July 27, 2026

Juvenile Diabetes Awareness Month

Juvenile Diabetes Awareness Month

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Season 4

kids, Type 1, T-2, awareness, onset, blood sugar, insulin, age of appearance

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Well, good evening, good evening, good evening. It's showtime.

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It is showtime at setting it straight with Miss Gray

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and the fabulous.

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And the fabulous co hosts.

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So everybody tune in, get that dollar operating right, go

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ahead and put things to the side. We need your

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attention full fledged at one hundred percent for the next

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fifty minutes. Welcome to setting it straight with Miss Gray. Hey, tray,

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tray from all the way, All things going at.

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Your work, doing well, doing well.

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I'm enjoying this weather, this warm weather, so sound.

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I see it, I love it, I love it. I

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think it's awesome. Le pray Father God, we just thank you.

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We praise you, we give you glory, for you alone

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are worthy to be praised. And Father God, we just

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thank you for this opportunity, but just to be able

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to come before your people, as cousin Solomon said, your people,

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give me wisdom, give us wisdom to come before your people.

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So this is your podcast, this is your name. We

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are your daughters, we are your daughters in Christ, and

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we just thank you. We're your vessels that you're using

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for this hour, and we thank you for that.

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Father God.

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Please Lord, with a heavy heart that we have to

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announce a loss for one of our viewers whose husband

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passed away unexpectedly this weekend. Father God, give the family strength.

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I know they're believing family as a whole, So give

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them strength and allow them to accept the help that's coming,

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because everybody wants to just show.

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Give them love. And Lord, we know you will give

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the peace.

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We dedicate this show too, brother Moore tonight, and we

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just thank you, Father God that we know that he

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is resting and resting well. Again, Father God, this is

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your podcast. This is your opportunity. As many opportunities and

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other opportunities and various opportunities.

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That you have to speak to your people. So we're

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gonna lean in.

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We're gonna get behind the cross, and we're gonna listen.

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To the direction and that which you need.

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We need to hear from you this day, this hour,

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all this and more we ask in Jesus' name, we pray.

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Amen and Amen.

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Come on, everybody, time to tap in. I need everybody

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roll call, let's go. I need to see Mississippi. I

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need to see Washington, d C. We need to see Knoxville, Tennessee.

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We need to see Palm Beach County. I need to

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see Orange County here in Florida. I need to see Virginia.

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Come on, I know you sitting in there Jacksonville. I

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know you sitting there watching Melbourne.

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Amen. Thank you, NICKI, thank you so much. Condolence, thank you.

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Yes, I received a couple of texts from our group

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out of Tennessee to let me know that one of

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the elders husbands had passed. So I just I waited

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for a minute. Our text here, I said, I'm on

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the wall. We'll talk another time. I'm on the wall,

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which means I'm praying and I'm not coming down until

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God says so.

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And this just made me reflect.

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We're going to talk about our topic tonight, which is

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Juvenile Diabetes Awareness Month to end this month, but I

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want to start with.

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You all.

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We need no more lukewarming people. We need we no

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longer need people who are straddling in the fence when

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it comes to God. The door, the windows, the Heaven's

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windows are closing, and it's closing because that's what Heaven

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does now. Hell opens its gates daily. Heaven closes its

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windows and opens this windows and we have to be

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told windows when that's occurring. We've got the High Jewish

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High Holy Days coming up in September in October, and

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that's when Heaven's windows.

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Would normally be open.

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Right now, we're in a season where everybody either you're

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going to believe in God or you don't believe in

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Jesus the Holy Spirit, or you don't My miss Trado

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has no idea where I'm going with this, Okay, but

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it's just been heavy on me these last twenty four hours.

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God is telling me I've got to gear up a

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little bit more and really go after the chosen who

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don't know that they're chosen. And how do you know

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that you're how do you know your chosen where you

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hunger for God. You hunger to spend time with him.

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You run, chase, you chase.

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Excuse me, that's.

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Just miss Ka coming through the front door. That's how

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that thing greets her sister. Anyway, Sorry about that. But

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a chosen one hungers for God. You want just like

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that person, that special person in your life, you want

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to spend time with them. You want to enjoy their company. Well,

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that's how you feel towards God. Amen, that's how you

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want to spend time. You want to please God, not mankind.

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You want to please God. And the ways of pleasing

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God is just sing a new song to him, study

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his word.

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Say Lord, this is this is what you have for me.

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This is what you have for me.

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This is this. Wow, this is the power and authority

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I have. I can walk on evil, I could tell

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evil be gone, get from. I can tell mountains that

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seem impossible to move get out from in front of me.

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It's time now, guys, it's time now. And I don't

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care if we have three more years, three more minutes,

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three more seconds, three more hours, three more second, I

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don't it doesn't matter. We need everybody on the front line.

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Praying and praying strategically as specifically.

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You need money. Let's just be real. You need money.

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You need to make more money. You need more.

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Money to pay your bills so you can stop being

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behind or using the grace period.

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Of the month.

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Then you tell God, God, I need money. I need

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more money, and tell where do I have to do?

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Because you may have to leave where you're at and

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go find a better job, higher paying job.

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But there's consequences that go with that. Now, but you

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ask God is it for me? Now?

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Let's go back to the money. And I've shared my testimony.

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Now some of us you have to admit, how do

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you view money? Do you respect it enough that and

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you use it wisely? Have you the pay you didn't

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repent about it?

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And some of your cases with bills, all you have

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to do is call the creditor.

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They don't want your car, they don't want your house,

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they don't want the blood of your first born. They

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just want to know where they're gonna get their money.

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And I loved that years ago. Years ago. They're like, no,

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you know what, miss Gray, You've been with us for

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you know, for a long time, and you've never cashed

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in on or asked for us to you know, slide

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the payment to next month, and then said, you know

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what we're gonna give you.

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Don't worry about this month. We are just we're gonna

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absolve it. We'll see you next month. You take care?

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What really now? Oh, your creditors stop being afraid. I

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grew up with parents who are afraid of their creditors,

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and I'm like, no, they bleed red blood like we do.

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Why are you afraid of these people? They just want

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their money. They just need to know that they could

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trust you.

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We loan this to you, we financed this for you,

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We've given this to you.

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We just want to know we could. Can you just

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give it back to us? Simple? Simple? Do you do

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you spend? You know? Are you a spend thrift? Do

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you just oh, I got money now? Is you know?

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I know some people get their tax refund and instead

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of putting it somewhere and saving it, you know, or

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putting it in a savings account that yields interest, I

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don't care if it's one percent a year.

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No, they go out and they got to go.

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To the to the Golden Corral and take everybody out

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to eat. And then you know they come up with

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the two picks and stuff like that, and you know,

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and then but you got a bill? Do do you

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pay some of your bills ahead of time? How do

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you view money? Because God knows you, you can't blame him.

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He knows what we can handle is I will not

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put no more on you than you can bear. Remember

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I used to have a problem with that scripture till

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I got revelation that I don't know what all I

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can bear. There's no way you would have ever sat

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me down and say, you know what, one day, I

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think you coulda probably lose your limbs, no way, no way,

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be out a commission, change my life in one moment

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with one hospital admission. But you also could have told

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me that I was gonna be writing five books.

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Not even one book? Okay, should I be a college professor.

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You couldn't have told me that I just wanted to

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get back to the stage before because I love that.

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But now I'm a motivational speaker. I'm a podcast host.

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Come on.

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So that's why I have a T shirt that said,

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don't get too comfortable in your purpose, because sometime we

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get so comfortable and it's like, oh, I can't do nothing.

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Else. This is what I do. This is what I do.

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And God's like, well, I'm no longer there. I need

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you to be over here because your blessings are over here.

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So sorry for the lost thing in the stage. Yes, amen, Amen,

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Hey Charles and Laws.

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Yeah, thank you so much, thank you, thank you. That

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is a nice That is nice for the company to

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do that.

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Yeah, well, I mean, but that's you know, it's an organization.

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No, we is here, we is here.

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She is miss super Bee graduate of U s H.

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Saturday.

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Finally excel because wait, you took your last final today,

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didn't you. Yes, trade y'all run across that stage with us,

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and we're gonna send y'all pictures.

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We'll upload some pictures by you. Don't think I'm gonna

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get up. I'm gonna they're gonna feel sorry for me.

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You just sending it to everybody anyway.

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Amen, thank you Lee for for joining us tonight.

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What I'm just talking about, you know, you know we

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need everybody on the front line.

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I can't I won't be saying this anymore.

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We need everybody to come full full ready for armor

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whatever it is, whatever it is, because we don't know

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that it's I don't know. Leave you had a chance

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to see the new egg. Recall, yes, in the seventeen

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State you saw that. Okay, you know, you know we

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need everybody on the front line. I can't say it enough.

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I can't say it anymore. If you've not made up

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your mind to give your life to God. And I'm

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not talking about that, you've got to now go to

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a church and you got to go and get you know, baptized,

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and I'm not talking about that. It's just a personal

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Why does it seem like we get to limit just

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to see how much more we can handle? We Okay,

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go back, put that back up for me. What does

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it seem like we get to the limit just to

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see how much more we can handle? Well, there is

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no limit in God, Nikki, there's no limit. He's endless, He's.

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I'm the present, He's everywhere. It's just that we because of.

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The way we were raised, possibly the way we've gone

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you know, we've gone to college. You know, all our

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communities that we've been a part of, right have tried

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to condition us to think a certain way.

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Saying the sky is the limit, well, the sky is

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the limit because heaven is on the other side of.

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The sky, and it's three layers of heaven.

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That's a whole different teaching there. Okay, so I had

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to stop saying, you know, the sky is not the limit.

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I serve an unlimited God, Jesus, Holy Spirit. There's so

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much wisdom. Do you know?

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I'm learning something every day. I'm learning something new every day.

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I just be sitting there like this. For instance, remember

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how a few Monday nights ago, I was telling you

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guys that you know, the hang on a minute, hang

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on a minute, just a minute, greet the people. I

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gotta do something.

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Hey everybody, are you guys having to see me?

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It's been a minute.

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Yes, the strength, Yes, that's mickey.

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So you know, sometimes I think when you look at

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what you have gone through, so I just want to

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respond on what miss Gray did what you just ask

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I think when you think you've gotten to that limit

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and you didn't, you didn't give up. You know, somehow

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you push through whatever you were going through. So that's

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what I think, miss Gray, when you were talking about

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the there is no limit, you know you you pushed

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through it.

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You found a way to get through that.

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And so God and Plus is trust in God to

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to get you through that, and so sometimes look back

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and say, how did I get through that?

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The song says that, yeah, that's where that is. I mean,

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that song says I don't know how I made it

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over my soul.

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Looked back and wonder how your soul is your flesh,

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that's your heart, that's your emotions, that's your mind. Yes,

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your mind will say there's no way. Your brain will

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try to convince you are not gonna be You're not

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gonna get through this, so get over it. No, I'm

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gonna not only get I'm gonna get through it. I'm

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not going around it.

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I'm going straight through it.

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Because just like our ancestors who took a forty years,

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it took forty years from them, and scientists today say

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it should have taken them eleven days. No, I'm never

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gonna I don't want to repeat nothing. I don't want

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to repeat a cycle.

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I don't want to. You learn from those lessons.

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That's why I thank God for the Bible, because it

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talks about human people, real people who went through real

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things that we can attest to today. How many introverts

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I got out there?

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I mean, but no, before you get into that mom.

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So today I was like basically venting to my close friends.

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So I'm just like, you know, I don't know how

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to feel about everything, of how to feel about just

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graduating and stuff, and how I've literally been in school

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since I graduated high school and like everything was just

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back to back, and I'm like, that's only God to

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be able to make it through, deal with different personalities,

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deal with failing test some time, having a study all

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the time and not do anything and nothing but school basically,

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So it's just like, you know, it was nothing but Him,

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and it's just like He don't put no more on

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us that we can't bear it. So it's just like

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we were created to basically go through these trials, you

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know what I'm saying. And obviously when we have faith

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and stuff like that, we're gonna go through trials. We're

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gonna be tested, but it's all about us and getting

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through it, and He knows me to get through it.

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We just have to get through it.

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So it's just like he knows we're completely capable and

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that's why he created us to be who we are.

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So I just had to share that because I literally

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just talked to my close frist today about that, and I'll.

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Say, man, thank you.

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And he's hoping that you'll come back to him so

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he can help you make it through.

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He don't like for his chosen to.

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Be hanging out there wondering like, oh my god, I

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don't know what else to do, and being confused and

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being depressed. And he doesn't like that. Now, don't say

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you never get depressed. I've been depressed twice.

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In my life. Twice in my life.

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I got it, but I knew that I could go

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to I need to stay in the valley for a

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minute till I get myself together mentally, and then we go, Okay,

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we got a couple of people, okay, So and a

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stage is saying, I think I'm an introvert.

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Okay.

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Now George is saying I'm probably lean more to introverted okay,

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And Micky said, no, I'm not. I'm not an introvert.

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You know, some people can be some people can have both,

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some people can be insonality.

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Yeah, and I don't mean that's like psychologically, but yes, yeah, yeah,

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And and.

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It depends on when you have to be.

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Yeah, it depends on when you have to be, Because

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if you've been quiet you've been working at that job.

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They know you as this the silent person and everything.

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But all of a sudden you supervised to say, you know,

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in your evaluation, you know what, Mickey, you're not I

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mean not mcnimical with uh a station in a station.

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You're really not, you know, delegating, you're really not sharing

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with you you're working. You have to work with teams.

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You've got a team of y'all, and you have to

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You're gonna have to.

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Exert yourself some more. You're gonna have to get in

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it a little bit more. We need to hear from

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you a little bit more, you.

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Know, so you have a decision to make either. I

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got to come up a little bit. I got a voice.

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What I have to say is you don't like my idea,

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that's fine, But at least whoever's watching, here's me, here's

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my voice, okay, and do that. And there are times

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with us extroverted people, we don't need to need to

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know when to dial it down because some of us,

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some people, some of our.

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Coworkers can't handle it. And I've told you about some

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scenarios I've been through.

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They cannot handle this because they're not happy they don't smile.

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I told you about the girl that the woman that

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was in the choir with me. Her name is so odd.

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And if I say it, I know somebody out there

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in the galaxy will know it and say, you know what,

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Ms Gray was talking about you, She's got to be.

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The only person with that name. She would look.

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She's sitting within in the soprano section, she said, and

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I was like, you, all right, why do you smile

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so much?

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And I'm like, we're singing the Glory of God.

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You know, when I get in front of the Lord,

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I'm gonna dance like David dance. She said, yeah, but

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you smiling all the time.

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And truly, we were on camera and she standing next

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to me, and she'd be like, I get praised to

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the father and to his son. And I'm like, and

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I wouldn't. And you see me doing you can see

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we're on camera, and I'm like, he smiling, you know,

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And people were like, what are you doing? I said,

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I just want to look.

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I just want to make sure I'm not you know,

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interrupted her or getting throwing her off key, But you know,

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and I'm smiling because oh my god, I just had

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a week and now I could just.

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Praise God and I don't care who sees it. I

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don't care what you think. I'm singing in my car

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and everything. And this one driver he pulled up today

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alongside me. He pulled up and he'says looking at it.

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I saw about the out the corner, but I didn't care.

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I was like, yes, Lord, you know you are my

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father and I am yours. I'm my God. How can

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you not celebrate that? But there and we need both.

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We need both.

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I want to introvert on my team because when they

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speak up, everybody listen, like, Oh.

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I looked up on introvert traits and extrovert traits trade.

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Oh, go ahead, go ahead. Introvert traits.

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We charge alone. They gain energy from quiet spaces and solitude.

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They think inward or processed through, process thoughts quietly before speaking.

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They have close circles before small, tight groupos, close friends,

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and sensitives to stimuli and feel tired or overwhelm and

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a loud busy places. Extroverts, on the other hand, recharge

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with people. Gain energy from social settings and groups. Think

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out loud process ideas by talking through them with others.

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They have wide circles enjoy meeting new people and have

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larger social networks. They see action, thrive on active, fast

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pace and changing environments.

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So I'm kind of both. So I introvert part, I recharge.

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A loan, think inward and how small Actually all introverts

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since it can feel tired of overwhelm and loud, busy

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places that can kind of get to me. But the

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extrovert part sometimes thinking a lot process ideas by talking

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through them with others who were like minded. I can't

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say I enjoy well, enjoy meet new people, but have

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larger social networks.

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No, I don't.

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That's not really mean and fast paced seek action. I

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do like action, blow on how fast paced I wanted.

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You know, we're gonna have to do an idea, we're

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talking about it. I like to start moving on it,

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just don't sit on it and meet to meet to

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meet to meet that. So I'm both.

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I'm both.

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Now I can say I'm there's an introvert part of me,

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believe it or not. No, nothing from the peanut gallery

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over there, but there are like I'm going to a

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Chamber of Commerce meeting tomorrow, session tomorrow and they're gonna

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do some legislative I'm not saying a word. I'm not

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even gonna even I'm not wearing no pins on it.

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You won't know who I am unless you ask my name,

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ask me. And I did that at a conference a

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few weeks ago when I went when Prophet Johns was here.

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Now, I went in raw. I don't want nobody to

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know what I do. Nothing. I came to hear from

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the God, and I need to hear from our mayors tomorrow.

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And our commissioners. I don't want to say anything I have.

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I don't even have a question for you. I want

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to see what you're gonna come up with. So there

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are times that if you look at that, my being

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quiet is the introverted part of me. And when i'm quiet,

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Now that little person over there knows. She'll come out

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her room and she'll look at me and she said

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you all right, and then she'll stop and make me

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look at her eye to eye.

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And say you okay.

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See, I'm thinking you're talking to God. You're talking to

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God's talking to me, you know, So I mean it.

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You know, it depends on what you need to do.

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I have an introverted side too.

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Yes, she does it. That has surprised me.

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Yeah, I don't. Yeah, I don't do that, big circles

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of friends.

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I don't do that either, but they But then then

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they talked about the introverted extrovert.

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Yeah, it's an introverted.

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That's why I said, I think I'm introverted. Extrovert, often

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called often called an an advert is someone who mostly

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leans towards being outgoing and social, but still needs quiet

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time alone to rest and get the energy back. The

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key signs they love people, They enjoy going to parties

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and talking with friends. They need a break after too

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much socializing, the social battery runs down and needed quiet time.

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Dislikes the spotlight. They can be friendly and loud, but

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they do not want all their attention on them. So yeah,

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so I'm both yeah. Yeah, And sometimes it can be

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overwhelming with a lot of stuff going on, especially when

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it comes in at you.

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Amen. Yeah, Mickey says. Do I make no sense if

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you listen to the media. Oh yeah, yeah. I take notes.

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I go and I've got all my highlights and my

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highlight of highlighters and everything, my different ink color pins

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just in case I need to put some ideas, you know,

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and bring something to my attention.

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I use different color pins and stuff. So I still

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do that, even though I just got the right hand,

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but I do what I do. You know, Yes, that's

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the case. So what's what sounds like?

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You elk that you're a combo introvert extrovert because you

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know we met you now, you know, we came in

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ten to see to meet you, be honest.

470
00:23:41.440 --> 00:23:41.640
None.

471
00:23:43.960 --> 00:23:46.519
And she's the one who screamed when she realized who

472
00:23:46.599 --> 00:23:46.880
we were.

473
00:23:47.319 --> 00:23:52.559
Okay, yeah, they came in the pastor had to pretend

474
00:23:52.640 --> 00:23:55.680
to get them downstairs, and we're sitting kind of back

475
00:23:55.799 --> 00:23:57.920
on the table and stuff. So they come in because

476
00:23:57.920 --> 00:24:00.759
she had to kind of get them down there and stuff.

477
00:24:00.799 --> 00:24:02.599
And I know they were probably saying stuff in their head,

478
00:24:02.680 --> 00:24:04.680
like we just got through our prayer, why do we

479
00:24:04.839 --> 00:24:05.680
have to still being here?

480
00:24:06.079 --> 00:24:07.839
You know? But they did. They came on and Elda

481
00:24:07.920 --> 00:24:09.559
K was one of the first ones that came in

482
00:24:09.640 --> 00:24:11.799
the door. So here they all come. And so she

483
00:24:11.960 --> 00:24:14.640
looks like, they goes, oh hi, and she I don't

484
00:24:14.640 --> 00:24:16.200
even know what. I don't know if she looked back

485
00:24:16.240 --> 00:24:19.279
and not this. She screamed. She said, oh why God?

486
00:24:19.759 --> 00:24:22.599
And everybody said what what And they're like, oh my god,

487
00:24:22.759 --> 00:24:25.000
you know, because well I was kind of recognizable.

488
00:24:25.400 --> 00:24:31.200
There we go, she said. But yes, okay, yes, Elthera

489
00:24:31.279 --> 00:24:33.319
k can be I guess shy.

490
00:24:35.000 --> 00:24:37.599
At times, but you don't want to get on her

491
00:24:37.759 --> 00:24:40.799
own side and she'll say wow this, she'll.

492
00:24:40.680 --> 00:24:46.200
Just walk away like well, well what was that? Well, well,

493
00:24:46.440 --> 00:24:48.440
I mean sometimes.

494
00:24:49.799 --> 00:24:55.119
Like that like that, you know, yeah, yeah, because you know,

495
00:24:55.440 --> 00:24:59.720
and sometimes people use you too because they know you

496
00:24:59.799 --> 00:25:02.039
can bring that. They know you're going to bring order

497
00:25:02.119 --> 00:25:05.480
to the meeting. They know that, Okay, we're gonna trade,

498
00:25:05.519 --> 00:25:07.640
doesn't play. We got to stay focused and we're going

499
00:25:07.680 --> 00:25:09.519
to laugh a little bit. But we do have a

500
00:25:09.640 --> 00:25:12.000
project and we've got a deadline and we've got to

501
00:25:12.079 --> 00:25:13.880
get on that. So I don't mind you knowing that,

502
00:25:13.960 --> 00:25:15.880
because if you see me walk in, they're like, oh

503
00:25:15.920 --> 00:25:16.359
my god.

504
00:25:16.359 --> 00:25:19.640
What they ask her to be here? Yeah? Yeah, because

505
00:25:20.079 --> 00:25:22.079
obviously y'all not doing something right.

506
00:25:22.200 --> 00:25:23.519
And trust me, I don't want to be here no

507
00:25:23.559 --> 00:25:25.519
more than I need to. But it depends on what

508
00:25:25.680 --> 00:25:29.039
personality you need. And that's a lot of my prayer too.

509
00:25:29.160 --> 00:25:32.880
When I know a season has ended as ending, I'm like, okay, Lord,

510
00:25:32.960 --> 00:25:34.720
that's when I've shared with you all.

511
00:25:35.000 --> 00:25:37.000
I'll get quiet in front of God.

512
00:25:37.279 --> 00:25:39.880
And I'll give him all my titles, my being a mom,

513
00:25:40.000 --> 00:25:42.480
my being an author, my being an actress, my being

514
00:25:42.759 --> 00:25:45.440
a grant writer, my being a podcast.

515
00:25:45.000 --> 00:25:48.640
Host, everything I do, my being a neighbor, everything I do,

516
00:25:49.119 --> 00:25:53.119
my being a godmother. You know, she really knows me.

517
00:25:56.279 --> 00:26:00.160
It don'tain long, but you know.

518
00:26:00.480 --> 00:26:02.720
And I will submit all that to him, and I'll say, God,

519
00:26:02.839 --> 00:26:06.480
and now I'm before you, naked, without without a job,

520
00:26:06.559 --> 00:26:09.279
without anything, without a personality. Tell me who I need

521
00:26:09.359 --> 00:26:12.400
to be, what I need to do for this next season,

522
00:26:12.599 --> 00:26:16.160
this next book. And speaking of books, can y'all please

523
00:26:16.759 --> 00:26:22.640
please stop saying and stop adding chapters to an endless book.

524
00:26:23.039 --> 00:26:24.880
If I hear it one more time, I think I'm

525
00:26:24.880 --> 00:26:28.359
gonna explode. They're like, oh, hey, you're starting a new chapter. No,

526
00:26:28.480 --> 00:26:31.799
that's a new book. Everybody dead, that's a new book.

527
00:26:33.039 --> 00:26:37.519
There's no real resources. I'm broke or I'm a millionaire. No,

528
00:26:37.759 --> 00:26:39.759
this is a new book. I've never had this much

529
00:26:39.799 --> 00:26:42.119
money in my life. Can we start the new book?

530
00:26:42.119 --> 00:26:45.240
Because some of y'all got encyclopedias, I know understanding to

531
00:26:45.319 --> 00:26:46.599
save my life, and I have to.

532
00:26:46.960 --> 00:26:49.319
Yell at the TV. No, it's a new book. Can

533
00:26:49.400 --> 00:26:51.119
we start a new bookie. I'm talking to the TV,

534
00:26:51.240 --> 00:26:58.400
so you know I'm gonna stop that. But anyways, it's

535
00:26:58.440 --> 00:27:01.079
not another chapter. Please stop saying so when people go

536
00:27:01.200 --> 00:27:03.680
through things, hey are you're leaving you? You got a

537
00:27:03.720 --> 00:27:05.920
new job, got a new chapter. No, it's a new book.

538
00:27:06.119 --> 00:27:08.720
It's a new company. You ain't gonna be the NMO.

539
00:27:09.319 --> 00:27:12.759
They have a different title. They gotta pay increase. Can

540
00:27:12.839 --> 00:27:15.240
it be a new book? I've written five now.

541
00:27:15.759 --> 00:27:18.359
Yeah, I betta get that to take the headt get

542
00:27:18.440 --> 00:27:20.640
that Amazon.

543
00:27:21.839 --> 00:27:26.720
Out of my truck. No, I'm saying you want them right, yep,

544
00:27:26.799 --> 00:27:28.480
I'm there in the back. They're gonna be in the hatch.

545
00:27:28.480 --> 00:27:30.160
I'm gonna be getting them in a couple of weeks.

546
00:27:30.160 --> 00:27:34.720
And she got the envelopes to the cinema, the mailer envelopes,

547
00:27:34.720 --> 00:27:36.119
so you can mail an envelopes.

548
00:27:36.400 --> 00:27:39.319
Yes, yes, And speaking of mail envelopes, for those of

549
00:27:39.400 --> 00:27:41.119
you who are gonna be so kind to send me

550
00:27:41.160 --> 00:27:41.799
a nice.

551
00:27:41.559 --> 00:27:43.839
Birthday card over the next few thirds, over the next

552
00:27:43.880 --> 00:27:44.519
thirty days.

553
00:27:46.119 --> 00:27:52.119
Well, okay, all right, August, Oh boy, I don't know

554
00:27:52.200 --> 00:27:53.680
what we're gonna get after this weekend.

555
00:27:53.720 --> 00:27:55.599
I don't know what we're gonna get. You're gonna be

556
00:27:55.720 --> 00:27:58.440
on But I would like to make a suggestion to you.

557
00:27:59.200 --> 00:28:01.400
I'm not expecting anything to be in the card, okay,

558
00:28:01.559 --> 00:28:04.519
just your beautiful words, but on the outside, so nobody

559
00:28:04.559 --> 00:28:07.240
will try to disturb or steal the card because they'll

560
00:28:07.319 --> 00:28:09.240
realize there's a card, because you're gonna some of you

561
00:28:09.359 --> 00:28:11.480
are just gonna send the card on the outside.

562
00:28:11.519 --> 00:28:15.160
Turn the envelope. There's an envelope. You don't have stuff

563
00:28:15.200 --> 00:28:16.720
over here, Oh here's one.

564
00:28:17.079 --> 00:28:19.319
Hang on, guys now, then envelope would be like this,

565
00:28:20.000 --> 00:28:23.119
Turn it to this side and on the corner up

566
00:28:23.160 --> 00:28:26.839
here right, handle with care, or you can write pictures.

567
00:28:27.039 --> 00:28:31.039
Handle with care, okay, so they'll know, oh, there's pictures

568
00:28:31.079 --> 00:28:32.960
in here. There's no money in here. There's no gift

569
00:28:33.000 --> 00:28:35.680
card in here, because just put that on the side.

570
00:28:35.799 --> 00:28:37.960
That always helps me. And tape it up as well.

571
00:28:38.519 --> 00:28:40.079
But if you tape it up too much, they'll think

572
00:28:40.119 --> 00:28:43.359
it's you know, money in there. And I'm not expecting that.

573
00:28:43.799 --> 00:28:45.119
But I just want to give you so that at

574
00:28:45.200 --> 00:28:47.039
least to get through the mail and get you know,

575
00:28:47.480 --> 00:28:48.880
to get to the po is going straight to the

576
00:28:48.920 --> 00:28:52.400
po box. Rebel was kind enough to Tex was talking

577
00:28:52.440 --> 00:28:54.920
to her earlier and she texted me actually and said,

578
00:28:55.000 --> 00:28:58.519
folks are asking for the address. So definitely, you know,

579
00:28:58.599 --> 00:29:00.880
get in contact with our engine here about that. But

580
00:29:00.960 --> 00:29:04.079
it's the po box and it's very secure. But yeah,

581
00:29:04.240 --> 00:29:07.440
you know, so it's okay with your personalities and again,

582
00:29:07.599 --> 00:29:09.960
know yourself. But that's why the homework was look in

583
00:29:10.039 --> 00:29:12.960
the Bible and look at different people. And you know,

584
00:29:13.119 --> 00:29:15.440
you could just put it in Google, in Google Search

585
00:29:15.480 --> 00:29:18.680
and say, you know who is who? Who's an extrovert,

586
00:29:18.759 --> 00:29:22.039
who was shy but had to deliver powerful messages, and

587
00:29:22.079 --> 00:29:25.279
who's shy that God used the most. I promise you

588
00:29:25.400 --> 00:29:27.920
it'll come a lout and you get all the and

589
00:29:28.000 --> 00:29:30.200
then you go and you research and see if you

590
00:29:30.279 --> 00:29:31.480
can relate to that person.

591
00:29:31.599 --> 00:29:33.319
If you could say, you know what because like uncle

592
00:29:33.400 --> 00:29:36.480
David King David, that's my uncle. His son Solomon is

593
00:29:36.519 --> 00:29:36.920
my cousin.

594
00:29:37.319 --> 00:29:39.319
You know, I mean I could relate to these people,

595
00:29:39.400 --> 00:29:42.559
Judge Debra, you know I could put Moses because I've

596
00:29:42.559 --> 00:29:45.279
been called the female Moses Trey. I want to share

597
00:29:45.319 --> 00:29:46.759
something I don't know if I've ever told you, but

598
00:29:47.640 --> 00:29:50.680
just as a little commercial here, when I was over

599
00:29:50.759 --> 00:29:55.079
the caucus, there was a young lady from Saint Petersburg,

600
00:29:55.119 --> 00:29:59.680
Saint Pete, that thing here in Florida. And the first year,

601
00:30:00.039 --> 00:30:01.720
first throughout the year, when we were having our meetings

602
00:30:01.839 --> 00:30:04.680
in different places, we just always connected and stuff.

603
00:30:04.720 --> 00:30:07.599
And then one year, the second year, she said, come

604
00:30:07.680 --> 00:30:09.839
up to my room. I got something for you. I said, okay.

605
00:30:10.119 --> 00:30:11.599
So I went up to a room and she handed

606
00:30:11.640 --> 00:30:14.480
me a bag and I'm like, it was so heavy.

607
00:30:14.519 --> 00:30:16.559
I said, what the devil is this? And I looked

608
00:30:16.559 --> 00:30:16.720
at it.

609
00:30:16.799 --> 00:30:19.920
It was a railroad spikes because she said behind her

610
00:30:19.960 --> 00:30:22.240
house it was a railroad, so she always walked, that's

611
00:30:22.279 --> 00:30:25.119
where she do her walking. And she started picking up

612
00:30:25.160 --> 00:30:28.240
these spikes, the nails that hold the rails together.

613
00:30:28.799 --> 00:30:31.160
And I said, okay, Sis, you got me.

614
00:30:31.359 --> 00:30:33.960
I don't know why you get. She said, you're like

615
00:30:34.039 --> 00:30:38.119
the female Moses. You're like Harriet Tubman. You lead the

616
00:30:38.240 --> 00:30:40.920
people and we will follow you. She said, but I

617
00:30:41.000 --> 00:30:42.839
need to bring these to you so you will remember

618
00:30:42.920 --> 00:30:45.200
who you are. And I held on to them for

619
00:30:45.200 --> 00:30:48.640
a while because that blew my mind. Railroad spikes?

620
00:30:49.119 --> 00:30:50.720
Who does that? You know?

621
00:30:51.359 --> 00:30:53.920
But now, if I was part of the hip hop crowd,

622
00:30:53.920 --> 00:30:56.599
they probably make it into a chain and walk around

623
00:30:56.640 --> 00:30:56.839
with it.

624
00:30:56.920 --> 00:30:59.759
But anyway, and they were rusted too. They were old.

625
00:31:00.119 --> 00:31:02.920
They weren't brand news spanking, you know, Carper, look at

626
00:31:02.960 --> 00:31:06.000
they were rusted, old book you know. I mean she

627
00:31:06.119 --> 00:31:07.640
cleaned them up and stuff like that. But it was

628
00:31:07.799 --> 00:31:09.200
I just wanted to share that when we were talking

629
00:31:09.200 --> 00:31:13.359
about the caucus thing. But you know, so, yeah, and

630
00:31:13.920 --> 00:31:17.160
Harriet Tubman, when I did a research on her, I

631
00:31:17.200 --> 00:31:18.799
want to write I'm still going to write a play

632
00:31:18.839 --> 00:31:20.799
about her. I'm gonna write it through my on what

633
00:31:20.920 --> 00:31:24.119
the revelations I've gotten about her. Here is a woman

634
00:31:24.240 --> 00:31:28.000
that you know in slavery, and her husband and her

635
00:31:28.079 --> 00:31:31.240
family are in slavery. Wow, she really Okay, now it's

636
00:31:31.279 --> 00:31:34.440
coming up. Okay, let me get off of this because

637
00:31:34.440 --> 00:31:35.319
I don't okay.

638
00:31:36.759 --> 00:31:38.640
And then I've got a book.

639
00:31:38.799 --> 00:31:41.680
It's a child's book that talks about her. When I

640
00:31:41.920 --> 00:31:44.720
portrayed doctor Marion mclobothune, I use a book. So I

641
00:31:44.799 --> 00:31:48.319
found this book on Harriet Tubman for kids, and in

642
00:31:48.480 --> 00:31:51.400
it it talked about how she would be awakened at

643
00:31:51.440 --> 00:31:53.799
three o'clock in the morning and finally she said, this

644
00:31:53.920 --> 00:31:55.920
voice told her you need to get up and go

645
00:31:56.400 --> 00:31:58.400
because she've been talking thinking about you know, Okay, we

646
00:31:58.480 --> 00:31:59.119
got to run away.

647
00:31:59.160 --> 00:32:01.160
We got to get out of this. We gotta think.

648
00:32:01.240 --> 00:32:04.079
And she she literally would be awakening at three o'clock

649
00:32:04.119 --> 00:32:06.440
in the morning and then she would do that. She

650
00:32:06.559 --> 00:32:09.720
did that first run by herself. She hit in potato

651
00:32:09.839 --> 00:32:13.720
and bens and wagons that had potatoes. She could hear

652
00:32:13.799 --> 00:32:16.039
the dog, she could hear things, and then she would

653
00:32:16.119 --> 00:32:18.759
hum to herself and she's thinking about God.

654
00:32:19.240 --> 00:32:22.519
She would hum to herself. I'm just wow.

655
00:32:24.039 --> 00:32:26.480
So yeah, there's some people you can relate to and

656
00:32:26.559 --> 00:32:29.240
you can identify with, but we need everybody on the

657
00:32:29.279 --> 00:32:32.720
front line now. And it's gonna be even more important

658
00:32:32.799 --> 00:32:35.039
because he was talking to me. God was talking to

659
00:32:35.079 --> 00:32:39.400
me about seating. You don't seed because you think I know,

660
00:32:39.839 --> 00:32:42.680
you know my financial situation, so I'm gonna get my

661
00:32:42.759 --> 00:32:43.200
seed to you.

662
00:32:43.720 --> 00:32:44.480
That's not seating.

663
00:32:44.960 --> 00:32:47.559
Seating is when God speaks to you and say, you

664
00:32:47.640 --> 00:32:51.200
know what, send a seed, sender love offering, a seed offer.

665
00:32:51.880 --> 00:32:54.039
I prefer calling it a seed offers, different from a

666
00:32:54.160 --> 00:32:58.160
love offer to me seed offering seating because people have

667
00:32:58.319 --> 00:33:01.759
stopped seating to me because in their mind, I'm debt free,

668
00:33:01.880 --> 00:33:05.119
so she don't need it. But it's not because I

669
00:33:05.359 --> 00:33:09.240
need it. It's because you need to do it because

670
00:33:09.279 --> 00:33:12.519
God wants to see if he could trust you. He

671
00:33:12.599 --> 00:33:15.359
already can trust me. This is not has nothing to

672
00:33:15.400 --> 00:33:15.680
do with it.

673
00:33:15.880 --> 00:33:17.640
So that's why I want you all to be more careful.

674
00:33:17.680 --> 00:33:19.799
I know we have you all the viewers.

675
00:33:19.880 --> 00:33:22.480
Most of you have participated with us when we had

676
00:33:22.519 --> 00:33:24.799
to see it and help folks that are homeless and

677
00:33:24.880 --> 00:33:25.400
things like that.

678
00:33:25.960 --> 00:33:28.920
And God's like, no, we're not doing that like that.

679
00:33:29.559 --> 00:33:31.279
I need them praying so I could tell them.

680
00:33:31.200 --> 00:33:35.680
Who to give to specifically and strategically, because we don't

681
00:33:35.759 --> 00:33:39.599
know how that other person is really living. And then

682
00:33:39.680 --> 00:33:43.039
he reminded me over, I've been in Orlando twenty five

683
00:33:43.119 --> 00:33:45.680
years now in December, and it was when I first

684
00:33:45.799 --> 00:33:48.839
moved here, one of the local channels did expose A

685
00:33:49.039 --> 00:33:51.599
followed some of the homeless people, sat out, I mean

686
00:33:51.759 --> 00:33:53.680
sat out with them the whole time they didn't know

687
00:33:53.720 --> 00:33:56.359
they were there, and followed them back to their nice

688
00:33:56.440 --> 00:33:59.400
cars that were parked way away. They take it off

689
00:33:59.440 --> 00:34:01.440
their wigs, they take it off their hat, they take

690
00:34:01.480 --> 00:34:05.279
it off the dirty clothes they had, and they found

691
00:34:05.319 --> 00:34:07.920
out their names by tracing them through the tags on

692
00:34:08.039 --> 00:34:11.320
their car to find out they claimed sixty thousand.

693
00:34:11.320 --> 00:34:13.079
They earned sixty thousand one year.

694
00:34:13.159 --> 00:34:16.440
One lady earned sixty thousand, had a nice three bedroom,

695
00:34:16.519 --> 00:34:20.920
two car garage house. So going forward, there's a lot

696
00:34:21.039 --> 00:34:23.880
of people that's going to be in need. There's a

697
00:34:24.039 --> 00:34:26.920
lot of people that's going to be in need. But

698
00:34:27.039 --> 00:34:29.840
it's not based on what you or who you think

699
00:34:30.199 --> 00:34:34.360
needs something. It's based on what God tells you because

700
00:34:34.400 --> 00:34:37.719
he's looking for people he can trust during this end time.

701
00:34:38.159 --> 00:34:41.400
Okay, so we'll talk some more about that next month.

702
00:34:41.599 --> 00:34:43.079
We've got a great month coming up.

703
00:34:43.519 --> 00:34:46.119
But without further ado, I don't know, miss kay, did

704
00:34:46.159 --> 00:34:50.039
you want to talk about you want me to talk

705
00:34:50.079 --> 00:34:51.880
about juvenile diabetes?

706
00:34:53.760 --> 00:34:58.719
I mean there's only so much. Yeah, it's very limited information. Well,

707
00:34:58.760 --> 00:34:59.119
they do it.

708
00:34:59.159 --> 00:35:01.519
It's an aware that's I'm gonna let you talk for

709
00:35:01.559 --> 00:35:03.599
a little bit, and what you want to share is

710
00:35:03.599 --> 00:35:05.760
probably the same the same content.

711
00:35:07.280 --> 00:35:09.960
But you know, what did you find out? I mean

712
00:35:09.960 --> 00:35:11.880
anymore while we're having this awareness.

713
00:35:12.840 --> 00:35:16.960
I mean, majority of the children are diagnosed at a

714
00:35:17.079 --> 00:35:21.599
young age with type one diabetes. And it's not even

715
00:35:22.239 --> 00:35:25.480
they're born with it. It's not even something that they've contracted.

716
00:35:26.320 --> 00:35:28.840
They're born with it. It's an autoimmune disease to.

717
00:35:28.880 --> 00:35:32.400
Where like certain sales attack the installm within their body,

718
00:35:33.079 --> 00:35:36.599
so it's out all immune and they're not able.

719
00:35:36.880 --> 00:35:38.519
Well, obviously type one is not careable.

720
00:35:39.000 --> 00:35:42.599
It's not reversible, so they're dealing with that from birth

721
00:35:43.000 --> 00:35:45.960
and for the rest of their life. So I guess

722
00:35:46.960 --> 00:35:50.440
being because it's more common now, and this is also

723
00:35:50.519 --> 00:35:51.239
something that's.

724
00:35:51.480 --> 00:35:54.880
Genetic, so yeah, think of it that way.

725
00:35:55.000 --> 00:35:56.280
It's genetic, so.

726
00:35:56.360 --> 00:35:58.639
There's nothing that they can really necessarily do about it,

727
00:35:58.840 --> 00:36:02.679
and as long as their families keep having children, the

728
00:36:02.800 --> 00:36:05.199
rest will be able to receive the same thing.

729
00:36:05.800 --> 00:36:09.159
So I will say, just to be well.

730
00:36:09.199 --> 00:36:12.440
And that stresses the important of knowing who you would

731
00:36:12.960 --> 00:36:15.480
be with as far as partners, like how important it

732
00:36:15.599 --> 00:36:19.079
is to make sure you know your family's history and

733
00:36:19.199 --> 00:36:23.000
medical history. There we go knowing the medical history and stuff,

734
00:36:23.039 --> 00:36:25.000
because I mean, people may not want to have kids

735
00:36:25.159 --> 00:36:28.159
because they know that their child will have type one diabetes.

736
00:36:28.199 --> 00:36:30.679
Efforts so that I.

737
00:36:30.679 --> 00:36:32.960
Didn't know our body, I didn't. I didn't know our

738
00:36:33.000 --> 00:36:38.159
body produces insolent. Yeah, our body is actually produced insolent,

739
00:36:39.119 --> 00:36:42.519
but it goes away or you know, but the pancreas,

740
00:36:42.599 --> 00:36:45.000
all this kind of stuff dealing with these disorders.

741
00:36:45.559 --> 00:36:47.559
The things we eat and stuff like that, the.

742
00:36:47.599 --> 00:36:51.639
Sugars that we've ingested, all that stuff impacts that I

743
00:36:51.719 --> 00:36:54.639
didn't know. We created our own insulin the moment. The

744
00:36:54.719 --> 00:36:57.639
only time I've heard of insulince when people have diabetes. Yeah,

745
00:36:57.719 --> 00:37:00.679
and they got to get their insolent shots. Say, we

746
00:37:00.880 --> 00:37:04.800
produce it, but we can't keep with the moniscus fluid

747
00:37:04.880 --> 00:37:11.719
in our kneecaps. But that's all about well yeah, yeah, yeah,

748
00:37:12.079 --> 00:37:16.679
because sometimes babies can have it, but sometimes it comes older,

749
00:37:17.000 --> 00:37:20.920
older kids like ten to fourteen, it'll show up. And

750
00:37:21.079 --> 00:37:24.719
especially you know, we're compounding anything and everything if we're

751
00:37:24.760 --> 00:37:28.239
laying it with unhealthy fats and you know, sugars, and

752
00:37:28.760 --> 00:37:32.320
you're not working out, you're not exercising, and you're not happy.

753
00:37:32.679 --> 00:37:35.039
Your emotions play a part in this, you know. It's

754
00:37:35.079 --> 00:37:35.480
it's all.

755
00:37:35.800 --> 00:37:39.079
It's the circle of life. It's the circle of life.

756
00:37:39.599 --> 00:37:41.480
So you got to you got to get your mind.

757
00:37:41.599 --> 00:37:41.920
Parents.

758
00:37:42.000 --> 00:37:44.519
You got to stop with these you know, saying things

759
00:37:44.559 --> 00:37:46.639
to your kids and stuff. You got to love your children,

760
00:37:46.760 --> 00:37:48.039
let them know that they're loved.

761
00:37:48.480 --> 00:37:50.119
You know, I could have been messed up my mom

762
00:37:50.239 --> 00:37:52.079
because she didn't know any better. She couldn't tell me,

763
00:37:52.320 --> 00:37:53.559
you know, you're a pretty little girl.

764
00:37:53.760 --> 00:37:56.320
No one's ever told me that about biological grandmother told

765
00:37:56.320 --> 00:37:58.760
me that way when she met me at sixteen, you know.

766
00:37:59.559 --> 00:38:01.559
But I tell my kids, oh my boys, Oh you're

767
00:38:01.599 --> 00:38:02.760
solf handsome, you're so good.

768
00:38:02.800 --> 00:38:05.280
Look. Oh I like that haircut. Oh that hair is okay,

769
00:38:05.440 --> 00:38:07.119
Well that's what you want to wear? All right there?

770
00:38:07.199 --> 00:38:08.119
Well you know, but.

771
00:38:09.599 --> 00:38:10.840
You know, you may watch it.

772
00:38:11.800 --> 00:38:14.519
But my kids can wear any color, all of them.

773
00:38:14.599 --> 00:38:16.719
They can wear any color and look good. And I

774
00:38:16.840 --> 00:38:19.519
complimented them. To parents, you're not showing your kids that

775
00:38:19.639 --> 00:38:22.519
you love them. And if they're trying to break havoc

776
00:38:22.559 --> 00:38:25.599
and stuff, there's a way to have a new sheriff

777
00:38:25.760 --> 00:38:28.159
in town. You can talk to me privately about that.

778
00:38:28.719 --> 00:38:31.119
But many times I advise parents, oh.

779
00:38:31.079 --> 00:38:31.679
No, you go home.

780
00:38:31.880 --> 00:38:35.599
Changes now, if you put your foot down, you've had enough. Yeah,

781
00:38:35.679 --> 00:38:37.239
you had it out, Okay, I can tell you how

782
00:38:37.280 --> 00:38:37.760
to change that.

783
00:38:38.440 --> 00:38:38.599
Yeah.

784
00:38:38.639 --> 00:38:40.840
It's just important to really cater to these kids. As

785
00:38:40.920 --> 00:38:45.719
someone who tutors younger individuals, these babies are. They can't

786
00:38:45.760 --> 00:38:48.679
go to their parents about nothing, or either of their guardians.

787
00:38:48.800 --> 00:38:52.760
I'm getting told majority of their issues of being bullied,

788
00:38:52.800 --> 00:38:55.360
whatever the case may be, and I'm giving them advice

789
00:38:55.440 --> 00:38:58.159
to go to school and act this way or cut

790
00:38:58.239 --> 00:39:01.440
that person off because we not doing that. But you know,

791
00:39:01.920 --> 00:39:04.719
I love the kids, so I'm always be there for

792
00:39:04.800 --> 00:39:07.320
the kids. So it's just like, you know, it's just

793
00:39:07.519 --> 00:39:10.599
sad that I see a lot of these parents not caring.

794
00:39:10.679 --> 00:39:12.440
Like when I was getting my last is done, we

795
00:39:12.519 --> 00:39:17.639
were watching True crime and a mother basically like purposely

796
00:39:17.719 --> 00:39:19.880
tried to kill all seven of her kids by giving

797
00:39:19.960 --> 00:39:23.679
them like sleeping pills and then she burnt the like

798
00:39:23.800 --> 00:39:26.239
she set the house on fire, and like three of

799
00:39:26.280 --> 00:39:29.119
the babies passed away because she stabbed them prior to

800
00:39:29.679 --> 00:39:32.880
starting the fire, and only like four of them survived.

801
00:39:33.280 --> 00:39:35.920
And I'm just like, that's crazy, And it's just like

802
00:39:36.119 --> 00:39:38.039
these kids are going to have to grow up knowing

803
00:39:38.760 --> 00:39:42.920
that their mother, for whatever reason, wanted to harm them.

804
00:39:43.400 --> 00:39:45.079
And one of the babies was like, I don't even

805
00:39:45.119 --> 00:39:48.039
feel safe with her. You know what I'm saying, that's crazy.

806
00:39:48.159 --> 00:39:49.840
Like my student even told me, you know, I don't

807
00:39:49.880 --> 00:39:51.800
I don't want to tell my guardian this.

808
00:39:52.599 --> 00:39:52.920
Why not?

809
00:39:53.880 --> 00:39:55.360
You know what I'm saying. But you know, a lot

810
00:39:55.440 --> 00:39:57.440
of these parents need to open up that door and care.

811
00:39:57.519 --> 00:39:59.400
And it's just like, if you're not going to care,

812
00:39:59.400 --> 00:40:01.400
there's no point of bringing a challenge to this world

813
00:40:01.440 --> 00:40:04.039
if you're only going to portray what you've gone through,

814
00:40:04.360 --> 00:40:06.679
Like your job is to make a difference and be

815
00:40:06.800 --> 00:40:09.599
better than your parents, you know what I'm saying. And

816
00:40:09.679 --> 00:40:13.280
it's just like people don't get that, Like these babies

817
00:40:13.880 --> 00:40:17.079
are very delayed. Now, let's put it like that, they're

818
00:40:17.239 --> 00:40:20.880
very delayed mentally. And it's like, what the heck my

819
00:40:20.960 --> 00:40:24.079
mom had me doing dictionary work over summer break. I

820
00:40:24.280 --> 00:40:26.840
was doing school work on summer break. This lady told

821
00:40:26.920 --> 00:40:29.800
I teach us to give us extra work. So it's

822
00:40:29.920 --> 00:40:35.360
just like, let me stop specifically, be specific now.

823
00:40:35.480 --> 00:40:39.320
I told them if well, if they stop, if they

824
00:40:39.400 --> 00:40:42.159
finish their class work, don't let them sit there and

825
00:40:42.239 --> 00:40:45.519
become idle. So you need a box of extra work,

826
00:40:45.880 --> 00:40:47.440
and they know to go over there and get it,

827
00:40:47.880 --> 00:40:50.440
and they to complete it until you resume the class.

828
00:40:51.280 --> 00:40:53.719
And look at you, now, look at you, right, I don't.

829
00:40:54.119 --> 00:40:54.639
I'm blessed.

830
00:40:55.320 --> 00:40:59.400
It's four point zero. I'm blessed with all these cords.

831
00:41:01.079 --> 00:41:04.400
Leadership society. I never know there was a society come

832
00:41:04.440 --> 00:41:07.599
on that you just want to invest in your business.

833
00:41:07.679 --> 00:41:08.960
Come on, now, look at you.

834
00:41:09.519 --> 00:41:12.239
But yeah, but it's just sad because you know, I'm

835
00:41:12.360 --> 00:41:13.920
those fortunate, you know what I'm saying.

836
00:41:13.960 --> 00:41:15.480
I'm blessed to have a parent that I have.

837
00:41:15.639 --> 00:41:17.880
But now I can show that love to other students

838
00:41:18.280 --> 00:41:21.000
in the role that i'm you know, in and stuff

839
00:41:21.039 --> 00:41:22.840
like that. And I feel like everybody should make it

840
00:41:23.360 --> 00:41:26.199
their job if you encounter younger individuals, just give them

841
00:41:26.239 --> 00:41:29.880
a conversation. Half the time, these younger kids just want

842
00:41:29.920 --> 00:41:31.800
to have a conversation. They just want to talk about it.

843
00:41:32.119 --> 00:41:33.639
And it's like a lot of people annoy them because

844
00:41:33.639 --> 00:41:35.280
they think their kids they don't know anything. These kids

845
00:41:35.320 --> 00:41:38.000
know a lot of stuff. Like I just spoke to

846
00:41:38.320 --> 00:41:40.599
a friend's cousin and she was like, I remember stuff

847
00:41:40.599 --> 00:41:42.360
when I was five years old that my mother but

848
00:41:42.719 --> 00:41:45.280
allowed in the household and stuff like that. And I've

849
00:41:45.320 --> 00:41:47.880
been telling them, I'm like, see, like kids remember things.

850
00:41:48.519 --> 00:41:51.239
They remember anything that they see and deal with. So

851
00:41:51.320 --> 00:41:54.320
it's just like, you know, of course, I'm make it

852
00:41:54.400 --> 00:41:56.960
my job anytime I encounter somebody younger than me, Oh,

853
00:41:56.960 --> 00:41:58.599
we're gonna have a conversation. I don't care if I

854
00:41:58.679 --> 00:42:00.639
don't know you, like, we're just gonna talk. You know

855
00:42:00.679 --> 00:42:02.320
what I'm saying some people what's on your mind and stuff?

856
00:42:02.320 --> 00:42:04.599
And I make it my job to ask my students that, like,

857
00:42:04.679 --> 00:42:05.360
what's on your mind?

858
00:42:05.440 --> 00:42:07.199
How was school? Nothing happened?

859
00:42:07.719 --> 00:42:09.159
You know what I'm saying before we get into work,

860
00:42:09.159 --> 00:42:10.800
because you have to know that I care for you.

861
00:42:11.280 --> 00:42:13.440
I don't just care for them and their academics.

862
00:42:13.480 --> 00:42:15.960
I care for them long term. So it's just like,

863
00:42:16.119 --> 00:42:18.360
you know, talk to these kids.

864
00:42:18.199 --> 00:42:21.760
Man, like they are going through some things and it's

865
00:42:21.840 --> 00:42:24.159
crazy because like around that age, I wasn't going through

866
00:42:24.280 --> 00:42:26.239
as much as these kids I see go through now.

867
00:42:26.760 --> 00:42:30.760
And it's like that's not good. That's not good, and

868
00:42:30.840 --> 00:42:31.920
it's only getting worse.

869
00:42:32.599 --> 00:42:35.440
So and I used to tell my coworkers who dealt

870
00:42:35.480 --> 00:42:38.239
with children in therapy, you need to slow this up

871
00:42:38.400 --> 00:42:40.400
because by the time they when they turn eighteen, they

872
00:42:40.480 --> 00:42:41.039
coming to see me.

873
00:42:42.199 --> 00:42:44.159
If you don't deal with them, they're coming to see me.

874
00:42:44.679 --> 00:42:47.239
And how many clients have I had.

875
00:42:47.760 --> 00:42:50.000
We were running into kids that think that they learn

876
00:42:50.119 --> 00:42:53.239
everything from the internet, people there who and that the

877
00:42:53.320 --> 00:42:56.320
people they know are wrong, Yes, Charles, because no one's

878
00:42:56.400 --> 00:42:59.320
talking to them, no one is sitting them down and

879
00:42:59.440 --> 00:43:02.440
saying no, this is the reason why this and giving

880
00:43:02.480 --> 00:43:03.599
them that human.

881
00:43:03.400 --> 00:43:07.119
Piece, that FaceTime, that real time in your face.

882
00:43:10.079 --> 00:43:10.440
Exactly.

883
00:43:10.440 --> 00:43:12.039
They give them a phone and the iPad. We had

884
00:43:12.119 --> 00:43:14.599
track phones in middle school. We ain't touch the iPhone.

885
00:43:16.480 --> 00:43:18.920
They really didn't have them during your time, mom, please,

886
00:43:19.840 --> 00:43:21.960
they did not have an iPhone, that had an.

887
00:43:21.920 --> 00:43:25.559
iPhone prior to like dad had an iPhone. He bought

888
00:43:25.599 --> 00:43:28.679
an iPhone. Yes, you can just talk about this a

889
00:43:28.679 --> 00:43:29.440
couple of days ago.

890
00:43:30.239 --> 00:43:31.079
He had an iPhone.

891
00:43:31.280 --> 00:43:33.119
We ain't have one. We had track phones that we

892
00:43:33.199 --> 00:43:34.079
had to pay for minutes.

893
00:43:34.679 --> 00:43:36.559
And who paid for the minutes? You did?

894
00:43:36.639 --> 00:43:40.480
But I mean obviously, yeah, because I need you to

895
00:43:40.519 --> 00:43:42.719
be able to reach me if you needed to exactly

896
00:43:43.360 --> 00:43:44.159
the teacher's doing it.

897
00:43:44.320 --> 00:43:45.559
So yeah, and that was the way.

898
00:43:45.760 --> 00:43:48.000
What did it teach you to stay in my head

899
00:43:48.039 --> 00:43:49.719
in these books and not be on any type of

900
00:43:49.800 --> 00:43:50.960
social media platforms.

901
00:43:51.440 --> 00:43:57.719
Responsibility for sure? Responsibility. Yeah. So anyway, all right, we

902
00:43:57.800 --> 00:44:00.079
got two more We got more than two moments. We

903
00:44:00.199 --> 00:44:02.639
got two minutes, We got two minutes. I hope it's.

904
00:44:02.719 --> 00:44:06.840
Helped somewhere along the way. We just need everybody on

905
00:44:06.880 --> 00:44:09.000
the front line now, and I need you taking care

906
00:44:09.039 --> 00:44:13.760
of yourself. I need you to be healthy emotionally, spiritually

907
00:44:14.079 --> 00:44:15.000
and do whatever.

908
00:44:14.880 --> 00:44:16.119
You need to do to get there.

909
00:44:16.559 --> 00:44:18.760
Charles, it gets frustrated when we know the facts, but

910
00:44:18.840 --> 00:44:20.679
the kids are saying we are wrong and that kind

911
00:44:20.679 --> 00:44:23.360
of stuff. And you know what, Charles, everybody they got

912
00:44:23.400 --> 00:44:24.719
they got to run their own race.

913
00:44:24.840 --> 00:44:25.719
Now we can't that.

914
00:44:25.800 --> 00:44:29.119
We're not gonna forget that because we would love to. Well,

915
00:44:29.440 --> 00:44:31.880
I would not want to do everything for my children.

916
00:44:32.079 --> 00:44:33.840
I do not want and I've had to pull back

917
00:44:34.199 --> 00:44:36.159
because I'm like, no, because I want to. I don't

918
00:44:36.159 --> 00:44:38.119
want them to hurt. I don't want them to worry

919
00:44:38.440 --> 00:44:41.079
because their dad is no longer here, So I no,

920
00:44:41.159 --> 00:44:41.639
I don't want you.

921
00:44:41.800 --> 00:44:43.920
But I had to wait a minute. No, they can't

922
00:44:43.960 --> 00:44:45.360
depend and lean it depends on me.

923
00:44:45.920 --> 00:44:48.039
I got to push back, and you got to know.

924
00:44:48.320 --> 00:44:50.400
But you got to know when to lean in and

925
00:44:50.480 --> 00:44:54.039
when to listen. And now you all talk about holding space. Basically,

926
00:44:54.119 --> 00:44:56.440
that's just being there for somebody and giving them the

927
00:44:56.519 --> 00:44:59.559
time that you know, to talk talk it out, to

928
00:44:59.639 --> 00:45:02.199
talk it through and what is on your mind. And

929
00:45:02.320 --> 00:45:04.119
I used to tell my kids, don't worry about coming

930
00:45:04.159 --> 00:45:06.280
to talk to me, talk to an adult that you

931
00:45:06.400 --> 00:45:09.119
can trust, enjoy it. This is all thank you, elder K.

932
00:45:10.679 --> 00:45:12.920
Talk to somebody. That's how I raise them. If you

933
00:45:13.000 --> 00:45:15.440
can't come and talk to me, talk to somebody, an

934
00:45:15.440 --> 00:45:17.800
adult that you can trust. And you don't have the word,

935
00:45:17.840 --> 00:45:20.679
then you're gonna come and tell me, and they're not okay.

936
00:45:21.239 --> 00:45:25.119
So you got to be the you know, adults and parents,

937
00:45:25.159 --> 00:45:27.360
I'm not being a friend to my child. I'm not

938
00:45:27.480 --> 00:45:33.079
a friend to my children. They got the fear I'm

939
00:45:33.119 --> 00:45:35.920
not your friend, not your friend, and sometimes you can't

940
00:45:35.960 --> 00:45:39.280
trust me because I be in my feelings. That's ten percent,

941
00:45:40.079 --> 00:45:43.440
ten percent of design, just ten percent. All right, all

942
00:45:43.519 --> 00:45:47.119
right there, Well the next time I see you, I'll

943
00:45:47.159 --> 00:45:54.760
be another year younger. And when you see mss K,

944
00:45:55.400 --> 00:45:57.840
she will be a college graduate.

945
00:45:58.599 --> 00:46:02.760
Congratulations are and she is going to be.

946
00:46:05.760 --> 00:46:09.360
Ye yes, yeah, she got them all and she's gonna

947
00:46:09.400 --> 00:46:11.280
go get one little certificate, she says.

948
00:46:11.360 --> 00:46:13.800
But you know she's not stopping. And she got that

949
00:46:13.880 --> 00:46:14.119
from me.

950
00:46:14.199 --> 00:46:16.599
I'm glad that we went straight. I went straight through

951
00:46:16.639 --> 00:46:18.840
school because I didn't. I didn't want to trust me

952
00:46:19.360 --> 00:46:22.039
taking a break, and I'm glad that I didn't. I

953
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don't regret not and look behind me.

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And this was this thing. Here she right behind meself. Hey,

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thank you had stay shote.

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I got to share that weekend with these people coming

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in to celebrate, all right, I'll be all right.

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Congratulations, Yes, yes, Ellien, I'm wondering about you.

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You think you?

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Thank you. I see you next week, same time, same

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station music.

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Bye, You're lie

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Possess a