Aug. 5, 2024

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Well, good evening, good evening, and welcome to setting it

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straight with miss Gray. Thank you for joining us this evening.

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This is the most talked about podcast in the whole

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world and in the Galactica. Okay, if they got WiFi

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out there on Mars and being us and Pluto, oh Pluto,

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they took that back. But anyway, all those other planets

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out there, you know we're on it, and we're just

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so thankful. Let's pray. Father, We just thank you, we

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praise you, we give you glory, for you alone are

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worthy to be praised. Lord, Just be with us tonight,

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be with your people in this world, Father, God, your

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chosen Father God, please be with your people. Chaos is rampant,

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chaos is at an all timehime. You warned us. We've

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been warning, warning, We've been warning for years that this

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day would come, this season would come. Now, be with

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your people, Be with your chosen direct us, guide us.

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We don't deserve your mercy, We don't deserve your peace.

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We don't deserve your unconditional love, but you give it

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to us freely because Jesus was nailed to the cross

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for our benefit. For this, we thank you. We can't

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even thank you enough. There's not enough tones in this

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world that could thank you enough. But we are thanking you,

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and we're standing in the need of prayer, Father God.

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The families, Father God, the merciless killings that are happening,

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and executions that are happening. Father God, these babies getting

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lost three and four years old, wandering. I don't know

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how they're wandering away from their caregiver or whoever's supposed

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to be watching them, and they're just being found dead

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in retention ponds and ponds and puddles and oh and

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lakes and things like that. Lord, have mercy, have mercy,

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Please have mercy. We thank you. Father, I'm not as usual.

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This is your show, this is your podcast, this is

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your program. We're your children. We're getting behind the cross.

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We're gonna let you take the need on this and

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do what you do, so effortlessly and so seamlessly. Set

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your captives free, your chosen captives, set them free in

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Jesus naming break. Amen and amen and amen and amen

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and amen. Amen. So welcome, Welcome, welcome, welcome. Before we

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get started, we got a couple of announcements. First is

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the Royalty Harvest Academy Childcare Center here in Orlando will

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actually went apart, but here in Orlando, Florida, is having

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their open house and free registration for children ages six

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weeks to twelve years. They're offering preschool VPK, before and

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after school programming with transportation. You don't hear that. You

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don't ever hear that with transportation. This coming Saturday, August tenth,

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from twelve to four, they're gonna be at seventy five

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oh seven along my Avenue and went apart. Bring your

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kids out, bring the family out. They're offering some fun,

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some educational opportunities and activities and snacks. Here we go.

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That's number two of you. People ain't gonna try to

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feed you out. People ain't gonna feed you. Well, they're

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gonna feed you this coming Saturday. So come on out

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and please and have fun. And if you have any

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inform any questions, look them up on Facebook under Royalty

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Harvest Academy. Amen and amen. And I know you heard

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me in the prayer talk about these babies three and

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four year olds that are walking out from a guardian

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or a caregiver, the eyesight of somebody who's supposed to

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be looking out for them and being found dead later.

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I don't understand this, to save my life. And now

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it's weekly, weekly, daily, I'm getting child alerts between here

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and Virginia. We're getting child alerts. Please look out for

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these children, these young people, young adults. Even I don't

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I don't understand this. I don't understand this. But the

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devil is nasty. The devil is busy. And guess well,

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let me tell you all something here. When I when

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I say to somebody, how you doing, well, you know

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the devil is busy.

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Well, yeah, I know.

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That that's his job. What are you doing? That's what

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I want to hear. What are you doing? I'm in

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the fight. I'm in for the fight. If you're if

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you are a child of God, you're in for the fight.

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So you don't have to keep telling me. The devil

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is busy. That's a no brainer. That's his job. He

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is very much. Uh, he's he's scared because he Jesus

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is about to take him out. And if you not

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read it, it's in revelations, Jesus will subdue him and

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lock him away for a minute, for a minute. That's

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why you need to study your word. I have somebody

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attack me on Facebook. I just made the comment. I

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was responding and all I said was if you study

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your word, you'll know the answers. And this person came

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back talking about you know, people insinuating people don't study

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their word, and I'm like, I didn't say that, so

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I can't even make a comment on Facebook me. And

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then when I challenged him, hey, you go study because

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he wants me to tell it, tell me, tell him

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where the scriptures are. No, you go study the same

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Bible you say you've been studying, and then give me

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a call. We can talk that. Oh no, no, no,

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I see that this is where this is over. You know,

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there's no more interaction between you and I. You be

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blessed man. Well, first of all, you can't bless me.

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You can't if you have evil in your heart. You

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talk about somebody lying and cheating to you or on

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you or whatever, or you got that bad side and

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it will come out and everything. No, sir, you can't

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bless me. But I did tell him to stay safe.

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So I'm just saying that. You know, I don't know

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who what. I don't understand it. I don't know the why.

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I don't know why. But these babies three and four

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years old, they're barely walking. They have the capability to

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walk out of somebody's yard and to keep walking. Nobody

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sees them walking, nobody seeing them do this, And next

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thing you know, twenty four hours later, forty eight hours later,

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we're finding them face down in a lake. I don't

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understand that. And yet you want to make marijuana legal,

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you want to make you want to make an altering

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mental issue a drug. As far as i'm decert it's

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a lethal weapon, because I'm sure you're in the house

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doing whatever, or you done fell asleep. My brother suffered

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from alcoholism. If he stopped and sat down, he would

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fall asleep right there. People thought he were was dead.

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He drank from the moment he got up to the

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moment he actually would stop and fall asleep. They've left

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him in clubs, they've left him in locked cars. My

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own husband, my deceased husband, said that he was at

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his pooties and he just happened to come in early

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and smoke bellowing out of the sliding glass door because

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Bobby's sleeping. He's cooking French fries on the stove. That

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the pot's on fire. So you want to make all

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this stuff legal. You already see people can't handle stuff.

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They can't handle it. I watched these this these you know,

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uh uh real life talk shows and stuff and and

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and they all say, you know, you don't you don't

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need to be drinking. And as they grabbing another glass

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and they cuts and they fall out, and that's reality TV.

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That's what we were hooked. We're like watching it. We

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know you shouldn't be drinking. You don't know how to

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handle alcohol. You binge eat overeat, you know your emotional eater.

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We see it and we warn you and you're aware

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of it, but yeah, you don't do anything about it

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to stop it. So tonight we're checking in with our folks.

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You know, we gave you some homework. Tonight we want

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to check in see how things are going. I see

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they haven't popped up yet. Don't let me start calling

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out names. Now, well I can tell you for me.

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I think I shared it last week. My biggest one was,

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you know, not having the road rage inside my car

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and I have tinted windows so you can't see what

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I'm doing. But I'm doing all this and hoping that

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you don't hit me. So I was to smile. Got

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you see. My two things are I don't like my

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procrastination and boredom. Yes, country see, yes, yes, George, Oh

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my god, George is here. I did this. I don't

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like my bad habit and my lack of communication. Good

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for you, misty, Oh wow, y'all coming through here. I

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think my answers. I don't like my hesitation and my

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naive tad. Okay, okay, all right, So then you've got

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some homework to do. What do you feel that you

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know you're naive in You don't have to answer me,

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but this is your homework. This is the next step. Now, Okay,

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you've identified it, So what we're gonna do about it. Well,

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for some of you, you have to do some investigating.

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You got to do some research. What is it that

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I'm naive in? What is that I don't know? Not

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that somebody has said to you, oh, you know, you're

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just naive, not that whatever you feel that you're naive in. Okay,

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So that's gonna be the next round of this. You

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find out, Okay, what is it that I'm naive in,

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and then do some historical research on it. Maybe it's history,

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maybe it's you know, how did our country come into being.

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I was just telling somebody earlier today that Republican, the

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Republican party from old was the first that originated, not democracy,

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not the democratic, not the democrats, the Republican, the Republican

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state of order and whatever that was back in the day,

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pre historic time. But it wasn't Democratics came up later,

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you know. So and that person was like, oh my god,

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I didn't know that. Well when I found out about it,

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just maybe a year or two ago. I didn't know

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because politics is not my thing. History is not my thing.

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But it was good to know because here it is

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two years later, fast forward, I'll be telling somebody else

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and telling you, guys, okay, so you see put yours

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back up again. You procrastination and bored them. Okay, now

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this is good because I didn't realize I was bored.

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So I had to go back and I was like, God, please,

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you got to help me. Why am I walking out

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of meetings and stuff? Why am I like trying to

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hang up on somebody and say, okay, well we'll talk later,

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he said, because you're bored. I'm like, oh okay. So

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I found out I had to pray. Really I did

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a little fast with it too, because I had to

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go a little deeper than just praying. I had to

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deny myself some food, and I was, okay, why am

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I bored? Why am I bored? Because I found out

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that I love change. I'm a change agent, so this

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is who I am. And if I'm at a meeting

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or I'm involved in a group or whatever and they're

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not changing, I get bored. And I realized my energy

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is not worth you know, I'm not needed here anymore

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because y'all like to keep repeating yourself. And six months

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later and a year later, and we've got people out

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here in this community hurting and whatever. They came so

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in your church hurting and they need you to be

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broader in your mindset. Jesus was broad. He walked and

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all of a sudden he's passing by the temple. The

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man outside the well, he said, pick up your your cloth,

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your you know, and walk, or put yourself in the well.

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You want to get in there and put yourself in there.

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Jesus was just walking and sometimes he had some destinations.

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He was pointed at, you know, he had to show

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up at Lazarreuth Lazarre. Mary Marta said, word, he's sick.

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We need you to come along. Jesus was walking in

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the right direction. And then when he finally got there,

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and everybody's like, well, you should have been here. What's

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wrong with your This is your boy, this is your

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home boy. He was sick. We sent the basket, We

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set the picture, We said the mule. What's going on.

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Jesus is like, okay, what are we talking about? You

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talk about last Lazareid. Come forward. They're like, oh, oh, Jesus,

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And all of a sudden, the roll the stone was

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rolled away and here comes last week. Didn't even smell,

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and he said, you better give him something to eat,

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it's hungry. Come on now, come on Jesus so procrastination

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and boredom. So, yeah, find out what you're bored at country.

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See bake that list that same wherever you've made this list,

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all right, put it in a different color ink and say, okay,

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I am bored with this, I'm bored with that, and

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I'm bored with this. Make that column. Then the next

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column is how are you gonna change it? What are

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you gonna do to change it? What are you willing

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to do to change because boredom is gonna stick around

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for a minute. If anything, like me, I just can't

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go to another meeting and you're talking about the same thing.

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I can't do it.

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I can't.

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I can't. I can't. Even my spiritual sons and daughters

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will tell you if they gonna bring up something to

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get them, like, you know, we talked about this before, right,

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you know, And they're like, I know, and you don't

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want to talk about no, but you haven't resolved it.

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So that tells me you're stuck on purpose and there's

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nothing I can do. This is a boring then here

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we go boring relationship. Now there's nothing fun anymore because

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if you're changing.

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We're discovering new things, and we're like yeah, and you're

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growing and you're getting better and you're looking better, your

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sounding better, your thoughts are clearer because you decided to

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what shame.

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Change? Who was Missy? What was the other one?

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I know?

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Naivete mister think hesitation. Okay, thank you. Okay, So now

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we got to I think the hesitation. You're gonna have

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to go back for just a minute and go back

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into your childhood because usually if somebody as an adult hesitates,

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they were stopped back in the day when they were younger.

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Maybe somebody said the uncle said, well, you know, why

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are you talking? You're always talking? You know, you don't

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you don't even know what you're talking about. I don't know.

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So you just get in that quiet place, everybody, George too,

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y'all get in that quiet place, and you pray. You

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put this out and say, Okay, I've identified some things

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I don't like. I've identified some things I know I

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can change, but I may not know how to change.

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But I'm willing to try because I don't like this

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attached to me. Okay, but I think Misty is gonna

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take you back to your childhood, because I've had one

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of those uncles that every time he saw me every

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Sunday after we went to church, they would come over.

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And they didn't go to church, but they came over.

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And this is my mom's brother, Uncle Fred, and he said,

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you know, every time I see you, you keep getting bigger,

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and I'm looking like sir. So I was raised you

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don't talk back to your adults. You don't talk back

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as yes ma'am, no, ma'am yes, sir no, sir. I

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was raised that way, so I'm like man, and it

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would hurt my feelings because my parents would just ignore it.

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And I'm not getting I wasn't getting wider or anything.

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I'm getting older. So he's coming over. So here it is.

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I'm seventeen, graduated from high school. A friend of mine

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in the neighborhood came over and here comes Uncle Fred

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and a zena, And sure enough, Uncle Fred said, you know,

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every time I see you getting bigger, I said, well,

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at least I graduated from high school. And I would

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get up. He was trying to get up off the couch.

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He had nine children. I think one too, graduated from

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high school. But I was moving out of his way,

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so he wouldn't. I don't know if he was gonna

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hit me or what. But he was trying to get

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off the couch and I was moving. I was going

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real fast. I went straight out the front door. He

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never said that to me again. He never said that

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to me. So that hesitation some I think an adult

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stumped that and tried to stop you from voicing your

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opinion and how you're feeling. So pray about that. Put

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it on the altar and say you have to go

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back a little bit, you know, And anytime you guys

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need me, you know, here's my number three five two,

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eight hundred and sixty seven three nine. You could give

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me a call if you if you want to, if

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we can take this off the air, you can give

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me a call. It's confidential. I'm not gonna say. Next week,

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Misty and George called me. I love confidentiality. It's about

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this thing, okay for Florida. I'm just that way. I

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will I will hold it okay. So uh and George,

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I really have no reason to be bored. There's so

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much to do I can get I can't. I just

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can't get the motivation at times or do anything on

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my days, off or after work. Okay, now see country Sea.

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You know you expanded it.

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Now.

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Okay, you're like motivation and boredom. Okay, that's those are

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two opposites, but they run together. What does motivate you?

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What does motivate you? Maybe whatever it is, You've got

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to do smaller things I have, you know, my you know,

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I have an area where all my Amazon boxes get

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stacked up sometimes and I'll look at it and say, huh,

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I gotta I gotta tackle that, even though I don't

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entertain anybody coming over to my house. But that's beginning

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to bother me now. So when it starts to bother me,

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I grab a box, open it up, and get it

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the items where they need to go. But I take

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it slow. I take it one step at a time.

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I am not that type of person. That's another thing too, Guys,

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find out what type of person you're not. I'm not

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that type of person that sit there and say, oh,

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I'm gonna make a list of things to do today

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other than going to doctor's appointments or the grocery store

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or the movies. I'm spontaneous most of the time, and

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I like that freedom. So it's like Okay, I gotta

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go to the doctors in the morning. But oh my god,

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the movie starts at twelve thirty five. I could go

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see that by myself. Yes, you know, but you have

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to start off in a little small increamase whatever it is,

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because maybe it don't need to change. Let us sit there,

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but if it's bothering you, you have to look at

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it and say, no, how I'm gonna conquer this because

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I need to conquer this now because I'm now I'm

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tired of it, and you get bored with you se

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it and you know you got to make that. So Trey,

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come on and hop in here now.

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And yeah, yeah, yeah, I was. I was.

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I was liking all of this, and I'm thinking, okay, okay,

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I'm a little bit of this, and I did the assignment.

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I don't know my bad.

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Yeah, so, Charles, I'm sorry, Charles. Lack of communication Now,

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I think that goes back to your childhood. Somebody told

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you to hush and be quiet, or just be quiet.

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You stand over there and you just be quiet, or

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the teacher readed you out and said he just talks

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all the time. I mean, he finishes his work early,

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but then he disturbs the other student. Maybe you weren't that,

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but somewhere back in childhood somebody told you you talking

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too much. I was at a funeral and my biological grandmother's,

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like I was told, I was asked to speak. I

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was the only from the family asked to speak. She said,

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oh Lord, she gonna talk, and the pastor had them

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pastor the ministers, and then it was as the Payan church.

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The priest said, well, I think she's gonna leave me

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anything to say. And I wasn't up law. It was

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just like, get your life together? Who you fooling? Because

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funerals are for the living and low and behold. When

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my grandmother died, I'm asked by the family to speak

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for the family. Here's a woman and said, oh God,

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she's gonna speak. And as she closes her eyes, I'm

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asked to speak. And I talked about love and by

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her in my relationship. So what I need to know,

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Charles's what is it that you? Who is is it

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a who is it? Who you're not? Who you're not?

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Who are you afraid to talk to? Who are you

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afraid to or who are you hesitant when speaking in

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front of Is it is it a job situation or

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is it a family situation or where you got to

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tell somebody really, you know what, I can't do this anymore.

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I can't be that anymore. I can't help you anymore.

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So you can think about that and then you know,

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like I said, give me a call or you know,

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if you want to share a little bit more. But

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you know, you've got to realize what you don't like.

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You see, I overthink things too much and believe too

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much in what people could be when they aren't okay,

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and then misdeed they give you a big secret. You've

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got the spiritual gift of seeing folks potential. That's a

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spiritual gift. You got the gift to see the potential.

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You see the good side, the best side of a person.

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And yes, many will not see that. You cannot convince them.

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What could help is because I've been through that with

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my first marriage, you could do everything you can to

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assist the person, okay and say here, here's this. All

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you have to do is do this.

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Nah.

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You know it ain't for me. Nah, No, but you

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can go do it. No, No, this is this is

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not for me, This is for you. But I'm going

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to leave this right here and you can access it

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any time. But also we can't talk about it anymore.

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I see your potential. I see you have the potential

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to do this. You're gifted to do this. You you

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you help so many people. But if you can't see it,

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I can't bring you. I could bring you to the water,

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but I can't make you drink. I can't make you drink.

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And this is exhausting me. Now, mister, I don't know

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if you that type of young lady that you know

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could be a little you know, if you've got a

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gift of humor, a sense of humor, because my humor

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has gotten me in and out of things people don't

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even they don't even see be coming, and they just like,

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oh you so far. But I'm really I'm really being

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honest with you. Yes, that that is the case. I

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try to get people where they could be and it

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hurts what I can't make them drink. Well, then I

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need to take that responsibility from you, because all you

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can do is do your best. If God is prompting

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you present this to this person one time, so I

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think that won't help you. You do it one time,

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if you if they don't do it and give them

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a dead line. Say you know what, I'm gonna give

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you to You know, I see the number three. I'm

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gonna give you three days. I'll give you, yeah, three days.

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And if you don't do it by then we don't

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have to talk about it anymore. I won't bring it up.

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Then you take it to God, say God, I try,

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I try, but they won't listen. So I'm gonna leave

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them to you. So your shoulders a little bit bigger.

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That'll help.

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I hope that'll help. Just try it. Just take baby

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steps of this, because this is huge for y'all to

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sit and to think about this and at least come

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up with the two things. So now we're gonna walk

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it out. We gotta figure out where it came from.

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Once we figured that out, we can forgive those people.

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That's another that's another step forgiving and forgetting. You can

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forgive those people. And now say, okay, Lord, I've lifted

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off two things off my shoulders, off my plate. Give

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it to me. Where do where do I belong?

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Now?

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Where do I need to go?

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Now?

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Questions?

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Guys?

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Talk to us, Trey, come.

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On in now, Okay, So I think and so I

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was looking at the comments and uh so mine might

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be a few, a little bit of this and some

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other stuff, so I know the procrastination. It said, sometimes

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they need a little reminder.

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I need to let them be after I love. Yeah,

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they don't need a miss.

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They may stop you right there. They don't need a

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little reminder. You've been saying this to at least two

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or three times the same person. They don't need no reminder.

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They just want to drain you. They want you to

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feel sorry for Then you don't realize we went out

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to look, you asked me at the lunch, but now

456
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I'm paying for lunch, you know, because they look got

457
00:26:00.960 --> 00:26:06.000
you distracted? No girlfriend, I forbid you after twice, no,

458
00:26:06.160 --> 00:26:10.400
after one time? Mentioning something to somebody and they don't

459
00:26:10.400 --> 00:26:16.480
do it done. It's a wash. It's a wash, and

460
00:26:16.519 --> 00:26:20.799
it's okay. It's okay because it's what. There are plenty

461
00:26:20.799 --> 00:26:23.440
of people out there, tell me my potential, and then

462
00:26:23.480 --> 00:26:26.720
you gotta tell them how do I get there? Well,

463
00:26:26.799 --> 00:26:28.839
you're a writer, you like to write, you like to

464
00:26:28.880 --> 00:26:32.240
take pictures. Go get you a nice camera, not those

465
00:26:32.240 --> 00:26:35.039
paper throw away cameras. Go get you a nice camera

466
00:26:35.079 --> 00:26:37.920
when it's on sale, and go to the find out

467
00:26:37.920 --> 00:26:41.200
where the butterflies are and then write a blog on it,

468
00:26:41.240 --> 00:26:44.119
but show your real time pictures and if anybody takes

469
00:26:44.160 --> 00:26:46.880
your picture, you charge them twenty five dollars. There, I

470
00:26:46.920 --> 00:26:51.440
got another stream of income for you. Go ahead trade.

471
00:26:52.160 --> 00:26:55.000
Yeah, So I think with mind the procrastination part.

472
00:26:55.559 --> 00:26:57.640
I'm trying to work on getting a little better of

473
00:26:57.680 --> 00:27:01.079
that with some things, because I know you've been pushing

474
00:27:01.079 --> 00:27:06.720
me for But it's coming, Lisha, It's coming. So I'm excited,

475
00:27:06.880 --> 00:27:11.359
you know, with some things last weekend, So hopefully the

476
00:27:11.400 --> 00:27:13.759
next few weeks or so, I have some good news

477
00:27:15.680 --> 00:27:18.240
and so I'm looking forward to that. So it's baby

478
00:27:18.240 --> 00:27:21.240
stepped because I had to. Like I said, I'm in

479
00:27:21.319 --> 00:27:22.519
the I'm in the process.

480
00:27:22.640 --> 00:27:26.480
I'm in the movement. I'm in the faith right now,

481
00:27:26.559 --> 00:27:26.920
and so.

482
00:27:29.519 --> 00:27:32.279
Last couple last year or so in the faith, and

483
00:27:32.359 --> 00:27:34.880
so I'm moving a lot differently than.

484
00:27:34.720 --> 00:27:38.400
I was before. And it feels good. So for those

485
00:27:38.480 --> 00:27:42.960
who don't realize, you know, just trust God, and you know,

486
00:27:43.079 --> 00:27:45.720
study your word, read your word, even a little bit

487
00:27:45.759 --> 00:27:46.279
at a time.

488
00:27:47.319 --> 00:27:50.119
I read Proverbs in the morning and I read Toms

489
00:27:50.160 --> 00:27:54.599
at night. One you know, every day, and so thirty

490
00:27:54.680 --> 00:27:56.839
days or thirty one days, so I'll read it.

491
00:27:56.839 --> 00:27:59.440
Up to that and just so I can become familiar

492
00:27:59.480 --> 00:28:03.279
with it. And so my walk is a little different.

493
00:28:03.480 --> 00:28:06.240
And so those people that haven't seen me a while

494
00:28:06.319 --> 00:28:08.720
or haven't been around me in a while, I think

495
00:28:08.759 --> 00:28:12.279
when they see me the next time, it's going to

496
00:28:12.319 --> 00:28:16.400
be noticeable because I notice it within myself. I feel

497
00:28:16.440 --> 00:28:19.599
the change. So, you know, stay prayer for, stay hopeful.

498
00:28:19.799 --> 00:28:23.599
And the other thing is I've been told that I

499
00:28:23.680 --> 00:28:26.359
need to guard my heart and so and I think

500
00:28:26.400 --> 00:28:27.640
it was one of the persons.

501
00:28:27.839 --> 00:28:30.960
I'm not sure which one, but I too like to

502
00:28:30.960 --> 00:28:31.519
give people.

503
00:28:32.319 --> 00:28:35.119
You know, if I see a gift, you know, I said, well, look,

504
00:28:35.880 --> 00:28:37.960
I don't necessarily say the Lord laid it on me.

505
00:28:38.039 --> 00:28:40.000
I just said, look, I see you doing this, and

506
00:28:40.039 --> 00:28:41.960
I know, Lisa, that's your gift. The Lord tell me,

507
00:28:41.960 --> 00:28:43.200
you'll tell me quick trade.

508
00:28:43.200 --> 00:28:44.279
The Lord told me to do this.

509
00:28:44.640 --> 00:28:46.680
Tol'd you do that. I'm just gonna tell you. I said,

510
00:28:46.680 --> 00:28:49.039
I got it, Lisia, I got it. And so everything

511
00:28:49.039 --> 00:28:52.119
you're telling me, I'm listening. I'm moving towards it. You

512
00:28:52.240 --> 00:28:54.160
want to see you That list is going to be shorter.

513
00:28:54.920 --> 00:28:58.440
But I'm feeling like i'm coming to the light now.

514
00:28:58.559 --> 00:29:03.359
So I'm not where I was before, you know, greed,

515
00:29:03.960 --> 00:29:06.640
but I'm better than I was after it. And so

516
00:29:07.200 --> 00:29:10.720
I'm feeling myself being that, you know, the light being

517
00:29:10.759 --> 00:29:11.480
able to shine.

518
00:29:11.599 --> 00:29:13.279
So I'm very hopeful.

519
00:29:13.519 --> 00:29:16.680
And so when I say that too, sometimes people can,

520
00:29:17.680 --> 00:29:20.119
like you said, draining. So I've learned to walk away.

521
00:29:20.119 --> 00:29:23.400
But I need to watch my face expression because I

522
00:29:23.440 --> 00:29:26.640
think I respond. I respond and people say, well, what's wrong?

523
00:29:27.279 --> 00:29:29.680
Nothing is wrong? They say, you say nothing's wrong, but

524
00:29:29.759 --> 00:29:32.279
that face, and said, I need to see my face

525
00:29:32.279 --> 00:29:35.400
because I don't see it, you know, and I try

526
00:29:35.440 --> 00:29:38.039
not to because you could say it. You know, in

527
00:29:38.039 --> 00:29:40.920
the mental health field, you could say that something's wrong

528
00:29:41.000 --> 00:29:44.200
so much that something becomes wrong. You can say, you know,

529
00:29:44.279 --> 00:29:46.160
I feel that everything can be an issue.

530
00:29:46.240 --> 00:29:48.599
So I try to say no, I'm good, and if

531
00:29:48.640 --> 00:29:51.720
it's not where I am good, I will talk with someone.

532
00:29:51.839 --> 00:29:57.680
You know. It sounds like a lot of progress, yes,

533
00:29:57.839 --> 00:29:59.880
but if you work.

534
00:29:59.680 --> 00:30:02.720
At it once. That's why we're giving your homework and

535
00:30:02.920 --> 00:30:06.200
thank you all for being so obedient and walking through it.

536
00:30:06.200 --> 00:30:09.160
It's hard now and I'm gonna tell you why in

537
00:30:09.160 --> 00:30:10.799
a minute, but go ahead, trade finish up.

538
00:30:10.920 --> 00:30:13.279
I mean no, no, No, I'm pretty much.

539
00:30:13.559 --> 00:30:16.079
No, I'm pretty much, but the guarding my heart because

540
00:30:16.079 --> 00:30:18.160
I can't sometimes I have to.

541
00:30:18.240 --> 00:30:21.319
When people say things, it's like I just.

542
00:30:21.359 --> 00:30:23.240
Say that, you know what I mean, But I have

543
00:30:23.359 --> 00:30:26.519
to back away and say, Okay, that's that's your stuff.

544
00:30:26.720 --> 00:30:28.359
You know, that's what you got going on.

545
00:30:28.839 --> 00:30:31.240
And if you can't convince somebody, you know my my

546
00:30:31.319 --> 00:30:33.839
parents convince a fool against his will and get the

547
00:30:33.880 --> 00:30:34.519
same opinion.

548
00:30:34.559 --> 00:30:36.720
Still, so you have to learn to let it go.

549
00:30:37.880 --> 00:30:40.480
T shirt now, somebody to put that on a T shirt?

550
00:30:41.799 --> 00:30:45.960
Okay, yes, yes, and so and that's where I am.

551
00:30:46.000 --> 00:30:48.359
But I'm telling you that there's a lot more joy

552
00:30:48.440 --> 00:30:50.039
in my heart. And and.

553
00:30:52.039 --> 00:30:54.119
Like I said, I'm not saying that's not days that

554
00:30:54.200 --> 00:30:57.480
the harder, but I'm noticing.

555
00:30:56.960 --> 00:30:59.680
A difference in me. And if others just don't notice,

556
00:30:59.720 --> 00:31:02.440
they don't don't have to, but I know this, and

557
00:31:02.519 --> 00:31:03.880
so eventually they will.

558
00:31:04.480 --> 00:31:07.279
I notice, you don't do this anymore, you don't say

559
00:31:07.319 --> 00:31:07.960
that anymore.

560
00:31:08.680 --> 00:31:10.880
I know that you'll walk a little differently because I

561
00:31:10.960 --> 00:31:12.400
have to amen.

562
00:31:12.680 --> 00:31:15.839
Amen, Well, when you're a caregiver and when you're a

563
00:31:15.880 --> 00:31:19.079
social worker, when you're in the social service field, we

564
00:31:19.319 --> 00:31:22.079
really care for our clients. We really, I mean, they

565
00:31:22.119 --> 00:31:24.480
may get on our nerves and they may be you know,

566
00:31:24.759 --> 00:31:27.279
you know, are hard headed and not trying mine are

567
00:31:27.319 --> 00:31:29.720
taking on okay, mickey, mind taking on too much and

568
00:31:29.759 --> 00:31:32.279
wanted things to go my way. Now I'm Mickey. Now

569
00:31:32.359 --> 00:31:35.920
I'm Mickey. We'll be on here all night. Now going

570
00:31:36.000 --> 00:31:41.079
your way, Okay, Mickey, we're gonna talk about that. But

571
00:31:41.720 --> 00:31:44.440
a lot of us that's in the social service field,

572
00:31:44.880 --> 00:31:49.400
case management, therapy, a therapist. We care for our people.

573
00:31:49.799 --> 00:31:53.319
We see where they need to go. We always know

574
00:31:53.440 --> 00:31:55.720
that there's a better side to this. No matter what

575
00:31:55.759 --> 00:31:59.799
the issue is that you present to us, we're already thinking, Okay,

576
00:31:59.839 --> 00:32:01.119
they can do this, they can do this, I can

577
00:32:01.160 --> 00:32:03.319
contact this, and they could, you know, but you got

578
00:32:03.319 --> 00:32:06.920
to hear you got to hear them out because sometimes

579
00:32:06.920 --> 00:32:11.119
they'll tell you I don't want to change. I know

580
00:32:11.480 --> 00:32:15.599
what I'm saying, but I'm not gonna change. So that's

581
00:32:15.599 --> 00:32:18.960
a whole different flow that stops the session for me,

582
00:32:19.440 --> 00:32:21.680
not my way for me, the thing I think that

583
00:32:21.759 --> 00:32:23.680
would be better for them. I got you, making I

584
00:32:23.720 --> 00:32:27.720
got you, so, I got you. Got to hear the

585
00:32:27.759 --> 00:32:29.839
whole thing, Just like with this just like with countries,

586
00:32:29.839 --> 00:32:32.119
see saying yeah, but you know, I get bored with

587
00:32:32.200 --> 00:32:34.279
some things. You know, I got to hear the whole

588
00:32:34.279 --> 00:32:38.559
thing out. But we are already got a whole seven

589
00:32:38.599 --> 00:32:41.759
steps for you to go and six referrals and everything else,

590
00:32:41.759 --> 00:32:45.240
because that's how we're trained to be. We're trained to

591
00:32:45.359 --> 00:32:49.920
do that. So you all, I know, I don't even

592
00:32:50.000 --> 00:32:51.880
have to talk. I don't even have to hear your voice.

593
00:32:51.920 --> 00:32:55.920
I already know the five of you guys are warm hearted,

594
00:32:56.880 --> 00:33:01.880
giving people. Six with tray, seven with rebel. Y'all are

595
00:33:02.160 --> 00:33:05.119
just giving people. And you just given, you give, and

596
00:33:05.119 --> 00:33:06.960
then you're like, wait a minute, I gotta pay my jails.

597
00:33:07.240 --> 00:33:10.880
What happened? Oh shoot the water bill man, I just

598
00:33:10.960 --> 00:33:13.079
gave it li And then you don't have anybody that

599
00:33:13.279 --> 00:33:15.799
you can depend on that can help you out of

600
00:33:15.839 --> 00:33:20.599
a lurch. That's what gets me because I'm like, well, okay,

601
00:33:20.599 --> 00:33:24.880
well okay, let's let's analyze this. Let's tear this back,

602
00:33:25.279 --> 00:33:27.680
let's peel this banana a little bit, let's peel this

603
00:33:27.799 --> 00:33:30.279
skin off a little bit. You know, the bill was

604
00:33:30.319 --> 00:33:33.799
coming up. But because you are such a loving and

605
00:33:33.880 --> 00:33:37.519
giving person, you gave your lives to a person who

606
00:33:37.599 --> 00:33:41.920
will never pay you back. Where do we go with this?

607
00:33:42.000 --> 00:33:44.759
We have to sit in that for a minute. You

608
00:33:44.799 --> 00:33:46.839
have to sit and look at that for a minute.

609
00:33:47.519 --> 00:33:51.519
So either A you continue to give and you never complain.

610
00:33:52.240 --> 00:33:54.519
Hopefully your lights won't go out and your car payment

611
00:33:54.559 --> 00:33:58.160
they won't come get the car or b. You know right,

612
00:33:58.720 --> 00:34:02.160
I got the gently out of this, and trust me,

613
00:34:03.000 --> 00:34:06.480
God will help you because I know y'all won't have

614
00:34:06.519 --> 00:34:10.320
the heart to turn people off or just separate yourself.

615
00:34:10.360 --> 00:34:13.079
Sometimes I have had to say God. There were some

616
00:34:13.119 --> 00:34:17.599
people who were very dear to me and I said, Lord,

617
00:34:19.239 --> 00:34:22.159
it's not good anymore. And I know you didn't have

618
00:34:22.199 --> 00:34:25.039
the heart to tell me so, but I need help

619
00:34:25.079 --> 00:34:28.639
on this one. I need you to separate me. Separate

620
00:34:28.719 --> 00:34:30.960
my heart and separate my mind, Separate what I do

621
00:34:31.039 --> 00:34:33.559
for a living, please, because I see where they're going.

622
00:34:34.639 --> 00:34:37.840
And that's just like being a mom with your kids.

623
00:34:38.280 --> 00:34:42.440
I see where you're going. It's not going to be good.

624
00:34:43.559 --> 00:34:46.079
So what helped me was the type of parent I am.

625
00:34:46.119 --> 00:34:49.000
I don't have a revolving door. When you leave, you're gone,

626
00:34:49.039 --> 00:34:51.840
see you later. We'll be in touch. And the other

627
00:34:51.920 --> 00:34:53.519
thing was if you fall in the hole, I ain't

628
00:34:53.519 --> 00:34:59.119
coming to get you because you know better. You know better.

629
00:35:00.039 --> 00:35:02.679
I got the tough love. I've got the reward, the ward,

630
00:35:02.679 --> 00:35:05.599
the trophy for tough love. I got it because I

631
00:35:05.599 --> 00:35:11.000
can walk away. I can walk away. So you guys

632
00:35:11.039 --> 00:35:13.320
are gonna be all right, because you're working on it now.

633
00:35:13.519 --> 00:35:17.079
The first was realizing it then actually put it in

634
00:35:17.239 --> 00:35:19.519
on paper or put it in your mind so you

635
00:35:19.519 --> 00:35:23.280
can look at it and say, oh, yeah, I'm tired

636
00:35:23.280 --> 00:35:27.360
of this, and guess what, I don't need this anymore. Actually,

637
00:35:28.039 --> 00:35:29.880
I don't need to keep trying to leave water to

638
00:35:30.000 --> 00:35:32.119
people to the water. I don't need to make them

639
00:35:32.199 --> 00:35:35.880
drink it. They don't drink I led them. It's up

640
00:35:35.920 --> 00:35:38.519
to you. I'm telling you like i'm telling you know

641
00:35:38.679 --> 00:35:40.920
advertising all the back to school that happened to me.

642
00:35:41.320 --> 00:35:44.039
I gave help, but took from, but took from the bills.

643
00:35:44.199 --> 00:35:46.079
The AC went out. It is not a good time

644
00:35:46.119 --> 00:35:48.119
to be without air. I was able to manage to

645
00:35:48.119 --> 00:35:51.239
replace the money, just not the AC. That money will

646
00:35:51.280 --> 00:35:55.039
be there soon. I can't. I'm not making it up.

647
00:35:55.480 --> 00:35:58.039
I've been there, done that, got the receipts and the

648
00:35:58.119 --> 00:36:02.039
memory of it. But I'm on Facebook and I'm you know,

649
00:36:02.280 --> 00:36:05.599
I'm kicking out. Hey, it's back to school. All my commissioners,

650
00:36:05.599 --> 00:36:07.760
my mayors are having this back to school events the

651
00:36:07.800 --> 00:36:10.320
sheriff Department. Y'all need to know. And I had to

652
00:36:10.320 --> 00:36:13.679
put you know what if you don't, if you fail

653
00:36:13.760 --> 00:36:17.199
to not attend one of these, they're giving away three

654
00:36:17.320 --> 00:36:21.960
hundred to four hundred items for free bicycles. My commissioner

655
00:36:22.159 --> 00:36:26.400
just gave away three hundred bicycles this Saturday. I'm putting

656
00:36:26.440 --> 00:36:28.280
it out there the best of Okay, I can't. I

657
00:36:28.320 --> 00:36:31.079
hope everybody's sharing it and posting it and stuff like that.

658
00:36:31.239 --> 00:36:34.960
But if you don't get it, you chose not to

659
00:36:35.000 --> 00:36:41.079
get it. You chose not to walk it through. You

660
00:36:41.199 --> 00:36:45.079
chose that, and guess what, I'll accept your choice. There's

661
00:36:45.119 --> 00:36:46.920
a saying I would say, you know, you've drawn the

662
00:36:46.960 --> 00:36:52.360
line in the sand, and I'm gonna honor it. You've

663
00:36:52.440 --> 00:36:54.639
drawn the line in the sand. I'm gonna honor it,

664
00:36:56.079 --> 00:36:58.800
and it hurts. I'm telling you I was hurt. You know,

665
00:36:59.440 --> 00:37:02.360
birthdays here, there are certain people that know when my

666
00:37:02.440 --> 00:37:07.039
birthday is because you're in the family, and you don't

667
00:37:07.039 --> 00:37:09.239
even text to say happy birthday. I don't know what

668
00:37:09.280 --> 00:37:11.039
you got with me. But guess what what you got

669
00:37:11.079 --> 00:37:12.880
against me? What you got with with beef? You done

670
00:37:12.960 --> 00:37:17.400
made up in your head. But guess what you lose,

671
00:37:19.360 --> 00:37:24.639
you lose. I can move on that. I've got people

672
00:37:24.639 --> 00:37:30.519
depending on me that recipiate, recipiates it back for real.

673
00:37:31.880 --> 00:37:35.159
I'm good, But I don't put my trust in people

674
00:37:36.360 --> 00:37:39.639
I love. I love mankind with the love of the Lord,

675
00:37:40.679 --> 00:37:43.000
and that helps me. That's another little secret of mine

676
00:37:43.039 --> 00:37:45.400
that helps me. Oh yeah, I can love you because

677
00:37:45.400 --> 00:37:49.639
God loves you. That's all you got from me. And

678
00:37:49.679 --> 00:37:51.119
I know you're gonna come from me. I know you're

679
00:37:51.159 --> 00:37:55.840
gonna say things or whatever. You heard that because I

680
00:37:55.840 --> 00:38:00.320
give it to him quick. You heard that, right, Okay?

681
00:38:01.480 --> 00:38:03.760
Amen and amen, Well, thank you all for doing so.

682
00:38:03.880 --> 00:38:06.519
Like I said, the next steps now all right, now

683
00:38:06.519 --> 00:38:08.400
that we've identified some of you have to do a

684
00:38:08.400 --> 00:38:10.320
little research. You got to do a little you gotta

685
00:38:10.320 --> 00:38:12.679
go a little you know, delve into some things. Some

686
00:38:12.719 --> 00:38:14.960
of you will have to go back to your childhood

687
00:38:15.000 --> 00:38:17.920
for a minute, just for a minute. Don't stay there long.

688
00:38:19.039 --> 00:38:21.159
And I don't even need you crying about it. Just

689
00:38:21.199 --> 00:38:23.840
go back and say, who used to tell me I

690
00:38:24.000 --> 00:38:27.480
talk too much? Who used to tell me, God, you

691
00:38:27.679 --> 00:38:30.679
laughed so much? Who used to say that?

692
00:38:31.519 --> 00:38:31.679
Hm?

693
00:38:32.360 --> 00:38:37.800
Oh, I remember, I remember now, and Lord, I forgive her,

694
00:38:38.800 --> 00:38:43.679
I forgive him. They're dead. My folks are all dead,

695
00:38:43.960 --> 00:38:47.119
most of them are. The majority of my family, biological

696
00:38:47.199 --> 00:38:51.480
adopted family are deceased. I still got to forgive them

697
00:38:51.679 --> 00:38:55.039
because the subconscious is making me bring this is keeping

698
00:38:55.079 --> 00:38:58.159
that memory alive for some reason. And I don't need

699
00:38:58.199 --> 00:39:01.039
any distractions right now. I need nothing.

700
00:39:01.840 --> 00:39:05.599
And another thing too, you know, you turn your your

701
00:39:05.679 --> 00:39:08.719
tests and testimony and so, you know, all of us

702
00:39:08.760 --> 00:39:12.280
have had some type of trials or tribulations that affect

703
00:39:12.360 --> 00:39:15.199
us in adulthood and we don't really realize it, you know,

704
00:39:16.559 --> 00:39:20.960
we think about it subliminate, subliminally and so, and it

705
00:39:20.960 --> 00:39:24.519
can affect how we respond to things today and you

706
00:39:24.559 --> 00:39:29.960
look back, you know, oh yeah, but there's always something

707
00:39:30.039 --> 00:39:32.840
that you go through or have gone through that can

708
00:39:32.920 --> 00:39:36.159
benefit someone else and that can make that your passion.

709
00:39:36.239 --> 00:39:38.480
That that's that's what I've I've kind of taken on

710
00:39:38.519 --> 00:39:42.239
different things like that I would advocate more for someone

711
00:39:42.239 --> 00:39:46.320
else than I will for myself, being in that caregiver role.

712
00:39:46.559 --> 00:39:49.840
Being let somebody tell my dad he can't have his service,

713
00:39:50.000 --> 00:39:53.000
or you know, or let let somebody tell my client

714
00:39:53.159 --> 00:39:54.079
that they need to do.

715
00:39:54.400 --> 00:39:57.719
Uh uh no, I'm in it. I'm in it now.

716
00:39:57.719 --> 00:40:00.400
I might handle it with me a little differently, but

717
00:40:00.480 --> 00:40:04.199
you go after somebody that I know is vulnerable more vulnerable.

718
00:40:04.760 --> 00:40:07.000
Then you got something on your hands and that became

719
00:40:07.039 --> 00:40:11.400
a passion because it made a difference. It makes a difference,

720
00:40:11.480 --> 00:40:13.400
especially when your clients come and say, thank you, I

721
00:40:13.400 --> 00:40:15.960
appreciate what you did, thank you for going with me

722
00:40:16.039 --> 00:40:18.199
to that appointment, thank you for helping me.

723
00:40:18.360 --> 00:40:21.280
You know dad saying appreciate all y'all do for me.

724
00:40:21.719 --> 00:40:24.320
You know that just the little stuff. You know that

725
00:40:24.599 --> 00:40:27.079
that that you can do a little bit of yourself.

726
00:40:27.079 --> 00:40:30.000
You don't have to give all of yourself to everyone,

727
00:40:30.519 --> 00:40:32.960
give a little bit, spread it out things that you

728
00:40:33.000 --> 00:40:35.800
can do, and recognize that that you can.

729
00:40:35.760 --> 00:40:39.119
Do, and that what you can do, but that you're

730
00:40:39.119 --> 00:40:41.320
willing to do that that you're not willing to do.

731
00:40:41.920 --> 00:40:45.239
And also to preserve yourself right down to your resources,

732
00:40:45.519 --> 00:40:48.239
people that you can kind of talk to, because I

733
00:40:48.280 --> 00:40:51.639
know when I was going through the laws and I'm human,

734
00:40:52.000 --> 00:40:53.400
I had to reach out to some folks.

735
00:40:54.360 --> 00:40:55.440
As an old friend of.

736
00:40:55.400 --> 00:40:58.360
Mine just lost everything in a total house fire out

737
00:40:58.400 --> 00:41:00.360
of state. So he moved back to this state and

738
00:41:00.440 --> 00:41:02.320
gave him some money to buy two outfits to get

739
00:41:02.360 --> 00:41:04.480
him started. So you can find a job there you go,

740
00:41:05.400 --> 00:41:07.119
there you go, Missy, that's all.

741
00:41:07.880 --> 00:41:12.639
And so the go ahead and to just just piggyback

742
00:41:12.679 --> 00:41:14.920
on that. So so, Missy, that was a great thing.

743
00:41:15.000 --> 00:41:17.559
You brought them to outfits so that they can do

744
00:41:17.599 --> 00:41:20.119
it now. So I won't, so won't.

745
00:41:21.679 --> 00:41:22.559
I don't. I'm trying to.

746
00:41:22.480 --> 00:41:26.000
Watch what I'm saying, find help to find other resources

747
00:41:26.039 --> 00:41:29.480
as well, because sometimes you have clothing closets. Sometimes you

748
00:41:29.480 --> 00:41:31.360
you might be able to check with Red Cross and

749
00:41:31.440 --> 00:41:33.159
see what they have if it is any money is

750
00:41:33.199 --> 00:41:34.440
to replace what they've lost.

751
00:41:34.840 --> 00:41:37.840
You know, fift shop people. That's the thing now. People

752
00:41:37.840 --> 00:41:40.360
are shopping at thrift stores. So you don't want it

753
00:41:40.400 --> 00:41:42.840
to be where. That's all. That's what you're doing all

754
00:41:42.880 --> 00:41:45.960
the time. Now for something else. And I say, now, okay,

755
00:41:45.960 --> 00:41:48.519
I've helped you with the clothing. You a little short

756
00:41:48.559 --> 00:41:51.079
on food. Maybe I'll buy your breakfast or cart and

757
00:41:51.079 --> 00:41:53.119
the eggs or something like that. So don't.

758
00:41:53.239 --> 00:41:55.639
I would not suggest And this is just me, Lisa.

759
00:41:55.679 --> 00:41:59.480
You doing all the things all the one thing, all

760
00:41:59.519 --> 00:42:02.000
the time you find yourself you can't dig yourself out

761
00:42:02.000 --> 00:42:04.679
of it because people do become dependent on it. And

762
00:42:04.800 --> 00:42:08.079
I say it, I understand people can dependent on it.

763
00:42:08.239 --> 00:42:09.519
But let me. I can go to I know I

764
00:42:09.559 --> 00:42:11.719
can go to miss the Alesial Trade and I know

765
00:42:11.760 --> 00:42:14.960
they got it and sometimes I know I might not

766
00:42:15.000 --> 00:42:16.800
have it like that, so I can. But I can

767
00:42:16.840 --> 00:42:17.199
do this.

768
00:42:17.559 --> 00:42:19.599
I can't do that, but I can do this, and

769
00:42:19.800 --> 00:42:21.559
just but don't put it out there. And if you

770
00:42:21.639 --> 00:42:24.159
feel that you want to bless somebody and say, you

771
00:42:24.199 --> 00:42:26.679
know what, the Lord put it on my heart, let

772
00:42:26.679 --> 00:42:27.280
me give.

773
00:42:27.119 --> 00:42:27.840
You this today.

774
00:42:28.239 --> 00:42:31.039
I can't and then preface it with I can't do this.

775
00:42:30.960 --> 00:42:34.239
All the time, but the Lord today told me to

776
00:42:34.320 --> 00:42:36.719
do this, and I felt on my heart compelled to

777
00:42:36.760 --> 00:42:39.239
do this for you, and I just you know, but

778
00:42:39.280 --> 00:42:40.000
don't commit.

779
00:42:41.000 --> 00:42:44.079
Yeah, here's a list of resources. Now look for your

780
00:42:44.079 --> 00:42:49.159
address for success programs, nonprofit programs. They've got clothing and

781
00:42:49.159 --> 00:42:52.800
they're getting men clothing. Of course, there's good will. See

782
00:42:52.800 --> 00:42:54.480
if I don't know what state you live in, but

783
00:42:54.719 --> 00:42:59.519
there are some states that have these consignment type shops

784
00:42:59.559 --> 00:43:02.360
and good will type places. But you can go in

785
00:43:02.360 --> 00:43:05.000
there with a twenty five dollars vulture and fill up

786
00:43:05.280 --> 00:43:07.760
a hamper or fill up a suitcase. You know, so

787
00:43:07.840 --> 00:43:09.960
you need to kind of get ready to kind of

788
00:43:10.199 --> 00:43:13.079
you know, direct him that way. Go to the Red Cross,

789
00:43:13.119 --> 00:43:15.920
see what they have, what kind of resources they have

790
00:43:16.039 --> 00:43:20.119
for somebody who just lost everything and they've they've moved back.

791
00:43:20.000 --> 00:43:23.320
You know, to their home state, and just say, I

792
00:43:23.320 --> 00:43:25.760
don't know if you're on and I can't remember the

793
00:43:26.880 --> 00:43:29.079
audience member who just said it was a mystery or

794
00:43:29.079 --> 00:43:32.719
somebody they said they helped out someone also too, I

795
00:43:32.760 --> 00:43:34.719
don't know if you're on Facebook or if you have

796
00:43:34.880 --> 00:43:38.159
any access to emails, you can hey, look, I have

797
00:43:38.360 --> 00:43:39.039
I know of a.

798
00:43:38.880 --> 00:43:42.159
Family they lost this and if there's children in the

799
00:43:42.239 --> 00:43:43.519
house and that I need.

800
00:43:43.679 --> 00:43:46.400
Do you have any clothes and don't anybody donating clothes

801
00:43:46.400 --> 00:43:49.039
this size or that size male female?

802
00:43:49.440 --> 00:43:53.599
You know, gently used things? Do you have any items

803
00:43:53.599 --> 00:43:55.400
that you're about to throw in because you know, because

804
00:43:55.400 --> 00:43:57.119
people get rid of stuff all the time because they

805
00:43:57.159 --> 00:43:59.519
don't they don't they don't want to keep stuff. And

806
00:43:59.519 --> 00:44:01.480
they say, hey, I know somebody they were about to

807
00:44:01.519 --> 00:44:03.920
give somebody to the good Will, but if somebody can

808
00:44:04.039 --> 00:44:05.679
use it for free, let me just go ahead and

809
00:44:05.760 --> 00:44:08.159
do that. So you do things like that, and it

810
00:44:08.199 --> 00:44:10.519
does make you feel good, even if you can't do

811
00:44:10.599 --> 00:44:14.480
it yourself. You've put together something to try to help

812
00:44:14.719 --> 00:44:15.679
the families.

813
00:44:16.239 --> 00:44:19.280
Another list. Yes, you guys are not the resources do

814
00:44:19.679 --> 00:44:22.360
You're not the resource. You just gave it. That was

815
00:44:22.400 --> 00:44:25.119
a temporary that's a right now, that was a quick fix.

816
00:44:25.519 --> 00:44:29.559
But you are not the resource. God is. And we

817
00:44:29.599 --> 00:44:31.679
need to hear. Hear some places. You need to go

818
00:44:31.719 --> 00:44:34.559
around to, you know, and make some calls to see

819
00:44:34.559 --> 00:44:37.880
what they have. Last. I know we're on time, we're

820
00:44:38.079 --> 00:44:40.920
handing time. But I want to go back to the

821
00:44:41.000 --> 00:44:46.679
serenity prayer. Go back to the serenity prayer. God, grant

822
00:44:46.719 --> 00:44:51.360
me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change.

823
00:44:52.000 --> 00:44:55.519
We already know we can't change other adults. If you

824
00:44:55.639 --> 00:44:59.719
have a little baby up to age three, you could change.

825
00:45:00.039 --> 00:45:03.559
You can infect change, but after age three you cannot. Okay,

826
00:45:03.840 --> 00:45:06.039
I'm telling you right now, whatever you settle for, if

827
00:45:06.039 --> 00:45:08.920
that baby turns three, that's what you're gonna see in

828
00:45:08.960 --> 00:45:11.719
their young adult years. You're gonna see it because you

829
00:45:11.719 --> 00:45:14.760
didn't stop it when you had the chance, the courage

830
00:45:14.800 --> 00:45:20.480
to change the things I can. Anything about me, I God,

831
00:45:20.519 --> 00:45:23.159
give me the strength, Give me the strength, Give me

832
00:45:23.199 --> 00:45:26.480
the strength to change, because I know what the end

833
00:45:26.800 --> 00:45:29.239
result is gonna be. I'm gonna end up back in

834
00:45:29.280 --> 00:45:31.800
the hospital if I don't get this sugar down, if

835
00:45:31.840 --> 00:45:34.519
I don't get my blood pressure under control, I'm heading

836
00:45:34.559 --> 00:45:37.199
back to the hospital. And I do not want to

837
00:45:37.199 --> 00:45:42.639
ever go back to the hospital. Hame in and change

838
00:45:42.639 --> 00:45:44.920
the things. The courage to change the things that I can,

839
00:45:45.039 --> 00:45:47.920
and the wisdom to know the difference. This is what

840
00:45:48.039 --> 00:45:51.159
trips people up. I don't know if I sold the help.

841
00:45:51.480 --> 00:45:51.719
I'm not.

842
00:45:51.960 --> 00:45:54.920
You know you're going back doing help? No, I can wait.

843
00:45:55.639 --> 00:45:59.199
They didn't even ask me for my help. What am

844
00:45:59.199 --> 00:46:03.079
I doing? I just jumped in your conversation. You don't

845
00:46:03.079 --> 00:46:11.280
even ask for my opinion. So courage, give me serenity,

846
00:46:11.679 --> 00:46:15.400
give me courage, give me wisdom, and then you're getting

847
00:46:15.760 --> 00:46:21.920
get understanding. Amen. That's all he's That's all he's wanting

848
00:46:22.000 --> 00:46:25.039
us to do. And I have to give my favorite scripture.

849
00:46:25.360 --> 00:46:30.440
My first favorite scripture is in Psalms eighty one and six.

850
00:46:31.119 --> 00:46:34.559
I'll remove your shoulders from the burden and free your

851
00:46:34.599 --> 00:46:38.119
hands from the pots. The burden my yoke is easy.

852
00:46:38.159 --> 00:46:42.039
My burdening is what light take all my burden, because

853
00:46:42.320 --> 00:46:52.880
so what does that tell us? Life issues, burdens, circumstances, ills, discouragements, depressions,

854
00:46:53.679 --> 00:46:58.320
the oh my goodness, they're gonna be there. But he says,

855
00:46:58.679 --> 00:47:02.320
you get out of my way. I got this because

856
00:47:02.360 --> 00:47:05.800
God is the author and the finisher of our faith

857
00:47:06.239 --> 00:47:12.000
and of this world. He knows everything. Why don't we

858
00:47:12.440 --> 00:47:17.039
depend on him? He says, depend on me. Cast your cares.

859
00:47:17.519 --> 00:47:25.679
I got you, I got you. We gotta trust him.

860
00:47:27.199 --> 00:47:29.599
And once y'all get in there and you fully you know,

861
00:47:29.760 --> 00:47:32.639
remember Star Trek beat me up, Scottie. They had to

862
00:47:32.639 --> 00:47:34.800
get right on that circle. They had to get right

863
00:47:34.840 --> 00:47:38.000
there so they could get start. Stands still. Okay, okay,

864
00:47:38.000 --> 00:47:39.400
we got you. We think we got you. Half the

865
00:47:39.440 --> 00:47:41.719
body becoming in half the body. You know, you can't

866
00:47:41.760 --> 00:47:43.239
you can't put your hands out right, and you had

867
00:47:43.239 --> 00:47:46.039
to stand straight and stuff. You just get in his will.

868
00:47:48.239 --> 00:47:50.840
And I know what you're gonna say, Oh my God,

869
00:47:50.880 --> 00:47:55.199
are you serious? All these years I'm leaning and depending

870
00:47:55.199 --> 00:47:57.679
on what others say, I'm leaning and depending on my

871
00:47:57.800 --> 00:48:01.760
own opinion on what I think it's right, and all

872
00:48:01.800 --> 00:48:04.239
along I'm not going to the offer to finish up

873
00:48:04.239 --> 00:48:08.000
of faith. I'm telling you you, it blows my mind.

874
00:48:08.039 --> 00:48:10.000
I mean, I could think a thing and I got

875
00:48:10.000 --> 00:48:12.639
the answer. I don't even have to pray about something

876
00:48:15.039 --> 00:48:17.760
that's the dimensional atmosphere of God. And we'll talk about

877
00:48:17.800 --> 00:48:21.719
that somewhere along the way. I hope we're helping somebody

878
00:48:21.719 --> 00:48:24.559
out there. Y'all, y'all give me, give me thumbs up

879
00:48:24.599 --> 00:48:27.760
and say yes, say yes, give me some dancing emojis,

880
00:48:27.760 --> 00:48:31.480
give us some fire emojis. What you're thinking, what you're thinking,

881
00:48:40.000 --> 00:48:50.599
oh Azel, thank you? Amen, Amen, Amen. Well, that's what

882
00:48:50.639 --> 00:48:53.440
we do. We're setting it straight. We're for those of

883
00:48:53.440 --> 00:48:55.320
you who are new to us and you haven't heard us.

884
00:48:55.480 --> 00:48:58.960
Two years ago when I explained that, I'll explain it again.

885
00:48:59.440 --> 00:49:02.039
It's called that is Straight with Miss Gray. And the

886
00:49:02.079 --> 00:49:04.480
reason why we set it straight because it's so much myth,

887
00:49:04.840 --> 00:49:07.599
so much things that's not true out in this world,

888
00:49:08.119 --> 00:49:10.000
and we're here to try to help set it straight

889
00:49:10.599 --> 00:49:12.599
so that you could get on the straight and narrow

890
00:49:12.880 --> 00:49:14.840
and do what you need to do. Because your purpose

891
00:49:14.920 --> 00:49:18.239
for us, for something, your purpose for something. So we're

892
00:49:18.239 --> 00:49:20.000
gonna find out what that is and we're gonna make

893
00:49:20.000 --> 00:49:22.719
sure and hope to help to help you to get there.

894
00:49:22.800 --> 00:49:24.840
But you know what, it's not our job to help

895
00:49:24.880 --> 00:49:31.360
you to get there. You have an missy, that's what girl.

896
00:49:33.000 --> 00:49:35.440
Sometimes they don't like to give. So it's like, okay, down,

897
00:49:37.920 --> 00:49:40.239
how much more? Lord? I hope they get it because

898
00:49:40.239 --> 00:49:43.920
I gotta go, because we gotta go. Next week, we're

899
00:49:43.920 --> 00:49:46.079
gonna all be on vacation. As you see pastors on

900
00:49:46.159 --> 00:49:49.199
vacation tonight, he'll be on vacation next week. I'm gonna

901
00:49:49.199 --> 00:49:50.920
be on vacation. So we're gonna have a replay for

902
00:49:51.039 --> 00:49:55.760
next week, but we will be back the third Monday. Yeah,

903
00:49:55.840 --> 00:49:58.519
the third Monday. Okay, So do your homework. I'm gonna

904
00:49:58.559 --> 00:50:01.079
hold y'all to it. We love you you, stay safe, Otter,

905
00:50:01.159 --> 00:50:03.800
thank you for playing. Praying for I'll say Florida with

906
00:50:03.880 --> 00:50:06.639
the storm. I think she's moved on. Thank you Jesus.

907
00:50:06.880 --> 00:50:08.800
My power didn't go out, Thank you, Lord. And no

908
00:50:08.880 --> 00:50:13.239
flooding are youand well we try to do it, Misty,

909
00:50:13.280 --> 00:50:20.360
but you're willing. Bro Rosie is my sister. Okay, amen,

910
00:50:20.920 --> 00:50:25.159
but as it was saying, you know you were willing

911
00:50:25.280 --> 00:50:28.840
y'all come on this show. You find us some kind

912
00:50:28.880 --> 00:50:31.239
of way. I remember, mister, you had somebody in the

913
00:50:31.559 --> 00:50:33.960
some kids in the car. You pulled over to find

914
00:50:34.000 --> 00:50:36.760
the show. So you're coming and we'll take Hey, we

915
00:50:36.800 --> 00:50:39.679
could do well with five, six people. We could change

916
00:50:39.679 --> 00:50:41.440
the world with five us, the six of y'all. With

917
00:50:41.599 --> 00:50:45.719
your determination, with your strength, with your potential, we could

918
00:50:45.760 --> 00:50:48.519
change the world. You all be blessed. Night night, take

919
00:50:48.559 --> 00:50:49.280
care night.

920
00:50:49.440 --> 00:51:42.679
I'm a good one.