Jan. 8, 2024

It's the New Year; What's It Looking Like

It's the New Year; What's It Looking Like

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for good evening, good evening,
good evening, and welcome to another fabulous

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new year. Most off the chain
conversation dialogue in the whole wide world.

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If you are viewing us, then
you're in the right place at the right

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time. And the Holy ghost,
Hey Tommy, we got our turtle necks

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going over. Yes, and we
look very educational tonight tonight like okay,

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we've got our we've got our education. Let's take it to the throne.

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Father God. We just thank you, we praise you, we give you

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glory, for you alone are worthy
to be praised. Lord. We just

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bake you for the day. Thank
you for allowing us to see another day

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in you, another year in you, and you're just helping You're just helping

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us to be the best that we
can be. For you. It's for

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kingdom purposes, it's for kingdom work, Father God, and we just thank

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you. We thank you for our
viewers, those that join us in real

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time and those that look after the
fact. We pray that they are being

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healed, set free, informed,
more wiser, everything that you would have

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them to be. Where are your
daughter's Lord, We're just gonna get behind

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the cross. We're gonna let you
do what you do best, and that

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is set your captives free. All
this and more we ask in Jesus' name,

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we pray amen and amen, halleluja. You're looking you looking good?

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You got a new year? Ado
on going on? There? You know?

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Okay, we'll take it. We'll
take it all. Hel Lou.

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And how was your do you?
How was your Christmas? It was wonderful.

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I cannot come name. It was
a blessing. I enjoyed it all.

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I enjoyed birthday, Christmas and New
Year. Yes, ma'am. Okay,

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oh wow you another year on the
song? You got another year younger?

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Yeah? Wow, I am so
sorry. I kind of missed that,

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you know, because you're not on
Facebook. That that's why they remind

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me. So I am so sorry. No, I let me say happy

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but lated birthday. I holling,
lou And you know what, balloons and

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and and the competti all to you. There you go, there you go.

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Next time, I make sure I
make up for that. You see

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you anyway, we just got you
know, we want to start off really

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good this year. We I'm always
one personally, I do follow up.

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I look back, I go back
over. How can we thank you?

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Okay, because you see says happy
birthday. You know, I like to

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go back and take a look at
things. And God is always correcting,

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course, correcting us, how we
could be better, how we can do

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better. So you know, we
just thank you all for hanging in there

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with us while there's no crash course, and I think I may do one.

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Maybe everybody's online now doing stuff.
But I pray that we did not

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bore anybody. I'll pray that we
did not. I pray that we did

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disturb you in a positive, a
positive way where you're looking at things in

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a different light. And that's what
we're hearing about. This is what the

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show is about setting it straight.
All the myths, all the lies,

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all the misinformation, especially biblically and
spiritually, and how people are trying to

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cross things over and and you know, mix words up. The word empowerment.

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Oh oh, thank you, God, bless you, God, bless

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you. You know, the word
empowerment, for everybody has taken that word

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and it's all over the place.
Now it no longer means what its original

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attent was. You know. I
mean, I can't even I'm like,

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okay, how do I say?
How do I want to? I don't

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want to use the word and enlightenment
and all that because that crosses over into

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another sphere. And it's okay with
you, country seat, That's fine for

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you to use it. But you
know so I'm always course correcting and everything.

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So if we didn't look good,
if we have people walking behind us

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here in my house, I'm so
sorry. All my kids are like really

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tall in their arms and legs,
but they do they go to their prawl

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because they try to cook dinner than
everything else and anything else. We're going

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to try to do better. When
you know better, you do better,

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yes, And we're gonna lead by
example. On this show. Trey is

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Trey maybe joining us a little bit
later. But she's she's she's all all

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is well with her as well.
Just so I bet you didn't know,

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be you didn't know that even though
everybody wants to say November thirtieth, this

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is the last day of Hurricane sees, well, here in Orlando, actually

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here in Florida, we've got a
storm we're coming and it's not a Brewer.

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It's a coming and they don't even
want to name it. And it's

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Current Wills. Oh it's two of
them. Yeah, see see one of

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them stuck. It snuck in.
So you know that's why I'm like,

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forget about that. You know.
I know you want to say, no,

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Umber thirtieth, that's the end of
the see, no, don't do

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that to us, because we don't
know, guys, we don't know Mother

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Nature is and she's doing her own
thing that We've got earthquakes all over the

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place. We got up north,
the battling, battering storms and the people

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became a snowplowd their way out of
stuff. So you know, let's you

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know, we just be thankful and
prayerful that it doesn't get too crazy.

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But whatever this thing is coming,
it's gonna you know, I'm praying for

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Jacksonville because looks like last time I
saw the meteorologists, it's gonna sit on

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y'all a minute. So just to
make sure you make you we bring everything

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in. Our garbage goes out tomorrow, so I'm hoping they'll come on through

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and get it because I bring all
my cands inside the garage. They said

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tomorrow after after thenoon. So just
be careful over there, man, she's

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are y'all. Have y'all started school
because school starts back over here to tomorrow.

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That's why it's here too. Oh
wow, okay, okay, Well,

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we just got to stay preyerful and
be safe out there because you just

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don't know what's going on with folks. So we've had three entertainers that have

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passed away already to start this year
off, mainly the David Soul from a

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Duke of Hazard Hazards, so he
just passed at eighty years old. And

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I can't remember the other lady's name. She was a movie star and if

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you know her, you'll know her
by face. So and then and the

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gentleman that lost he and his daughters
were killed in a plane crack. Oh

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yeah, Yeah, so let's let's, you know, make sure we our

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hearts and prayers go out to these
families. You know, it doesn't matter

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if your relative or your loved one
is eighty years old or up in age,

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you still miss them, you know. I mean, we know everybody

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has to die. We know that. So I don't like saying, oh,

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they live a long life. I
don't like saying that. I mean,

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I'm gonna miss that person, especially
if they had an impact on your

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life. So we just got to, you know, keep that in mind.

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Well, tonight we're gonna talk at
time. Is gonna jump in here

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and talk some more because I'm gonna
ute myself, but we're gonna talk about

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Okay, it's the new year.
Yes, how's it looking for you?

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Yes? How's it doing well?
On the eighth day? Do you know

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by this Sunday we'll be halfway through
January. January it's gone. It's gone,

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it's gone. I had to redo, reschedule appointments and stuff like that.

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I'm like, a minute, what
is this? I mean, how

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did they get here? We're at
the eighth now, we're at the age.

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So you know, we want to
talk tonight about you know, how's

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it looking for you so far?
I think no, I haven't talked to

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y'all since last year. I remember
I kept saying that it was something coming,

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something was coming. I didn't I
think I didn't get a chance to

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mention. You know. As of
January first, we've got commissioners and elected

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officials got to show their their earnings
and the asset, and they're leaving quietly.

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The governor told them take it off
the news. Don't bring this up.

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But I have a feeling we have
some municipalities that are, yes,

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there's nobody there. They're retiring.
They take it birth, they take it

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their vacation days and sick days and
a lump some and then they're gonna retire,

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find some other work. I encountered
something today at CBS or yesterday,

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No, it was today. I
went. And I don't like using the

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self checkout only because when I have
to, if I don't have the kids

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with me, when I have to
get the change out of the little change

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dispenser, it's hard. So I
have to take one coin at a time.

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Because I don't have long fingers,
I go this way, so I

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have to take my time to get
the change out of the little thinging the

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same at the gas station as well. But the young lady she was both

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the registers and said next next lane
please, And I'm like okay. And

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so the young lady finally she comes
from talking to somebody. She said,

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are you a cash or credit?
I said cash? She said okay.

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I said, we have to do
the self check out. She goes,

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yeah, she said I actually they
said that this is my register and we

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have to get used to it in
CBS. So I was like, well,

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okay, this is not good because
she goes, well, you know,

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most people say well yeah, but
I'm not most people. You know,

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I'm a little limited kind of you
know, it's gonna take me a

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little bit. But she helped me
with everything, no problem. And that's

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what they're gonna be told to do. They got to pack your grocery,

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your items, They're gonna put them
in the basket for you. They're gonna

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take your money and help you your
feed it through the thing. I could

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have gotten that, but mainly I
said, well I need you to help

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get the change, because you know, I'll be standing there forever. Can

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you imagine a line behind your self
checkout and they only have one self checkout

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at CBS only one, so there's
gonna be a line. M And after

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a while, I said, well
it's sad. I said, I'm gonna

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have to give a shout out on
my show tonight, and I'm gonna have

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to let my the MPT coalition know
that I appreciate. I know technology is

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the next best thing, and I
get it. But somewhere along the line,

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sometimes you're inconvencing folk, and what
is that saying to about you?

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Are you really a leader in your
industry when you're purposely leaving out populations?

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Are you targeting us so that we
couldn't I mean, we spend some money

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too, you know, we're part
of the world. We're apart And unfortunately,

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you have more people becoming physically disabled, mainly being amputated because of malpractice,

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because of ill health. They don't
believe that they were ever losing them

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and you're losing them. And all
of my folks, my prosthetic people,

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we all miss that contact with the
cashiers. Yeah, country see, and

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some folks like to interact with people
in the stores. Yeah, and we're

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not there to you know, bear
our burden like we're like you're in a

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bar and you're talking to the bartender. But you know, you like to

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see people, you like to see
human have that human content. And if

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you don't, you know, I
mean, we're not gonna have it.

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And then that's gonna help or have
impact on people walking around angry and and

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and and just about to blow up. My daughter and I and my son

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we went to the hair store last
week and we sitting there in the line,

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standing there in the line, and
all of a sudden, the cashier

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says, next please. Nobody moves. So I'm like, okay, and

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I'm watching. I'm looking at the
cashier and I'm looking at the people up

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front. There's three there are three
women ahead of us. Two are together,

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and there's one in front of us. So I'm like, so you

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give them the look, then you
look away, right, you give them

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the look, and then they moved. So the cashier is giving um at

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next please, because she's seeing the
line getting ready to form, and she's

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the only one that's cash hearing.
There was a gentleman there. There's several

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people walking throughout the store that were
employees. I don't know what they were

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doing, but they were up in
the front. And so finally after the

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cashier said the third time, next, please, total attitude. Here we

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go, Here we go. I'm
looking at the exit door like because it's

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only one way in and one way
out to get out of the store.

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So I'm like, okay, there's
the door way over there, no security,

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Okay, it's nice to check with
the checkers in the store. Hey,

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misty, thank you, and so
sure enough and escalate it. And

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the first customer says, well,
I've got a return and you see my

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receipt, don't you. And I'm
like, oh God, Jesus, please,

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So my daughter's tried that. You
know, I didn't realize it,

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to be honest with you, I
didn't realize I was moving up because if

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the girl in front of me was
not gonna go next, I was gonna

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go around her and go next because
I wanted to get out of the store.

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So my daughter's like positioning herself,
like, my where you're going,

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Where you're going. I'm like,
I'm trying patience. She's trying to teach

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you patience. Yes, And I'm
like, well she moves, mama,

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mama, even though I have on
the basket. You get here exactly me.

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What I'm saying. My daughter was
like, oh lord lord, and

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so she kept she positioned her body
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no, I'm not going to okay. I was just thinking because you

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know, and I'm looking at this
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around, and I'm like, well, the cashier is waiting on either one

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of us to get over. One
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is not moving. And then they
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by the time we did get up, I mean, and the manager was

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right there. Then we had the
customer that comes behind my daughter. Who's

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who's to know it all? You
always got to know it all customer.

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They got to just keep, you
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Well, ain't that the manager over
them? He ain't doing nothing. And

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my daughter I'm just look at me, like, don't please, don't look

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at that lady. And I'm like, why you know? So you see

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how you know you all do the
robot? What's going on there? Thing's

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a river racks? What y'all do? What y'all do? You know?

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So we sorry, Tommy, so
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the girl said, oh, well, you know, somebody took the manager

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took the customer returning stuff. I
think she don't know. No, Actually

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he told somebody else to come to
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But we finally got up there,
and so I had to just kind

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of smooth this down till we get
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to be calmed, and we left. What y'all do you know? So

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I thank the customer of the cashier. I said, well, thank you

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for taking us, yes, you
know, and stuff. And my daughter's

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like, oh my god, mom, where were you going? Where were

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you? I'm like, what?
Team wasn't moving fast enough. I ain't

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trying to stay in there, I
ain't making friends. I tried to get

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out. So what way is it? What way? But anyway, my

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whole point of sharing that with you
all is this is this is not going

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to be unusual. This is what
you're going to encounter. People are coming

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in, they're coming in frustrated,
they're gonna come in unhappy. I know

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there's a possible rumor that people are
putting out online that there's a stimulus check

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coming, But what I could see
those that that is a refund, a

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complimentary refund for unemployed people that didn't
get something, So that's gonna be two

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hundred dollars. Maybe there's nothing.
IRS is not behind it, so they're

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not saying anything. I'm watching IRS
correspondence so as they say, yeah,

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we're working on the fourth check,
but I don't think it's gonna be for

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everybody. Okay, So again,
please be calm to get and I did

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see IRS did post that they will
allow sorry about that, they will allow

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you to start filing January twenty ninth. That came from their website January twenty

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ninth. Okay, so keep that
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be trying to run h and R
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keep it calm, do what you
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There are jobs out there still all
over the place. Please even at the

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funeral the cemetery, funeral home place. I don't know what you're gonna go

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over there and do, but you
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signe still out there, so you
all need to be safe. But anyway,

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looking at this new year, now, how's it working for you?

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What's new? Did anything change?
I know there are folks who do resolutions,

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some are successful at doing it and
completing them some or not. So

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you know, I got to check
my HAF not because you're asked, not

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vision board tonight. The day is
the eighth, so I'll get to check

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it tonight. But you know what's
new and another thing we'll start. I'm

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gonna stop there and then Tommy come
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then I want to talk about you
know, who's in your ear, who's

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in your ear? Who's talking to
you? Because lately I've been getting some

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phone calls for prayer requests with some
very odd decisions or odd conversations people are

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having with miscellaneous people that makes no
sense to me. And I can't pray

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because it doesn't make sense what you're
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And I'm getting a little concerned because
the wrong people are saying the wrong

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thing and getting people hyped up.
And why people understand me and I think

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this is the right way to go, and you're looking at them like,

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I don't know what you want me
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lie to you and I'm not going
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the first part, how's your new
year? What's different, anything different.

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What's the plans for this year?
What do you hope to see occurrent in

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your life this year? Well,
I didn't make no New Year's resolutions.

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I just made some promises to myself. And one of my main things was

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I wanted to start journaling and journaling
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in the morning and in the afternoon, my readings and whatever. And just

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to show you my my my theme
for this year came from Michael six six

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through eight and where God is just
telling us three things to do. He

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first said live, just then he
tell us to love mercy and the sad

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thing we are too humbly walk with
our God. And that's that's that's my

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theme. Don't make resolutions. But
I am wondering about the vision board?

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Can you tell Morsehall? Okay,
we will. And so I haven't done

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the vision board just yet because I
think I'm starting simple first and then move

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forward because I gotta be I have
to make sure that I can achieve what

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I'm starting and then continue myself on. The vision board is a great one

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to start with. And so from
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I found, the whole spirit is
a blessing because you might miss a day,

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but you still have on your mind
from the day before. You can

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still journal that. And I mean
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journaling and just jour so and it's

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awesome because the minister that I've been
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his presence, his message is now
on the presence being the present, and

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he's talking about where we are striving
to get in God's presence. You know,

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some people start out fasting, some
people start saying different things that they

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want to do to help them get
kick started, and some of the weight

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loss and the different things that people
strive to do. All I say to

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you, start small. You know, what can I do for this week?

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Where do I want to be by
the end of the week, or

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I'm starting this week, I wanna
save twenty five dollars then put it in

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a bank. Don't bother. Just
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well, by the end of the
year, I'm gonna help me three

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thousand dollars, okay, but you
might be able to achieve it by starting

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small and working your way to it. You know, excuse me. Things

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come up and maybe you setting that
money inside for that quick rainy day,

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so you never know. That's why
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Take it week by week, go
day by day. You achieve this today,

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okay, good, I'm going to
the next day. I'm gonna try

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to strive to allow that to be
your continuous way of achieving things you set

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goals with, because it's not always
about being the big picture. We know

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we want, maybe the big picture
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and but you strive with small steps. That's that's a good way to Now.

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I think I might be able to
do me a small I ain't gonna

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do a big one, but a
small vision board and maybe by the end

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of the year a lot of it
I could have checked off as I go.

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Then you go, that's a great
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to start off small. But vision
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So it's like goals and objectives.
How are you going to get to that

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big You know your goal is this? My objective is how am I going

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to get this? Get to there? And your vision board can be a

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I mean, journaling is great for
daily there's definitely just to get it out,

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just to do something and get it
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be able to go back and review, you know, I mean journaling.

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That's a good point. So many
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For you, right misty or you
hopefully there won't be so many unexpected

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anty days where it money could be
saved. Well, depends on how you

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look at money, right country Sea, And we may have to explore this

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on the next round too. It's
how you look at money, you know,

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because you know you could say,
you know what, this year,

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I want to say, I want
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fifty dollars. That's it. That's
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And then when you purpose yourself it
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They've got so many coin holder things
now you can just put a coin

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in and it counts it for you. You don't even have to worry about

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it. I don't go ahead.
I'm going to tell you how not did

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it last year or was it last
year? A year ful? Last?

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What she did every time she broke
some cash and she got a five,

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she set it aside. She took
the five and set it aside. When

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it came to her having to fix
her kitchen, it was something going on.

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She had enough money with them five
dollar bill that could pay for it,

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just five or set one. She
started us with, I still have

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mine, never spent it where she
gave us twelve one and all of them

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said one, you know, on
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Then they have you two, and
it goes up to twelve. It

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don't go past twelve. And she
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to twelve. I still have.
I ain't gonna get off the line,

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but I do have mine, and
I've always saved them, and I think

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i've I think I've shared a cowork
of mine from home that she her mom

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was an AVON rep. And Denise
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office and we choose what we want
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That was before the you know,
the cash app and before the car you

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paid it with real money, you
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switch those dollars out for her initials, and her initials were D, A

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and F as in frank, and
those are definitely dollar bills, you know,

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with those letters on it. There's
letters with C, there's letters with

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A, there's letters with B,
there's letters with L, there's letters with

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J and K. And I was
like wow. And then one year,

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the next year, she went up
to five dollar bills with her initials on

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it, and she was able to
buy herself a brand new car, brand

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new car. Not thing used a
brand new car because she took all of

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it. She saved it at home, and then she eventually took it all

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to the bank. You know.
So it depends on what you want to

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do. What is it that you
want to save some money? You know,

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that's and that's not to be ever
touched. I know one time I

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put money in, I open up
a savings account and a bank way across

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town. I only would be going
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wouldn't have nothing else I did.
This is again before online and you can

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transfer and zell and all those those
are fun ideas to do, Yes they

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are. It's fun. You know
you don't look back at it. But

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now I on a segue for Country
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board. Yeah, a vision board
for me and I call mine have not

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because you asked not a vision board, because these are things you feel that

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some people who just don't feel comfortable
asking God for things, and that's your

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faith, that's where you're at.
That's okay. But his scripture, his

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word is full of him begging us. Try me and see, you know,

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Take on my yo. My yoke
is easy, my burden is light.

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Cast your cares on me. I
will forgive you. I'll break your

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feet like hind's feet in high places. I will do all these things.

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I'm waiting. I'm just waiting.
I'm looking for someone who will trust me

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enough, trust me. He's waiting
on that. So for my vision board,

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I had I found this scroll stationary, and I'm sorry, I don't

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have it near the table. I
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But and then I put my things
to do. I found the things

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to do paper stationary, and so
I combined it so on the scroll it's

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got lines, that's the only thing. And then it's all scroll and it's

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such neat looking paper. I love
it. And I like to still do

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things manually. Now there are people
who could do VI your boards on your

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phone. There are people who do
vision boards. They'll get the big cork,

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you know, bulletin board and you'll
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it really got started. I met
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the book, the Book The Secret
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and she was talking about the book. So my friend called and said,

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well, did you read the book? I said no, I didn't have

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any interest. She said, well, I've got my board up and I've

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got my I wanted. She's got
a washing machine and dryer, her ideal

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and I guess it was really expensive, so she cut it out. So

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some people will cut things out of
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Your your ideal house, your favorite
car, your washering, your dryer,

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your refrigerator, whatever it is.
So I was like, I ain't

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about to cut nothing out of nobody. So I kid you not. That

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was on the weekend. We were
talking about that that Monday, after the

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kids went to bed. My husband
was still working on the road. So

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I was like, well, whatever, what when is it that I haven't

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done that? This was before bucket
list. This is before you know,

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wish lists and all the lists and
things like that. Right. So I'm

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sitting there and I like to watch
TV. In the dark. So I'm

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sitting there and I'm like, well, there's a picture of me when I

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was three on a horse. Nobody
tells me a story about that. I

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don't know anything about. All I
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a horse. I said, I
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me see what that feels like.
The thing was, I said, well,

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I was really getting into my acting
and doing commercials, and my whole

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00:31:33.880 --> 00:31:37.359
goal was to get my black belt
before you know, I leave this world.

402
00:31:38.359 --> 00:31:42.240
And so at that time I knew
that. I said, you know

403
00:31:42.319 --> 00:31:45.440
what, I'm gonna have to learn
a motorcycle. I don't want to learn

404
00:31:45.480 --> 00:31:49.000
how to ride one, but I'm
having to learn how to pick it up

405
00:31:49.039 --> 00:31:52.319
off the ground or skid just the
case I'm you know, I'm doing the

406
00:31:52.359 --> 00:31:56.319
show and I don't have no you
know, understudy. I have to do

407
00:31:56.440 --> 00:31:57.359
my own, my own work.
So I said, well, you know,

408
00:31:57.400 --> 00:32:00.680
I'd like to learn how to ride
a motorcycle because they could be a

409
00:32:00.799 --> 00:32:06.319
movie, you know, asking for
extras to be on the motorcycles. And

410
00:32:06.319 --> 00:32:08.240
now listen to me real carefully now, So first it's to ride a horse.

411
00:32:09.000 --> 00:32:15.200
The next is to how to maneuver
a motorcycle. And the third one

412
00:32:15.559 --> 00:32:20.200
was and I'm talking this out loud
by myself, but i'm talking you can

413
00:32:20.240 --> 00:32:23.319
hear me audibly. I said,
well, I've always been curious about the

414
00:32:23.440 --> 00:32:28.920
Daytona five hundred because I was watching
on TV. But I look at all

415
00:32:28.960 --> 00:32:31.480
the people, the spectators going in, and they looked like they were already

416
00:32:31.559 --> 00:32:37.720
drunk before they got past the gate. So I want to know, are

417
00:32:37.759 --> 00:32:43.440
they driving to this event and they're
already plastered and they going in and getting

418
00:32:43.440 --> 00:32:45.000
more plaster because all you see is
the cups, the Coca Cola cups,

419
00:32:45.039 --> 00:32:49.279
you know, and stuff. So
keep that in mind. That was a

420
00:32:49.480 --> 00:32:53.359
Monday night. Wednesday, I had
a new client. I was taking client

421
00:32:53.440 --> 00:32:58.839
disabled clients to their job site.
Wednesday, I get home and I caught

422
00:32:58.880 --> 00:33:02.799
on my computer and the Battle of
Atlanta, which is the leading one of

423
00:33:02.839 --> 00:33:08.400
the leading martial arts tournaments in the
United States that occurs in Atlanta, was

424
00:33:08.440 --> 00:33:13.960
saying we're looking for black belts that
can ride motorcycles because we're working on a

425
00:33:14.039 --> 00:33:22.640
movie. I said, I don't
believe this. I'm not a black belt.

426
00:33:22.759 --> 00:33:24.559
Yeah, I'm not a black belt
yet. Oh my god, I

427
00:33:24.640 --> 00:33:29.960
said, Okay, so then that
was Tuesday. Yeah, Wednesday, I

428
00:33:30.079 --> 00:33:34.039
picked up a new client. No, I'm sorry, go back to Tuesday.

429
00:33:34.079 --> 00:33:36.400
Tuesday morning, I picked up a
new client and I had to go

430
00:33:36.559 --> 00:33:39.839
back up in the wooded area here
in Orlando. It's a popka now it's

431
00:33:40.000 --> 00:33:45.160
mopk, but it's so wooded and
the moss hanging down and stuff. So

432
00:33:45.440 --> 00:33:49.559
I'm passing by looking for the street
and I looked over to my left and

433
00:33:49.680 --> 00:33:54.920
there's a little sign looked like it
was written with chalk horse riding for ten

434
00:33:55.000 --> 00:34:01.480
dollars. Wow, I said,
what what? I can ride a horse

435
00:34:01.519 --> 00:34:05.640
for ten dollars? Wait a minute, Okay, I got to come back

436
00:34:05.720 --> 00:34:08.039
to that. It was the next
day I got the email from Battle of

437
00:34:08.039 --> 00:34:10.920
Atlanta saying that they were looking for
black belt. So this is two of

438
00:34:12.000 --> 00:34:14.599
them now, two off the list
already. I ain't put it on a

439
00:34:14.760 --> 00:34:17.800
board. I didn't tell everybody.
I didn't say nothing. I just smoke

440
00:34:17.880 --> 00:34:22.519
it. What is it that I
haven't done? And this helped this?

441
00:34:22.800 --> 00:34:24.360
This will help you with your vision
board. What is it that I would

442
00:34:24.519 --> 00:34:28.239
love to do? I want to
go play put putt golf. I want

443
00:34:28.320 --> 00:34:30.360
to just go to the golf course
just to see what's that like, I

444
00:34:30.440 --> 00:34:32.639
want to go to you know,
I want to go to the dayton the

445
00:34:32.679 --> 00:34:40.239
five hundred, not least Friday morning, I get a call from my husband

446
00:34:40.239 --> 00:34:44.119
around nine thirty. He said,
Lee, he said, you won't believe

447
00:34:44.159 --> 00:34:47.000
this. I said what he said? Some guy named Doug, representing the

448
00:34:47.079 --> 00:34:52.920
Holiday Inn, said that I'm the
third leading customer with the highest reward points.

449
00:34:52.280 --> 00:34:55.599
Now. When my husband loved to
live to stay at the Holiday Inn

450
00:34:55.960 --> 00:35:00.840
when he's on the road, so
he joined their Priority club and they had

451
00:35:00.840 --> 00:35:02.480
all he has all these points because
he never he would never let me get

452
00:35:02.519 --> 00:35:06.320
the book so I could pick stuff
out, so you could use up the

453
00:35:06.360 --> 00:35:08.760
point. So the guy said,
he said, I'm sorry. He said,

454
00:35:08.880 --> 00:35:12.239
Barry, I'm sorry. He said
the last minute, he said,

455
00:35:12.280 --> 00:35:19.760
but we've got tickets to the Daytona
five hundred for tomorrow. We were just

456
00:35:19.840 --> 00:35:22.239
wondering if you or your family would
be our guests. We're gonna feed you

457
00:35:22.960 --> 00:35:25.800
and you're gonna meet some of the
drivers. And I'm on the fall,

458
00:35:25.920 --> 00:35:35.679
like what and so I couldn't overreact, and even my husband's had there really,

459
00:35:37.519 --> 00:35:39.440
Well, what'd you think because you're
coming home tonight? He said,

460
00:35:39.480 --> 00:35:42.639
Yeah, what I don't know.
I said, you know what, I

461
00:35:42.760 --> 00:35:45.639
tell you what. I've got enough
money to gas up the car I had

462
00:35:45.719 --> 00:35:49.519
myra model. Then I got enough
money to tell the kids. But we'll

463
00:35:49.559 --> 00:35:52.320
put some beach stuff in there and
we just go by the beach and we

464
00:35:52.360 --> 00:35:53.639
can have breakfast and we can come
home, but we can fill up the

465
00:35:53.679 --> 00:35:55.559
car. He said, okay,
okay, I'm gonna call him Back'm gonna

466
00:35:55.639 --> 00:36:00.199
I said, okay, And I'm
just like I had to do my I

467
00:36:00.360 --> 00:36:05.280
was no way, no way.
Not only have I told them five hundred,

468
00:36:05.639 --> 00:36:10.559
but I'm getting there for free and
they're gonna feed me if you want

469
00:36:10.639 --> 00:36:15.000
to see. Yeah, yeah,
some of y'all are glad that I don't.

470
00:36:15.079 --> 00:36:17.719
I don't even buy because you know, okay, now Jesus keep me

471
00:36:17.800 --> 00:36:22.639
there across anyway, Sure enough,
we went real quick. We went there

472
00:36:22.719 --> 00:36:27.599
Saturday. It was real Doug came
by on the golf court and you know,

473
00:36:27.960 --> 00:36:30.239
predominantly it was a predominant. It
was a mixed crid, but it

474
00:36:30.320 --> 00:36:34.480
was predominantly you know, Caucasians out
there. So that was, oh my

475
00:36:34.639 --> 00:36:37.840
god, country, see my my
hearing went for a week. But you

476
00:36:37.880 --> 00:36:38.920
know what, I said, I
will never come back to one of this

477
00:36:39.039 --> 00:36:43.519
again. My husband had the ear
plugs. It was we still have the

478
00:36:43.639 --> 00:36:46.320
cars. We met all of the
drivers, We got a chance to walk

479
00:36:46.360 --> 00:36:51.480
around on the indroal in in in
laying there and stuff, and there were

480
00:36:51.519 --> 00:36:55.559
other companies, you know, recognizing
their customers. You know, I could

481
00:36:55.639 --> 00:37:00.559
not believe this. I'm at the
Daytona five hundred for free, got all

482
00:37:00.639 --> 00:37:05.280
the We had a bag full of
toys and whatnots and paraphernalia, and the

483
00:37:05.440 --> 00:37:09.079
kids enjoyed themselves. And I will
never go back again. I don't ever

484
00:37:09.280 --> 00:37:15.840
have to live that again. But
my whole loving the fact that that was

485
00:37:15.880 --> 00:37:20.679
a part of my journey. I
just spoke it out. Now. My

486
00:37:20.880 --> 00:37:25.119
current vision board is it's several because
I have two businesses as well. So

487
00:37:25.559 --> 00:37:29.599
you know, the show is on
there as well, because what do I

488
00:37:29.679 --> 00:37:32.000
want for the show? What do
I want? My dream house is on

489
00:37:32.119 --> 00:37:36.360
there. I've not checked that off. I go once a month. God

490
00:37:36.440 --> 00:37:38.519
told me do it every thirty days
to check off, and I check off.

491
00:37:38.599 --> 00:37:43.679
Now Steve Harvey checks his every day. Other people it's up to you,

492
00:37:44.079 --> 00:37:47.039
but you got to go back and
you check off things that you've achieved.

493
00:37:47.119 --> 00:37:51.760
And for me, it's miracles,
and it's the supernatural of God and

494
00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:58.639
it's blessings and its favor and you
know, everything overflow my being. You

495
00:37:58.719 --> 00:38:01.760
know, I'm a spiritual mother's so
I that's on the Everything that I am

496
00:38:02.000 --> 00:38:06.880
is on there. Soon I'll be
crossing off the acting because I think I'm

497
00:38:06.880 --> 00:38:09.519
gonna go ahead and hang up,
hang up my little costumes and gadgets,

498
00:38:09.599 --> 00:38:13.800
and yeah, call it a day, because ministry is taking you know,

499
00:38:14.400 --> 00:38:17.480
taking me in different places. Yeah, taking me different places. So but

500
00:38:17.599 --> 00:38:20.719
yeah, everything. So what you
want to do, I would say,

501
00:38:20.800 --> 00:38:23.400
get your journal, get you a
favorite journal, or you know, get

502
00:38:23.480 --> 00:38:27.400
you an m P three player on
your phone if you like to talk it

503
00:38:27.440 --> 00:38:30.559
out there you go, see there's
a journal. Get you something that's that's

504
00:38:30.400 --> 00:38:34.679
encouraging. I don't have any of
it. Uh, I don't think I

505
00:38:34.760 --> 00:38:37.119
have anything. But they're motivating on
the on the cover. Okay, and

506
00:38:37.280 --> 00:38:40.159
you start there, Okay, thank
you, there you go see right now?

507
00:38:40.400 --> 00:38:44.960
Now now is the time, you
know, or you're beautiful, you're

508
00:38:45.000 --> 00:38:47.119
wonderfully made. Target has some nice
ones. We were in Target the other

509
00:38:47.199 --> 00:38:50.880
day and as you know, just
a little sidebar, y'all know, we

510
00:38:50.960 --> 00:38:53.400
have until the fourteenth of the month, no sales tax on school supplies,

511
00:38:53.639 --> 00:39:00.119
just putting that out there. And
school equipment. Okay, so you know

512
00:39:00.280 --> 00:39:02.559
so, and I would say,
you know, I would start, like

513
00:39:02.719 --> 00:39:07.039
Tommy says, start small. What
is it that I would love to achieve?

514
00:39:07.599 --> 00:39:12.400
What is it that I've always wanted
to do, you know, and

515
00:39:13.079 --> 00:39:15.199
whatever that is. I just want
to go to this country or I just

516
00:39:15.280 --> 00:39:20.159
want to go over by the beach
twice a year. Whatever that is,

517
00:39:20.519 --> 00:39:22.920
no matter, and it doesn't matter
how small. I wanted a German shepherd

518
00:39:23.199 --> 00:39:29.360
puppy. I have her. I
have her in year two of my of

519
00:39:29.480 --> 00:39:31.760
my you know, my my vision
board, so you know, just little

520
00:39:31.800 --> 00:39:36.039
things. I wonder wooded floors and
my property people say, you know,

521
00:39:36.159 --> 00:39:37.559
we can't. We don't have any
other other tile. I said, do

522
00:39:37.599 --> 00:39:39.599
you have wood? They said,
oh yeah, we have plenty. It

523
00:39:39.719 --> 00:39:44.360
was that's what I want. I
got wooden floors in my house, you

524
00:39:44.480 --> 00:39:49.000
know so. And I checked it
off because it occurred within the thirty days,

525
00:39:50.239 --> 00:39:52.039
you know. And I have wisdom
on there for my stuff. I

526
00:39:52.159 --> 00:39:55.960
have overflow. That's the place in
God that I want to be. I

527
00:39:57.039 --> 00:40:00.079
want to receive everything I want my
whatever cubicle or room I have in heaven.

528
00:40:00.119 --> 00:40:04.480
I want it empty long before I
get there. I want to receive

529
00:40:04.639 --> 00:40:07.960
on earth as it is in heaven. So it's what you want to do,

530
00:40:07.559 --> 00:40:12.880
is what you're thinking about. The
ideal job, the ideal business.

531
00:40:12.960 --> 00:40:15.639
And like I said, I have
two businesses, a nonprofit and an LLC,

532
00:40:16.119 --> 00:40:20.400
so I have sheets for them.
Plus I have three kids. I

533
00:40:20.719 --> 00:40:23.599
have sheets for them and their spouses
in their future, you know, and

534
00:40:23.719 --> 00:40:27.760
things like that. So it'll be
different for everybody. You could do it

535
00:40:27.920 --> 00:40:30.559
just for yourself, you know,
Or you can do it just but it's

536
00:40:30.639 --> 00:40:34.920
for you. Don't be adding all
your brothers and sisters and all that and

537
00:40:35.400 --> 00:40:37.360
the nieces and don't do that.
My lawn guys said, can you put

538
00:40:37.400 --> 00:40:44.320
me on yours? No? What's
wrong with that picture? No? Well,

539
00:40:44.360 --> 00:40:45.719
miss bradtist, I pray for you, but you ain't going on my

540
00:40:45.920 --> 00:40:50.960
vish board. Dude, what did
you say? You know, the type

541
00:40:51.000 --> 00:40:53.119
of mate you want, the type
of spouse you want. I mean,

542
00:40:53.440 --> 00:40:57.880
just you know, it's it's got, you know, it's unlimited. It's

543
00:40:57.960 --> 00:41:02.920
what you want to achieve this year. This year, I haven't gotten my

544
00:41:04.840 --> 00:41:07.559
dream home because I'm not. I
don't want to stay in Florida. It's

545
00:41:07.639 --> 00:41:12.360
not going to be in Florida.
So that's that's a sheet down to my

546
00:41:12.599 --> 00:41:16.039
cabinis and I'm about to go get
a new refrigerator. Just everything. Maha.

547
00:41:16.159 --> 00:41:20.840
My walk in closet should look you
know, and things like that.

548
00:41:21.199 --> 00:41:23.840
So I hope this helps country see
and Misty, you know, anybody else

549
00:41:23.880 --> 00:41:27.719
and everybody else that's going to be
listening, you know. But you got

550
00:41:27.840 --> 00:41:32.400
to write your goals down. You've
got the Bible says write the vision and

551
00:41:32.480 --> 00:41:37.039
make it plain. That's not you
know, a vision for a house or

552
00:41:37.039 --> 00:41:38.760
a vision for you know, a
building that you got to build. No,

553
00:41:39.280 --> 00:41:45.840
what's your vision for your life?
What are your goals Forget about age.

554
00:41:45.280 --> 00:41:46.719
I don't even want to hear.
Well, I'm due to it.

555
00:41:47.000 --> 00:41:51.280
You're never too old. Look at
the people still in Hollywood still acting.

556
00:41:52.280 --> 00:41:54.159
I mean, Sicily Tyson was actingly
had a new script in her hand when

557
00:41:54.199 --> 00:41:59.480
she passed away in a sleep,
and she was in the nineties. It's

558
00:41:59.760 --> 00:42:05.199
not it's not about your age.
It's about your mindset and what is it

559
00:42:05.320 --> 00:42:10.760
that God has for you to do? Amen? Amen, that's what it's

560
00:42:10.760 --> 00:42:15.079
about. But you choose and what
makes it so adventurous is that you choose

561
00:42:15.119 --> 00:42:17.920
your journal. You know, you
go look at the journals and everywhere,

562
00:42:17.960 --> 00:42:22.440
go to even five below. There's
some cute ones in there. I mean,

563
00:42:22.599 --> 00:42:23.760
you know, and if you're a
writer, now, if you're a

564
00:42:24.280 --> 00:42:27.840
look at that, see fail,
hope and love. There you go.

565
00:42:28.079 --> 00:42:30.920
Thank you, Tomy, y'all love
it. She's got the props right there

566
00:42:32.039 --> 00:42:36.039
right there. See and we didn't
even plan that. We did even plan

567
00:42:36.199 --> 00:42:40.239
there. Well, thank you.
But this is what you do for yourself.

568
00:42:42.400 --> 00:42:46.800
Because one day I stopped dreaming.
I had reached all my goals and

569
00:42:46.880 --> 00:42:50.000
then I stopped. And it's like
I was in the middle of the road

570
00:42:50.039 --> 00:42:52.119
and said, what is it.
I haven't done well. At that time,

571
00:42:52.159 --> 00:42:57.079
I had not married ever, and
I didn't have a child. So

572
00:42:57.119 --> 00:43:00.000
I said, okay, I need
to get married and child. I love

573
00:43:00.079 --> 00:43:05.320
my boy daddy. You know that
only lasted for a minute, but I

574
00:43:05.440 --> 00:43:09.639
got my son. I got my
son, okay. Because you got to

575
00:43:09.639 --> 00:43:14.679
be careful. That's why you have
to always be dreaming, setting your goals.

576
00:43:15.000 --> 00:43:19.679
What's the vision for me? You
got to continue to do this because

577
00:43:19.719 --> 00:43:22.280
you don't want to stop. The
Bible says, are people who have no

578
00:43:22.400 --> 00:43:25.840
dreams, they need no goals,
they perish. And I know you heard

579
00:43:25.880 --> 00:43:28.760
this, and then Tommy, I
want you to you know, you know,

580
00:43:28.960 --> 00:43:31.840
come on in here. I know
you've heard that the wealthiest place in

581
00:43:31.920 --> 00:43:38.480
the world is the graveyard. God. Why because all the hopes and dreams

582
00:43:39.000 --> 00:43:47.760
and wishes and goals died with over
half the people that's gone. And your

583
00:43:47.880 --> 00:43:52.840
goals and your dreams, you're on
your deathbed and your goals are there,

584
00:43:52.920 --> 00:43:55.920
your dreams are there, and your
desires are there, your passion is there,

585
00:43:57.159 --> 00:43:59.199
and they're like, look, you
didn't put us to good use,

586
00:44:00.079 --> 00:44:04.599
and now we have to die with
you. And you don't want that.

587
00:44:06.639 --> 00:44:15.440
You don't want that. Tommy,
I agree. And now that i've you

588
00:44:15.519 --> 00:44:20.920
know how you say, I spoke
it out aloud way I can hear it.

589
00:44:22.159 --> 00:44:25.920
Now I better understand it. Thank
you for asking that question. Country,

590
00:44:27.000 --> 00:44:31.840
see, because now I am gonna
set up a vision board. But

591
00:44:32.079 --> 00:44:39.280
I'm gonna take my steps to get
there, take my steps and getting there,

592
00:44:40.239 --> 00:44:46.440
and it may not accomplish by the
year end, but I'm gonna put

593
00:44:46.679 --> 00:44:52.039
for a great effort to make those
things happen. And that's the thing to

594
00:44:52.199 --> 00:44:54.039
tell them. They want to say
this real quick. It doesn't. Don't

595
00:44:54.119 --> 00:44:58.199
look at oh my god, I
haven't achieved Oh my god, don't freak

596
00:44:58.239 --> 00:45:02.480
out over that. In writing and
the rest of that vision, that scripture

597
00:45:02.519 --> 00:45:08.480
says so that he that it will
run with it at its appointed time.

598
00:45:09.400 --> 00:45:15.880
Mm hmm. Make it plain so
that he that read it will run with

599
00:45:16.000 --> 00:45:22.719
it at its appointed time. Yeah, So don't don't you know, and

600
00:45:22.760 --> 00:45:25.480
don't go so big. But those
are everybody on here, you're we're believers.

601
00:45:25.760 --> 00:45:30.880
So we trust in God and in
us he's putting He put that in

602
00:45:30.039 --> 00:45:34.840
us. So guess what He's gonna
make sure as long as you trust him,

603
00:45:35.519 --> 00:45:38.639
As long as you trust trust him, start with small self. That's

604
00:45:38.639 --> 00:45:42.920
all you do. Put it all
down. Put it all down. I've

605
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got pages of my vision board pages
pages, Okay, put it all down

606
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there. I want to make money
while I sleep. Mm hmmm. Is

607
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on the and I do, and
I check it off every thirty days.

608
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If I've done it, if I
receive money overnight that I didn't expect,

609
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there's a money that checked in the
mail in my po box. Amen,

610
00:46:05.079 --> 00:46:07.199
I'm telling you. You call it
in small steps to the big picture.

611
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Yes, misty, there you go. There, you go, and it's

612
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the small steps that will get you
there. Yes, don't mean to your

613
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own understanding. You've got to trust
God. He put it in us.

614
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He put it in us, those
of us who love children, those of

615
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us who love the elderly, those
of us who loved the homeless, those

616
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of us that didn't just come out
of nowhere. You had a heart for

617
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that population. You have a heart
to help. You have a heart to

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succeed some people. I mean,
I don't want to talk about the drug

619
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dealers. I'm gonna say this real
quick, but the drug dealers are the

620
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most business that you ever want to
see. They don't you, they don't

621
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take their product. They I mean, yes, what they do is wrong

622
00:46:54.159 --> 00:47:00.239
and the evil, but they handle
business. But they got the business in

623
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them. Look at some of our
entertainers that came from that world. Look

624
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at them, look at them else. Those are those are the most shrewd

625
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and they're honest to themselves when they're
in business. Like you said, it's

626
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not the right business, but just
think of the businesses. They could be

627
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holy applying employment to a large sum
of people. They could be on Amazon.

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They you know, I'm just giving
those guys because they are bigg as

629
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Amazon when you think about how wide
it's certain cocktails are. But the point

630
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is you get it in the right
business, the legal business, right that

631
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no one can come take it from
you, or rob you of it,

632
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or come and try to steal it
from you because they jel because they won't

633
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that exactly. You know exactly where
we're coming from. But and and again,

634
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I just say I'm gonna start.
I'm gonna start small, and my

635
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starting small by reading my word every
day, journaling and sharing my thoughts so

636
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that God knows my child is serious. And don't lean on yourself. Be

637
00:48:25.800 --> 00:48:30.159
careful now, you don't want to
say oh this, you don't dreaming and

638
00:48:30.320 --> 00:48:36.599
setting goals and even faith, faith
is that which is unseen thing. I

639
00:48:36.679 --> 00:48:39.000
don't see it, fath. I
don't know what I can't see, but

640
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I know if I keep walking in
this direction, I'm gonna get there.

641
00:48:43.920 --> 00:48:47.039
Yeah, I'm gonna get to the
place called there. But faith is that

642
00:48:47.159 --> 00:48:51.280
which you cannot see. And you
know our time is up. Oh wow,

643
00:48:51.440 --> 00:48:53.920
but we will be back. I
promise you We're coming back, even

644
00:48:53.920 --> 00:48:59.519
though it's Doctor King's Day next Monday. But we may pick this back up.

645
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It's gonna kind of probably be interwoven
into it, but you all be

646
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blessed. We love you. Please
stay safe, Okay and yeah, people

647
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say in prayer, especially those of
us in Florida, because we don't know

648
00:49:09.199 --> 00:49:15.599
what's coming around this corner. Jesus, Yes, that's right. Y'all be

649
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blessed. We love you. Night
Night Daycare Night,