April 24, 2023

It's World Earth Day

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W FORCY Radio. Well, good
evening, good evening to God's mighty audience

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and army. We just give God
praise all the day long. We're just

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thankful, and thank you for another
segment. For joining us tonight and joining

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us last week and going back and
and revisiting the shows and read listening to

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the shows and planting have thumbs up
or not making any comment at all.

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I know changes out there. I
know we are changers. We're change agents.

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And when you listen to us,
you have to change. You have

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to change. You don't have a
choice. You don't have a choice.

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But before I go any further,
let's say prayer. We just God wants

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us to pray this show in tonight. Lord, we thank you and we

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praise you. We give you glory, for you alone are worthy to be

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praised. I thank you, Father
God, for today. I thank you

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Lord. Twenty four hours ago,
you change my life and it was just

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in the twinkling of an eye.
I thank you that you are with the

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our co host tonight, Father God. I thank you that you are moving

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and shaking up things, Father God, and making all the crooked places straight.

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We just thank you that they are
allowed to we are allowed to get

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to our destinations and we go to
point A to point B, and we

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go back to point ay. We
thank you for all the conversations that we

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had about you this weekend. We
thank you for the conversations that we had

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about us this weekend. We just
thank you, Father God. Now,

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Lord, this is your show.
Our names may be on it, but

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that's just for technicality. This is
your show. Is we're your people,

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we're your daughters. We stay behind
the cross. You have your way and

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Jesus name, we pray, Amen
and Amen. That's how we do it.

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That's how we do it. Change
is on the horizon, trade trade

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all the way away from Virginia what's
happening? My girl? My girl?

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Okay, hear you? Can you
hear me? Now? Yes? I'm

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doing really, really good. Got
some exciting news tonight taught me will be

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joy Amen. Um, I just
how's your week been? How's the weather

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up there? We just had a
downpour and some threats up some weird some

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ornado move through just now. It's
maybe sixty degrees here today, the high

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not too bad. Beautiful Sunday.
Yeah, just a little little breeze,

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but not too bad. Nice.
But you wanted to run this idea by

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you because I know we're gonna be
talking about Earth Day and mental wellness plans

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and things like that, so we're
gonna split the show up into half here.

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But God, like as I was
saying in the prayer, he changed

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my life and twinkling of an eye, just in a matter of a few

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hours yesterday of being obedient, and
for the first time in five years,

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I danced before the Lord in my
bedroom. I have not danced before God

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in five years since all this has
happened to me. And I never thought,

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because I don't have toes or either
one of my feet, I never

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thought I would be able to dance
for the Lord. But I danced and

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I cried, and I cried,
and I praised him and I just first

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I held onto the bed with my
one and only half of a hand an

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arm, And after a while I
had let go, and I let God

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and the angels held me up.
I was not tired after it was over.

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I had no pain after it was
over, and I walked. I

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have a new walk. I noticed
today. I was running some errands and

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I'm like, I'm not walking the
same like I used to. I sat

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in my seat, my driver's seat, and I'm like, normally I leaned

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over. I wasn't leaning today at
all. I was like, Okay,

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God, you're doing you do it. You know, you know what needs

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to happen. And he said,
the US are gonna change. Things are

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gonna change. And another change was
I'm supposed to run this idea by you

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and Tommy and when she comes back
on I'll repeat it. But I'm gonna

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ask you if you needed a vacation, how would a cruise for about five

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seven days to Jamaica and the Virgin
Island sound to you? Well, you

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know companies that run that thought by
me a few times, and you know

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when we were COVID not during COVID. Yeah, and then I also to

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look at, you know, hurricane
season. So I mean that's something that

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I would probably have to give some
thought too, timing and you know,

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availability and stuff. So at this
point I'm not saying no, but you

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know, hey, it's around water, you know. Yeah, it'll be

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end of the summer. It'll be
towards end of summer. And uh yeah,

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we definitely, well all we throw
in prayer at it most definitely.

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But I just want to run that
back because this is a big milestone birthday

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for me this year, big time. So you know, my daughters also,

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the twins, their birthday month,
their birth month, and we share

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the same birth month. So my
baby girls always playing and stuff, you

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know, and trying to include mom
and if she can, if she can.

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So I said, well, hey
wait a minute now, you know,

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if we're gonna do something, let
me talk to my co host.

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I need to treat them because a
little opportunity, you know, you pay

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the taxes and stuff like that,
and we go and eat for days ago

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and work out, go pick at
people and do what we do. But

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I will be massed up, you
know what I'm saying, but you know,

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just think about it. We'll talk
some more about when we have a

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brainstorming session. Definitely. Okay,
I'm not at you just for a minute,

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a minute, yep. But anyway, tonight we're talking about Earth Dake,

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God bless you, Earth Day,
and of course everybody's you know,

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it's it's a it's a tag,
it's a slogan everybody's talking about. But

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as as you're talking about Earth Day
and celebrating Earth, I guess or or

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I don't know what all that means. Um that you're still throwing trash out

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of your window as you're driving you
still I don't know why people will not

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take the grocery bags that we get
from the walmarts and the targets and the

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public says, and you know,
the dollar generals and use those. I

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mean, you don't use them all
up. I use them in every trash

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the small trash can I haven't there
here in my house. But I also

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use them for my car. I
have a whole stack in my car,

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and so, you know, because
I'm not gonna throw anything out of the

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window, and so, you know, it just amazes me and I just

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see people just you know, one
person was in the McDonald's drive through and

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through the just took the cups and
put it on the ground. There's a

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little trash can not even two feet
away from you. So I'm not quite

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sure what the celebration of Earth Day
is all about. I didn't do my

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due diligence on this one because I
was like, well, I know we

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were gonna be talking about it,
and I just thought, you know,

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I think it's just one of those
situations or those awarenesses that people like to

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throw it out there. They probably
get a couple of grants on doing some

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project clean up. I know my
commissioner did a awesome job this weekend.

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She had her corridor leaders out,
team leaders out and they were cleaning up

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the you know, some areas,
some residential areas. So and she's a

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stickler for that. So I give
her props on that. Commissioner more,

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I give her props on that.
Definitely. She she puts it down,

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she schedules it, and they're out
there in the vests and stuff like that.

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So they've done a very good job. But you know, I don't

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know what anybody else is doing.
You know, I know that I was

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raised to not walk on people grass
and not park on people grants. And

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it was funny. I was listening
to um. I don't know what the

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rapper's name, but he's got a
little webcast podcast where he has all the

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liquor on the table and they're smoking
cigars and other stuff too, but he

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talks about They mentioned one well known
rapper who he said, you can't walk

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on his grass. You better not
or you will get cussed out, and

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he would never invite you to his
house. And I was like, well,

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I was. I was refreshing to
hear that, because nobody self talks

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about that, But that to me
would be a way of respecting the grass

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and our greenery out there. You
don't walk on on ours, on your

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grass, on anybody's grass if unless
they give you permission. You don't park

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on anybody's grass. Uh. This
fact. This weekend Saturday, I just

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happened to go out and I said, what the heck? And I was

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going out anyway real quick before class
started, and this guy next door neighbor

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had a visitor and he parked the
opposite way all my grass. I said,

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excuse me, and they're trying to
ignore me. I said, you

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could you can't ignore me. I'm
not gonna scream in the mic, but

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I raised my voice politely. I
said, use me. Can you please

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move your car? Go park on
his grass? Whoever you're here to see,

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I have sprinkler heads underneath there.
At five years ago, they cast

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forty one dollars a piece. Oh, I was so sorry, ma'am.

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I'm sorry. And sure enough he
parked on the neighbor's grass and that's fine.

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I don't have a problem with that. But I have a neighbor that

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drives on the grass in between the
houses. I got sprinkler systems out there.

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So you know, you know,
let's go with to respect. If

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you're going to acknowledge Earth Day,
please respect it. Take your trash.

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If you don't have an automatic trash
bag in your car. All the major

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places you're going have little trash bins. You may have to walk away from

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the front door, but you know
you got it it instead of keeping it

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in your car or put a trash
bag in your car. That's not going

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to hurt all these bags that you
go to, Like I said, family,

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Dollar, Dollar, General, Target, Walmart, publics, all the

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places, and you go bed,
bath and beyond. You're gonna talk about

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that in a minute. You know, any other places you get bad,

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where do you store them? You
throw them away, use them for as

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to trash. They there, you
put them right in, you recycle bit

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and you're done because it's all paper
and tissue. You're done. So if

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you're gonna respect, then you want
to call out, you know, Earth,

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they respect the earth. The Earth
is tired. This is where we're

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seeing all these natural disasters, especially
volcanoes that have been asleep for over a

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hundred years. And they give you
no mourning. Next thing, you know,

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you look and the ground is shaking
and lava and fire is out.

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It's out, and it covers,
it covers, and that lava kills whatever

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it touches. It rolls down that
the volcano itself and once it gets to

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the ground, to greenery, vegetation, even animals. It's killing everything in

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its path. But it took a
while for that thing to start simmering.

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It took a while for that to
start erupt it, but to make its

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way up. Amen, you know, so you gotta, you know,

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you gotta pay attention to what's happening. Because the Earth is going on about

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its business. It's going on about
its business. It's not it's not giving

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any signals, any warnings. All
of a sudden, clouds rolled up here

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today. Next thing we know,
we were under a tornado watch and and

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everything else, and I possible hail. They have to put it all out

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there. They don't even know what
was going on. Gotta happen. They

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don't know what was gonna happen.
And there are many people who think about,

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oh, I don't watch the news, so and that's fine. I

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get it. But I'm hoping you're
hearing something because a lot of y'all are

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caught out there in the rain.
I mean, ain't poor. And it

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thundered, and then it was over
because I was praying, please don't let

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me lose my electricity, and I'm
thinking, really, I said, okay,

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should I contact Rebel and say,
you know what, we're just playing

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on show because just in case we
lose power here in Orlando, here in

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Florida. But God said no,
you'll be all right. And the moment

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he said that, the sun began
to shout. I said, kay,

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thank you, thank you Lord,
thank you God Father God. I know

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somebody just popped in and said hello
and hello and thank you for joining and

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all that good stuff and sit back
and the day you go, Okay,

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um, I don't know what's up, but God is that's what's up.

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And we're gonna set it straight tonight. A been but thank you. Another

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part we want to talk about um
as you know, Bed Bath and Beyond

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UH sent its loyal customers email this
weekend letting us know that not only are

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they filing for chapter eleven, they
filed for chapter eleven, but they've also

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taken it to the next step.
They're closing their stores. And so if

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you've got coupons, and if you
know anything about Bed Bath and Beyond,

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your coupon could be expired last year. If you got it, bring it

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in they will honor it. That's
the only store that I know that will

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do that. So everybody. Yeah, So I was at the bank to

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day. I laid that on my
tellers and they're like, oh my god,

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they're really closing. And it's like, yeah, they're closing up all

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the stores. They tried, they
said, we tried to hang in there.

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We tried, but their quarters were
you know. And another thing that's

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happening. I went to Walmart looking
for some Walla leaves and I'll talk about

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that another time. But and I'm
like, because I looked on the website

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and they're supposed to have it.
So I'm looking, and I'm walking into

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the produce area and there's the cilantro, there is another greenery, some turn

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up greens, and everything just throw
it in a bin, not packaged up

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at all, not sealed up at
all, thrown in a bin. So

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everybody putting their hands down in there
to get that stuff. And I'm like,

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what's going on? And the shelves
were empty tray. It looked like

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we were about we were preparing for
a hurricane. And nobody said that.

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The meteorologists did not say that yesterday. They did. I say that over

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the week we had some suspect rain, you know, some suggested rain next

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week, but didn't pinpoint it for
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if we were expecting a hurricane.
But that's what Walmart, one of the

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Walmarts I visited, looked like.
And I'm like, I couldn't find honey.

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I couldn't find honey, And of
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But I already put Amazon on standby
just in case. I wasn't gonna

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find it. I know they'll find
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Okay. So I'm looking at the
world. I'm looking at people in

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a hurry. I'm looking at people
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I'm looking at people trying to look
at their cell phone or talk on their

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phone and don't care who's listening,
and just I mean ramming into people,

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not even paying any attention. And
then Walmart I was at completely packed and

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they kept coming in. Cap coming
in, You're going out, people coming

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in. So I don't know what's
on folks minds right now. And again,

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I am going to go to bed, bath and beyond tomorrow. I'm

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gonna grab up all my coupons and
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vacuum or something, and maybe a
blender or something, just to remember them

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by. But by the time we
got our email, the loyal customers got

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the email, it was already leaked
to the news and by Sunday evening they

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were already reporting it. Sunday afternoon
they were already reporting it. So we

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know PNC Bank is down here.
I understand they're closing forty one of their

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locations and they're the newest bank on
the scene. They're not even um what,

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twenty years old here, so I
think it was in the last fifteen

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years that that bank showed up here. But they're closing forty one of them.

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I'm not sure if they're out of
the state or not, but I

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know here in Florida, So things
are moving. Nobody's talking, nobody's telling

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you, nobody's giving us a warning. Tim this ship is this shit is

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okay? Amen? Amen. I'm
just praying that you, you know,

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definitely be safe and all that jazz
as well. So um but yeah,

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I'm just sharing with Trey about bed
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And then they also said bring your
coupons in this week. They cannot honor

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them after this week, So if
you got coupons, if you got a

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minute, go by the store.
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ninety percent off of stuff. So
I can only imagine what I'm gonna walk

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in and see when I do go, because people are already been you know,

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I mean, I mean the last
twenty four hours. I was sharing

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with Trade that I went to Walmart
this weekend and in the produce area of

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the cilantro. The turn up greens
and some other greenery was just in a

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binding, wasn't sealed up at all, wasn't in a plastic bag at all,

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just like somebody just took it out
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The black ben ull say okay,
and the shelves look as if we were

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preparing for a hurricane. So you
know, the Earth is doing its thing.

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It doesn't prepare, It does not
tell you anything. And for some

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strange reason, something is happening in
the atmosphere because the local different about three

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different channels, FX, DH one
and Sci Fi have been playing twenty twelve,

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the movie twenty twelve constantly throughout this
last couple of weeks, throughout this

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last week especially then it playing the
movie twenty twelve, And you know how

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what that that's all about? So
I don't know who is thinking and what's

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thinking and what's heads up they've got. But they're playing twister. They're playing

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twister almost every day now, every
day now. So I don't know what

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more we can learn from that except
be prepared, be prepared. I've had

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conversations with some folks about you know
what, you know, if we if

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if Florida tourists of martial law,
and we only have three days to vacate.

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Where will we go? Where will
we go? Because you have other

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governors and politicians thinking the same way, So where will we go? And

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I know nobody wants to hear that, and you want to attach conspiracy theory

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and all like no, no,
no, this is this is, this

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is biblical reality. And those last
days, men will be lovers of themselves,

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will turn against their parents, parents
will turn against their children. And

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those last days, daughter in laws
and mother in laws will be fighting,

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Fighting will break out. There will
be rumors of wars, and there will

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be wars. We still got we
got war going on out there. So

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we're living. It's biblical time.
It's biblical time. And if you have

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not stayed the word, I feel
for you because this is coming to pass.

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It's here. It's not coming,
it's here. It's here. And

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you're either gonna choose the report whose
report you will believe, You believe the

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report of the Lord, or you're
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I was sharing tell me that I
was listening to something on Sunday morning and

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I got out of my bed,
didn't brush my teeth or anything. Had

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already said the kids their words for
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But I had to praise him,
and I praise God for the first

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time in five years. Yesterday morning, I leaned on the bed with my

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half a hand and after a while
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the angels. I know the angels
happen. I know they happen, but

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I praised them, and I cried, and I prayed and I praised and

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and I know most of you don't
understand what that could be like, because

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yeah, you have those thoughts.
So the last few weeks and within five

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years now, it's been five years
since I've written an escalator. I've written

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an escalator. It's been five years
since I've danced before the Lord. I

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danced before the Lord. Amen.
And today I went to my prosthetic and

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orthotic company for an appointment because they're
redoing my arm, my functioning arm,

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and adding some updated sensors in it
and everything else. Medicare donna pay for

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the Medicare will pay for the censors
that are twenty over twenty from the nineteen

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sixties, and we have new technology
out there. But God is good and

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favor is fair. And I had
been teasing my folks and I said,

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this is limbless, you know,
appreciation month or aware of this month,

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and when we're gonna party, what
we're gonna do? So they so then

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we didn't order subs. I went
by the Dollar General and got me a

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box of eighteen package of chips,
because you're not American. If you're eating

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a sandwich without a chip, you're
not a man American. And I will

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call you out everything that's not a
Florida thing. That's an American thing.

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You don't have a sub and you
don't have some chips nearby you just and

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you can't have any chip. You
can't have little fritos and cheetos, no

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crunchy up things. And you need
a lace or blue you know, or

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ranch the rito chip or you need
that that something flat. You can do

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some ridges if you want. Now, if you want your ridges, go

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right ahead, you know, but
you have that flavorite chip barbecue que day,

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you go ranch, you know,
you got to because but you you

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you're not American. So I went
and got my own box, ain't you

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Jesus? Yes suh? And the
reception is like, oh, miss Gray

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you brought your own snacks in.
I said, no, just some chips.

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It ain't no stack. And I'm
taking this with me and whatever we

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don't eat, we tell ticket I
ain't playing. I brought me a little

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Fanta orange soda and we we and
my technician was like, so miss Gray,

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then when we get you anything direct, No, I'm good, I'm

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good. I play my own man. I wasn't sure what mine. You

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know, what if the empty snack
basket was gonna be empty this and let's

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get you your your your um was
it um cheese cheese its let's get your

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cheeses out now, because we do
have a compatience coming in that said,

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thank you, I take mine.
Thank you. So favor is fair,

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favor is fair, and I think
I've convinced them. Let's do a reality

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show on Bravo. Um, I
got him convinced. I've thought to the

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stay aff today. I said,
I got to play myself, of course,

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you know, but I think I've
convinced them, so you know,

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yeah, we'll be talking about that. But anyway, God is good all

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the time, all the time.
And before we talk about the mental health,

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mental wellness peace, UM, I
am collecting brand new books my nonprofit.

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My spiritual son is coming in from
Carolina next week to a T.

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D. Jake's conference or some sort
and we're gonna meet up and he's gonna

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take it because he's heading back to
Ghana later this summer, and so I

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want to go head of handing the
books, and I want to hand him

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thirty brand new books. And if
you all are curious about what that means,

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my no, I've always believed that
every child needs a brand new book

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at some point in their life.
My first job at fourteen was working in

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the library. I also worked in
the city library and the college library when

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I was at Palm Beach Atlantic,
and so library, the library is very

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special to me, and so I
just think. And then when I was

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an a MARACORPS member with working with
the literacy for a coalition out of Delray

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Beach, I myself and a two
other teammates say, well, we're gonna

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I say, what was one of
my goals as a MARACORPS member. You

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have goals, and one of my
goals was to attend five hundred community health

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fairs in Palmache County. So my
coordinator was like, you don't think that's

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a lot. I said, no, this is Palmiach County. I can

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go to del Ray, I can
go to the Hokey I got. I

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can take the whole area in north, south, east and west. There

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will be five hundred and I actually
had five hundred and twenty. I think

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that I ended up going and so
every Saturday, you know, but my

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coach, my teammates, and I
said, you know what we don't have.

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We can't just be buying books all
the time. So let's buy coloring

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books. Let's buy some crayons.
And we we taped three or four crayons

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or each book coloring book. So
we set up our booth and everything.

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We talked about a miracle. We
had our handout pamphlets and stuff like that,

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but every child got to choose a
coloring book. So one day we

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get beat and you know, we
called in and Audrey said, I need

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you all to come down right now
to darl Ray. And I was like,

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okay, hey, so we all
you know, landed there and everything,

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and she said, we just received
a donation of ten thousand dollars worth

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of brand new books. And I'm
like, what what'd you say? What

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you're talking about? And then she
goes, okay, so and Darlene,

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who was the executive director. She
said, Darlene said that you all could

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take one or two books, one
or two. There's about twelve of us,

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right, it was about eight to
twelve of us. I said,

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what a two? So she said, Lisa, would you mind checking off

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doing the checklist and checking off who
takes what? I'm so sure? So

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Amy and Andre came over to me. They got their books. They said,

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you want us to get yourself.
I pray for this. This is

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my goal that every child we meet
this year while we're here, he gets

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a brand new book. And here
they are. No, I'll wait to

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everybody get there. Pick your books. Everybody pick your book because now you

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only get two. Pick your books. Yeah, all right, don't they

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get some Spanish woe over the Spanish
speaking. Go right there you go?

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So I kid you not. It
wasn't even ten minutes later. Audrey comes

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back around the corner. She said, well, you're not gonna believe this.

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But Darline said take them all.
I said, okay, back,

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my car is backed up, here's
my keys, put everything. Get your

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books now, because once we packed
the box up, we're gonna tape it

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back. They're going to my egg
scoring in my car. There we go,

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and to this day, I still
have a gingerbread Man book. I

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think I about two or three in
the garage. Yeah, they came to

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boy garage and we use those books. We had Spanish speaking books everything,

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and we still did the coloring books
too. So literacy and brand new books

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have stuck with me forever. So
I'm not surprised that God said, you

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know, for the nonprofit you,
whenever you go out to do a healthfare

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or whatever, take some brand new
books for kids. And now. Then

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my spiritual son, who's also my
stepson, said, well, he's a

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missionary or educating educating educator and missionary, and he's chosen Ghana, a town

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in Ghana, a village and they're
building a school. And I said,

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we will, we will help them
with their library. And so we got

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twenty two books over there last year. We're gonna get thirty over there this

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year. And I know we are, so I've already talked to my sponsors.

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I already said. Then the email, my daughter made a beautiful flyer,

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and you know the deadline is gonna
be Friday, because he'll be coming

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in next week. So whatever we
don't you know, I don't receive,

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will take care of it. God's
gonna take care of it. He may

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have fifty books going with him.
I don't know, but he sent the

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little thing back. The kids say
thank you, miss Lesia and we loved

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you, and I'm like, oh
my God. Then expect that I still

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got the video. Okay, So
you know, God is good. So

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if anybody wants to go Nate,
let me know. Y'all know how to

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reach us, reach out to Trail
or you can Tommy, however you want

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to do it, cash, app
donations, We're good. If you need

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a receipt, I can write you
a receipt because we're five or one three

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s hallelujah. All right, Tray, Now you gotta get on up here

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here and we gotta talk about this
mental health and mental wellness planning and being

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able to not only take care of
your household. It's not just about you

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as the individual. It's everybody in
your immediate space that you're caring about and

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00:28:48.440 --> 00:28:52.599
you're concerned about. I'm very concerned. I'm watching young people, I'm watching

403
00:28:52.640 --> 00:29:00.279
older people walk around and just be
in They're like in a cloud. More

404
00:29:00.359 --> 00:29:03.160
man stepped off the sidewalk and I'm
like, don't, don't do that because

405
00:29:03.160 --> 00:29:06.559
the cars are just going and he
wasn't even thinking you could. And he

406
00:29:06.680 --> 00:29:10.119
was not disheveled, he was not
a homeless person, and you could tell,

407
00:29:10.240 --> 00:29:11.839
I don't know what was on his
mind. So you know, Tray

408
00:29:11.960 --> 00:29:17.559
listen and telling me, let's talk
about what kind of what could mental wellness

409
00:29:17.680 --> 00:29:21.160
planning be? What could that look
like for different families and stuff like that,

410
00:29:21.519 --> 00:29:23.839
and encourage our folks that are listening
that you need to have one,

411
00:29:25.079 --> 00:29:27.240
even if you say you're fine.
Because that's why I'm getting the Guatemala the

412
00:29:27.319 --> 00:29:33.759
guava leaves because a lady from Jamaica
said that that's what they use expect for

413
00:29:33.839 --> 00:29:38.359
the people who appear to be anxious
or depressed. You get you some tea

414
00:29:38.440 --> 00:29:45.000
and you drink it. I'm not
depressed and I'm not anxious. How bava,

415
00:29:45.480 --> 00:29:55.440
I'll give me some guaba tea luah
with some honey. Okay, so

416
00:29:56.240 --> 00:30:02.839
here I am um. So mental
wellness can I think it be mean different

417
00:30:02.839 --> 00:30:07.920
things to different people depending on what
you're you're going through, But I definitely

418
00:30:07.960 --> 00:30:15.359
want to emphasize having a support system. You know your goal to people because

419
00:30:15.000 --> 00:30:22.599
when all else fails, sometimes you
need that human that that voice of reason,

420
00:30:23.400 --> 00:30:27.599
someone that you trust that's not that's
got your best interests at hard,

421
00:30:27.599 --> 00:30:33.960
it's going to tell you the truth. That's gonna be UM empathetic to you

422
00:30:34.359 --> 00:30:41.480
UM and just going to be that
sound voice or just somebody that you can

423
00:30:41.599 --> 00:30:47.119
vent to. What I noticed too
with some people in our generation, you

424
00:30:47.160 --> 00:30:53.319
know, folks are leaving here and
you know it's not it's not even the

425
00:30:53.759 --> 00:30:57.119
point that you can think, okay, you know certain ages and stuff,

426
00:30:57.119 --> 00:31:02.039
but they're leaving here early. You
know they are getting out of here early,

427
00:31:02.680 --> 00:31:10.720
whether it be due to um tragic
or violence or you know the mental

428
00:31:10.799 --> 00:31:15.839
illness or you know the bullying.
You know, you're either taking yourself out

429
00:31:15.960 --> 00:31:21.440
or being taken out. Um.
So, but then there's that part where

430
00:31:21.559 --> 00:31:26.559
you know life is happening. You
know people are aging, and you know

431
00:31:26.720 --> 00:31:30.240
it's you look around, it's like
your peers. You know people are going.

432
00:31:30.400 --> 00:31:34.279
So trying to handle that, you
know and focus on what you know,

433
00:31:34.319 --> 00:31:38.119
what you can do. But I
think too having the resources of people

434
00:31:40.519 --> 00:31:45.519
UM taking one day at a time, uh, and sometimes you have to

435
00:31:45.519 --> 00:31:49.119
have those conversations with folks and even
us in the mental health field. Sometimes

436
00:31:49.119 --> 00:31:52.960
you need that that other voice,
You need that other input from folks,

437
00:31:53.519 --> 00:32:00.000
uh and being able to express yourself
and then also having other tools right stuff

438
00:32:00.119 --> 00:32:04.160
down, get your journal, take
a walk, exercise, get those juices

439
00:32:04.200 --> 00:32:08.039
flowing, and and when you feel
yourself and about to be in a funk,

440
00:32:08.559 --> 00:32:14.480
change the atmosphere, change your thoughts. Um. Then sometimes we can

441
00:32:14.519 --> 00:32:16.680
think of things that make us sand, you know, and sometimes you try

442
00:32:16.720 --> 00:32:22.079
to think of pleasant things your past, your memories, but sometimes those can

443
00:32:22.160 --> 00:32:24.480
lead you to sadness as well,
especially if you think about loved ones and

444
00:32:25.039 --> 00:32:28.559
you think about how they used to
make your lab and then you think about

445
00:32:28.559 --> 00:32:31.240
while they're they're no longer here,
which puts you in a different place.

446
00:32:31.599 --> 00:32:37.559
So you gotta be in tune to
yourself and recognize how you're feeling and and

447
00:32:37.559 --> 00:32:44.759
and be proactive in getting yourself from
that space that could also, you know,

448
00:32:45.319 --> 00:32:51.400
put you on a funk if possible, If you open windows, you

449
00:32:51.480 --> 00:32:54.240
know, brighten up the room,
you let some sunshine in, if you

450
00:32:54.319 --> 00:32:59.119
gotta stand on the porch, let
the sunshine in. And these are some

451
00:32:59.160 --> 00:33:04.160
of the things I had to do
for myself. You know, especially after

452
00:33:04.200 --> 00:33:07.799
the loss of my dad, I
had to do that for myself. And

453
00:33:07.000 --> 00:33:14.279
and I say, even though he
was ninety one and I knew that death

454
00:33:14.400 --> 00:33:17.559
was gonna be and it's gonna happen
either for him or for me, you

455
00:33:17.559 --> 00:33:21.200
know, because like I said,
you can't determine who's gonna go first.

456
00:33:22.039 --> 00:33:25.920
But I think it just did something
to me and also be you know,

457
00:33:27.000 --> 00:33:30.559
watching him lead here and there's nothing
that you can do about it, you

458
00:33:30.599 --> 00:33:36.359
know, so that leaves you know, I'm glad I was there. I'm

459
00:33:36.359 --> 00:33:39.680
glad he had family around, but
still is the helplessness, like it's nothing

460
00:33:39.759 --> 00:33:43.880
I can do. You know,
God's got him, and I'm hoping he's

461
00:33:43.920 --> 00:33:47.720
okay and understanding because at that one
he was not talking. He was just

462
00:33:47.799 --> 00:33:53.559
kind of there. And but you
know, watching the whole process too and

463
00:33:53.640 --> 00:33:57.559
just thinking about it that you know, I don't know if you call that

464
00:33:57.640 --> 00:34:04.880
traumatic or what, but it was
sad, but you know, glad to

465
00:34:05.079 --> 00:34:07.559
be there. So, like I
said, just know, you're you're what

466
00:34:08.199 --> 00:34:13.239
affects you, and you when you
start feeling a certain way, move it

467
00:34:13.280 --> 00:34:17.280
to something else. You got to
can't stay there in that space. Uh,

468
00:34:17.280 --> 00:34:22.840
And that thought so that's that's my
thing about want to wellness. And

469
00:34:22.880 --> 00:34:23.960
I want to interject Tommy, and
I want you to come on in.

470
00:34:24.119 --> 00:34:29.480
But um, a couple of things
you said trade we already know people mainly

471
00:34:29.519 --> 00:34:31.920
say I have nobody to talk to, and I know I'm going to talk

472
00:34:31.960 --> 00:34:36.159
to two different populations, two different
groups. I want to talk to the

473
00:34:36.239 --> 00:34:39.400
leadership group out there. I mean, you're in leadership in some capacity.

474
00:34:39.400 --> 00:34:43.800
You're a pastor, you're a teacher, you're the principal of a school,

475
00:34:43.800 --> 00:34:47.239
you're the CEO of a of an
organization. Um, And I know,

476
00:34:47.440 --> 00:34:51.400
and this is gonna sound a little
a little really really a little weird,

477
00:34:51.440 --> 00:34:53.199
but let me let me tell you. I know what it's like. I

478
00:34:53.280 --> 00:34:57.199
know what some of you are feeling
like. I don't have anybody to talk

479
00:34:57.199 --> 00:35:02.719
to because everybody around me looks to
me. They don't expect that I could

480
00:35:02.719 --> 00:35:08.199
go through things. They don't expect
that I'm human and that I could be

481
00:35:08.239 --> 00:35:12.960
facing something. I give my best
eight hours in front of you. When

482
00:35:12.960 --> 00:35:15.880
I'm in my car thinking I just
can't do this anymore. You know what

483
00:35:15.960 --> 00:35:20.679
am I gonna do here? Because
I know layoffs is coming, I know

484
00:35:20.760 --> 00:35:24.280
we're closing the doors on twelve locations
and we're up. We're in the grab

485
00:35:24.320 --> 00:35:29.639
and i can't say nothing to nobody
because I've been gagged by management, by

486
00:35:29.639 --> 00:35:32.679
administration. So I'm gonna talk to
the leadership. You have somebody that you

487
00:35:32.679 --> 00:35:37.199
could talk to. We're right now. Thank you, Rebel Care Circle Support.

488
00:35:37.239 --> 00:35:40.679
That's what that's all about. That's
what it's all about. Okay,

489
00:35:40.840 --> 00:35:45.119
let me talk to the other group
of people, my my blue collar workers,

490
00:35:45.440 --> 00:35:49.920
my folks who are on the front
line. I know you are saying,

491
00:35:50.000 --> 00:35:53.480
I have nobody I can talk to. Nobody can understand trust me.

492
00:35:53.639 --> 00:36:00.519
We can trust me. There's no
judgment. We want to talk something through.

493
00:36:00.960 --> 00:36:02.840
We may have to get into the
little business just to see where where

494
00:36:02.880 --> 00:36:07.880
that cloud first arrived, so we
could clear that out. Only not to

495
00:36:07.880 --> 00:36:10.559
get into your business, but we
want to clear the foundation. We're want

496
00:36:10.559 --> 00:36:15.239
to clear our show. We want
to clear the air for you just a

497
00:36:15.280 --> 00:36:17.719
little bit, just FreeFly, so
we could plan. You've got to plan,

498
00:36:19.280 --> 00:36:22.800
You've got to have some ideas.
You've got to go after two part

499
00:36:22.840 --> 00:36:28.039
time jobs. You're not going to
find friends and meet friends. You're not

500
00:36:28.079 --> 00:36:30.719
going to try to find your husband
or your wife. You got to pay

501
00:36:30.760 --> 00:36:37.079
your bills or you will be not
in a good position. So that's what

502
00:36:37.159 --> 00:36:38.760
we want to do. We want
to help you. We could talk and

503
00:36:38.880 --> 00:36:43.960
stud We don't judge anybody. I'm
not who am I to judge? Who

504
00:36:44.000 --> 00:36:45.519
am I to judge? But I
gotta get into your business a little bit,

505
00:36:46.159 --> 00:36:49.840
just so I could clear that air
for you, and said, can

506
00:36:49.920 --> 00:36:53.199
you see it? Now? Can
you see what we're saying? Now you

507
00:36:53.280 --> 00:36:58.760
have somebody to talk to your circle. You need to create a new circle,

508
00:36:59.480 --> 00:37:01.559
because if you don't have anybody to
talk to, then you really need

509
00:37:01.599 --> 00:37:07.639
to create a new circle. And
it may be strangers. It may be

510
00:37:07.760 --> 00:37:12.920
strangers. And like Tray said,
you know, get get some color in

511
00:37:12.960 --> 00:37:15.920
that house. Open up those windows, pull those shades back. You're going

512
00:37:15.960 --> 00:37:20.519
into a dark space. You don't
need that. You need sunshine, you

513
00:37:20.599 --> 00:37:22.800
need vibrants. You just need to
walk out on the porch. You did.

514
00:37:22.960 --> 00:37:27.199
Just walk out. Go with the
sunset. Go outside when the sun

515
00:37:27.280 --> 00:37:31.280
is setting and watch the sun set. Get up early in the morning and

516
00:37:31.320 --> 00:37:35.079
you see the sun trying to come
up. Go out where you can see

517
00:37:35.159 --> 00:37:42.239
the sun rise. You're worth it. You're worth it. If nobody else

518
00:37:42.239 --> 00:37:46.400
tells you that you are worth it
because you're still here. You're still here,

519
00:37:46.639 --> 00:37:51.880
you're still waking up, and it's
a new day. It's a new

520
00:37:51.960 --> 00:37:58.159
day. So do what you need
to do. Tommy and I think that

521
00:37:58.519 --> 00:38:06.760
you in trade have truly hit the
bulls. And when it comes to people

522
00:38:06.840 --> 00:38:13.400
needing to talk, start a dialogue
in the family, you know. Start

523
00:38:13.719 --> 00:38:17.000
you and your family sit to the
tax A lot of times people don't sit

524
00:38:17.159 --> 00:38:23.000
to the kitchen table and eat together. That's another good place to start talking

525
00:38:23.000 --> 00:38:30.840
about what's going on, what's happening. You know, what's good for you,

526
00:38:30.960 --> 00:38:35.000
what's not good for you, what
I don't like, what I do,

527
00:38:35.119 --> 00:38:38.760
like the my favorite color. Think
of things like you said, think

528
00:38:38.760 --> 00:38:46.800
of things that are vibrant and and
they give you a smile. You know,

529
00:38:49.119 --> 00:38:52.760
Start getting up in the morning saying
this is gonna be a good day

530
00:38:52.800 --> 00:38:59.559
today and nothing's gonna change it.
Sometimes you have to speak that into your

531
00:38:59.559 --> 00:39:05.639
own existence. Be godless of what
you might know. You gotta deal with

532
00:39:05.800 --> 00:39:09.280
today, who you gotta work with, who you know? Whatever, you

533
00:39:09.519 --> 00:39:16.639
start your day on a positive note. I like when I have different informations

534
00:39:16.719 --> 00:39:22.519
and it come to mind and I
say them, because that's what keeps me

535
00:39:22.639 --> 00:39:29.559
going. It's easy to change your
m This is one thing I do want

536
00:39:29.559 --> 00:39:36.079
to say, and I don't know
where I got it from, but don't

537
00:39:36.199 --> 00:39:46.360
let nobody take your joy. People
would come and take the sparkle or the

538
00:39:46.519 --> 00:39:52.360
light or that shine, that that
blossoming that you have going in you,

539
00:39:53.639 --> 00:39:59.039
and they will come and try to
dampen you. I want you to know

540
00:39:59.480 --> 00:40:04.960
that person and end up having control
of view because they control your mood,

541
00:40:05.639 --> 00:40:13.480
they control your happiness. You don't
need that. Let yourself be yourself.

542
00:40:14.000 --> 00:40:19.000
Don't hurt anybody, don't be mean
to anybody. But think you like the

543
00:40:19.039 --> 00:40:23.480
word, tell you think on good
things that are lovely, you know,

544
00:40:23.840 --> 00:40:30.199
things that are beautiful, things are
happy. I'm not speaking the word itself,

545
00:40:30.519 --> 00:40:37.679
but it's what it implies. That
you speak on those positive good things.

546
00:40:37.719 --> 00:40:45.039
You could be going through hell.
Stop thinking positive. Stop thinking positive,

547
00:40:45.400 --> 00:40:51.960
because that can change your whole trajectory. You be surprised at God will

548
00:40:52.000 --> 00:40:54.320
step in and say, you know
what, if you want, if that's

549
00:40:54.320 --> 00:41:00.320
what you're asking for today, here
it is and you would be pride just

550
00:41:00.519 --> 00:41:07.840
trying. Just speak positive. That's
my thing. A man. I don't

551
00:41:07.880 --> 00:41:12.960
know nothing else to say, but
that's okay, and thank you that because

552
00:41:12.960 --> 00:41:16.119
the world is not going back to
a new normal, another normal or the

553
00:41:16.159 --> 00:41:22.639
old normal. Whatever occurred yesterday is
not even My oldest son and I went

554
00:41:22.760 --> 00:41:28.599
out to Red Lobster to eat.
I asked for a paper cup because I

555
00:41:28.599 --> 00:41:35.119
have to use a cup holder,
and the guy that guy said, he

556
00:41:35.119 --> 00:41:37.599
said, well, we don't have
any lids. I said what, I

557
00:41:37.679 --> 00:41:40.760
said, Wait a minute, you
got sales across the street. Man,

558
00:41:40.840 --> 00:41:44.840
y'all can't go in and get some
lives. He said, I know.

559
00:41:44.920 --> 00:41:46.159
He was laughing. He said,
I know, I know. I said

560
00:41:46.159 --> 00:41:49.519
that, don't wait a minute.
That don't make no sense. I ordered

561
00:41:49.559 --> 00:41:54.280
broccoli with my meal. He told
the table coming towards us, I'm sorry,

562
00:41:54.280 --> 00:41:59.320
we just ran out of broccoli.
So he got to me and then

563
00:41:59.320 --> 00:42:04.360
it just got bley. On Saturday, the truck Barcley came in on Saturday.

564
00:42:04.760 --> 00:42:07.480
I said, oh, this short
that y'all. I said, oh't

565
00:42:07.480 --> 00:42:09.639
mean to laugh about this, but
you know you got neighborhood walk bart also

566
00:42:09.679 --> 00:42:13.960
across the street. You can't go
get some broccoli. You want to go

567
00:42:14.079 --> 00:42:16.639
get the broccoli because I could go
get it. Then the chef came out

568
00:42:16.719 --> 00:42:24.039
and served as our meal yesterday,
the chef and not even know what kind

569
00:42:24.079 --> 00:42:30.800
of uniform she just I cooked it, you know. So I'm sharing this

570
00:42:30.880 --> 00:42:32.719
and I know everybody else was,
Oh the doom in the gloom. No,

571
00:42:32.639 --> 00:42:38.679
no, no, this is awareness, This is alertness. This is

572
00:42:38.800 --> 00:42:45.400
for being focused because you thinking,
I don't know, some of you are

573
00:42:45.400 --> 00:42:49.960
thinking that something's gonna turn around.
And it's turning around. Those of us

574
00:42:50.000 --> 00:42:52.840
who are believers. Oh God has
turned I'll tell her. He just changed

575
00:42:52.880 --> 00:42:55.079
my life in two hours on Sunday, and I'm still I was stealing my

576
00:42:55.119 --> 00:43:00.199
bed and hadn't even brushed my teeth. He changed my life. I had

577
00:43:00.239 --> 00:43:02.199
a new walk today. Tell me
when I got it. I said,

578
00:43:02.760 --> 00:43:09.039
I'm walking differently today. Oh my
God, I said, Holy you,

579
00:43:09.280 --> 00:43:14.639
and favor is fair. So what
we want to you know, it's no

580
00:43:14.800 --> 00:43:16.639
doom and gloom here. We're not
trying to bring you down. You should

581
00:43:16.639 --> 00:43:21.119
all be already to be down.
You down. You're as low as you

582
00:43:21.159 --> 00:43:23.440
can go? Can I say that
you're as low as you can go?

583
00:43:24.480 --> 00:43:29.800
Now? It's time to look up. It's time to rise. It's time

584
00:43:29.840 --> 00:43:32.360
to rise, it's time to not
look at the doom and gloom. It's

585
00:43:32.400 --> 00:43:36.760
time to rise. If God said
where to go, where to go?

586
00:43:37.480 --> 00:43:39.960
If God said go over here and
check this out, I go in there

587
00:43:40.000 --> 00:43:45.440
and check it out. I thought
I was gonna walk out with my backs

588
00:43:45.519 --> 00:43:49.239
my box of chips today because nobody
was at the front at at at the

589
00:43:49.239 --> 00:43:53.679
cash register. I was like,
hello, m is it free day to

590
00:43:53.760 --> 00:43:57.800
day? I know bad Bath to
Beyond got ninety percent off somewhere, but

591
00:43:58.119 --> 00:44:01.039
is it free day here in the
Dollar General? And another customer said,

592
00:44:01.079 --> 00:44:06.119
oh, ma'am, you got She
was talking to the cashier and she was

593
00:44:06.159 --> 00:44:08.360
way back in the back. You
don't even be trying to put on stuff.

594
00:44:08.400 --> 00:44:12.960
People coming through the front door.
And she said, well, I'm

595
00:44:13.000 --> 00:44:15.039
the only one here. I said, well, there ain't nothing. There's

596
00:44:15.039 --> 00:44:16.719
not nothing to do, and I'm
not laughing at you, but that's nothing

597
00:44:16.760 --> 00:44:22.039
new, right, She said,
right, So what do we do?

598
00:44:22.199 --> 00:44:27.119
Now? What do we do?
Now? Let's plan it out. Talk

599
00:44:27.159 --> 00:44:30.760
it out with me, Talk it
out with me, talk it out with

600
00:44:30.800 --> 00:44:35.920
Tommy, talk it out with trade. I have one of my spiritual daughters

601
00:44:36.159 --> 00:44:38.400
was treated and was gone on a
little vacation. She sai, I'm gonna

602
00:44:38.440 --> 00:44:42.480
sit down and talking. It didn't
pan out once she was already calling me

603
00:44:42.480 --> 00:44:44.760
to want to call two o'clock in
the morning. She's got on my way

604
00:44:44.760 --> 00:44:46.159
back. I got, I got, I gotta get a flight. So

605
00:44:46.239 --> 00:44:50.199
we understand. You know, certain
family members you can't talk to. We're

606
00:44:50.239 --> 00:44:54.559
good at least you try. It's
not it's not it's just not a hypothetical.

607
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It's not something you made up.
You tried. So let them go

608
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now because they ain't changing, they
don't think they have a problem. That's

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what you got to look at.
This is why we were here. I

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know that I could call Tommy,
and old Tommy you'd be you'd be proud

611
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of me. While I was in
Walmart yesterday, the Lord Toby, go

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ahead and buy some paper towel.
So I went on and a toil pack

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of paper towel. I paid seventeen
dollars. Boy, I almost fell out,

614
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but I realized nobody gonna catch me. So I need to just stay

615
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very, very focused and get out. But God told me get some paper

616
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towel. And I got the paper
towel. And when I went to get

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gas, the young lady I gave
the gas. I went and I was

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by myself at that point, so
I went and I was I'm near the

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door, and the lady, the
young girl, the cash. She said,

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ma'am, ma'am. I said,
are you talking to me? Because

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she was yelling and I was like, yeah, And I can't turn around

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fast because I have no toes.
So you know, I turned around.

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I'd be, you know, do
a little tornado dad stay, you know.

624
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So she said, ma'am, you
asked for sixty five dollars worth for

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your gass, but you gave me
seventy. I said, God bless you.

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She had already opened up the lane. The lane was closed. She

627
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had already opened that up for me. I said, God bless you.

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So then she did. I said, you're just trying to get all the

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blessings today, aren't you. And
she said, I don't know what I'm

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trying to do. But I wasn't
gonna let you walk out of here with

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this. I wanted to see what
you want to do. I said,

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God bless you. Five dollars back, so I go, and of course

633
00:46:25.719 --> 00:46:29.559
God told me, put sixty five
in the tank. It's three seventy five

634
00:46:29.920 --> 00:46:35.679
a gallon up here in central Florida
at wah Wah, and I put sixty

635
00:46:35.760 --> 00:46:38.360
five in. It came it filled
up at sixty three. So I went

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back in and she was already counting
her drawer. She said, pump number

637
00:46:43.039 --> 00:46:45.079
six right. I said, okay, you want all the blessings today?

638
00:46:45.320 --> 00:46:47.960
Anybody else gonna be able to get
the blessings God, I can't bless nobody

639
00:46:49.000 --> 00:46:52.199
else today. And she just smiled, and I don't know what she's going

640
00:46:52.280 --> 00:46:57.800
through, but she pressed through,
just a smile and to take care of

641
00:46:58.039 --> 00:47:02.199
me. And I had to give
a word. I had to make a

642
00:47:02.280 --> 00:47:07.199
smile, and she gave me my
change at her drawer. She's counting her

643
00:47:07.280 --> 00:47:12.000
drawer, she's trying to go hold, but she took care of me.

644
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You know God's gonna bless her.
You know God's gonna bless her. That's

645
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all it takes. That's all it
takes. So if anything, guys,

646
00:47:22.960 --> 00:47:25.239
please feel free to give us a
call. You need to talk through some

647
00:47:25.360 --> 00:47:30.159
things. We know, we're gonna
listen and everything else, and then we're

648
00:47:30.159 --> 00:47:32.400
gonna take it from there. Okay, have you thought about this? You

649
00:47:32.440 --> 00:47:37.440
know you can do this possibly or
maybe this is your time to become an

650
00:47:37.559 --> 00:47:45.880
entrepreneur. What's gonna stop you?
I saw a guy in a Mercedes had

651
00:47:45.920 --> 00:47:50.320
his law equipment into trump. I
ain't mad at you. However you need

652
00:47:50.320 --> 00:47:54.280
to get it there a mercedes with
the law and the manual law and more,

653
00:47:54.719 --> 00:47:58.679
a blower and something else. I
think the weed either thing, the

654
00:47:58.679 --> 00:48:04.000
weed thinging in the back in the
trunk with the trunk open. I ain't

655
00:48:04.039 --> 00:48:08.199
mad at you. Do it however
you need to do it any means necessary.

656
00:48:08.639 --> 00:48:14.199
Thank you, Thank you. There
is hope. There's hope. You

657
00:48:14.280 --> 00:48:19.960
gotta try him. You gotta try
him because he knows everything. He knows

658
00:48:20.000 --> 00:48:22.239
the beginning and the end, and
he does very well with the in between.

659
00:48:23.639 --> 00:48:27.719
Try him. I don't care what
you've been through. Try him for

660
00:48:27.800 --> 00:48:32.920
just a minute and watch what God
will do. Please we open we're opening

661
00:48:34.000 --> 00:48:38.079
up the show now with prayer.
God said, no, everything is misaligned.

662
00:48:38.360 --> 00:48:42.880
Align them back up to me,
and that's what we shall do.

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00:48:43.719 --> 00:48:46.280
In Jesus name, we pray for
each and every one of you, whether

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you're listening live with us tonight or
you'll listen to us somewhere down the road.

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00:48:51.920 --> 00:48:54.840
We pray that you will find strength
to do whatever you need to do

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00:48:55.360 --> 00:49:00.719
to keep moving forward in a positive
way. Don't hurt yourself, don't hurt

667
00:49:00.760 --> 00:49:06.280
anybody, and that's our time.
You all be blessed. Stay focused,

668
00:49:06.880 --> 00:49:10.480
do your planning, do your journaling, watch the sun rise, watch the

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sun set, whatever it takes,
be blessed, and go to bed Beth

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00:49:15.679 --> 00:49:17.679
or beyond if you have a chance. If you got some coupons and you

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00:49:17.719 --> 00:49:22.360
want to get rid of them,
I'll see y'all next week. Take care tonight.