International Day of Happiness

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good evening, good evening, good evening,

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and welcome to another exciting opportunity of
dialogue information and ooh, I bet

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you didn't know. Here we go, Here we go. Well, welcome

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to everybody, and thank you for
joining us for another segment of setting it

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straight with mss Gray and co hosts
and guests as well. But before we

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go any further, we must pray. We got to open this up in

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prayer. Let's pray. Father,
We just thank you, we praise you,

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We give you glory for you alonea
worthy to be praised. Lord,

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have your way tonight, Have your
way tonight. I felt the anointing old

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day to day everywhere I went.
So I know, I know with a

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shadow, without a shadow of doubt, that there's something that needs to be

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said tonight. Somebody it needs to
hear something tonight. We need to cover

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everybody in prayer, from those on
the front to those that are behind the

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scenes, those that are on their
way, and those that have gone on

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before us. We just thank you, Father God, and as always Lord,

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we get behind the cross. Now
we get behind the cross. You

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set the captains free. All this
and more we ask in Jesus name,

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Amen and amen, and that man
that she has trade tray. All right,

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Now that's how's everybody doing. We're
well, we're good. I can't

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speak for everybody, but I'm good. I'm gonna say that, but I'm

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good. Everybody. All hearts and
minds are clear of tonight. As the

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beast would say, okay, we'll
welcome, welcome, welcome to everybody.

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And as you could tell, we've
got a fourth person. We have a

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fourth square that's appearing, and that's
our mighty guess, our awesome guest.

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She's been with us before. But
now we're gonna we're gonna talk. Before

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we do that. We want to
do a little housekeeping. We already know

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what's going on the news. We
already know what's going on in the news

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over in Haiti, and my god, please please, we've got to pray

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for the country as a whole.
It's citizens, the residents, guests,

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missionary folks that are over there.
Hey, hey, hey, how are

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you. We have to pray for
everybody. And Representative Frost sent me an

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email today he's trying his best get
from under there. Excuse me now,

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you know Jazz is gonna try to
make her debut tonight and get on my

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nerves. Here we go. But
he sends an email saying that he's doing

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his best to get anybody that's you, any US citizens that are stuck in

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Haiti right now, they're sending airplanes
a smaller little place to try to get

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people out of there. They can't
send but so much. And they're just

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trying to get the information to everybody. So we've got to pray. We've

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got to pray. I understand Governor
DeSantis has sent his militia army over there

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as well. I don't know what
that means. I would think the US

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Guard needs to go, but I
don't know. But please, we you

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know, just our hearts, you
know, and our minds are on Haiti

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right now, because I did not
expect this to be the World War.

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If you would, everybody else was
talking about World War happening and coming to

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the States, and then of course
we know what's going on when Israel and

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some other places, Ukraine, all
these places, but I never look at

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something this close to home and affecting
us and the way it could affect America

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and Florida and any other states that
as affiliated that have residents and loved ones

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over in Haiti. So you know, God is really good. If you

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listen to him, he's gonna explain
some things. You give him time,

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he'll make things really clear. So
we need to be very preyerful. That's

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what I've been feeling in my spirit
ever since we got news and heard you

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know, what was really going on
over there, and you know, we

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just and again when Representative Frost set
out this email today, you know what

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he's trying to do, he and
some other elected officials or trying to just

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get folks out of there. And
there's a crisis intake form that you can

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fill out if you have loved ones
over there, or if you have any

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US citizens over there that you're concerned
about and they're feeling like they're stuck.

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There's an intake for them that could
be completed. So and oddly enough,

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we're talking about the International Day of
Happiness. I tell you, you know,

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that's different for everybody. You have
to define your happiness. You have

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to keep defining and redefining what happiness
is as you age, as some of

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us get younger, Thank you Jesus, some of us get younger. But

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I have to keep redefining. After
you've gone through a traumatic event or an

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experience, you got to keep redefining
it because if you don't, you'll look

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up and not realize that you're really
not happy. And if you're not careful

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because of the hurt, because of
the unforgiveness, because of the endurance and

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the severity, you will wind up
bitter. You will become bitter. I

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know that when I was getting ready
to divorce my second husband, I had

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to watch myself because I did not
want to become bitter. Not knowing then

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the Lord had me to say no, retract the divorce process. I didn't

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know he was passing away, you
know, but I had to check myself,

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you know, I don't want to
be against men and the marriage and

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all day to day. J.
C. Penny sent out an email and

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all these specials, and so I
said, leave, let's go, you

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know, just just I mean,
you know, it's been a long time

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since we've shocked. And I said, they've got some good stuff, so

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let's go, you know, seventy
five percent off. I said, oh,

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you're talking to me and everybody we
are putting prayers, a thank you

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country, see good evening. Hey, missy, I've said prayers since I

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heard it by thank you, missive
God, bless you, thank you.

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And God is on it. He's
on it, but he wants us to

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really he's allowing us to peek on, you know, through the curtain and

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see what's going on there. So
we really got to be very strategic and

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be very focused. But today,
out of all days, everybody I saw,

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every second customer or person in the
mall walking were couples, and they

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were older couples, and they were
holding each other's hands and looking at each

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other lovingly. And I mean,
why I have to see this, I

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do not know, but you know
I'm seeing this and I'm like, oh

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my God, And you could tell
the love. You could tell the love.

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And they were holding hands and they
ranged in age, but they're over

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forty, they were over fifty,
the somewhere over sixty. We met a

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lady that was eighty two. She
don't even look like she's sixty. She

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asked my daughter for her professional opinion. She goes, look, we got

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to talk to these young people.
Which these these these outfits go together?

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She said, you know, And
I tried to just look at she looking

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at me like, well why,
I'm like, okay, I'm gonna leave

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that up to you. But she
she ain't talking to me. She didn't

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want to hear nothing I have to
say. But she had to tell she

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was getting ready to go to her
granddaughter's graduation in a month or two,

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and but she wanted to get the
right outfit. So she goes, you

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know, you have to ask these
young people, you know, cause they

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could tell you. I'm eighty two
years old. I'm still trying to look

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young. And I said, well, mother, you whatever you got in

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the backyard, tell me, because
I need to come to your house and

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get some of your fruit or whatever
you drink it or eating in the backyard.

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She was extremely alert. She was
she had a pepp in her step,

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she had us laughing and everything.
It was just great. But I'm

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looking at these other couples. So
the happiness that I saw, despite what's

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what was on my mind, despite
what I'm hearing, despite the fact that

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we in the police sirens and and
hearing what's on the news, I'm looking

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at people in real time, in
real life who did not even care about

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what they were what was around them. They were happy, and some of

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them didn't even have shopping bags.
They'd just say, hey, let's go,

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you know, and just holding each
other's holding on to each other tight.

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So it is not odd that tonight
would be a lot we can learn

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from our older folks. Amen,
this mickey, thank you. Yes,

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I mean, I love my seniors. They have their place in our world

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to let us remind us how things
used to be, so that we could

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be so ever thankful that it's not
that way. It's not. You know,

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you got to walk ten miles to
the schoolhouse and hopefully you'll be taught.

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Hopefully you could be you can learn
how to read. Hopefully that nobody

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will come and attack you at night
because of the color of your skin or

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your religion. You know, and
even though some of that's trying to seek

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back in here, but nevertheless,
I have to introduce my girl, my

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girl, my girl, my empress. This young lady is she's been on

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the show before, and at that
time we were talking about fashion and colors

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and sizing your shape and everything else. And she can look at you.

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You send her a picture, she'll
tell you if your bottom up a bottom

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down, if you're an apple or
a pair or you grapes, you got

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different shapes going on, and what
colors look good on you. She tell

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you the truth now because she's also
a Leo. We were born on the

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same day, believe it or not, but we are many years apart,

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even though I do not look at
Thank you Jesus. And we just found

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out we were both born at night. But again there's a big age difference.

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She just don't know it yet.
But anyway, she looks great.

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If will you please welcome our guests, our Steve guest, Miss another Romola

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Ceo of you have to name your
company because I always get that wrong.

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There you go, there you go, there you go, and thank you

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again for welcoming you know, coming
on today. Thank you, Yes,

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come on out, brandon'hello. All
right, see yea, there we go,

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there we go. I'm gonna let
you, you know, do some

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things. We've got an event coming
up and this coming Saturday, and it

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was so appropriate to have her on
here because it's about you know, I

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won't let her tell you. I'm
gonna be quiet now because you know,

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I can out talk anybody, go
ahead, even me, And that's the

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surprime. She can't even know out
talk for me. That's why she's hosting.

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That's why she's hosting on Saturday,
because I need somebody that can talk,

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that got that vibrant spirit up there
telling our women. We have a

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Woman's Care Saturday coming up this Saturday
in honor of Women's History Months, So

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we will be at the Renee Dynamic
in Pine Hills, but Orlando, Florida.

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It's historically known and yes, miss
Gray is our lovely hosts. She

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is going to be turning it up
and praising it out and having us a

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good old time. And we're gonna, you know, just be having a

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great time talking about women and talking
about women's care and about everything health wise,

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fitness wise, self defense. We
got some you know, knowledge based

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things for women in the careers and
the workforce. We got some. We

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have some you know, lifestyle needs, you know, with virus stinguisher teachings,

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CPR. So we got a great
day full of We got food people

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that like to eat. We got
food there too. We got food for

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both times for the breakfast in the
afternoon. And it's gonna be exciting.

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And I'm excited. And Miss Kay
I love her. She's so sweet.

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She gonna be there to turning it
up, you know. She she brings

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that excitement to Miss great Miss great
on he no backup, but she'd be

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backing her up. So, yes, that's what we got going on on

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Saturday with my girl. I've been
planning my friend Cilia, who's in the

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comments, that's my co worker.
We've been we've been prepping it out and

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we're just so excited. So a
fun field days like she just said,

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So yes, we're excited. We
are just excited. Go ahead, I'm

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done talking. I told you she
talk now me me a sneaky way.

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You know. She came over under
the guise of just checking in. She

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hadn't seen me in a while.
For a minute, and she goes,

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I just want to come and see
how you're doing and can I stop by?

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Sure, come on by, you
know. She's like, well,

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we're just talking, you know,
and reminding of the old days and all

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that. She goes, Oh,
and by the way, I got an

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a bit with planning then. So
I'm like, oh, that's good,

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and she's like yeah. I said, well, when's gonna be well,

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you know, sometimes maybe late February, maybe March or something like that.

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We're not sure yet. I said, oh, okay, okay, well

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let me know today. She goes, will you have to let you go

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today because I need you to host
it? What? What? What?

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Wait a minute, wait wait,
I'm just I brought her a gift too.

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I brought her a gift. It
was a Christmas gift that talk.

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It wasn't a trick. It was
just a reminder of why she was perfect

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for that position because it said,
what does it say again, thank you

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for teaching because you you you're it's
so vital. And no, it was

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it was well for the gift was
separate, but it just everything floated.

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She forgot that. We had the
conversation on our brid breakfast i mean birthday

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lunch back in August. But it
was just a little tinkle in my brain.

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Me and Leash, me and Celia
were just playing around with the idea.

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And so once we started really planning
it a little more, I said,

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oh, let me go ahead and
prepare this grave as we call her

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here. And then she reminded me
of Women's History Month and I said,

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you know what, this sounds perfect
because it wasn't a trapped. It was

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a call and that's what but it
was. And yes, it wasn't a

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trap. It was a calling because
I literally had people in my mind for

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things and you were that's it.
It was a calling. It wasn't a

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trap. Okay, bye bye.
So why is it that you're doing this?

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What? What? What brought this
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that everybody's going through right now.
We know everybody's going through, and happiness

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is really kind of not something people
are thinking about anymore right now. They're

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just trying to live. They're trying
to survive. Unfortunately, they're going from

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paycheck to paycheck. They're trying to
make ends meet that will not meet because

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they haven't met. You know,
we're losing lives. Lady was talking about,

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you know, how her sons have
been killed retrospectively and just all kinds

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of things are going on right now, and people are not waking up.

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There are more funerals being planned right
now. Funeral homes on do funerals on

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Saturdays and Sundays anymore. They're doing
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They're doing it on a week day, you know, and stuff like that.

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So why this, mis Weelda?
Why why are we talking? Why?

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Why? Why now? And what
was the whole? You know,

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what's the event? And what do
you hope to get from this? What

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do we hope? What's the outcome
we're hoping for? So I named two

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of my two of my people.
I named you miss Gray. Actually I

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say three. I named you Miss
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named Celia. And so I don't
know if you remember me saying it's a

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calling, because it's part that I
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Cilia and I are planning the event. Celia has a history of doing

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events. Solia wants to get back
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So you here goes an event.
Let's think about it. Miss Gray got

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a beautiful podcast, you know,
I'm saying. She Oh, it's gonna

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be a Renee Dynamic in Orlando,
Florida. So yes, miss Gray,

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you know what I'm saying. She's
she's an author, she's a host,

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she's a podcaster, she's all these
wonderful things. It just fits miss Kay

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over their hair. Why not promote
her and she These are just three of

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a bunch of women that I know. Renee's dynamic, mister and missus Renee,

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I'm sorry, she here and Rin
she Renee there are self defense teachers.

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We were sitting me and Celia.
We attend the gym ms Wren.

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She Renee was my personal trainer.
She helped me lose seventy pounds and so

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again seventy one Actually, if I
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honest, so we'll put that one
pound on it. Do I put that

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one pound on it? Because MAYD
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put it in so as I was
saying, yes, So she helped me

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lose weight, and she's all about
women empowerment and so it was really about

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the circle, the circle of women
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a friend that does suits and treats. I had to put her. She's

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an Axpetician that's women's care, taking
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yourself good things. I have someone
that's amazing at decorating, she is starting

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up her business. She needed a
platform. Put her out there. We

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have Dressed for success, women that
are empowering other women who I have basically

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you know, are restarting their life, you know, for many different reasons.

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Put them out there. So it
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women by honestly, because I'm blessed
with a wonderful circle of women, So

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I want to share y'all with other
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That's why I created, That's why
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all these talents to be in one
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everybody else. And as far as
the Day of Happiness, I definitely understand

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with everything women supporting women, encouraging
women, I definitely understand, you know,

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with everything going on in the world, how people can be focused on

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the sadness. But if you can
be grateful, if you can be thankful,

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but even just the truth, that
ain't got to be a lot of

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truth, just the truth of what
you have, whether it is having a

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circle of women around you. You
would be surprised how much more blessings you

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can get from just that one grateful
thankfulness, you know, from even being

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able to have a position that you
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I now have a position where I
could just say, you know what,

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I need an hour off so I
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my friends, and then I'll go
back and just be thankful for that and

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just living that gratefulness and that happiness. So why wouldn't I want to share

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that with other women, Women that
I love, women that I appreciate,

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and sometimes, like you said,
they may be going through one of those

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tragic situations. But as I've been
growing this last year, I've been working

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on my own self for my own
self care. I realized that happened,

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not happening, it happened, and
once we accept that, we deal with

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it, we move on. It
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more joyful, we can be more
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we just live and grow from it. Amen, Well, thank you for

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that. I have to share this. I've been thanking her since I've been

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home and since I've been in recovery
but because of our love for each other

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and our appreciation for each other,
she's always supported me. We were both

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attended the same nail technician and we
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to be serviced and things, and
that's how we found out we have we

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share the same birthday. And then
next thing she knew, I ended up

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in the hospital. And you know, I don't want to get too moshi

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here, but you know she was
not coming to that hospital. She would

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never come. She about I would
never go into the hospital again because of

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a tragedy she experienced. And when
she found out I was there, she

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came through the doors and and she
shared with me, you know, I

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was unconscious and no one's never seen
me. Many people did not want to

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come up to the hospital to see
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in. They knew me as happy, go lucky, always a smile in

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the room and everything, and folks
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the state that But she pushed through
that day and said, according to correct

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me. If I'm wrong, Lord, what can I do for her?

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What can I do? And she
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LISTA used to do these podcasts.
Maybe she needs to hear her own voice.

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She's the one I've talked about this
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that took her phone and found some
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played it for me, played it
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story is, you know I'm here
today. So sometimes it takes that special

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person who's not been identified. You
don't know, you wouldn't know what somebody's

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gone through, you don't know what
somebody would do for you. But the

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Lord was on her and she was
being guided by him, and here she

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now today. You know, it's
creating an event for other women whom some

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we got guests coming in and people
who are gonna be coming as guests that

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we don't even know who they are, but they're seeing the advertisement everywhere and

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we're telling everybody, come on as
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something a little bit for everybody.
So I want everybody to find their happiness.

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This is for our audience too,
Mainly. I know you're going through

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things. I know it could be
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the light at the end of a
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But just know, because of your
believing in God, Jesus and the

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Holy Spirit. The light is there
and you will soon see it. But

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you got to push through those obstacles. You got to push through that darkness

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and know that Jesus came to save
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He came so that we could be
set free and have eternal life in

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him. So I'm not gonna talk. I mean, my other co host

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do talk, you know, and
stuff like that. So I'm gonna be

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quiet and let y'all amen, y'all, let you all do some talking.

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This sounds oh country Sea, thank
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thinking we're gonna take it on the
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that. You know, we had
the Virginia, you know, we had

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we had them Palm Bay. You
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the road because this is needed.
And I know people are doing things in

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different states and cities and things like
that, but we hey, there's more,

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there's more to reach. There's more
to reach. Everybody. Anybody come

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on and say trained has to beguel. Yeah, okay, already I was

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trying to see so, I mean, this is exciting. I wish I

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were able to come down. You
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that's the part I really miss,
the capital collaborations and the initiatives, community

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initiatives, peace. You know.
I haven't delved much into that, you

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know, being back up in Virginia, but that is a passion, you

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know, just seeing folks come together
bringing resources and and and it's so important

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to find your happy space, you
know, things that make you happy,

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feel good inside outside, things that
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so that's what I'm you know,
trying to resort back to doing some things

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that make me happy. And I
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just as a coping skill, you
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I care for my dad. So
I'm about to launch that or do some

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things with dad just just to feel
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acclimated in this new journey of life. So looking forward to it and hopefully

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planning some things down you know,
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say, with searching for happiness,
I mean, you just have to be

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able to step out of your comfort
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things. I mean, I know, I've started traveling at a young age

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and I love it. So therefore
just you know, keep exploring and trying

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to find different things that you would
never do. But try it out.

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You may not know if you actually
get into it, become a hobby,

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whatever the case may be. But
just be open. Well I have to

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I have to say that we we
what I love about this and I feel

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like you're actually witnessing here what the
Body of Christ really is. Everybody here

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has actually contributed in a particular aspect
of someone else's life and has encouraged them,

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empowered them, helped them heal.
And this is exactly what the Bible

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talks about. And what's amazing about
the whole thing is here that we didn't

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have to say. The Bible says. What we are seeing here is the

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exact example of what it is to
be connected to the body and knowing that

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the head of the body is Christ
and listening to what Winilda did to Miss

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Gray to help her, and she
stepped out of her comfort zone to help

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out another member, and this is
exactly what it's all about. We just

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don't know exactly where we are in
our lives, and this is a true

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testimony of what the Holy Spirit can
do in regards to the words that need

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to be said the actions that need
to be taken the responsibilities of encouraging somebody

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else, and that in itself is
a testimony. And just listening to all

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this, you know, it just
is encouraging to hear because if the audience

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is going through this, look at
what technology is doing. We're putting everybody

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together giving a testimony and it's going
out. So we're doing what the Lord

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told us to do, which is
to deliver the good news. So you

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can't tell me that Christ doesn't exist, when here we have the example of

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how Christ works. So you know, I I prov you women. You

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you women are are truly a a
a very much needed part of life because

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you bring something to the table that
I can't speak for all men, but

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I'll speak for me, but we
it's it's it's a it's a needed partnership,

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let me use that word, A
much needed partnership because you're able to

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fill in the pockets so we can
be able to say, wow, I

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understand now, or wow, I
see where you're coming from, so we

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can be able to to be empathetic
in what's going on. So thank you,

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thank you for bringing me on today
and and and hearing this, and

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and listening to your testimonies, because
this is what my cousin gave me.

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A shirt that says pastor warning.
Anything that you say can be used in

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a sermon. This is a great
example of how I can be able to

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utilize this in a sermon. Amen. And and wherever you're going, we

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can, we can. This is
doable. This is doable. It's not

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taking a whole lot of money.
And she just start off with, you

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know, five thousand dollars budget.
You know, people will sit and wait

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and say, well, I want
to do this, but I don't have

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the money, I don't have the
location. Well, guess what. She's

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at her gym that she works out
at. The owner of the gym was

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like, yeah, what what do
you need me to do? You know

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what what you know, how do
you need me to set it up?

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It was already there. You've got
resources already there, and you've got the

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trust that when God gives you an
idea. And I was just sharing this

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with somebody recently last night that you
know, He's already given it to us.

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The things that we specialize in,
He already put them in us when

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he made us so wonderfully in his
image. It's not your pastor. Miguel

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didn't say grow up and say,
you know what, when I get older,

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I'm gonna be a pastor one day. And maybe he did. I

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don't know if he was coached that
way as a child. Okay, see

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there we go. Trey not knowing
never said you know what she I know

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as a child, she probably said
I'm gonna help people. But to basically

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say I'll be a social worker with
doctor, you know, with all the

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experience and everything, I'm gonna be
a community advocate before we even knew what

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that word was. Yeah, and
when nowda she is? I mean she

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knows fashion. You don't, don't
get your feelings hurt. If I prefer

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if he's like, you know what
I need a what do we call that?

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When he when they go and shop, they shop for the star.

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They shot you free y uhuh?
Personal stylist. Yeah, if you need

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personal styling and I refer her to
you, she's gonna give it to you

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as is. You want to wear
all the reds and the black? Now

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what you're doing? No, you
know, but that's a gift in her.

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She loves color, She knows color, she knows fashion, and should

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she could be in La right now. She could be in New York right

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00:31:19.720 --> 00:31:23.839
now, you know, working fashion
shows. She's gonna do a fashion show.

410
00:31:25.039 --> 00:31:27.640
You know, nothing, but God
already. I hope people realize it's

411
00:31:27.680 --> 00:31:32.000
already in you. This is not
something new, you know. I was

412
00:31:32.039 --> 00:31:34.160
just talking about leadership the other day. That's why I say leadership is born.

413
00:31:34.440 --> 00:31:37.160
No one ever told me I was
a leader. No one ever told

414
00:31:37.160 --> 00:31:41.480
me that I just had the gift
of projection. I was talking to a

415
00:31:41.480 --> 00:31:45.119
couple over in Hawaii, they're living
in Hawaii now, and I said,

416
00:31:45.119 --> 00:31:48.799
you know, no one would have
known that I went through what I would

417
00:31:48.799 --> 00:31:52.519
go through, all half of the
things I've gone through in my life.

418
00:31:52.920 --> 00:31:56.440
No one would have told me after
getting out of the hospital that I would

419
00:31:56.480 --> 00:32:01.920
have to marry a man and a
woman online. And then almost a year

420
00:32:02.000 --> 00:32:07.279
later, they want to have the
wedding in person, and I go and

421
00:32:07.319 --> 00:32:13.200
purchase a microphone through Amazon, get
there to the event, get my nerves

422
00:32:13.359 --> 00:32:17.240
up to get to the event,
only for it to not work. But

423
00:32:17.319 --> 00:32:22.559
did we miss a moment in the
wedding? No, we started on time.

424
00:32:22.680 --> 00:32:24.240
And guess what I said, Can
everybody hear me? They're like,

425
00:32:24.480 --> 00:32:30.400
yes, I said, let's get
it, you know. So he created

426
00:32:30.480 --> 00:32:34.559
us wonderfully. He created us how
we're looking, and he put us in

427
00:32:34.559 --> 00:32:37.160
the families that we needed to be
in and everything else. And now you've

428
00:32:37.200 --> 00:32:43.240
got to find your happiness beyond people. You got to find your happiness beyond

429
00:32:43.359 --> 00:32:46.119
making money. You got to find
your happiness beyond being in the right church.

430
00:32:46.480 --> 00:32:51.000
You've got to find your happiness and
finding it. I'm telling you A

431
00:32:51.039 --> 00:32:59.680
big way to do that is to
have a faith that is on just unbelievable

432
00:33:00.599 --> 00:33:04.680
where people will look at you like
you're crazy. Will people will force you,

433
00:33:04.839 --> 00:33:10.720
try to force you to deny the
Christ and your faith for you to

434
00:33:10.720 --> 00:33:14.680
be able to step away and say
no, I'm gonna stand on this island

435
00:33:14.680 --> 00:33:19.680
for a minute, because after a
while you won't be alone. You won't

436
00:33:19.720 --> 00:33:22.920
be alone. You think you are, but you won't be because God will

437
00:33:22.920 --> 00:33:27.640
see you the people that you need. And I'm believing God that you know

438
00:33:28.000 --> 00:33:31.240
Saturday is gonna be off the chain. I don't know what he's gonna do.

439
00:33:31.680 --> 00:33:36.000
I don't know the lives he's gonna
change. I don't know which way

440
00:33:36.039 --> 00:33:38.559
it's gonna go. I know it's
gonna be peaceful. I know that everybody

441
00:33:38.559 --> 00:33:43.400
that needs to be there will be
there. Everybody that's coming to get there's

442
00:33:43.400 --> 00:33:46.839
some of them that they paid their
last. They're paying their last to buy

443
00:33:46.880 --> 00:33:51.920
a ticket. They got rent.
They got to look right. The first

444
00:33:52.000 --> 00:33:54.880
is right around the corner. But
something is telling them, I need to

445
00:33:54.920 --> 00:33:59.839
go to this. I need to
go to this. I need this for

446
00:34:00.160 --> 00:34:02.839
me. I need this for me. And if I don't get what I

447
00:34:02.920 --> 00:34:07.519
need, well then you know what
I did. It wasn't meant to be.

448
00:34:07.559 --> 00:34:10.840
But that's not gonna be the case
because most already see it in the

449
00:34:10.840 --> 00:34:14.880
spirit. Most people coming they think
they're coming to an event. Oh this

450
00:34:14.960 --> 00:34:20.039
is gonna be cute. Okay,
I'm gonna show you cute. You're gonna

451
00:34:20.079 --> 00:34:23.599
get healed. And Pastor, thank
you for mentioning about the healing pieces,

452
00:34:23.920 --> 00:34:29.079
because the Lord was just mentioned to
me that when it even was healed,

453
00:34:29.960 --> 00:34:36.639
when she was determined to put aside
her feelings to come see me, I'm

454
00:34:36.639 --> 00:34:45.519
gonna do it. She doing it
mm hm, and to stand there until

455
00:34:45.639 --> 00:34:52.599
she's like Jesus showed her what to
do. She overcome her doubts, her

456
00:34:52.679 --> 00:35:01.119
feelings because she was not ever going
to step into that hospital voluntarily. But

457
00:35:01.239 --> 00:35:05.519
She put that to the side and
said, no, I have to I

458
00:35:05.559 --> 00:35:09.280
gotta do this if I don't do
anything else. And my daughter was very

459
00:35:09.320 --> 00:35:15.760
careful about people coming to see me, especially when I was unconscious. So

460
00:35:15.800 --> 00:35:21.239
if he it was a healing for
you, and that's what he does.

461
00:35:21.800 --> 00:35:24.440
We think we're doing something pastor you're
getting ready to go. You know,

462
00:35:25.159 --> 00:35:30.760
traveler across the seas, fly across
the seas, and you're gonna be gone

463
00:35:30.760 --> 00:35:37.320
for weeks or days. You're going
because you've been asked to come, but

464
00:35:37.440 --> 00:35:44.599
the lives that you're gonna touch people
won't forget this. Where you've been tray

465
00:35:44.760 --> 00:35:47.119
every client that comes in, whether
they're schedule or not, you see them

466
00:35:47.159 --> 00:35:53.920
anyway. You have an encouraging word
for all of your coworkers. Anyway.

467
00:35:54.039 --> 00:36:00.840
You are tired. You just spent
years taking care of your day and being

468
00:36:00.880 --> 00:36:04.440
an advocate for your father. That's
no joke for those of us who are

469
00:36:04.440 --> 00:36:09.280
caregivers or who have been caregivers.
And you could have walked away. You

470
00:36:09.280 --> 00:36:14.519
could say, you know what,
I'm not helping another person, but it's

471
00:36:14.559 --> 00:36:19.679
not you, that's not you.
You could have chosen a different field.

472
00:36:20.239 --> 00:36:23.880
You could have left social service behind
and the wind in the dust. But

473
00:36:24.000 --> 00:36:30.840
that's not you and solutions. Focus
has got to come forward, whether it's

474
00:36:30.880 --> 00:36:37.320
greeting cards or just happy you know, just just happy conversation. It's got

475
00:36:37.360 --> 00:36:38.920
to come forward. Let me talk
to my audience out there country, see

476
00:36:39.400 --> 00:36:45.559
Misty, all of y'all. So
cil ya, everybody listening, rebel,

477
00:36:46.360 --> 00:36:52.119
you got a call on your life. We need everybody on the front line.

478
00:36:52.400 --> 00:36:54.480
Everybody on the front line. You
see what's going on around us.

479
00:36:58.800 --> 00:37:02.360
You straightened it up. Jesus told
the disciples if you go, you're going

480
00:37:02.440 --> 00:37:07.760
to go two by two. Take
no purse with you. If you're received,

481
00:37:07.400 --> 00:37:12.840
enjoy yourself I'm paraphrasing. But if
you are not received, dust the

482
00:37:12.840 --> 00:37:15.199
food, that the sand off,
the dirt off your heels, and keep

483
00:37:15.239 --> 00:37:19.880
moving. And that's what happiness is
about. We keep moving. Yes,

484
00:37:19.920 --> 00:37:22.599
there's some bumps, Yes, there's
some obstacles. Yes, there's some challenges,

485
00:37:22.639 --> 00:37:27.679
there's a travail. They're all trials
and errors. There's oh I didn't

486
00:37:27.679 --> 00:37:30.920
get this right, Oh yeah I
got it right. Yeah yeah. But

487
00:37:31.239 --> 00:37:36.239
the whole kid is the Bible says, you know you're gonna fall seventy times

488
00:37:36.239 --> 00:37:39.559
seven. Well, if you keep
falling, up to seventy times that men.

489
00:37:39.559 --> 00:37:50.360
At some point you kept getting up, keep getting up, find your

490
00:37:50.400 --> 00:37:53.239
happiness, and it's not about you. You and you won't get an amen

491
00:37:53.320 --> 00:37:59.360
from everybody. You won't get an
amen from the family. You won't get

492
00:37:59.360 --> 00:38:02.519
an amen from your adult kids.
You won't get an amen for your in

493
00:38:02.639 --> 00:38:07.800
laws. I feel your words.
This is oh thank you country. See

494
00:38:07.119 --> 00:38:12.599
yeah, So get over trying to
get somebody's permission. Make sure you check

495
00:38:12.639 --> 00:38:15.000
with God. Lord. If this
is the route you have for me,

496
00:38:15.119 --> 00:38:20.239
then you got to give me strength. And I told you I'm in the

497
00:38:20.280 --> 00:38:22.079
hospital and I'm like, Lord,
I'm telling God, I got to close

498
00:38:22.119 --> 00:38:24.480
my office, I got to call
this person I got to do And God

499
00:38:24.519 --> 00:38:30.519
said, no, I need you
to rest. And then weeks later he

500
00:38:30.559 --> 00:38:34.960
said, now I need every time
that OT and PT personnel get you up.

501
00:38:35.000 --> 00:38:37.079
I need you to sit in that
chair for fifteen minutes extra every day

502
00:38:37.079 --> 00:38:43.920
so you can go home even if
the sun went down. I even I

503
00:38:43.960 --> 00:38:46.000
had to eat my bed to feed
me my dinner because I could not use

504
00:38:46.039 --> 00:38:51.440
a fork because my hands were bandaged. But I said, okay, I

505
00:38:51.480 --> 00:38:53.079
got fifty. I'm looking at the
clock. I need a clock in my

506
00:38:53.199 --> 00:38:58.400
room because I got to sit up
at fifteen minutes extra a day until it's

507
00:38:58.440 --> 00:39:04.159
time for me to be discharbed.
So you push forward. You pushed through.

508
00:39:05.440 --> 00:39:08.559
But also remember now, the devil, for those of you who are

509
00:39:08.599 --> 00:39:15.800
believers, the devil is sitting there
waiting, just waiting for you to mess

510
00:39:15.880 --> 00:39:20.920
up, just an if of a
degree, an inch of doubt, an

511
00:39:20.960 --> 00:39:23.800
if of uhh. I'll stop you. If you start singing to me,

512
00:39:24.440 --> 00:39:27.880
well, how are you doing well, I'll stop right there, stop right

513
00:39:27.920 --> 00:39:30.159
there. I don't want to hear
the singing. No no, and I

514
00:39:30.159 --> 00:39:35.920
said yes, and are you doing
good? Yes or no? That's all

515
00:39:35.920 --> 00:39:37.960
we need. Well, no,
I'm not okay, We're gonna pray.

516
00:39:37.199 --> 00:39:39.079
Let me stop you right there.
I can't. I don't even want to

517
00:39:39.119 --> 00:39:45.599
hear it. I don't want to
hear it. We pushed forward. We

518
00:39:45.719 --> 00:39:49.400
blessed everybody today. Even at the
mall. I said, God bless you,

519
00:39:50.239 --> 00:39:53.199
and people will turn my God bless
you too. Strangers, we'll never

520
00:39:53.239 --> 00:39:59.280
see each other again. Be safe
out there. Think the only way to

521
00:39:59.320 --> 00:40:02.760
go is forward, no matter what. Thank you, mickey. But sometimes

522
00:40:02.760 --> 00:40:07.239
we do get stuck because you look
like there's no way out. Oh my

523
00:40:07.320 --> 00:40:09.119
god, how are we gonna do
this? We all we have to do

524
00:40:09.199 --> 00:40:13.119
is put it on social media.
So those of you and so you better,

525
00:40:13.199 --> 00:40:15.920
you better love and embrace social media. That's the new voice. That's

526
00:40:15.920 --> 00:40:20.960
the new postcard right now, that's
the new letter writing right now, that's

527
00:40:21.000 --> 00:40:24.519
that's this is the way we communicate. And sometimes every now and then I

528
00:40:24.519 --> 00:40:29.559
don't just have my stuff exclusive of
my friends. I open it up to

529
00:40:29.599 --> 00:40:30.920
the public. Jessica and I don't
want to be fouled too much. Best

530
00:40:30.960 --> 00:40:35.599
so people anyway, you know,
I have to open it up so everybody

531
00:40:35.599 --> 00:40:38.800
can glimpse it and say oh,
and then I close it off. But

532
00:40:38.840 --> 00:40:45.400
you gotta embrace social media. We're
on a setting it straight thanks to you

533
00:40:45.440 --> 00:40:51.679
know, talk for a radio and
TV or on a hundred platforms. I

534
00:40:51.679 --> 00:40:55.599
don't even know how many platforms beyond
one hundred there are. But because we

535
00:40:55.679 --> 00:41:01.559
have this one link, it opens
up our base to one hundred platforms,

536
00:41:01.599 --> 00:41:07.440
whether it's radio or TV. You
can see us on zoom or you can

537
00:41:07.519 --> 00:41:13.639
hear us on the radio. That's
God was it my idea, but he

538
00:41:13.719 --> 00:41:16.079
told me, no, I need
you to do this for Kingdom purposes,

539
00:41:17.000 --> 00:41:22.119
not knowing, so we got a
few more minutes. I'm not gonna talk

540
00:41:22.119 --> 00:41:24.239
anymore. When anything you want to
add to this, go for it,

541
00:41:24.440 --> 00:41:30.320
anybody else. Only other thing I
want to add is, you know,

542
00:41:30.519 --> 00:41:34.159
at the end of the day,
the happiness is from Christ, is from

543
00:41:34.239 --> 00:41:37.280
God. And it's once you start
asking God for trust, you start,

544
00:41:37.480 --> 00:41:43.480
you know, searching for faith that
happiness is coming because regardless which way it

545
00:41:43.519 --> 00:41:45.159
turns, once you have that trust
in God, once you have that faith

546
00:41:45.199 --> 00:41:49.039
in God, you know that he
got your back. And so even if

547
00:41:49.079 --> 00:41:52.000
you fall today or you fall tomorrow, you know he's going to lift you

548
00:41:52.039 --> 00:41:55.960
back up, He's gonna get you. Okay. So whatever anybody tries to

549
00:41:55.960 --> 00:41:59.039
do to tear you down, you
don't need to focus on it. You

550
00:41:59.159 --> 00:42:01.760
just focus on the Lord and you
keep it moving. So that's that's my

551
00:42:01.880 --> 00:42:07.519
main thing in its work. I'm
not gonna pretend like taking you know,

552
00:42:07.679 --> 00:42:12.440
finding that happiness, finding that self
care, finding that love is not gonna

553
00:42:12.440 --> 00:42:15.199
be work. It's an everyday thing. It's a everyday practice. And I'm

554
00:42:15.239 --> 00:42:19.280
happy that she wrote that. Amen. So yeah, it's just it's just

555
00:42:19.320 --> 00:42:22.840
about that continuous trust and faith in
God and loving and smiling, wake up,

556
00:42:22.920 --> 00:42:27.119
smile, thank him. Do the
first thing in the morning and just

557
00:42:27.320 --> 00:42:34.800
keep it moving. Yeah, I
was just going to very well said.

558
00:42:34.840 --> 00:42:37.880
I was just gonna add to uh, you know, staying prayer for and

559
00:42:38.440 --> 00:42:44.000
trust in God, but also surrounding
yourself with people that are gonna uplift you

560
00:42:44.840 --> 00:42:47.360
and being mindful of what you take
in, you know, whether that be

561
00:42:47.599 --> 00:42:52.559
through television, radio, music,
other people's thoughts and things. You have

562
00:42:52.639 --> 00:42:57.280
to limit that so that you don't
get distracted on what he wants you to

563
00:42:57.320 --> 00:43:00.400
do. And so the more you
put more positive the stuff in, less

564
00:43:00.440 --> 00:43:05.000
negative will come out. And so
that's the journey that I'm taking now.

565
00:43:05.159 --> 00:43:07.400
So and you can't tell it.
Everybody's not going to join you on your

566
00:43:07.480 --> 00:43:12.159
ride. Everybody's not gonna support you, but you find those few people,

567
00:43:12.280 --> 00:43:16.400
one person. It takes one person
to support you along with yourself to kind

568
00:43:16.400 --> 00:43:19.800
of just you know, drilling in. You can do this. You've got

569
00:43:19.800 --> 00:43:23.719
this guy got you to pour in
to you, and so and leather naysayers

570
00:43:23.760 --> 00:43:34.880
alone, I'll say just I'll say, just to be encouraging. There's a

571
00:43:34.880 --> 00:43:39.360
scripture that I always look over,
and it's when my foot is slipping,

572
00:43:39.400 --> 00:43:44.280
your unfeeling love supports me. So
I go by that all the time when

573
00:43:44.280 --> 00:43:45.920
I feel as if I may be
failing or in the case would be,

574
00:43:46.000 --> 00:43:50.480
I keep my faith in him and
it keeps me going. Just to keep

575
00:43:50.559 --> 00:43:58.639
y'all encouraged and and just to kind
of uh figure back on what Trey was

576
00:43:58.679 --> 00:44:02.159
saying, we gotta stand that.
You know, she said something that not

577
00:44:02.239 --> 00:44:07.000
everybody's going to jump on board,
and she's absolutely right because it's not their

578
00:44:07.079 --> 00:44:14.000
time. But you are going to
be the person that's going to nurture because

579
00:44:14.039 --> 00:44:16.960
when it's not their time, it
may be their time two three years down

580
00:44:16.960 --> 00:44:19.920
the road. And I'm like,
wait a minute, Trey said this,

581
00:44:20.239 --> 00:44:24.360
and now I'm starting to see it, and you did your part. So

582
00:44:24.559 --> 00:44:30.679
it's always a key. It's always
essential that if we say we're Christians,

583
00:44:31.239 --> 00:44:37.800
we have to be the example and
use less words, because when you are

584
00:44:37.880 --> 00:44:44.119
the example, no one can take
away the work that you're doing because of

585
00:44:44.159 --> 00:44:49.280
what your belief is. And miss
Gray, you said it best in one

586
00:44:49.280 --> 00:44:52.320
of our conversations the enemies at work, twenty four hours a day, seven

587
00:44:52.360 --> 00:44:59.239
days a week, we can't be
cute by saying we're a Christian and being

588
00:44:59.239 --> 00:45:02.719
a Christian. Two out of the
twenty four hours. It don't work that

589
00:45:02.760 --> 00:45:07.760
way. So if you're gonna be
a Christian, you gotta be a Christian

590
00:45:07.800 --> 00:45:13.360
twenty four to seven because when those
fiery or arrows come, you're ready and

591
00:45:13.400 --> 00:45:16.760
you can rebuke it like we did
earlier today with the technical sound. So

592
00:45:17.639 --> 00:45:22.760
I'll let you close out on its
great. Yes, amen, we were

593
00:45:22.000 --> 00:45:27.840
we were not having can you hear
me? Can you hear me? Okay,

594
00:45:28.039 --> 00:45:31.199
yeah, we were having technical difficulties
and all we had to do is

595
00:45:31.239 --> 00:45:36.760
cry out the devil is a liar. We pull it. We signed off

596
00:45:36.760 --> 00:45:38.679
and came back. It's all right. You know we're gonna get We're gonna

597
00:45:38.719 --> 00:45:43.360
have a show tonight. We're gonna
have this conversation tonight. Amen, and

598
00:45:43.400 --> 00:45:45.800
we're not gonna let anybody you know
nothing. We know the enemies there.

599
00:45:45.840 --> 00:45:51.519
That's his job, So what's my
job? What's your job? You know?

600
00:45:51.559 --> 00:45:53.320
It's so cute. Yeah, while
you was over there on that side

601
00:45:53.400 --> 00:45:57.639
doing that prayer, he was over
here. He literally said the prayer and

602
00:45:57.719 --> 00:46:00.000
two seconds later it was a connect
and they'll say, you know what,

603
00:46:00.039 --> 00:46:02.599
God knows what he's doing. So
you was over there doing your prayer,

604
00:46:02.599 --> 00:46:06.159
he was over here doing his prayer. Baby, that thing connected life.

605
00:46:06.840 --> 00:46:09.039
That's what we got to give it
to him real quick. But anyway,

606
00:46:09.199 --> 00:46:14.320
that's our time. It goes by
so fast. And thank you Jesus.

607
00:46:14.360 --> 00:46:16.239
Even though we started a little tad
lady, we don't even miss it.

608
00:46:16.280 --> 00:46:20.119
We don't even miss it. We
just made sure everything is there. Keep

609
00:46:20.199 --> 00:46:22.320
us in prayer for this coming Saturday. Please, and as always, if

610
00:46:22.360 --> 00:46:24.920
you need us, you know you
know how to reach us, please,

611
00:46:24.960 --> 00:46:28.559
and you know how to reach us, take the numbers down and all that

612
00:46:28.599 --> 00:46:31.880
good stuff. I thank you everybody
for being on tonight. Just be safe

613
00:46:31.880 --> 00:46:36.440
out there, everybody, be safe, be watchful, and be prayerful.

614
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We'll see you next week, same
time. Save station, Night night