Thanks-givin and All the Fixins

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listening. In the name of Jesus, we thank you. Let's pray,

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Father God. We just thank you. We praise you you glory and honor

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and all praise we don't even have. This is not enough of the English

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language or language in the dictionary to
give you the praise that you deserve.

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You've been with us all day to
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People left this earth this past weekend
overnight. In the name of your

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son Jesus, I pray that heaven
was their home. I pray that heaven

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was their home. And then as
you gave them sweet rest, Lord,

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we just thank you that we saw
another day. We're gonna see soon,

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preferctly we will see this giving Father
God, and we just asked that you

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just give glorify us, give us
everything that we need, Father God,

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to glorify you. We just thank
you, we praise you. This is

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your show. We are your daughters, we're your people. We have the

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folks in the audience that we are
praying for as well, who have been

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faithful and obedient, just to come
on and be supported for the God give

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them the desires of their heart.
Surprise them. God, only you know

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what they need. We just thank
you when we praise you. You just

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have your way tonight. We're your
people. We're listening the Cross, all

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this and more in Jesus' name.
We pray, Amen and amen, and

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just thank God for you all.
Tonight. We're gonna talk. We're gonna

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get into our topic in a minute, but I want to Amy, thank

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you, cut your car, and
then hey, Missy, I love these

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people. I love it. They're
in two different states, they're way away

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from us, but they love us. They think Monday Monday night. We

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can't do nothing. Don't be calling
people, no poker game, be calling

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people. Haven't being go bango or
anything. No, I've got a date

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with some folks online. Thank you. You all are gonna be blessed and

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cut your create. Kay and Misty. I want to just share you all

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to me today as a matter of
fact, and that we need to let

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you know that we pray each for
each and every one of you. We

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pray when when you run across our
minds, we're praying for you and we're

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believing that you're gonna experience God in
a total supernatural way that's gonna blow your

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mind. Only you will know it's
Jesus Christ. Only you will know it's

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the Holy Spirit listening, because they
listen to you cry into your pillow at

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night. They know the triune being
knows what you need. And we're just

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believing God just for you showing up
for fifty weeks, just and even one

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of you. I see one of
you going back and look at some of

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our archive shows just for you doing
that. He is going to bless you

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because it helps us get It encourages
us. Amen, It encourages us.

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Even though you think we've been doing
this forever, we have not. There

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are times I can only speak for
my mind. I'll be like, oh

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my God, Okay, how long
we gonna do this? Show Lord?

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How much longer? Because I only
got five people, I could count the

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number of people. And God said, so is this for you or for

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me? Thank you, missy,
We appreciate you. It's me and check

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is this for you or is this
for me? Is this for Tray?

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Is this for Tommy? Yeah,
we had to bring him out of the

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shell a little bit, but is
this really for them? Is it really

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for them? They got to heaven
or hell? We didn't know about okay,

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God, you don't have to go. So you know, my angel,

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I was talking to the ladies before
we get the cable the air.

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Sometimes your angels be like, do
we write this down? Do we check

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it off? We eraseing? What
we doing? What we're doing, And

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God's like, no, put your
clipboards down. I got her, and

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then I have this young angel.
I can hear him every time when I

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hear no TV, no radio,
I hear oh angel lists, God goes

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sat by angels down and say,
no, I got her because he gotta

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he gotta talk to me. He's
got to teach me a lesson a course

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of course, correct me. Amen. So yes, tonight, God wanted

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me to let you guys know,
especially Country K and Misty and the other

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young lady that comes on as well, that we're praying for you. To

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let rebel know we're praying for you. You're not alone, and I want

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to talk. You wanted me to
talk briefly about covering and what that means

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is you don't have to be And
we've never asked anybody tell us what church

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you go to, tell us what
your fat nation. That's not where we're

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at anymore. That's that's that's not
here nor there. If you believe in

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God, and by you showing up
and supporting us, that you're telling us,

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you know what we believe in this
God. There's something about this God

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they keep talking about. Amen.
Amen, hard to hear what he's trying

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to tell us at times. Yes, ma'am, Hey McKey, I hope

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you heard that too. That's the
other young lady Mickey and everybody, Yes,

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thank you, and yes, I
was just saying that to a group

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of people online today. Sometimes people, you know, God is answering you,

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but there are times we don't like
the package or the delivery because he

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said, no, I need to
get the glory just for a little,

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just a little while longer. You
haven't touched the target yet, or I

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need I need you to learn before
I take you out of the dismiss you

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or graduate you from my school or
the prophets. I don't want you going

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over here just yet. I'm not
gonna tell you what church to join right

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now. I need you up under
me so I can teach you. I

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can let you be prepared. And
I just got a warning through a prophetes

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and God said told me to send
it to another lady that's out in thin.

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She'sai in Washington, Mississippi to get
her feedback on it. Normally,

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I've never done that before. You
know. She was saying some things and

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I'm like, oh, and God
said send it to so and so,

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and I said, okay, there's
a company of profits of us. We

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sit and we listen, but not
everybody is of God. And we got

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to be very very careful in these
last days, in these last weeks,

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these last hours. Who who you're
listening to? Who is feeding you?

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Literally? Who is telling you?
I mean, you gotta be careful us.

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I said to my daughter today,
that's like somebody you know who don't

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own a vehicle, but telling you
what kind of car you should buy.

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That's somebody that's like somebody I'm marriaging
what it takes to be a wife or

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a husband. You ain't never been
married before. What are you talking about?

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I could read too, but real
life versus reading something look different of

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God. And if you read it
in my books, those that's my experience,

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that's my thoughts, and you I'm
very vulnerable, I'm very transparent.

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You could read right through it because
I'm being very honest, So be very

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careful guys, But I want to
get back to covering. Thank you Lord.

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Covering means we cover you in the
spirit, meaning we pray for you

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well, because he's gonna rise up. His time is done. His time

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is done. It's just a matter
of a second. Jesus gonna come to

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come through and take care of him. And there's a piece of that action.

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That's an event that nobody wants to
talk about. Everybody wants to talk

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jump and say, well, Jesus
is coming because we're having wars now and

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there's no more rumor of wars.
We're actually having wars. So Jesus is

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coming tomorrow. No, there's some
other little things that happen in between.

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But covering is I cover. When
we cover you in the spirit, the

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devil has to hit us first.
He hits and I don't know country k

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maybe in my age bracket, but
remembers get smart. Remember this sickcom gets

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smart. Well, you know what
I've been telling me. He wanted to

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talk to the chief. The Chief
would lower down this globe. You can

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still hear them, It's so funny, but they were lower down this globe

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and then Maxwell will start talking and
stuff. That globe is like what we

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do, those who of us,
who are prayer warriors or intercessors, we

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cover you because and so the devil
will hit us first. So they want

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the arrow's fly if by night the
arrows come nigh unto you, that's biblical.

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And we could talk about late fifties. Okay, you're younger in me

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country. See, okay, you're
younger in me all right, all right,

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he had to rub an end.
Hell right you, but I know

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you remember getting smart. You should
anyway, you may maybe not, maybe

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you were in diapers in but anyway, So that's what God wanted me to

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explain, particularly tonight, when I
say I got you in prayer, that

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means I am and I'm thinking about
you. I'm praying for you, and

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I don't know what to pray for. We don't know. I thought you

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were in your fourth Oh Lord,
have mercy country. See I may have

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to come visit you trip, God
bless you. Other people on the phone

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said that I saw like I was
in my forties, So thank you Jesus.

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He has reverted that. I won't
see forties again until the children pat

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crossed that bridge. But thank you
so much, God, bless you.

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I've lost some more weight too.
Yes, yes, I just wanted to

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put that in it. But anyway, think of that, Thank God,

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thank God, because he's like,
no, that don't taste right. I'm

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like, but god, oh,
that don't taste right, you know.

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And speaking of not tasty right,
peaches are on recall and catalog peaches and

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partition so old in Walmart and publics
as of just about twenty minutes before I

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got on because of listerios. So
y'all check that stuff. Okay, the

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vegetables are not looking right, the
fruit and not doing looking right. I

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saw everybody today we were in publics, my daughter and I and they were

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looking, I mean really looking at
the fruit, really reading. The man

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was saying that they just reading the
back of the incredience, you know,

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I mean everybody was reading stuff.
You look good, it sounds sweet.

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Okay, all right, cut you
see, don't start that. We may

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have to talk off air. You
message. Stop that. It's Christmas time.

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Don't get it twisted now. I
be asking for a gift anyway,

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all right, So nevertheless, I
won't do that. But nevertheless, so

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please be very careful about your fruit. Vegetables. Don't just pick something up

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and you be in a hurry.
I thought that we were doing good by

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getting the publics before noon. No, it's only until I and I know,

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Tommy, you was trying to tell
me the school is out. I

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didn't really hear that. My wife
is the jealous tpe. Okay, well

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there we go. There we just
all right, there we go. Not

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going on a field trip. Let
me just wrack that down. Make a

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note to myself. No Christmas card
either, Okay, we got it.

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Anyway, Tell her she has a
special fellow with her. She has a

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special fellow. That's what we're gonna
say. And y'all be blessed. We're

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gonna bless that family over there.
Amen. I didn't know school was out

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for the whole week. I'm like, we can go to the movies and

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stuff like that before on Wednesday,
because you know, everybody in the relatives

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are in town. By Wednesday,
kids are out of school, no school

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bus nowhere. And I was looking
at the Orange County Public School saying Happy

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Thanksgiving. We're out for the week. I'm like, what what wait what?

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And I'm like, oh crap,
I gotta go to the grocery store.

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We gotta go shopping, you know, for the next two weeks.

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You're so kind. I really enjoyed
this shell. Thank you country. See

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we appreciate you. So please be
careful. Everybody was out today. We

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have a lot of I had a
lot of aging people. Uh this publix

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didn't have the right direction as to
in the daily section as to how do

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we start we line up. That
really disturbs me. When you gotta you

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gotta have some signage that said the
line starts here, especially if you're not

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gonna use a little numerical tab.
So the first thing I do, I

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look at the electronic thing eat right, and I'm like, okay, that's

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say sixty seven. I inched out
the little tab, the little ticket number

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thing, and that was seventy two. I said, oh no, they

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ain't using that, So okay,
I said, okay, we gotta be

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very careful here. So my daughter's
like, Mom, don't you talk to

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nobody. I said, okay,
I'm not. I'm gonna try not to

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talk to nobody. But I don't
want I come to the public to fight

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today. You know, we all
need to get our meat and our cheese

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and we want to move on.
I ain't here to fight nobody, but

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please don't get this twisted today.
Please don't, because I expect non of

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y'all will be here today. Y'all
should be at home somewhere, not here

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anyway. And I'm gonna get to
this subject soon. But and my daughter

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kept looking at me like ma,
and like I said, if that laid

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it back up one more, just
one more inch, I'm I'm gonna just

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push the basket her way. That's
all I'm gonna do. My basket was

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full, so I'm gonna push the
basket to block her because she's about to

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hit my daughter. She's backing up
with her basket, and I was like,

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back up one more time, just
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that's the intention through my bask you
know that's that was the intention. I

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hope you can hit back up one
more time and it's gonna be on the

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poppet. So one of the delay
felks were like, oh boy, and

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I was like, you need to
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rush this because we need to get
be taken care of. No ask me

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get this. So the lady in
front of her, she walks away from

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a basket, so we all watched
her walk away. Really, I said,

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now. And so to the other
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I said, now you know what
to do, right, because we

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all know which she coming back.
She ain't tell us the safer spot of

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nothing. Let's go. So the
girl said, who's next? I said,

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she is, and she is?
I said, what did it?

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So? Anyway, it worked itself
about So yeah, grocery store people,

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y'all, y'all just need to,
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do with the baskets and stuff.
And if you confuse, it's not my

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fault because we're all here to grocery
shop. I understand why they're doing Black

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Friday early now, because you know
what happens on Black Friday did a Friday

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after Thanksgiving. People are running over
people, people are dying, people are

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getting hurt, and the stores are
being sued. So this is why they

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start to do all that. So
I got understanding. On a sadder note,

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a lot of people passed away this
weekend. Pastor Carlton Pierce passed away

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at seventy eight. He did a
final goodbye from his hospital hospice room just

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a few nights ago, and apparently
a cancer came back that he was healed

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from over twenty years ago. He
was seventy eight. Missus Rosalind Carter,

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she just checked herself and she just
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the other night, and she passed
away at ninety six. And then there

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was Susan she's an actress. If
you see her face, you would know

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her. She passed away at eighty
nine. And then after josh Aclin,

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an older actor. I didn't know
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you know, he's done. I
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four people just as the last three
days, four days, three days that

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passed away. So my heart goes
out to them. I keep up with

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them on my Facebook page and I
put numbers beside them. So we're up

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to seventy eight people that we have
passed away. And this is usually every

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year. This is about about one
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So we'll keep their families in prayer
most definitely. Now on for tonight's topic,

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Thanksgiving and the fixings. And I
saw people loading their baskets today with

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stuff and believe you see, I
had my daughter had to say, I

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don't know what they're fixing. Mom, some of these ingredients. I don't

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know what they fix it. I
said, they probably go to fix something

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and take it to the house and
say, don't bother me and eat everybody

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else's food. You know. That's
that's the what we want to think about

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is And I'm gonna let the ladies
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Guys, what are you thankful about
this year? This year? What

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are you thankful about? What are
you what's changed in the year, what's

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changed? It could be a last
thirty thirty hours or the last thirty days.

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What's changed for you that you're looking
at? You know, this thanksgiving,

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this this opportunity to to to eat
and be with family. On the

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news, I've never seen that many
people getting ready to travel and getting up

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out of here. But the kids
are out of school early here in Orange

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count in Orlando, so uh and
Florida. So I guess people are getting

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know, they're heading out, they're
gone, they're heading they're good, you

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know, and they're gonna have a
few days because the whole week school is

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closed. So so talk to me, ladies, what's been what's gonna be

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different? What's been different for you
all? And and what are you looking

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for? I guess it's me.
Huh, Okay, I can't hear you.

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Guys, I can't hear you.
Go Timmy, I can't hear you.

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We can hear you. You can't
hear us. I heard you just

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now, okay, Okay, I
can hear you. Well, Okay,

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Lisa can't Lisia, you can't hear
me. I'm not sure what's going on,

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but I can't hear go ahead.
So I mean it's a lot of

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I think that I'm thankful for.
She can't she still can't hear uh huh.

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We can't hear you, Alicia,
I can't hear you not now.

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I can't hear you. I was
able to hear you on the intro,

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but at this point now we can't
hear you for me. Temmy, Oh,

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I can hear you, great,
Okay, I can't hear lisha no,

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okay. So I guess we'll keep
it rolling for right now. So,

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I mean, I'm thankful because I
feel like I'm in a better frame

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of mine. You know, it's
been a year since my my father passed,

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and you know, it's it's kind
of settling down now, and not

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that the grief doesn't go away,
but it's it's it's a little more tolerable

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right now, and so I'm thankful
for that. You know, I still

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have as memories, but it's not
as difficult thinking about memories as it was,

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you know, even a few months
ago, you know, and being

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able to have family, you know, being pretty healthy, looking forward to

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the what the new year is going
to bring, feeling pretty optimistic about things,

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you know, have some ideas,
uh, you know, some ideas,

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and trying to be more creative,
you know, moving towards the new

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year. So I want to grow
my business. So I'm just thankful,

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you know, thankful for family,
being able to be with family for Thanksgiving,

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and I don't know, just feel
blessed right now. What about you,

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Tommy, I am too. The
new Years don't bring a lot of

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new to me. And also I
think the way I grieve from my dad

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because he passed away in January.
I look back at pictures that we shared,

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and me and him used to do
a lot of selfies. So that

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always cheered me up because I can
remember this, that and the other what

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we were doing, you know,
what kept me going. And that's and

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and I find myself going back to
my pictures of him quite often, but

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it's it's a blessing. And then
the thankfulness of my aunt that I'm taking

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care of now. She's very grateful. We laugh, we talk, and

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I'm actually having almost identical fun that
I had with my dad because she she's

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she's very comical and I just love
her and it just bring back the memories

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when I was young, and the
joy that she's always brought to me.

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Of course, my new partner in
crime that's coming about, probably thankful that

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I can. I am thankful to
having it so and folks later, Oh

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that's true, that is so true, and I agree for the thankful for

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our family. We're we're traveling this
year. We're going up to coming up

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to Virginia, and then on Friday
we're going up further to d C because

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a larger portion of my family will
be there as well, so I get

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to see all them. But just
giving God thanks for what he's doing in

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our lives and the things that we
see and people we are able to affect

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on a positive level and just doing
his work, just surrendering to his work.

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And I'm just just overall thankful.
I'm being added into a new family

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as well as bringing in a new
family member as well. So it's just

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a blessing all the way around,
loving on youtobe like I always do.

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And it's just a joy that I
have sisters that understand and have listening ears,

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and you know, it's just it's
a blessing. You know, I

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don't have truly a biological sister,
so you guys fit my big thank you.

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Wow. I did not know that, Timmy, but I just want

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to just just listening to what you
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to add a little note. You
know, both of us recently lost our

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fathers, and there's nothing like that
father daughter bond, and so I'm encouraging

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the fathers out there, you know, especially you know, if you can

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get involved with your children's like but
you never know the difference you make to

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a daughter. You know, it
could make a break, you know,

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the types of men to choose,
you know, knowing what love is.

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You know, sometimes we don't always
make the best decisions. But just being

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able to reminisce about my dad,
you know, I know you tell me

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the same thing. So I'm truly
a da Daddy's girl. And the more,

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you know, as time passes and
you know, after his death,

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I'm really like, wow, you're
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And I bring him up often and
I love my mom and miss my mom

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the same. But I know it
was a little different with my dad,

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you know, especially because I am
his namesake. So but it's just the

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memories, the pictures, the videos
that I keep on my phone, you

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know, just reminiscing about the things. So you know, I'm urging fathers

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out there, you know, reach
out to your kids. It's very important

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the fathers be active in their children's
lives. And I know sometimes it's not

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easy because you might have mothers that
that that kind of hold them hostage over

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there. And if you're a lady
that's doing that, stop it, please

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stop it. Please. You know
you're you're doing a big disservice. And

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so, you know, at one
point if you I'm not saying that all

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relationships were good, and I know
things happen, but if you're doing because

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you're trying to get back at him
or you're trying to be with him,

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just just just stop that, you
know, just stop that. If it's

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a healthy relationship, he wants to
be part of his child's life, you

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know, find a way to make
it happen as long as it's a safe

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thing. If it's not safe,
then don't do that. I mean we're

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not we're not doing it that way. But don't just do it just in

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spite of or because you're trying to
get more money. You know, you're

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doing a big their service to kids
and it affects them in that way.

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So I'm just encouraged just rethink things, prey on it, and because children

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need healthy relationships that they can look
at. There's so many things that that's

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going on in this world. TikTok. And I'm looking at these death flops

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that they're doing on I don't I
said, what is that about? You

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know, what is that about?
That you're just flopping with you know,

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in on concrete and water and snow, and it's it's a called of death

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flop. And basically they do these
little flips and they don't maneuver. It's

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almost like they're landing on their stomach
flat. So it's craziness, craziness.

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So I know I'm all over the
place, but that's what I have to

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say. No, that's okay,
can you guys hear me? Yes?

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Yeah, yeah, you got to. I mean, you got to say

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it, you know, I mean, this is what we do. We

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talk about what's what's out there,
what's what's current, what's going on,

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and why the way the world is
going, the route the way it's going,

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you know. You know, I
was watching catfish earlier and and and

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it's about you know, these young
kids and and they're catfishing each other and

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and and you know, and this
is is an age on thing, and

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it's just this cyberbullying and all this
kind of stuff and it's okay, it

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is not okay. What what is
catfishing? Oh? Catfishing is when you

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partinue up you're somebody else. I
mean people they don't you don't hear their

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voice, You don't you know,
don't you don't do FaceTime. You're actually

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just texting back and forth. And
I had a relative that did that and

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I couldn't you know, left her
husband and everything and put her child in

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jeopardy. And I'm like, do
you do you hear yourself? And I

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had to send her back. Are
people hurting themselves with death flops? Are

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they trade the death flops? They're
hurting themselves? I do believe it looks

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like it could be because a couple
of times it's odd because you know how

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if you fall, you know,
if you if you push yourself off something

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and you try to push your hands
out to brace yourself. They're actually not

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doing that. It's almost like they're
just falling and just landing on their stomach.

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It's it's weird. You have to
be hurting something. That depends on

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what kind of surface that you're doing. And I think I've seen them doing

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on concrete. And if they did
like a backflip or for it's like they're

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straight, it's not. They're not
bracing. So it's a flip without bracing

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themselves. Is wherever you land on. That's I think that's the way they

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call it death flop. And it's
the craziest thing to Yeah, they're doing

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it on purpose. This is like
one of those trends, you know how

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to at one point it was the
choking until you passed out another thing,

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it was something else that was kind
of crazy. And so I don't know

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if these are children. I think
some of them are teens. That might

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be older folks. But if you
can look look it up, I think

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it's called a death flop. But
they're not bracing, so they're landing,

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landing on their their their torsos without
embracing anything. That another trick of the

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devil. That is another trick of
the devil. And what it does is

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self imposed. It's self inflicting harm. They may not feel it now,

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but it can't come up. It
could be they could crack a rear and

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that chip piece can enlarge and cause
more damage. But then your mom and

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dad be trying to figure out,
well, what happened, or they may

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turn around and say, well,
you've been abusing this child when that has

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not been the case. So that's
another way the devil is trying to take

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our young children out. People,
please hear this and just heed to the

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warning, and children stop hurting yourselves. That ain't nothing but the trick of

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the devil. And it looks fun
to them, but it's not. It's

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deadly. It's really the one that
I saw in the snow. They cut

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it off as soon as the guy
had landed, so he lands face down

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in the snow, and when they
go to get him, it does it

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leads your hanging, so you don't
know if that person's alive or that,

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so it doesn't tell you the dangers
of it, but it has to because

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I know if you puncture a lung
or something like that with that impact,

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and so you google it, I
think it's called a death flop and I

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00:31:30.160 --> 00:31:33.720
look, I said, this is
craziness, and so I'm not for someone

408
00:31:33.799 --> 00:31:38.480
that's intentional. But they don't brace
themselves. It's a hard fall. It's

409
00:31:38.519 --> 00:31:47.400
whatever it can be. Because these
young people don't they need attention. For

410
00:31:47.440 --> 00:31:53.200
some strange reason, they're feeling like
the man or woman that raised them did

411
00:31:53.240 --> 00:32:00.400
not give them enough of the love
and the attention. I don't know what

412
00:32:00.400 --> 00:32:04.519
that is. It goes back,
it reminds and whether as you were describing

413
00:32:04.559 --> 00:32:08.079
it, all I can see is
they inflicting pain as if it's going to

414
00:32:08.119 --> 00:32:14.519
take away the depression, as if
it's going to take away the trauma.

415
00:32:15.920 --> 00:32:22.079
And the only way pain and trauma
lords itself or decreases, you've got to

416
00:32:22.119 --> 00:32:25.680
talk it out to somebody. You've
got to pray it out. Sometimes you

417
00:32:25.839 --> 00:32:30.759
have to pray your way out of
things. You need people that you could

418
00:32:30.799 --> 00:32:35.400
trust. They don't have people that
they could trust. They like doing dare

419
00:32:35.519 --> 00:32:39.240
devil things because they're getting attention.
Anything you can put on these social media

420
00:32:39.359 --> 00:32:43.680
platforms. You're getting attention, and
they're trying to get money. I know

421
00:32:43.680 --> 00:32:50.400
people out there selling their souls to
get likes, just to get likes,

422
00:32:50.519 --> 00:32:53.599
just to get that number up so
that YouTube can start paying them, so

423
00:32:53.640 --> 00:32:59.480
you can start having a subscription price
and all that kind of stuff. I'm

424
00:32:59.480 --> 00:33:04.440
telling you this is but this is
the way the world is supposed to go

425
00:33:04.960 --> 00:33:09.400
according to the Bible. We just
didn't know what it's gonna look like.

426
00:33:10.279 --> 00:33:14.480
We didn't know that mothers could be
against daughter in laws. We didn't know

427
00:33:14.680 --> 00:33:17.839
cousins could actually shoot each other and
hate each other, sons against their fathers.

428
00:33:17.839 --> 00:33:22.920
We didn't We didn't know men would
be become lovers of themselves. We

429
00:33:22.920 --> 00:33:25.160
didn't know what that was gonna look
like. To me, that's a narcissistic

430
00:33:25.200 --> 00:33:29.440
person. They love themselves. Well, no, it means other things too.

431
00:33:30.480 --> 00:33:34.119
Abortion is at an all time high. Now. We got the abortion

432
00:33:34.279 --> 00:33:37.440
pill. We got all kinds of
products out there, but they're ricocheting back

433
00:33:37.799 --> 00:33:42.759
on you. All this stuff were
taking, All the vitamins were taking,

434
00:33:42.759 --> 00:33:45.880
I mean vitamins are all the pharmaceuticals
were taken. All this stuff is wreaking

435
00:33:46.000 --> 00:33:52.359
havoc on our internal organs. I
just had an imaging done from my neck

436
00:33:52.440 --> 00:33:55.200
down to my pelvis, and I'm
like, where's someone this coming from?

437
00:33:55.359 --> 00:33:59.680
And I took I had I was
diagnosed with the kidney stones for be like

438
00:33:59.720 --> 00:34:01.799
four centimeters or something like that.
For a little little bit like I was

439
00:34:01.799 --> 00:34:05.640
supposed to be able to take something
and it's gonna break up. It broke

440
00:34:05.720 --> 00:34:07.880
up. The image picked it back
up, or say you've got a kidney

441
00:34:07.920 --> 00:34:14.920
stone. It's only two so it's
shrunk, but it ain't go away.

442
00:34:15.719 --> 00:34:20.199
It didn't go away, and things
don't go away. We can't just take

443
00:34:20.199 --> 00:34:22.880
a medicine. We can't the pharmacy, the pharmacy in publics with people just

444
00:34:23.000 --> 00:34:29.599
lined up. It's like and then
every time you go to the doctor that

445
00:34:29.679 --> 00:34:34.039
they find something else because it's the
stuff that you've taken that ricked having on

446
00:34:34.079 --> 00:34:37.800
your internal organs. And when Tommy
was talking about going back to the death

447
00:34:37.039 --> 00:34:42.360
flock, if you break a bone
and it's a splinter, like you know,

448
00:34:42.679 --> 00:34:45.760
you can cut your kidney, it
could cut your organs, it can

449
00:34:45.880 --> 00:34:51.320
pierce your lung. So what do
we do. We gotta pray for these

450
00:34:51.400 --> 00:34:54.119
kids. We gotta pray for these
young people. There's a movie star I

451
00:34:54.199 --> 00:34:59.280
forgot his name. His son.
He said it was an accidental overdose,

452
00:35:00.920 --> 00:35:05.079
and the young boy's dead. He's
dead, and he's like he's retiring from

453
00:35:05.320 --> 00:35:07.840
the actor himself said, I got
to leave acting. I gotta just stay

454
00:35:07.840 --> 00:35:12.280
with my wife because we got to
figure out how we can become a family,

455
00:35:12.519 --> 00:35:17.000
How what we do with a family
of three now, I you know,

456
00:35:17.239 --> 00:35:21.360
just just you know, just saying
so I was just thinking about it

457
00:35:21.400 --> 00:35:24.320
too, or wanted to kind of
squeeze this in. And you're saying that

458
00:35:24.400 --> 00:35:28.719
people are doing whatever to get likes
on social media, but they have to

459
00:35:28.719 --> 00:35:31.800
look at the other part too.
Sometimes you get likes, sometimes you get

460
00:35:31.800 --> 00:35:36.639
dislikes, and sometimes people can be
cruel. So you when you go into

461
00:35:36.679 --> 00:35:42.800
that wanting to get the likes,
please know that sometimes you will get dislikes

462
00:35:42.840 --> 00:35:45.719
and people can be cruel. So
you're gonna have to be able to kind

463
00:35:45.719 --> 00:35:52.920
of navigate and and realize what you
can to accept and what you can accept.

464
00:35:53.599 --> 00:35:57.400
And so if this, if you
don't like people, you know,

465
00:35:58.119 --> 00:36:00.800
commenting negative things, it's people going
to Sometimes people just mean just to be

466
00:36:00.920 --> 00:36:07.480
mean, and some people sometimes people
give you constructive criticism and sometimes people just

467
00:36:07.519 --> 00:36:10.360
criticize just to be criticized. And
so if you are not strong enough or

468
00:36:10.360 --> 00:36:15.679
you don't think you're strong enough to
accept the dislikes along with the likes,

469
00:36:15.840 --> 00:36:20.280
then you need to kind of rethink
this thing. You know, everybody wants

470
00:36:20.280 --> 00:36:23.559
to be popular, nobody wants to
be booed or disliked, but you do

471
00:36:23.679 --> 00:36:28.000
have people do that and and you
know, and I follow different pages and

472
00:36:28.039 --> 00:36:32.159
I see them, you know,
making comments of people, you know,

473
00:36:32.320 --> 00:36:35.599
saying this, that and the other
stuff, and I get it. You

474
00:36:35.599 --> 00:36:37.079
can you can, you know,
not block them, but you can't.

475
00:36:37.079 --> 00:36:42.079
I think you can block them.
But this comes with the territory, and

476
00:36:42.159 --> 00:36:47.280
so be be you know, be
prepared that people are going to comment negatively

477
00:36:49.039 --> 00:36:52.280
or not in the favor of what
you think you would want them to do.

478
00:36:52.039 --> 00:36:55.960
And so just just just just be
mindful of that because if that's going

479
00:36:57.039 --> 00:37:01.159
to be more stressful, then rethink
of what you go online. And as

480
00:37:01.199 --> 00:37:06.360
you're meeting with your family this week, especially the young people, and it

481
00:37:06.360 --> 00:37:09.599
could be the older people too.
There are people who are living amongst us

482
00:37:09.599 --> 00:37:22.000
that have unresolved issues, issues,
the unforgiven issues, unmentionable issues, things

483
00:37:22.000 --> 00:37:29.119
that are lodged in their subconscious,
just waiting to have its turn to press

484
00:37:29.199 --> 00:37:32.719
that person or to make that person
experienced little self esteem or be caught off

485
00:37:32.800 --> 00:37:37.920
guard, or whatever the case may
be. My daughter, thank god,

486
00:37:38.000 --> 00:37:42.280
she didn't call me. She went
to the Classic this weekend. But she

487
00:37:42.360 --> 00:37:46.119
was going for the food that the
vendors, the food vendors outside and she

488
00:37:46.400 --> 00:37:50.519
you know, had a little outfit
on. And thank god, she didn't

489
00:37:50.519 --> 00:37:52.960
tell me until she came home.
But she ended up. She's supposed to

490
00:37:52.960 --> 00:37:57.960
be meeting people, nobody comes,
nobody's keeping their word. So she parks

491
00:37:58.000 --> 00:38:05.559
way away from the Camping Worlds stadium
and she's walking by herself in the dark,

492
00:38:07.719 --> 00:38:10.280
and that she just told me the
other night. How things when she

493
00:38:10.360 --> 00:38:14.719
got back, and I knew why
she didn't call to say but she had

494
00:38:14.760 --> 00:38:16.960
somebody on the phone with her and
stuff like that. But the cat calling

495
00:38:19.280 --> 00:38:22.719
every car that had a man or
boy in it, Oh my god,

496
00:38:22.760 --> 00:38:25.400
you know, look just the things
they were saying to her. And she's

497
00:38:25.400 --> 00:38:28.119
like, no, I'm fine,
and she'll, you know, be on

498
00:38:28.159 --> 00:38:30.840
her phone just to try. And
she was walking fast and stuff. So

499
00:38:30.880 --> 00:38:34.920
she got to where she met with
the people and stuff. But I want

500
00:38:34.920 --> 00:38:37.000
to go to the serenity prayer.
I brought that up because I mean the

501
00:38:37.119 --> 00:38:40.159
nastiness when you were talking about the
cat car. I mean, you know,

502
00:38:40.400 --> 00:38:45.599
the people being bullying and being so
mean online and just saying anything,

503
00:38:46.599 --> 00:38:50.599
and some people cannot handle that.
But I wondered, the Lord told me

504
00:38:50.639 --> 00:38:53.880
to go to the serenity prayer.
And if you all are meeting with your

505
00:38:53.920 --> 00:38:59.559
families and stuff, and you may
get a sense that somebody's just not feeling

506
00:38:59.639 --> 00:39:05.599
good emotionally, listen, listen for
a minute, in between the bites,

507
00:39:05.679 --> 00:39:08.920
in between getting the stuffing, in
between cutting the turkey, just listen for

508
00:39:08.960 --> 00:39:14.760
a minute. Ask God to just
fine tune your ears so you could hear

509
00:39:15.280 --> 00:39:22.320
what you cannot hear. Here's the
serenity prayer. God grant me two.

510
00:39:22.679 --> 00:39:23.760
Okay, this is not a good
one. I don't like this one.

511
00:39:23.840 --> 00:39:27.440
Excuse me, guys, hang on
just a second. I'm sorry. I

512
00:39:27.480 --> 00:39:30.760
had one up here that didn't make
any sense. That makes no sense to

513
00:39:30.800 --> 00:39:36.360
me. Get off of there.
Okay, let me go back. The

514
00:39:36.360 --> 00:39:45.320
serenity prayer is a prayer that is
really It tells you exactly, It gives

515
00:39:45.320 --> 00:39:53.400
you some gives you direction and how
to pray and it's very simple. There's

516
00:39:53.400 --> 00:40:00.800
a two part piece, but the
basic is God, grant me the serenity

517
00:40:00.880 --> 00:40:06.400
to accept the things I cannot change. And we've talked about it on the

518
00:40:06.400 --> 00:40:10.760
show and we'll talk about it until
we sunset. Things. What can I

519
00:40:10.960 --> 00:40:19.039
change? You cannot change people once
they reach age two or three, depending

520
00:40:19.079 --> 00:40:22.920
on how involved you are. What
you see. If you don't stop it

521
00:40:23.000 --> 00:40:29.039
between before age three, that is
gonna it's gonna fester, It's gonna grow

522
00:40:29.159 --> 00:40:32.920
as part of that child, that's
part of that individual. And then you

523
00:40:32.960 --> 00:40:37.920
look at the environment. So grab
me the serenity, give me that peace

524
00:40:37.800 --> 00:40:43.519
to accept the things I cannot change. Even thank you talk, take you

525
00:40:43.639 --> 00:40:46.800
rebel, the courage to things,
to change the things that I can,

526
00:40:49.760 --> 00:40:52.320
because there are things you need to
change, things you need to change about

527
00:40:52.360 --> 00:40:55.920
yourself, things, the way you
need you think about things. It didn't

528
00:40:55.920 --> 00:41:00.440
work for you for twenty years,
so we were gonna change that. We

529
00:41:00.400 --> 00:41:06.440
were gonna change that because it's not
worked. And courage to change the things

530
00:41:06.760 --> 00:41:15.000
that I can, and the wisdom
to know the difference do I change this

531
00:41:15.000 --> 00:41:20.360
or I have nothing to do with
this, And that is what helped me

532
00:41:20.760 --> 00:41:24.400
even where I am today and how
I'm presenting myself today to be able to

533
00:41:24.440 --> 00:41:30.360
go back to that and say,
lord, I didn't start this. I

534
00:41:30.800 --> 00:41:35.920
told my kids that I didn't raise
you this way. So you coming back

535
00:41:35.960 --> 00:41:37.800
to me, you old, don't
ever have to come back to me and

536
00:41:37.800 --> 00:41:42.000
say, Mom, you didn't understand. Mom. You know you did this.

537
00:41:42.280 --> 00:41:45.000
Mom, you did. They did
a little piece of that because they

538
00:41:45.000 --> 00:41:47.719
said I was really strict. I
don't remember those days. I think I'm

539
00:41:47.719 --> 00:41:52.360
more strict now. They're all old. But they said, no, man,

540
00:41:52.440 --> 00:41:55.159
you were really strict. And basically
we didn't think we could come and

541
00:41:55.199 --> 00:41:59.159
talk to you. But now when
we come to talk, we run to

542
00:41:59.199 --> 00:42:01.440
talk to you now because we know
what you could tell us. We know.

543
00:42:01.639 --> 00:42:06.639
So I don't remember. But I'm
watching these shows, a catfish show.

544
00:42:06.920 --> 00:42:10.320
I'm watching all these reality shows and
they talk about their parent, they

545
00:42:10.320 --> 00:42:14.679
talk to their parent. You did
this to me. You don't know by

546
00:42:14.760 --> 00:42:19.599
you leaving me with my grandmother that
I felt abandoned. I have abandonment issues

547
00:42:19.599 --> 00:42:22.840
and you're forty five years old now. I mean just all of this stuff.

548
00:42:22.880 --> 00:42:24.159
But I'm not making light of it, guys, I'm not. But

549
00:42:24.280 --> 00:42:30.400
you got to when do we let
it go. When do we change?

550
00:42:30.480 --> 00:42:34.519
Where's the wisdom to know that?
Can I change? Now? If you've

551
00:42:34.559 --> 00:42:37.760
got a cousin you ain't spoke to
in thirty years and you know he's gonna

552
00:42:37.760 --> 00:42:45.079
show up at the family gathering on
Thursday, who's the bigger person? He's

553
00:42:45.079 --> 00:42:51.000
not lost any sleep because you're all
not talking. And even if you know

554
00:42:51.199 --> 00:42:55.000
there's a situation, I had to
let go another family member just hours before

555
00:42:55.039 --> 00:42:58.599
I got on the show. I
found out to say, you know what,

556
00:42:58.840 --> 00:43:02.480
I'm not gonna take this anymore.
I don't have to take this anymore.

557
00:43:02.840 --> 00:43:07.519
If you think you could go on
through life without touching bases, without

558
00:43:07.559 --> 00:43:12.760
even answer or responding to a text
that it was not my idea to sin,

559
00:43:13.119 --> 00:43:20.119
then you know what? Do you
move? And I'm good. I'm

560
00:43:20.159 --> 00:43:24.960
not doing Christmas exchanges this year,
already announced to the family. Let everybody

561
00:43:25.000 --> 00:43:30.159
know not doing it. It's too
much anxiety. It ain't nothing out there.

562
00:43:30.679 --> 00:43:36.880
I'm done. So wisdom to know
the difference what can I change and

563
00:43:36.880 --> 00:43:39.719
what can I not change? And
the biggest person, the biggest factor,

564
00:43:39.760 --> 00:43:45.000
the biggest denomination, the biggest common
denominator that you can't change is another human

565
00:43:45.079 --> 00:43:53.960
being unless they're under the age of
three. Even my dog, she just

566
00:43:54.079 --> 00:43:59.559
graduated in the advanced level of training, and she do whatever she want to

567
00:43:59.559 --> 00:44:04.519
do. We could train her and
tempt her with treats all we want to,

568
00:44:05.880 --> 00:44:07.760
but she gonna do exactly what she
wants to do. And guess what

569
00:44:07.840 --> 00:44:15.239
she's going on two years old.
She's an animal. She go where she

570
00:44:15.360 --> 00:44:17.119
want to go. She goes and
greet whoever she wants to greet. She'll

571
00:44:17.199 --> 00:44:21.679
bark it whoever she wants to bark. I don't care how much you try.

572
00:44:22.559 --> 00:44:27.159
Even an animal, you could train
so far, but thank god,

573
00:44:27.159 --> 00:44:30.360
when it was time for graduation,
she got with the trainer, she aced

574
00:44:30.400 --> 00:44:32.320
it. We were like, oh
God, Jesus, what this girl's gonna

575
00:44:32.320 --> 00:44:37.320
do. But going back to humans, you got to talk to this.

576
00:44:37.440 --> 00:44:40.199
Oh, let it go. If
you don't want to deal with it,

577
00:44:42.159 --> 00:44:45.880
don't bring it up again. That's
the other part, the wisdom to just

578
00:44:45.960 --> 00:44:49.079
wisdom on. No, you know
what, I don't need to say anything.

579
00:44:49.440 --> 00:44:52.760
I'm not gonna say anything. I
are and you know you can say

580
00:44:52.880 --> 00:44:55.199
but don't bring it up to me. I just told three people that over

581
00:44:55.239 --> 00:45:00.280
the last month. So since you're
gonna sit with this and you're not gonna

582
00:45:00.320 --> 00:45:06.480
resolve it. We got the resolution, we already got it, but you

583
00:45:06.880 --> 00:45:08.639
deciding to so you can't bring it
back to me anymore. If you don't

584
00:45:08.639 --> 00:45:14.039
mind, you find somebody else to
share it with. But I can't beat

585
00:45:14.039 --> 00:45:15.960
it. I can't hear it again. I cannot listen to this again.

586
00:45:16.480 --> 00:45:22.199
I see the hurt, I see
the denying. I see what the hell

587
00:45:22.000 --> 00:45:29.719
the hinderances that you're bringing on yourself
because you won't let go. And some

588
00:45:29.760 --> 00:45:32.320
people, when I'm counseling people,
I would ask them, how does that

589
00:45:32.360 --> 00:45:36.519
make you feel? I want to
get in touch with their feelings, not

590
00:45:36.639 --> 00:45:38.800
their knowledge, not what they were
told. How do you feel about that

591
00:45:38.840 --> 00:45:42.800
when you hear that person, when
you see that person, or when that

592
00:45:42.920 --> 00:45:45.920
dream comes back to you to haunt
you, how do you feel? Well?

593
00:45:45.960 --> 00:45:49.119
I'm mad? Well, okay,
what else will get you mad?

594
00:45:49.199 --> 00:45:52.840
Here we go? And when you
get mad, what do you do you

595
00:45:52.880 --> 00:45:54.519
sit on it? You steal on
it? Or do you act out?

596
00:45:54.760 --> 00:45:59.000
Or do you let it go?
Well? Normally I let it go?

597
00:45:59.079 --> 00:46:02.199
Okay, So why are you letting
this go? Here we go? Here

598
00:46:02.239 --> 00:46:06.400
we go, get into the trigger? Why? What is it that?

599
00:46:06.440 --> 00:46:09.119
Why you won't let this go,
and they have to look. They normally

600
00:46:09.159 --> 00:46:14.400
look back at me and say,
I don't know, miss greg And I

601
00:46:14.400 --> 00:46:19.840
said, this is where we start. Now, the counseling starts, and

602
00:46:19.880 --> 00:46:22.599
we're going to start it from here
at the next session. Why you won't

603
00:46:22.639 --> 00:46:29.400
let this go? A lot of
times, a lot of times they've infested

604
00:46:29.559 --> 00:46:35.039
so long they'd have forgot what was
that triggering, But they hold on to

605
00:46:35.199 --> 00:46:43.559
that emotion that you know, how
family have few so long, and they'd

606
00:46:43.559 --> 00:46:47.639
be like, well, what are
we arguing about? And then they have

607
00:46:47.719 --> 00:46:52.800
to turn around and laughing like,
I don't even remember, because it's not

608
00:46:53.000 --> 00:47:00.480
worth bickering and holding grudges. That's
what grudges do to you, Amen.

609
00:47:00.320 --> 00:47:07.320
It builds up that anger in you
to the point that you forget. But

610
00:47:07.480 --> 00:47:14.760
that grudge holds on, just that
emotion of bitterness or anger or mad or

611
00:47:14.800 --> 00:47:19.360
frustration or whatever. So every time
you see it, it rises up.

612
00:47:20.199 --> 00:47:23.760
But the problem you was arguing by
men so long ago, you don't even

613
00:47:23.800 --> 00:47:30.840
know what it is, don't even
remember it. So it is more healthier

614
00:47:30.360 --> 00:47:35.039
to, like you said, either
deal with it right then and let it

615
00:47:35.079 --> 00:47:44.119
go, or let it go and
let the emotion of it go. Sometimes

616
00:47:44.159 --> 00:47:49.119
it's either to walk away from it
then to try to deal with it and

617
00:47:49.159 --> 00:47:52.760
it frustrates you even more. Its
best to walk away from it. And

618
00:47:52.920 --> 00:47:57.880
parents, this is what you need
to be teaching your children how to handle

619
00:47:57.920 --> 00:48:01.519
the disappointment, how to handle people
that dislike the thumbs down, since that's

620
00:48:01.599 --> 00:48:06.679
where they govern their world at right
now, that's the atmosphere they're in.

621
00:48:07.119 --> 00:48:08.239
And I know we got one more
minute, less than a minute here,

622
00:48:08.280 --> 00:48:14.320
so we're gonna we're gonna sign off
at this point. But just happy Thanksgiving

623
00:48:14.320 --> 00:48:19.800
to everybody. Please be safe if
you're traveling and as you're going into the

624
00:48:19.880 --> 00:48:24.039
lions, then so to speak,
set the record straight, set the record

625
00:48:24.039 --> 00:48:30.559
straight, or let it go.
Let it go, and that means you

626
00:48:30.639 --> 00:48:35.960
have to forgive and forget. Say
do you country see God bless you guys.

627
00:48:36.199 --> 00:48:37.760
We'll see see you. Temmy,
you want to say something, I'm

628
00:48:37.760 --> 00:48:43.199
sorry. I just want to say, enjoy and have a great Thanksgiving.

629
00:48:43.679 --> 00:48:47.320
Happy Thanksgiving everybody. We'll see you
next week, same time, same station,

630
00:48:47.639 --> 00:48:49.679
Night Night n