National Limb-loss Limb Difference

limb loss, difference, amputees, grief, national conference
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limb loss, difference, amputees, grief, national conference
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W FOURCY Radio. Well, good
evening, good evening, and welcome to
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another segment of Setting it Straight with
Miss Gray and co host good night,
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good nay, good evening, good
day. How are you guys doing up
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there, Trey? What's all the
way from Virginia? What's happening? Hey,
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I'm doing well, Thank you,
fast and glad. The weather's coming
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up here. Okay, okay,
this is good. This is a good
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pastor. Come on in, hail
us, salute, pray, whatever you
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know. Tell us how you're doing
out here. We're doing well, We're
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doing well. It's Monday and beginning
a new week with a lot of hope
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and a lot of heat. Open
heat, yes, yes, and we're
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not gonna complain. Let's pray.
Father, we just thank you, we
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praise you, We give you glory
for you alonea worthy to be praised and
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thank you. This is the last
Monday in April, Lord, and you're
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just moving right along. Before we
know it will be in summer and we'll
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be back in the fall and the
winter. And here we go. Lord,
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but help us Lord to just make
a new day and accept the new
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day in you and to do what
we are expected to do from the heavenlyes.
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We just thank you and we praise
you. We thank you for our
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beautiful guest tonight. I'll have some
guests tonight and we just thank you,
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Fapa God. But we're your people. We're gonna get behind the cross.
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You do what you do, and
that set your captives free. In Jesus
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name, we pray, Amen and
amen. Well, as you know,
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we got a lot of things going
on this month. This is the last
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Monday in the month. This is
it. And throughout the month we've been
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talking about you know, National Limb
Lass and limb difference. I have my
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occupational therapist on I've had we also
have the library, you know, representative
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from the library to talk about all
the different activities to keep people busy,
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keep you unaware. But tonight is
a very special person and I know he
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is totally going out of his way
to be to join us tonight. Please
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help me welcome mister Ryan Getty of
the Amputee Coalition. Where you at?
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Ryan, yeay hi, thanks so
much for having me. Great to be
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here. Well, thank you so
much for joining us. And again we're
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sorry for your loss. You know, we just ask God to strengthen you
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and to guide you and the family
involved and everything else. We also want
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to just have a moment of silence
for there's another shooting. I think that
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in North Carolina, and then there
was one another one up north. I
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think an officer has succumbed to his
to the shooting. And then there was
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ten people shot at in Sanford recently
here in Sanford, Florida. So we
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just want to do a moment of
silence for that. I don't know why
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people are losing it. I don't
understand it. People of faith, we
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you know, we know that things
are happening in the world. Inflation is
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hitting everybody. I just don't understand
why people are not thinking and thinking twice
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before they do something that they will
live to regret. And it's every day
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now. It's every day now.
So but anyway, this month we celebrate
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or we bring into awareness national limb
laws and limb difference, and there's an
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organization that is hitting it on the
nail. They are in every aspect representing
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this population. I had never heard
of it until I became an amputee and
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I was just looking for support because
it's different thing, you know, when
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you lose a limb and whether you're
aware of it or you're not aware of
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it. And I just happened to
find this organization and they were having an
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online dialogue and I was had my
iPad next to my computer while I was
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listening to them and listening to what
services and then you know, things that
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they offer. And then they're like, yeah, go to our web page.
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We've got a lead advocate certification and
we have some other peer peer visitor
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opportunities. And I'm like, So
while they're talking, I was just looking
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and I was like, oh wow, okay, And so they were just
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asking us a questions on this one
feature of lead advocate and next thing you
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know is it congratulations, you're a
lead advacate. I said, wait a
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minute, wait, I didn't need
it. Oh how did I do that?
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And I love it because I became
a lead advocate, one of the
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lead advocates for Florida, and so
I was like, oh my goodness.
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But I'm not going to out talk
and everything. I want Ryan to share
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his heart and what he feels that. You know, our audience, and
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we do have an audience. They'll
pop in with some questions and things like
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that, and I'll circle back to
make sure we try to answer what we
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can. But Ryan, talk about
the amput Coalition. What is it all
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about and what do you do?
And I'm going to be quiet. Well,
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First of all, the Amputee Coalition
is a national organization representing the limb
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loss and limbed difference population, of
which I am a member of. We're
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federally funded and privately funded, and
we're you know, in part by both.
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We receive a grant from the Administration
for a Community Living to operate the
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National Limb Loss Resource Center, which
provides resources for people living with one loss
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and the different So that's the very
high level view of what the Amputi Coalition
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is. And we provide services including
support groups and advocacy training for people living
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with loss and the difference. What
I do is my official title is Senior
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Grassroots Advocacy Specialists, So a lot
of what I do is organizing people.
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I attend meetings with lawmakers and other
elected officials, and I just try and
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make sure that the needs of the
LEN loss and LON difference population are being
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met. At the governmental level.
He does a lot. He does a
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lot. He's being very humble,
but he does a lot, and he
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has the pulse of government and issues
nationally that we need to be aware of.
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Because unless you're a part of this
world is you know, you would
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not know of what the needs are. You wouldn't know really where to start,
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you know. I mean, it's
just so many things. And I
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love it because they are open as
a group to our ideas, what's going
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on, what are our needs per
state, per city. They are aware
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and they listen, and I'm just
so glad that they've got several streams of
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communication that we are as amputees can
be a part of. Whether it's about
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the conference and last year they had
their national conference here in Orlando during the
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week of my birthday. But I
said, I have to be there because
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it's happening in my city. I
got to be there, and I mean
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to walk in and to see so
many people and the companies we had vendors
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that were just remarkable and just networking
and you didn't feel out of place.
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I did not feel My occupational therapist
attended also, and she paid for on
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her own, took her own time
off, and went to several of the
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workshops and things like that, and
I'm just it's just it was remarkable,
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Ryan, how many people attended those
three or four days that you guys were
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here. Do you have an estimated
number or guests? I'm not sure off
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the top of my head. Several
hundred, for sure. I know I
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can't give you an exact number off
the top of my head, but several
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hundred just thinking about who was at
the who was at the big general meetings,
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certainly a large portion of whom were
members of the Len Loss of the
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Difference community, which we were really
happy with. They were happy and we
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were getting answers. The workshops I
went to, it was just amazing.
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And I got the host name of
the one that I went to. But
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she also had lost, yes,
similar losses like myself. So she brought
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in a lot of her prosthetics that
I didn't even know. Some of the
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pieces I didn't know existed. So
I was taking pictures of this and talking
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to my ot as well, and
I was like, I got to tell
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my prosthetic folks, you know,
why didn't I Why didn't you refer this
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to me? You know? And
I know, you know she was from
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up north, but it's like,
Okay, this does exist, you know,
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so it can help me, you
know, with my independence as well.
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So but yeah, I it was
remarkable and everybody was friending. Nobody
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had an attitude, and everybody was
just nice. They were just trying to
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help. It was. It was
just well attended and just nice people,
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just really humble folks. And they
were from all over I think I have.
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We had a was a part of
my group. That was the parents,
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the sister and the young man who
just experienced limb laws and they this
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is the first time they ever attended
anything, like they heard about it,
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and they came from Canada. They
flew in from Canada. And the dad
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was sitting there just really like,
oh my god, all of these people.
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You can look at his body language, and I said, you know,
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we're not going to bite right,
you know, and he relaxed.
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He said, I'm sorry, he
said, I'm grieving and I'm angry,
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but I'm trying to learn. I
had to come. I mean, he
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just had so many emotions all over
the place. And we were looking at
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his son's you know, prosthetics,
and the son was asking questions and stuff.
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They finally just relaxed. I saw
them later. They were smiling.
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They were happy, you really took
good care of us. You're planning and
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I believe you guys are heading to
Atlanta this year, so I wish you
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all well. But that that's right. I was once in martial arts back
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in my college days, and I
always said I wanted to get my black
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belt in Taichi and before this happened
to me. And so of course,
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while I'm going through this, I'm
like, well, there goes that.
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Well, you had not only taekwondo
degree black belt representative vendor at the conference,
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but she's she's not even too far
from me. She's in the next
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city over. And I'm like,
oh my god. And we took pictures
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that she was showing her self defense
and I'm like, I mean, I
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don't I can't speak for anybody else, but I can speak for myself.
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You all don't realize by choosing the
right people to come and to talk to
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us, how much you answered some
dreams, some hopes that most of us
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would think we would not have,
you know, be able to achieve.
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So I can only speak for myself. I'll be going. I'm on her
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Facebook page and we've been talking back
and forth and stuff like that. She's
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a nonprofit. She helps a lot
of disabled people and things like that.
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So I'm gonna go visit her and
talk a little bit more. Now,
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I'm a little biased with taekwondo folk. I studied Nisi gojiu hard karate,
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you know, and I used to
pick at people who took Type Quart and
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Dell because they were just hands and
feet. But you know, hey,
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if I could get to my dream
and get a black belt in something,
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I'm gonna feel really good. And
I feel very comfortable with Michelle. She
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since Michelle. She's very nice and
very understanding. All right, guys,
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don't let you Now you know,
I'm a social worker. I cannot talk
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to anybody, so I don't.
I don't want I want you to talk
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to riot ask them some questions and
things like that or anything else, Ryan,
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you feel that our audience need to
know. Like I said, we're
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on one hundred platforms. I did
put it out in the coalition thread that
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you would be on tonight. So
anything you know, please feel free to
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you know, say what's on your
heart and everything. Yeah. Well,
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again, I'm just really happy to
be here and have this opportunity to speak
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with you all. As as we've
discussed this is that we're coming up on
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the end of lem Loss and the
Difference Awareness Months, which has been very
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successful this year, thanks to all
the community members out there that have helped
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us with the proclamation campaign, especially, which is something that I've been involved
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in organizing. We've gotten governors and
I think twenty eight different states, so
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you know, more than half across
the country to sign a proclamation recognizing April
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as LOM Loss and Love Difference Awareness
Month, which has been an incredible boon
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for our advocacy efforts across the nation. It's really important for the advocates not
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only as a morale boosting thing to
see that the community is visible to people
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in power, but also it lends
significant weight to people around the country trying
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to get legislation passed to the benefit
of the lond loss and love difference community,
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and it lends the governor's voice to
the community. I would also encourage
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everybody listening to research the So Everybody
Can Move campaign. That's something that we're
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involved in at the Amplitue Coalition.
That is a movement, a nationwide movement
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with chapters in states all over to
try have physical activity oriented prosthetics and orthotics
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covered by insurance to make sure you
want to move the way you want to
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move, that insurance is not going
to stand in your way. So I
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guess that's what I'll say, and
I'm happy to answer any questions that anyone
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has or talk about whatever you'd like
me to talk about. Okay, guys,
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jump on in. Please, thank
you, Thank Country Country Sea coming
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in. As you mentioned, Ryan, that you touched on a topic that
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I'm very involved in, and that's
in the insurance world, and not only
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insurance for people under sixty five,
but also individuals who are sixty five and
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over with medicare. What would be
some of the what would be some of
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the guidance to help individuals when they're
faced like, for example, somebody on
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medicare who is facing an amputation due
to diabetes, what would what would be
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a route that they can take so
they can be able to get the support
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that they need and be able to, you know, understand that their fate
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that they face with an amputation,
and what would be something or what would
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be a good direction that they can
take so they can be able to overcome
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the fact that they had an amputation. Right. Well, I'll cave at
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this at the beginning with the fact
that I am not a medical professional,
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so I can't give you any you
know, official advice on that beyond my
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own personal experience living with an amputation. But I can say, uh,
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the probably the number one thing that
I would suggest is to get involved with
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a support group. If you are
just facing itation as an adult, or
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if you're the parent of a child
with an amputation or limb difference, to
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get involved with the support group or
just a group of people. It doesn't
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have to be a support group necessarily. Whenever I was young, I was
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involved with a lot of adaptive athletics, and I think that served the same
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role in my life that a support
group often does for people who are living
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with limb loss. As adults,
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i'd say, if you're facing an
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That's something that we're trying to expand
across the country through the Amputee Coalition
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with our support groups that we work
with in our hospital Partnership program, so
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that way medical professionals always have the
information they need to communicate with people that
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are facing imputation. Additionally, I
would say that once you have once you
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are living with limb loss, once
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that's really important to do is to
keep track of all the things that you
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would like to be able to do
post amputation, the things that you did
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for fun, the things that you
did around the house before you had your
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amputation, Because whenever they're asking you
about what kind of device you may need,
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about the kind of care that you
may need, they're going to want
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to know about the activities that you
do on a daily basis. They're going
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to want to know about the level
of activity you were at before your amputation,
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because that's what they're going to use
to judge what kind of care you
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need to get you back to that
level if possible, And I see a
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lot of people really underestimating the amount
of activity that they engage in on a
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daily level, on a daily basis
because it's so normal to them. But
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for instance, if you're playing with
your kids, that's an active activity for
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a lot of people. If you're
cleaning the house, that's an active activity
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for a lot of people, mowing
the lawn, all of these things that
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people don't even really consider as as
a physical activity that you're engaging in really
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is important to mention to your doctor
post amputation, whenever you're talking about your
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future care and the things that you
want to continue to be able to do.
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That was great and you landed right
on that. Go ahead, past
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her. I'll thank you, I'll
finish. Thank you. I just wanted
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to say thank you. Yeah,
because my prosthetic company, the main person
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with Stephanie, who's I've been in
contact with over four years now going on
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five years, and the owner was
listening in the interview as she was assessing
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me, and he went on to
make me a cosmetic arm as well for
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my left arm in hand because he
heard me I was acting. I was
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an actor. I was in an
Oprah Winfrey's movie. When this you know
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when this happened to me and when
I went into the hospital, and so
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he's like, well, I've got
a prosthetic hand for you, I got
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for my right hand, I got
a prosthetic arm for your left hand,
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a cosmetic one and a functioning.
And I'm like, oh, okay,
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Well, I was already ready to
give up. I'm not you know,
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I'm gonna call my agents and let
them know I'm not going to be returning,
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you know, and things like that. And then I happen to go
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on my agent's website and I looked
at my profile. They've added prosthetic prosthetics
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to their profile, so I could
check off if you have a hand,
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if you have to have prosthetic toes, and I mean, it's a whole
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little section there, and I'm like, oh, wow, okay, did
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you say you would be acceptable for
people in every state? This would be
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acceptable? I don't know what you
mean a country. See, anybody can
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answer that it would be acceptable.
Could you expand upon that question a little
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bit? Do they mean accessible?
Maybe? Oh, the coalition itself if
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they're talking about the coalition, Yes, it's nationwide. It is nationwide.
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That's what they Okay, thank you, Trey, thank you, but yeah,
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it's the assessment is very important,
so you know, oh yes,
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thank oh, missy. I'm sorry, thank you, hey, missy.
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The assessment is very important. Don't
hold back. This is what I used
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to do. This is what I
used to do, This is who I
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was, and they will listen to
you and then you go from there.
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But the biggest fight I think while
I was at the conference was the lack
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of insurance coverage for most people.
They were talking about the insurance. They
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were just trying a few people.
Even when we were talking about relocating to
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another state, that was you know, providing better coverage, you know,
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offering insurances that you know, services
and things like that. They were really
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serious about that because they're like,
what am I to do? So a
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lot of depression formed around that because
they don't have the coverage they have to.
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They only have six weeks of OT
and PT and and that's it,
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you know, and our parts.
When I was explaining about my prosthetics,
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every year, I go in for
an annual you know, tune up every
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year. It's then my life plan, and then every five years I can
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get a new prosthetic, you know, for my Olympic arm and come to
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find out, the sensors in my
Olympic arm were from the sixties, nineteen
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sixties. So then we just found
out there's new sensors that are ten years
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old. So I went back to
my you know, my hand surgeon,
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and he wrote out the script,
she needs this updated. So I got
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new censors in my arm. And
it's a totally new training that I had
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to go back to OT for,
you know. So it's this is a
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whole it's it's really involved. You
have to know what to ask for,
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and nothing's crazy. You know,
you prayed that you got a great team.
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And my prosthetic team and my foot
surgeon and my arm, my hand
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surgeon, they're part of my new
family. They call and check up is
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everything you need. You know,
are you doing good? It's time for
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you to come in for your tune
up, you know. But not everybody
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is fortunate for that. So this
is this is a whole different. Like
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I've shared on the show earlier that
being a therapist and being a social worker,
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I've never encountered anybody that had prosthetics. You know. That was Ampte
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the person that did. I remember
one coming in many years ago and he
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had an alcohol problem. We had
to get into detox. I didn't even
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have time to really ask. I
don't know what came first, you know,
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did the impute or did the drinking? You know, I didn't get
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a chance. I'm trying to get
into detox so we can dry them out
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and let's see what your needs are. So anything else, guys, come
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on, let's talk audience. Misty
country seat ask us some questions. Well,
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I think the question I have is, you know me, with the
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mental health feacet, are there any
provisions or that the insurance company will allow
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for therapy, especially after losing a
limb or you know, because like saying,
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the depression and you know how people
feel after that from going to being
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this way to now going to be
in another way, you know, a
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new normal. Is there something or
extra provisions because I'm not sure what the
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insurance coverages are for medicare. I'm
used to working like with people with the
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medicaid industry that has a different and
maybe it's even the same when it comes
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to uh, you know, amputy
or limb laws. So I'm not quite
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sure how that will work. But
you know me, I'm always thinking about
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how people feel and how they're navigating
so that they don't fall into a depression.
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Right. Well, unfortunately, there
isn't one simple answer to that,
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and and really the answer is is
that it depends on the state that you
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live in. If you're dealing with
the government programs, and it depends on
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that, you know, if you
if you have private insurance, it depends
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on the private insurance you have.
Right. So yeah, I mean,
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I'll say I'm I'm not aware of
specific insurance provisions that allow for therapy speci
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typically for after you lose a limb. Doesn't mean they're not they are.
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I'm just unaware of the specifics with
that. But so, but you know,
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it's just going to depend on your
state. You know, some state
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plans are going to be more expansive
than others and that are going to allow
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for you to have therapy after a
traumatic event, and and some are going
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to be much more restrictive. That's
it's going to be kind of a state
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by state basis. If you're trying
to find information on that, I can
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absolutely get you connected with one of
our patient navigators if you have a question
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about and this is you know,
to anybody out there, if you have
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a question about your individual circumstance,
we can get you connected to one of
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our patient navigators at the Amptanity Commotion
who can get you connected to the resources
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either through your insurance or or otherwise. Now, i will say Tray of
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one of the big components of the
marketplace or Obamacare was that mental health was
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something that had to be covered.
And it sounds like from what you were
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asking, when someone goes through such
a traumatic experience like that, there will
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be some resources in regards to the
benefits. And again it's also dependent on
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the plan and what they're offering.
And then when it comes to Medicare,
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they do have a mental health also
benefit to help individuals face what they've gone
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through and they can be able to
reach out to speak to somebody in that
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aspect. So the laws of twenty
twenty I'm sorry if twenty fourteen really was
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one of the things that helped out
for individuals that when they're facing mental challenge
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blenges and then and they need to
go through therapy, that had to be
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something that needed to be covered,
and they and the government really addressed that
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issue. Because of what you mentioned. Gooding back, do they have a
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use prosthetics that could help the people
who don't have insurance. When people trade
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up their older pieces could be cleaned
up and given to someone in need.
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Does it work that way? Well, let me go back Country Sea for
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the other question. When when should
a process start? I knew enough,
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when would the paperwork process start in
order to get things of misty? I'm
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sorry, I'm sorry for me,
and I think I've shared this on the
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show. I just knew being a
social worker. That's the one thing I
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asked of my discharge planner. And
I asked for somebody with a master's in
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social work. And that was the
third thing I asked her for. I
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need you to apply for disability for
me. But before I lost my limbs.
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But you know, my fingers and
my toes became necrotic in my hand,
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and so I knew whatever's gonna happen, I was not going to return
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to the life style I had.
And I told her, I said,
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I need you to apply for disability
for me, and you get all the
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signatures there was there and they already
said that this was an inroad for me.
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She was, I'm going to lose
all of my limb I'm gonna lose,
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you know, lose my fingers and
my toes and my hand. So
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that was already going into the paperwork. So and I've shared with you all
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that my story is different because this
was not something. I was not diabetic,
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I was not a smoker, I
wasn't a drinker. I didn't have
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health issues. I just went to
the hospital one night with the stomach ache
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and my life changed after that.
So if you're already you know, having
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the symptoms or the diagnosis of diabetes
or cardiac cardioc cardiac issues and things like
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that, there's a conversation your doctors
are already having with you that if we
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don't get this done, you know, this could happen, and that that
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that's the conversation I did not have
because I didn't have those health issues.
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So I would say, as soon
as you know that you're about to go
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through a life altering experience, you
need to have some conversation going and get
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your you know, practitioners ready to
assist you with that if that's the route
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that if they're talking about that being
a part of your your journey, country
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seat, what was the other question
you asked about? Oh, Now that's
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funny because do they use. Yeah. I called every UH, a company
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that handles used medical equipment because I
had a different type of walker. I
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had UH a boot for my left
leg because of my toes, and they
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wouldn't. Since COVID, they won't
accept stuff like that. I think prior
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to twenty twenty they did, but
now they don't. It's you know,
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so some of the things I just
had to like put outside and hopefully somebody
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got it. But most of the
time they don't say we recycle those things.
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It needs to be retrofitted. And
there's a whole process you go through
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just to be fitted. Whether it's
your hand, whether it's your foot,
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it's your arm, it's a whole
big it's a whole thing. So not
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to my knowledge, and country Sea
there was another question, the people need
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insurance. Tradit oll the pieces could
be cleaned up and given to somebody,
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and it doesn't work that way,
not to my knowledge. Now I could
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be wrong, but to my knowledge, no, would it be a good
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idea to talk with the social worker
before things move forward? Oh yes,
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missy, if you if your doctor
has already said, you know what if
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this doesn't stop, this could happen, you know, especially when it comes
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to amputation. You need to be
talking to somebody now, you need to
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be talking to somebody and trying to
walk that out and see what okay,
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and see if my insurance covers what
do they cover? I went on disability,
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and I went on Medicare disability though
I am I think I did.
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I think I did qualify for Medicaid
briefly, but I went straight to a
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disability Medicare because of my age and
everything. And they have been they and
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there's another process that's out there that
takes care of all of this. For
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me, I had to have a
life plan. A life planner came to
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the house to interview me and ask
me, who were you, what did
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you do before? What were you
involved in? And I looked at the
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plan that she typed up, and
she included all of that, who I
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used to be, what I used
to do, all my activities and everything,
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and based on that, she said, these are the things that she
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will need for the rest of her
life. So it's it's in. Everybody's
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situation is different. That's one thing. I mean, you know, listening
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to the folks at the conference,
everybody's story is different. Do you feel
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that there are enough programs out there
for people to get help. Ryan take
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that one, and then pastor you
also, and then I'll come back like
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later. Well, I can say, you know, there's always more work
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to do, I think is the
appropriate answer there. Certainly, we we
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do our best at the NPT Coalition
to provide services for as many people as
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possible. One of the problems that
exists is a lack of data that exists
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for the limb loss and one difference
population in the United States. This is
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something that we've been trying to remedy
at the Emputy Coalition. Speaking to my
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role in government relations, we were
working with Congress to get a study done
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on the number of people living with
limb loss and one difference in the United
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States, and then also commissioning our
own study on the number of people living
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with one loss and the different to
the United States. So, to answer
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the question more directly, no,
I mean, obviously people are still suffering.
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There's more work to be done,
but it takes people like average community
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members setting up support groups, working
with organizations like the Imputy Coalition or other
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organizations out there as well. I
don't want to, you know, monopolize
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the community that way, but working
to help each other where the system won't
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or has not has not provided what
is needed. So I would say,
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no, there's not, but everyone
should uh work as hard as they can
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to lift each other up. That's
what we're trying to do with the coalition.
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And I know there's a lot of
passionate community advocates out here, like
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like the folks hosting this program that
are working to fill out and you can
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do it too. Thank you,
Thank you Ryan for for reading my mind
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because that was going to be one
of my questions that I was going to
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ask, is what type of challenges
that you you face with with your role
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that you're that that you are working
in and and I and I kind of
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want to ask because it's a very
unique title grass roots. When you know,
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when we hear grassroots, we hear
we we think of door knocking and
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and and people uh knocking on doors
to to to increase awareness. Exactly how
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does grass roots work into your title? So grassroots advocacy is for me,
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if you've ever gotten an email from
the Ampute Coalition asking you to email your
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congressman or make a phone call or
write a letter, Uh, you know
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that very well may have been for
me. I do a lot of targeted
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uh targeted things whenever we're trying to
convince a legislator of something. UH,
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you know, that's that's what I
do. I try and mobilize people in
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the district two to reach out average
people that are that are on our mailing
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lists, that are connected with the
Ampute Coalition in one way or another,
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to reach out to their elected representatives
and uh and and let them know that
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the limb loss and them difference community
is important and needs representation. So UH
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that that's how the grassroots title works
into to what I do on a day
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to day basis just mobilizing average people
to their voices heard in government. Last
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summer I attended my oldest son went
with me the hurricane preparedness. How many
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times through life does people have to
reevaluate to see the changes and upgrades people
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need. I'll talk about that in
a minute. Country see, because it's
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ongoing, it's going to be My
life plan is literally for the rest of
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my life, and I'm covered that
way. But I wanted to add a
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share that last summer I went,
it was like May June, and I
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happened to see one of our mayors
there and I took a picture with them
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and everything, and the Lord prompted
me to go talk to him. I
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said, I'm not sure if you
are aware. I know you've got a
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lot of things on your plate,
but we have the amputeue Coalition and I
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didn't have any of my prosthetics on
me so he could tell. He said,
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I'm never I didn't know. I
said, well, they're coming to
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our town. We got company coming. He's like really, I said,
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could you write a letter just to
welcome? He said, yeah, get
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in touch at my office of them. What you need. He said,
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I will keep this in my mind
and I'll look for that request. I
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said, thank you. We have
two mayors here, Welfa County, Walfa
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City. So I said, well, if he could do it, let
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me contact, you know, my
other mayor. And I just did it
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and he's got a whole template.
All you have to do is put in
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the information, the date, the
name of the organization, click, click
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and submit. Next thing I know, they let me know it's on its
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way, and I got them.
I found Ryan and I had never met
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Ryan, but I was like,
where's Ran. I want to see Ryan?
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And can I help. You know, I want to see Ryan please,
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and I want to place these these
two proclamations in you know, two
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welcome letters rather in his hand.
So I have a mayor that had no
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idea and the other mayor didn't either
that there was such a thing as an
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Amputique coalition. And then they're gonna
be in our city for four days,
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three days, four days. So
that was awareness. I'm going to go
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back to both of them and talk
their to their project managing people and say,
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okay, I need you now that
you know we have a huge population
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here in central Florida. What can
you offer to do? Now? Can
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you set some monies aside? Now
we're gonna need some support groups. We'll
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get a survey out there to you, you know, different things like that,
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because people like to hear from other
people. So you know that we
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start That's what we do. We
start right there where we're at, with
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what we do have or who we
have access to, and we try to
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get things going country. See what
was your question again? How many times
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do life do people? Does people? Does someone have to get re evaluated?
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See, I'm telling you the one
thing that was concerning oh we got
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only got five minutes. Where'd the
time go? It was just seven twenty
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six. Oh my goodness. This
always happens. My prosthetic folks are very
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concerned about whether I'm if I'm losing
weight in my arm or you know,
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this whole piece here and I'm working
out and everything, so they're prepared.
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They're always asking to be bringing your
cosmetic arm. Let's see how that's looking.
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Because my hand that they had put
on there looked like a child's hand
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and my my prosthetic person said,
no, I'm not going to know.
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I'm turning it back in. Can
anyone write these letters or do you have
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to be in the community right write
these letters for support or services? I
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guess maybe for governmental assistance like we
have this here. Anybody anybody can get
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involved with that. And actually your
story about you know, your continuing relationship
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with the with the mayors is a
perfect example of what we train people to
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do at the Empty Coalition. With
our government relations program, we really encourage
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people to not reach out just once, but to continue to reach out and
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build that relationship with the office so
that way they know you. You can
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build some kind of uh cache with
with the office so they know who you
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are, they know that your input
is is intelligent and reasonable, and they
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are more likely to listen to what
you have to say. So building that
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relationship with with elected officials is a
really, really great way to make your
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voice heard for anything. And that's
what we encourage people to do for for
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them loss and the different advocacy.
So anybody can do it. There's plenty
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of resources on our website and you
know, I'd be more than happy to
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help anybody out with that. You
can find my email on the on the
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website as well. Yeah, so
everybody in the audience please go to the
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Ampute Coalition and and take a look
at all the services and activities they offer
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and everything. And then, like
Ryan said, he's there, he will
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get right back to You'll get back
to you and and you'll make sure he
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stands exactly what your question is so
he can give you point you in the
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right direction and everything. He's excellent
with that. And there are other folks
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too that are a part of that
that I've had to reach out to and
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he'll very gently say, no,
what you know, you may need to
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talk to this person. And then
I go to that person and they're very
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welcoming and everything. But yeah,
Country Sea things. Should we mention this
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show? You could? You could
and say hey we met Ryan Getty and
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just say his name. They'll know
who he is. Okay, they will
519
00:42:31.400 --> 00:42:37.920
know and they're like, oh okay, but yeah, So as far as
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retrofitting your size and everything, you
know, your body changes. You know,
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you can gain weight, you can
lose weight, and everything changes.
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So I've had some pieces that I
had to for my fingers that for you
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know, my right hand that had
to go back because they had to move
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different things around, and that whole
world of who old stuff and it's just
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amazing, uh to see that so
and and to be a part of that.
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And it's a whole little world.
It's a whole community, and we
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know what we're saying. We're asking
the questions, and even if we're not
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quite sure, there's always someone to
say, well do you mean this this
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00:43:20.079 --> 00:43:24.719
way? Do you mean this this
way? You know? But yeah,
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I think this is great and guys, thank you all for asking these questions.
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But please go on to you know, Amputy Coalition website and just say
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hey, we heard about we heard
right in mister Getty talking about some things.
533
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So we want to get involved.
We want to help whether you're a
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part of that, you know,
whether you're actually an amputea or not.
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But we want to you know,
support this group in our cities because I've
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got folks from Louisiana, I've got
folks from Texas, I've got folks you
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know here in Florida, Virginia,
you know, so we're kind of spread
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out. And then we've got a
great audience that comes back behind the scenes
539
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and re listens to the posts.
And like I said, we're on one
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hundred you know, platforms, so
we're out there pretty much and pretty well
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so but I'm just glad that we
could have this conversation. And again,
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I didn't even know this world existed
until I had to become a part of
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it, and I was I'm going
to ask questions, and I'm going to
544
00:44:29.039 --> 00:44:30.599
say, where does this, who's
doing this? What's doing you know?
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And count you know, you've met
some I mean, you need some good
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people and they stay in touch.
I have a few people on the thread
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that I said, give me a
call, you know, because I didn't
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want to get, you know,
get too involved with the thread because they
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were asking some personal things and if
they've actually called me and I've actually talked
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to them about resources and how to
a conversation you need to have with your
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practitioners and things like that. So
that's been rewarding. You know, we
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took it off the thread and you
know, they they you know, they've
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emailed me back and say, hey, can you talk and stuff like that.
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So anything else, guys, you
all want to any closing remarks,
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Ryan, if you would, we
only have four more minutes, but anything
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you want to add please, Well, I'll just say thank you again so
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much for having me on. It's
been a pleasure to speak with you all
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about the EMPTT Coalition and and you
know my small role uh in in the
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movement uh for for disability rights and
for working for the limblocks and the difference
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population. It's a it's a great
thing. I hope. I hope to
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see any of you reaching out.
I'm more than happy to get you connected.
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There's always work to do, uh, But keep fighting, keep spirits
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high, you know, I think
that's that's an important thing. And work
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with others. Uh. You know, nobody likes to to fight alone for
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the things that they need, so
getting connected with others is a really important
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thing. Well, Ryan, I
just want to say thank you. You
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seem to be a very you seem
to be a young man who has faced
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a challenge and you've taken that challenge
and make it made it into an opportunity.
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And you've really increased the awareness.
You're showing that you're not letting obstacles
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stop you and you're really walking a
mile in regards to helping those who are
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not knowing where to go. And
you are definitely that beacon of light that
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some people need to see and see
how you're advocating for them. So if
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you don't hear thank you, I
want to make sure you get thanks the
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thank you that you deserve. Well, thank you so much. That's very
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kind of you to say, Mickey, you have to. I think the
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first thing I would say to somebody
is you have to find your new normal.
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And I just wrote that on one
of the threads. Find your new
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normal. Figure it out. It
takes a minute. It takes a minute
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because you look at where you were
prior to so encourage them. This is
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a new normal. Everybody's situation is
different. Get your and you're gonna have
581
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to embrace your your surgeons and your
prosthetic folk. You need to embrace them
582
00:47:30.280 --> 00:47:35.639
and let them know what you what
your needs are, because they can't read
583
00:47:35.679 --> 00:47:42.119
our minds. They cannot read our
minds, so I would that's one thing
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I had, you know, when
COVID hit during this time, everybody's like,
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oh, you know, they're fussing
about oh this new normal is new
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normal, And I'm like, that
is so funny because I have a new
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normal every day. I've been having
a new normal every day since I woke
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up out of the coma in twenty
eighteen while being in the hospital, So
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I you know you and to this
day, you know, I'm like,
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I'm listening to my body. I'm
walking. My daughter was funny, I
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think it was my daughter. Yeah, it was my daughter. The other
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day. She goes mine, you're
walking kind of fast, you know,
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and I was like, yeah,
I'm just trying to get across the street
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because you know, I don't know
if anybody can see me. You know,
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I'm just trying to get to where
I got to go. But I
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was determined. I'm working with a
trainer now who's never worked with somebody who's
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an amputee, so he's being taught
something. He's listening to me and he's
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watching and he's like, Okay,
he did a great assessment for me.
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But I have to you have to
let these people in, you know.
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And my social worker who came to
my room, she introduced herself. She
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goes, I'm gonna have to get
in your business, and I said,
602
00:48:43.360 --> 00:48:46.320
I said to her, I'm gonna
have to let you. So we have
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to spend that. I have to
let you, you know, and make
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sure you got the Masters to social
work. Okay, that's our time.
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Thank you all again. We're gonna
see you next week, same time,
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00:48:57.320 --> 00:48:59.400
same station, Night night,












































