't clean yourself up

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good enough. God already got it
marked by your name. That you're chosen.

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He's just waiting for you to come
on in. He's just where,

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he's got his arms wide open.
He's just waiting. It's on you.

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It's on you. Anybody. Y'all
talk now, because you know I can

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out talk everybody. Well, I
don't know, Probably I'm trying to drink

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something. I'm sorry. I mean, it is a different time, So

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I want to chime in on pastor
Miguel too. So fatherhood looks a little

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different, you know. My concern
is that fathers are getting younger and not

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not prepared or don't know, don't
have people to mentor them, you know.

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So I my my concern is that
we're raising generations of young people that

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will be lost because there's no there
that we're losing the people who who guide

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us, who mentor you know,
the male They do have male mentor programs

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or father mentor programs out there,
and I would I would suggest people to

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do that, you know, just
link up was a group of men to

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try to have some some talks about, you know, the benefits or the

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importance of fatherhood. I know my
dad, like you said, I'm a

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father of daddy's girl. But it
was four girls in my house. Uh

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so, my dad didn't have any
boys. He had four girls. And

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my mom said each one of us
had our own personality. And I didn't

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realize until I was older what she
meant by that. So and then so

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my dad had five females in the
house, and which which wasn't a bad

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thing, you know, which wasn't
a bad thing. But I think he

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showed us what it was chivalry.
He showed us kindness, He showed us

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nurturing. You know, he had
his you know some ways, but like

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I said, he was opening doors
Valentine's Day, you know, he would

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buy all of us hearts candy,
and my mom he would put it on

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the bed. And of course my
mom had the biggest heart, which was

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rightly so. So you know those
things that stood out about my father.

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He wasn't a very didn't have a
whole lot of words to say unless he

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had something he needed to say.
But when he had something to say,

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oh boy, but I look at
that. I will hope that fathers realized

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the importance of their being in their
children's lives. You know, I'm talking

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on a female perspective, but I'm
pretty sure is maybe it's equal or more

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beneficial to have a young man the
father in a boy's life, especially with

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all that's going on now. For
guidance and is in the other unfortunate part

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is I hear a lot of men
talking about their their other or the mothers

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of their children, keeping them away
from them. You know, if it's

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an abusive relationship, I understand.
If it's a harmful relationship, I definitely

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understand. Is it because he's moved
on and went to someone else, I

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don't really understand that, not unless
you know I don't. I don't understand

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that. You know, the important
I think if people took time to look

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at the well being of the child, putting differences aside, what is the

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well being not for me, but
for my child? Would it behooved my

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child to have healthy parents in their
lives versus switching them back and forth.

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You know, That's what I see
more of now. When I was growing

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up, not so much. And
I'm pretty sure because I'm a different era

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baby boomer. You know, it
was a different error, so you know,

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family dynamics were different. Now you
have multiple families of combined, conjoined

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families, married family, unmarried families. You know, everybody's here's hers and

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hours. So it's a whole lot
of different dynamics in it, exposed more

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than it was when I was coming
up. So but that's the part I

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want to say, is, you
know the importance. I was just happy

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to have my father in my life. And so he lived to be ninety

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one, which was a good thing. So at least half of that I

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was able to see see what he
was capable of doing. And you know

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how he treated the the females in
his life and in the males because he

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was a role model to some family
members that did not have their father's present

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as well. And he was a
boy Scout leader, so I remember that,

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you know. So and he was
proud of what Trey. He was

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proud of you. You know,
he was able to see his daughters all

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those years, and there were you
know, he knows, and he probably

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looked and like, I look at
my kids now sometimes and I remember when

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they were tiny and they were little, and you know, and sometimes you

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can't remember everything now, but you
look back and you're like, wow,

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look at these people, you know. So he saw his daughter succeed and

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grow up into a beautiful young lady
and caring about the neighborhood, caring about

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community, caring about people. So
he I know, he patted himself on

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the chest a little bit and say
I did okay, and she's gonna be

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okay, she's gonna land on her
feet, you know. Thank you.

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that we're older and a little wiser
and we've gone through our fair share of

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the fire and trying to help our
kids go through it, we really have

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to be an example of grace.
And I just pulled up a piece of

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scripture real quick, and and I'm
looking at Ephesians one, verse seven.

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In him, we have redemption through
his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses

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according to the riches of his grace. I bring that up. It's because

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God has an over abundant amount of
grace, and sometimes times we kind of

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put unnecessary weight on our shoulders.
I wasn't a good dad. There are

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some things I did that I shouldn't
have done. And you know, now

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my child is following my footsteps doing
the same thing. I'm going to be

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confessed. I'm going to confess right
here because we're going to set it straight.

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I came to my sons. After
realizing what I did, and I

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said, I'm sorry to my sons
for not being there when they needed me.

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It was I was too selfish.
I flat out opened up my heart

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and I said, this is where
I didn't do a good job and when

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I did that, and I strongly
suggest that if there are any fathers out

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there that are kind of carrying some
weight, and you understand what you did,

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give yourself some grace. Forgive yourself. You did the best you could

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during the circumstances. I was a
single dad, I was working seventy hours

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a week and my kids were teenage
boys. And I carried that for a

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while, I really did. And
all it just did was it brought heart

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heartache after heartache, disappointment in myself. But then I realized that my heavenly

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father gave me grace. But I
had to forgive myself so I can be

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able to move forward. And today
the relationship with my two sons. Now

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I have a son in law.
I have two son in laws and two

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sons. So from taking that step, I've multiplied sons. Now I've got

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two sons in laws. So now
I'm able to help my sons out.

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Now I've got a grandson. Now
I'm gonna be able to help my grandson

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out. And when I realized that, I was just like wow, because

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I came clean to my sons,
I multiplied. And this is where we

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have to understand that when we own
up to what we did where we were

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not there when we should have been
there, when you come clean, the

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Lord will recognize that and he will
bless you. And knowing that he's got

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an overabundant amount of grace, We're
going to hicc up. We're going to

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hic up. But the the whole
point is that when we hiccup, we

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don't want to make the same mistake
again. And that's called maturity. And

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that's where we really have We as
men have to be mature enough to say,

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I, yep, I messed this
one up real good. And yesterday

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I went through something and I messed
it up really good. I really did.

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And then through my conversations with my
wife and we were able to talk

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through it and it really showed the
maturity that we have gone through because we've

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gone through our fair share of circumstances
from the before we met one another,

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but now because of the maturity we've
been able to go through the fire with

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the Lord and realize that we can
overcome those things and we can forgive ourselves.

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That's the other half of forgiving.
You forgive the other person, but

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you also have to forgive yourself.
And then once you begin to forgive yourself,

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you don't have to carry those bags
anymore. And then your your relationships

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will grow, your relationships will multiply, and then you'll be able to impact

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people by your actions and not your
words. Amen. Amen, well said

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00:36:30.000 --> 00:36:35.119
both of you. All. That's
where we're at. You know, it's

409
00:36:35.280 --> 00:36:37.599
we don't have the time to We
don't. You don't have time to wallow

410
00:36:37.719 --> 00:36:42.360
anymore. You don't have time to
say oh well, you know and reminisce.

411
00:36:42.679 --> 00:36:45.800
We don't have time. We need
everybody on the front line, no

412
00:36:45.960 --> 00:36:50.920
titles. We just if you believe
in God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit

413
00:36:52.119 --> 00:36:55.320
and you're serious about your faith walk, we need you on the front line

414
00:36:55.400 --> 00:37:00.320
right now because everybody prayer points are
different, every body's prep points, everybody's

415
00:37:00.360 --> 00:37:06.400
coverage, everybody's assignments are different.
We're all aside to different people, different

416
00:37:06.480 --> 00:37:10.360
age groups, different populations, different
target groups, different situations, different topics,

417
00:37:10.400 --> 00:37:15.119
different content Amen, need to stay
on track with good intentions and do

418
00:37:15.159 --> 00:37:20.920
your best. Amen, Amen,
do your best, do your best.

419
00:37:21.320 --> 00:37:23.639
Make sure that when you go and
look in the mirror every morning as you're

420
00:37:23.639 --> 00:37:28.760
brushing your teeth and washing your face, you've got to you're clear, you

421
00:37:28.840 --> 00:37:30.679
got a clear conscience. And before
you go to bed at night, if

422
00:37:30.679 --> 00:37:34.239
you do the same thing, you
could say, well, I did my

423
00:37:34.360 --> 00:37:37.840
best today. I did my best. And in fact, if something I

424
00:37:37.000 --> 00:37:42.079
missed, Lord, please put it
on my to do list tomorrow, even

425
00:37:42.119 --> 00:37:45.639
if it's just picking up the phone. With all the texting, and I

426
00:37:45.719 --> 00:37:49.280
appreciate technology, don't get me wrong, but with all of this, we've

427
00:37:49.360 --> 00:37:52.320
just gotten away from being personable.
I remember back at the day, I

428
00:37:52.320 --> 00:37:55.440
would send a card, and I've
got my collection of cards now, you

429
00:37:55.480 --> 00:37:59.800
know, I would send a card
just to say, hey, thinking about

430
00:37:59.840 --> 00:38:04.360
you in my in my town.
We're you're in the same city, you

431
00:38:04.440 --> 00:38:07.360
know. But with texting and the
emojis and all that. And I appreciate

432
00:38:07.400 --> 00:38:13.239
technology, don't get me wrong,
but it's taking the personal bullness, personalness

433
00:38:13.840 --> 00:38:16.599
you know, out of it,
and we're not relating. We're not talking

434
00:38:16.639 --> 00:38:21.880
to each other, we're talking at
each other. We're talking around the subject.

435
00:38:22.360 --> 00:38:27.480
And we just need to be honest
and get this off of you and

436
00:38:27.480 --> 00:38:34.360
and stop taking your yesterday until tomorrow. Stop taking it yesterday's into tomorrow.

437
00:38:35.719 --> 00:38:39.480
You're just overloaded. You're oh,
you know, You're just overloaded. And

438
00:38:39.559 --> 00:38:45.159
for what you can't even hear because
you've got so much on your mind of

439
00:38:45.280 --> 00:38:49.440
things that you're not gonna get to. You're not gonna do it. If

440
00:38:49.440 --> 00:38:52.679
you haven't done it by now,
you're not gonna do it. I had

441
00:38:52.679 --> 00:38:57.960
to tell somebody recently, if they
haven't changed by now, they're not going

442
00:38:58.000 --> 00:39:04.400
to change. As I'm trying to
make excuses. Stop, they're grown.

443
00:39:04.519 --> 00:39:10.239
We're not responsible for him. Amen. So I just thank you all you

444
00:39:10.280 --> 00:39:15.280
know, and our listeners out there, we thank you. Everybody well said

445
00:39:15.480 --> 00:39:20.079
thank you this. See you know, just let's let's go. Let's go,

446
00:39:20.519 --> 00:39:23.280
because how does that work for us? That's why I was so glad

447
00:39:23.320 --> 00:39:25.679
that I gave my life to the
Lord, and now I really gave.

448
00:39:27.000 --> 00:39:30.960
I gave him everything he has to
tell me, No, I need you

449
00:39:30.000 --> 00:39:34.599
to look into this for me because
I give him everything. Now he's my

450
00:39:34.719 --> 00:39:37.920
comfort zone. I have no conference
zone. He's my comfort zone. And

451
00:39:37.920 --> 00:39:40.599
if he's not checking it when he's
not talking to me all her Holy spirit?

452
00:39:40.639 --> 00:39:44.800
What's going on? Jesus, where
y'all at? You know somebody needs

453
00:39:44.800 --> 00:39:46.719
to be talking to And it's so
funny. I don't know where this came

454
00:39:46.719 --> 00:39:50.280
from. But I'll wake up.
I just opened my eyes and I just

455
00:39:50.320 --> 00:39:53.079
waved my hand, and they know
I'm waiting for that. I made it

456
00:39:53.119 --> 00:40:00.199
through the night. Thank you.
Another day, another opportunity to say it

457
00:40:00.239 --> 00:40:02.519
straight, to get it right,
or to help others. May I use

458
00:40:02.599 --> 00:40:06.280
that one? Yes, don't take
yesterday? Yes you can, Missy,

459
00:40:06.840 --> 00:40:13.480
Yes you can. I won't charge
your fee. I promise you go right

460
00:40:13.519 --> 00:40:16.559
ahead. Anything you any golden nuggets
you could take from us, take them.

461
00:40:16.719 --> 00:40:20.239
We're not married to them. This
is what we're here. We're here

462
00:40:20.280 --> 00:40:22.519
to set it straight. We're here
to make it real clear. We're gonna

463
00:40:22.599 --> 00:40:30.480
uproot the lie, the misinformation,
the misconcept, the missteps, and give

464
00:40:30.519 --> 00:40:36.119
you healthy solutions on how to make
it back or how to go proceed forward.

465
00:40:36.159 --> 00:40:38.559
You think you're welcome, sweetie,
how to proceed? We got to

466
00:40:38.639 --> 00:40:44.000
keep moving. That's my personal issue. My personal concern is everybody got to

467
00:40:44.079 --> 00:40:46.159
keep moving. Now. We all
have to go to our valley. There

468
00:40:46.159 --> 00:40:49.719
are times I got to come off
the grid because you know, I'm like,

469
00:40:49.800 --> 00:40:52.920
okay, I'm getting too close to
my flesh, so I come off

470
00:40:52.920 --> 00:40:55.000
the grid. I'm not praying for
anybody. I'm not talking to anybody.

471
00:40:55.079 --> 00:41:00.880
I'm quiet because I know I got
to reap refurbished. I gotta get replenished

472
00:41:00.920 --> 00:41:07.679
like the eagle. I gotta get
refueled, regenerated, regiened, revived,

473
00:41:07.239 --> 00:41:15.760
reignited, renewed, repurposed so I
could be a better person because that people

474
00:41:15.800 --> 00:41:22.840
are depending on us. People are
depending on us, and they put depending

475
00:41:22.880 --> 00:41:28.679
on you. They're depending on you. Believe it or not. That coworkers

476
00:41:28.719 --> 00:41:31.440
depending on you to show up because
they're going to have to take your caseload.

477
00:41:31.480 --> 00:41:35.400
They have to take your calls.
They need you to show up.

478
00:41:37.639 --> 00:41:40.159
Amen. But my main concern is
that, like I said, I have

479
00:41:40.199 --> 00:41:45.440
to go to my ballet and I
go on purpose such beautiful worst thank you

480
00:41:45.519 --> 00:41:51.119
all country. See you know,
I go to my vallet to get myself

481
00:41:51.159 --> 00:41:53.440
together. I don't sit in the
lotus position, and I don't hump anything.

482
00:41:53.840 --> 00:41:59.119
I may, you know, do
some moaning or travailing, but I

483
00:41:59.119 --> 00:42:04.559
don't sit in up lowdus position.
And place things I don't do that.

484
00:42:05.239 --> 00:42:08.559
I'm sitting trying to get myself together, and what I do in that quiet

485
00:42:08.559 --> 00:42:13.440
time, I'll take off everything.
I am, my roles, my name,

486
00:42:13.880 --> 00:42:15.840
what people refer how people refer to
me, all of that. I'm

487
00:42:15.880 --> 00:42:20.679
an author, I'm a mother,
I'm a neighbor, I'm a podcast.

488
00:42:20.679 --> 00:42:23.280
Holdt this, I'm that I get
as a lord. I've laid it all

489
00:42:23.320 --> 00:42:29.079
at your feet. I'm nothing.
I'm naked before you. Now give back

490
00:42:29.079 --> 00:42:34.039
to me what I need. This
next rome and he does that because I

491
00:42:34.079 --> 00:42:37.000
may not right now I'm in the
teacher mode. Tomorrow I may need to

492
00:42:37.000 --> 00:42:40.840
be in the prophetic mode. I
may be in the helping mode. You

493
00:42:40.920 --> 00:42:46.199
know, you never know, you
never know. But my concern is that

494
00:42:46.239 --> 00:42:52.400
you don't stay down there too long. You go, you refurbish, you

495
00:42:52.519 --> 00:42:57.280
regene, you refuel, and you
come back. You should be coming back

496
00:42:57.320 --> 00:43:05.079
stronger, wiser, discernment, more
power. So you gotta check that.

497
00:43:05.519 --> 00:43:08.079
I don't like you stay down there
too long, because I'd be like,

498
00:43:08.079 --> 00:43:13.199
what you're doing? You all right, let's go, We got work to

499
00:43:13.239 --> 00:43:16.440
do. It tickles me and I'm
gonna say this, And you guys were

500
00:43:16.480 --> 00:43:21.400
getting ready to mind down. But
it's so funny that people say, I'll

501
00:43:21.440 --> 00:43:23.079
be waking up at three and four
o'clock in the morning. I don't know

502
00:43:23.119 --> 00:43:28.840
why. That's tap for you to
pray, Tap for you to pray.

503
00:43:28.880 --> 00:43:35.639
If it's consistent, you're consistently waking
up around the same time, pray first.

504
00:43:36.320 --> 00:43:37.840
Now, this is gonna sound funny. I've said it before, I'm

505
00:43:37.840 --> 00:43:42.119
gonna say it again. Your flesh
don't want you to do that. So

506
00:43:42.159 --> 00:43:44.880
if you really want to go to
sleep, make sure you have your pajamas

507
00:43:44.880 --> 00:43:46.440
on, get on your knees,
and go ahead and say your prayers.

508
00:43:47.960 --> 00:43:51.639
Stay down there as long as you
can. But your flesh is not gonna

509
00:43:51.679 --> 00:43:53.960
like that. And it's gonna try
to put you to sleep, it's gonna

510
00:43:54.000 --> 00:43:58.880
tire you out, it's gonna try
to disturb your thoughts. That's what the

511
00:43:58.920 --> 00:44:07.360
flesh does, especially that's subconscious.
Just don't stay down too long. That's

512
00:44:07.400 --> 00:44:15.119
my main concern. Shake it off
and let's keep moving because we do still

513
00:44:15.159 --> 00:44:20.599
have work to do. We their
populations we are not even talking to yet.

514
00:44:22.000 --> 00:44:25.239
Our nursing homes, our rehab facilities, our assistant living facilities. Nobody's

515
00:44:25.280 --> 00:44:30.000
going to those places. We still
He set every need and every time,

516
00:44:31.840 --> 00:44:37.199
so we still got work to do. Don't give up now Jesus is coming.

517
00:44:37.719 --> 00:44:42.360
Make sure you secure your spot,
strengthen your spot in heaven that you've

518
00:44:42.360 --> 00:44:45.599
got. You've got. You know
you're gonna make it in, but you

519
00:44:45.679 --> 00:44:47.880
got to do work down here,
and you've got to be in the right

520
00:44:47.960 --> 00:45:01.679
mindset to do it. Guys,
fa past them again. Well, there's

521
00:45:01.800 --> 00:45:07.079
there's two two reads to two reads
that Ms. Gray, I'm going to

522
00:45:07.199 --> 00:45:15.480
chime in on. We need to
revive and we need to resurrect, because

523
00:45:15.760 --> 00:45:21.559
every time that we have an opportunity
to resurrect, it's we are now a

524
00:45:21.679 --> 00:45:27.280
walking testimony. When we're down,
we get revived and we resurrect, and

525
00:45:27.320 --> 00:45:32.320
now we start to tell people what
Christ did for us. We become that

526
00:45:32.800 --> 00:45:42.039
living testimony and let people know where
we were and how Christ pulled us out.

527
00:45:42.199 --> 00:45:47.199
And to me, that that is
ultimately one of those words that that

528
00:45:47.280 --> 00:45:52.440
I like to to say, because
every day we die, but we resurrect

529
00:45:52.599 --> 00:46:00.079
being children of God and being the
example. So absolutely, don't don't stay.

530
00:46:00.320 --> 00:46:06.039
Don't stay, as my wife would
say, the pity party, because

531
00:46:06.679 --> 00:46:12.039
uh, that's that all that just
does is it creates other feelings that you

532
00:46:12.079 --> 00:46:19.679
don't need to experience, so you're
stronger. Your children of God know that,

533
00:46:20.480 --> 00:46:27.840
live it, breathe it, and
be the example. Amen. All

534
00:46:27.960 --> 00:46:31.320
right, listeners, Okay, tray, go ahead. I agree. I

535
00:46:31.360 --> 00:46:37.039
agree with all that. You know. Sometimes you can focus on focus on

536
00:46:37.199 --> 00:46:42.119
being down and just you find yourself
not being able to lift yourself out of

537
00:46:42.159 --> 00:46:49.159
it. So you know, stay
and prayer for definitely. Amen. Amen,

538
00:46:49.480 --> 00:46:52.360
listeners, got your see missy,
anything you want to add here,

539
00:46:52.960 --> 00:46:57.280
Let's see what you what y'all think? You? What are your thinking?

540
00:46:57.320 --> 00:47:06.480
What are your thoughts tonight? Oh
boy? Okay, not a problem.

541
00:47:06.679 --> 00:47:12.360
Well we'll get to see how fast
they can type? Yes, yes,

542
00:47:12.679 --> 00:47:15.440
Well I've got some surprises. I've
got to run him by the my co

543
00:47:15.559 --> 00:47:19.639
host first. I won't reveal him
yet. Got some surprises coming to the

544
00:47:19.679 --> 00:47:22.559
show, coming for the show,
coming for our viewers, our listeners,

545
00:47:22.039 --> 00:47:25.320
And I'm excited about that. God
is just funny. He could do things

546
00:47:25.400 --> 00:47:30.360
in an hour. What were the
last what the what were the last?

547
00:47:30.360 --> 00:47:38.880
Two pastors said the revival and resurrection? Yeah, revival and resurrection, and

548
00:47:39.039 --> 00:47:44.320
uh so I definitely will. We'll
discuss that next week, hopefully perfectly I'll

549
00:47:44.360 --> 00:47:49.440
pray that our guest is okay.
I mean I was talking to him up

550
00:47:49.519 --> 00:47:52.280
until, you know, text them
over the weekend, just reminding him,

551
00:47:52.320 --> 00:47:54.760
you know, and I put it
on social pages. But I pray that

552
00:47:54.800 --> 00:47:59.719
everything is okay, and and if
he's available, we'll have him on next

553
00:47:59.719 --> 00:48:04.639
week because we can do that,
you know, amen, And I think

554
00:48:04.679 --> 00:48:07.840
he has some input that we need
to hear. Thank you, no problem,

555
00:48:07.159 --> 00:48:15.960
thank you for asking. Can't sammy
oops. You can always go back

556
00:48:15.000 --> 00:48:19.639
and watch the reruns. You know, we're there, We're there. But

557
00:48:19.719 --> 00:48:24.199
anyway, well, we thank God
for you all, and please subscribe and

558
00:48:24.360 --> 00:48:30.880
like and share after the fact.
Hopefully it's something that somebody else could use,

559
00:48:30.960 --> 00:48:36.480
some information, some suggestions, just
some hope, just some hope.

560
00:48:36.920 --> 00:48:42.159
I enjoy the time with y'all,
likewise, missy likewise, but we thank

561
00:48:42.239 --> 00:48:45.360
you. Anyway, it's our time. I'm probably a few seconds short,

562
00:48:45.440 --> 00:48:50.400
but I'm gonna say we're gonna call
it a night. I pray that everybody

563
00:48:50.440 --> 00:48:55.119
be well, that you stay focused, that you make some decisions and that

564
00:48:55.199 --> 00:48:59.880
you stand on them. You get
some rest, but be safe out there.

565
00:49:00.079 --> 00:49:02.840
We're gonna see you next week,
same time, same stay shine,

566
00:49:04.000 --> 00:49:04.480
night night,