June 8, 2026

PTSD Awareness

PTSD Awareness

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Season 4

fear, forgiveness, trauma, memories, transference

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Yes, yes, yes, big boy over there, dipping boy. Good evening,

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Good evening, and welcome to another segment of setting it

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Straight with Miss Gray and her feel Let's co hosts

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give him a wave, give him a shout. Tray, go

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ahead from all the wave of Virginia. Let's pray. Oh

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I'm sorry, Lord, let's pray. Father God, we just thank

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you today. You are just overwhelming me with goodness and

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gladness and surprises and mery, new mercies and grace and mercies.

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I just I'm almost tongue tied today. I just thank

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you God. You are showing up and showing out. Thank

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you God for your love. Thank you God for unforgiveness.

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Thank you Father, God for forgiving and forgetting. Thank you

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God for ideas. Thank you God for putting us in

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check when we don't even check ourselves. Thank you for everything.

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I just I can go on and on and on.

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Just thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.

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And yeah, this us said unforgiveness because people live lives unforgiving,

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and it's a sad day. We're gonna talk about that.

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We're gonna conquer that tonight. We just thank you. Now

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we're gonna get behind the cross, Lord, and we're gonna

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let you do what you do best many things. You do,

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everything the best, but for one set your captives free tonight.

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Give them what they need. Let them lean in and

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listen closely. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, Amen, Amen, ammen.

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And the church said amen. Anyway, how y'all doing, How

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y'all doing? All right? Roll call, let's go. I need Mississippi,

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I need Tennessee, I need Louisiana. I need one Washington

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d C. I need Palm Beach County. I need Orlando.

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Come on, come on in, don't don't come on in

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and try the water. It's cool in the eave. Come

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on now, come on now, So trade, How was your weekend?

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How's the week been for you so far?

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Well, weekend was nice, weather was great, Sonny, got a

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whole lot of natural vitamin D and just.

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Kind of relaxed a little bit.

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Yeah, and weeks so far as okay, long, but it's

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not bad.

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Amen heard. I'm thankful, Amen, ain't man. Yeah, I felt

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a little coolness throughout the weekend. Every now and then

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it's no rain, no, but I felt the coolness, and

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I say thank you Jesus. I know that's you check

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it in, letting us know you were right here in

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the midst and we're just forever giving you the praise

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and the glory. A couple of things. Congratulations, shout out

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to Talk for Media. That's that's the umbrella talk for

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TV dot talkfor TV dot com. That's that whole set

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of letters and numbers. We are under that tutelage. And

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they have been nominated for the Marketing Firms category for

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twenty twenty six Best of Florida Awards. So congratulations, because

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the Grand Pooball, he does his best to recruit and

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get shows in and you know, make sure that you

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know that he Yeah, okay, hang on, guys, yeah, yes,

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just click on it. Click. Oh god, sorry, guys, somebody's

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trying to find us. Click on to subscribe, so subscribe.

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Oh Lord, have mercy. Anyway, but thank God, you know,

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I mean, he does his best to recruit. He remembers

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some people from back in the day. He goes looking

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for us and stuff, and he works with you. So

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I'm just, you know, congratulations, and that puts us in

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that category with him. So we were going we ride

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along with him. We ride along with him. But anyway,

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we just give God praise for that. And I hope

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Rebel doesn't mind me reading something I received from her.

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Uh made it all right, right, y'all said? Who I

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made it? I made it? Hang on just a second, yes,

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I wanna, and I hope Rebel let me know inbox

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here that I can read this out today if that's

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okay what you sent me today. We're just thankful for

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the fact that lives are changing. And it's because you're

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telling us that lives are changing, you know, and okay,

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comment hang on in here, let me see, okay, and

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we know that because you're telling us that your lives

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are changing, and we're just for you know, I'm just

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grateful to God because there are times, you know, you

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all know when it's that time, you know, and we're

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about the sunset, I'm thinking, oh God, you know, I

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don't know what God's gonna do. Do we keep it

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up for another year? And things like that. We're not

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near there yet, but you know, that thought, it crosses

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my mind, like, okay, what we're doing when you think

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we're gonna go forward on this and everything? And again

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out apologize for getting caught up in the web of

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monetizing and shares and likes. Please forgive me for that,

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because I'm thinking that that's the traditional way of thought.

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You know, you want to keep you want somebody to pay,

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You want a sponsor to come along and pay for

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your program so it doesn't have to come out of pocket.

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But the testimonies, the conversations, even the questions just it

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just covers that. It just blots it out for me,

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and then I have to feel bad and I feel

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guilty and I feel sorry. You know, I'm not feel sorry,

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but I'm sorry for that, and I have to apologize

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publicly because you know, you just have to know what

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we go through at times and things like that. So

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I'm just thankful that I'm in a position that I'm

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able to do it. God blesses me with your testimonies.

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It doesn't matter. I mean, I appreciate the shares and likes,

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and hang on, I can give you that number in

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a minute too, because I did get that from I

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trusted poohbah okay, he says, I asked him, what's our number? Now?

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Why are you always this phone? Boy? You're messing with

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my phone. You've got our rebuke you in the name

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of Jesus. Well, yeah, one hundred and ninety one listenable episode,

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So one hundred and ninety one times people listen to

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the episode and no, I'm sorry, Yeah, listen to episodes

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and total downloads. Get ready for this, people have downloaded

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our show ready, nine thousand, eight hundred and two. Make

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that up. I still keep it as unread because I

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have to look at that like what what the what

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you know? And I'm just thankful it's only gone. It's

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only God, And I thank you all for sharing and

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just allowing us to come into your radio on your

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TV or you're through your computer on your phone, and

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you stick around long enough to listen in and to

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to peek in. So earlier today I received the text

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for by honorable the honorable engineer, producer, you name it,

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execute executive, that's who she is to us, and okay,

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I didn't, all right, and they go to this other thing, okay,

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and she said. I was out in Beton Rouge wearing

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my yellow Setting It Straight T shirt and someone said

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Sprouts and I looked up and saw it was a

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food store and I asked if we could stop by,

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and they said why. He said, well, I told everyone

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about you. I'm sure about the show. For those who

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didn't know, I explained they need to tune in to

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the show. As I showed them the shirt. We all

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got out and went in. Everyone was so happy and

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said thank you for the advice to try Sprouts, Lott said.

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Then they said that they were going to tune in

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for more advice. So we welcome it. We've got some

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new folks out there. We welcome you most definitely. And

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this is what we do. This is what's setting it

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straight is all about. We set it straight. And what

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that means is if it's the myths, even some lies

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that are out there, and we align everything up with scripture,

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we back it up with Bible, and we also encourage

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you to write your script you know, write script do

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your own Bible study. I've said that like four times

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this week since the weekend, telling people have your own

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family Bible study because you need to know what the

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Word says for yourself and what those scriptures would mean

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to you. They're personal. It gives it energizes you, It

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reveals you, It exposes you to yourself. It lets you

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know exactly where you're at. And then you look at

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your personality and you're like, oh, forget about it. I

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look like Auntie and uncle. I look like Joshua. Wow.

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I act like Abraham sometimes, boy, I act like Moses

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a lot of times. You know, come on, let my

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people go, let's go, you know, and stuff, and you'll

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be abstounded as to the likes and the similarities of

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the biblical people that live before us and help set

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the foundation. So and please, I implore you to, you know, pray,

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Have you have your own Bible study for the family.

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Of course, you go to church. If you go to church,

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you participate in the Bible study at church as there's

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no doubt take notes. But at home, have your own

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Bible study, take notes. Uh, you know, have that discussion.

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You'd be surprised as to what and then switch it up.

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Let let the younger person say, uh, you know, younger

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member of the family say well, I want to learn

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about love. Oh, I want to learn about being forgotten

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and and and being looked over. There's scriptures for that.

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And then y'all, and you'd be surprised when the other

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people in the family come up with the theme what

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they're really saying. You learn a whole lot what they're thinking.

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So I implore you to do that. So thank you,

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and hopefully I knew folks will come on, the Sprouts people,

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the Sprouts family, uh, and new beginnings. For that, we

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thank you. And tonight we're going to talk about PTSD

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post traumatic stress disorder, and I want to go I

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want to go back to his here to see where

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that came from. But I know it's also in the Bible,

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and we're going to talk about that here we go.

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Post Traumatic is a psychiatric thank you. Anastasia is a

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psychiatric mental health condition triggered keep that word in mind,

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triggered by experiencing or witnessing a terrifying, life threatening or

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deeply shocking shocking event. While most people experience temporary distress

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over trauma, individuals with PTSD continue to experience severe life

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disrupting stress along long after the danger has passed. Okay,

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so we have to be very careful of number one

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on how we're labeling ourselves. You know, you know, over

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what thirty years ago add and ADHD hit the world. No,

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over forty years ago hit the world. That was the

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biggest all My childh has ADHD. And you're putting them

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on retland, You're putting them on all kinds of stuff.

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And now, I mean, I said this at a church

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function one time. The only reason why you're your child

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can't sit still and don't listen to you because you

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drank too much pepsi while you carried them. You ate

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ice and you hate the daddy. That's why they got

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they can't sit down. The church went just they exploded.

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They're like, oh my god, No, no, she didn't say that.

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I said, yeah, you drank pepsi, you ate ice. The

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child's got a nervous condition because of you and because

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you hate the daddy. But that's a whole different story

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with you know. Yeah, but yeah, many people so a

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few people came up to me after the workshop and said,

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you know, you're right. I did drink a lot of

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PEPSI I said, yeah, so you know. And I'm not

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saying the diagnosises world is not relevant and it's not

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at times true. But sometimes I know folks who have

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gone in I've been a therapist myself. They come in,

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they want to tell me what I should be telling them.

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They want, they don't want to hear my they don't

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want to wait for the assessment. They'll come in. I'm

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not an angry person. I said, well, can I have

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your name please? I just want to make sure you're

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at the right office. And they're like, but yeah, my

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name is you know, Happy Smith. But I'm here to

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tell you I'm not angry. Okay. Can I have your

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phone number and your Social Security number? Just want to

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make sure you in the right office. Okay. I mean

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they want to so busily, you know, they want to

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tell me what's wrong with them, what's not wrong with them?

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And I'm like, I'm not for that. You were court ordered,

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not me, Okay, So let's go all right. So going

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back to triggering, going back to triggering, that is a

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big key word because a lot of times when people

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were court ordered for anger management, even though they would

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come in, eighty percent would come in trying to tell

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me that they're not angry. Everyone gets angry at times, yes, Mickey,

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all the time. At times. Some of us can control it,

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while others cannot. They can't take the edge off, they

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can't dial it back, they can't rewind they did, and

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these things, these thoughts in their heads keep playing over

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and over and over again, you know, but triggering. And

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many times out of the eighty percent that would come

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in that were court ordered poor and your management classes

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or evaluation, I'm gonna say at least forty percent are triggered.

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They're not angry people, but they could be triggered, and

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they need to get in touch with the triggering part

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of their emotions. So can you be triggered? Can you

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be angered? And you know, people say this little oh

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he knows how to push my buttons, and they laugh

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about it. That's not funny because first of all, that

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tells next, that's telling me, you're giving you love, giving

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people power over you. Nobody knows how to push my buttons.

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That's living nobody. So it's not funny, we don't and

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now we chuckle at it. Oh, yes, that's cute. It's

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not because that tells me you've given He knows the power.

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He knows your enemy, just like your enemy knows the devil,

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knows how to power overpower you. He knows what gets

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you will get you hot. He knows what it would

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take for you to go from zero zero to one hundred.

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He knows he says, the right people on the job.

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He says, you're right into the lions, then into a

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family situation. You marry into a family they can't stand you,

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and for ten years they just put up with you.

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But the moment your husband died, it all comes out.

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How you pretend that long I don't know. But when

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somebody says to you, oh, she knows how to she

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how to push my buttons right there, I'm stopping the

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whole session and say, oh, so you allow people to

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have power and control over you. Know I'm not saying that,

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yes you do, because if you said that that person

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knows how to get you angry, take you out of yourself,

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You've given them. They got power over you. They have authority,

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and they have authority. Look at doctor Phil's episodes. They'll

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tell you how many parents going, oh, I can't do

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nothing with them. I said, huh, okay you can't. Oh yeah,

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you can. You pray first, go ahead, MS, yeah, I

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just went.

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When you were talking, I just wanted to kind of

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say this too, because it hit home with you know,

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the background that we both have with the domestic violence,

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and so when people say it, sometimes people want to

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use that the past, especially when the intent is to

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be abusive or to excuse some abusive situations. So when

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that's kind of scary at time when people say that

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they know what makes me mad or I did that,

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because that is true what you speak exactly of the case,

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so are so you know, they just want to kind

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of preface that. You know, anger is is in emotion

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and people get angry, but it's what you do with

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it once you get angry. And I think what you said,

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miss Gray is recognizing your triggers so you will be

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prepared to handle it appropriately.

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So lashing out.

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Hitting people, neglect, you know, those things are not excuses.

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And it's a whole array of things that you know,

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maybe at a later time will get into. But someone

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saying they know how to push my buttons. A lot

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of people who are people categorize as users will use

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that in order to justify their behaviors to want towards

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someone else.

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And so I just want to preface the thank you

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so much, and you're so right. But check this out. Now,

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here's some symptoms. They generally fall into four main categories.

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Check this out. I was surprised that which will last

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more for more than one month to meet diagnostic That's

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another thing. These symptoms have to last for more than

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one month in order to put you to get that diagnosis.

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And that's another thing with add and ADHD, you have

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to their behaviors have to occur in two separate places.

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So you can't come to me and say, Jimmy has

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a d D attention deficit disorder. His attention span is shot.

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When you could get he has total control in the classroom,

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it's only when he gets home. He's got to be

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in two separate places. It could be at church in

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Sunday school and it could be at the school or

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could be at home. And it's gonna be a Sunday school,

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but it's got to be two separate places. It can't

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be just one place. And if it's in your home.

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That speaks volumes right there, and I'm not gonna get

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onto parenting. Okay. ADHD attention deficit hyperactive disorder. That's the

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person that can't sit still. They sway back and forth. Yeah,

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but it's got to occur not only when they're out

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in public, but it's got to occur when they're at home.

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It's got to occur two separate places. And here for PTSD,

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it's got to be symptomatic for a whole month, not

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skipping weeks, not skipping days, from the first to the

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thirty first, for the first of the twenty eight, from

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the first to the thirtieth. Okay, check this out. Intrusive memories.

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These are flashbacks reliving the event, upsetting nightmares and uncontrollable distressful,

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distressing thoughts about the trauma. Okay, listen to this now.

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Avoidance actively dodging people, places, and activities or conversations that

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act as reminders of the event. I had a soldier

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young man was on a medically discharge. He had his

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baby boy and Kmart and a car was backfiring outside.

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He thought it was gunshots and he hit the floor.

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Haymart trespassed him from the store because it brought so

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much attention to him. I'm pretty sure he probably hollowed

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out gun, you know, rifle gun, but it was it

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was just a car backfire, and he had to live

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with that. And we got to the we got to

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the we got to the cause, we got to the trigger.

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And I used to do this. I'm gonna do this

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with this. I used to do this where people would

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come into therapy. I would I would have a piece

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of paper and I would lay on your anger, I

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would lay on your divorce symptoms, other issues, and I'm

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gonna lay on top of the paper. I said what

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I need to get to, and I would. I would

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drop everything I said, I need to get to this

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because this is the foundation. All of that stuff lays on.

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This is the this is the level right here, it

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lays on. It found its own on, it's settled on.

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And all these other symptomologies or activities or just that activities,

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but that's not the trigger what started this thing. And

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see we talking about triggers. So avoidance again another thing.

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Negative changes in thinking and mood. If you can't get

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out of it, the negative, let me do, let me

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define it. Feelings of hopelessness, emotional numbness, memory gaps, or

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a distorted sense of blame. Okay, negative changes in thinking

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and mood. Now, I used to be a person that

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liked to think of the negative first if I had

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to had to talk to somebody about it or have

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my super you know, to go. My supervisor calls me

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in unexpectedly for a chat. I don't know. I'm already

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thinking like, okay, what could it be? What could it be?

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What did I do? I'm already thinking that what could

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it be? What can it do?

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You know?

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It's all okay, it's something I've undone something that now

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they gonna call me out on something. Now they gonna

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blame me. Yeah, I used to do that, believe it me.

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Then I got more in my Bible and studying my

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Bible and knowing who I am in Jesus Christ. And

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he called me in the office. I stayed up and said, well, no,

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you come to my off what you want you gonna

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take to me? We have nothing to talk about. Well, no,

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I need your opinion or something. Oh okay, well don't

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send an email like that. Say hey, Lisha, you got

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some time I need your opinion on something. Let me know,

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I know, I don't like him. When people say, oh,

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I got something to table, I'm gonna call you back,

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don't call me back because I don't want to talk

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to you. I don't like those kind of surprises, you know.

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I don't so negative changes in your thinking, in your mood, lastly,

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physical and emotional reactions, being easily startled, hyper vigilant, being

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constantly on guard, angry outbursts or trouble sleeping, and concentrating.

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Now I just talk about concentrating. Had a little fellow

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come to me for therapy. I did home visits. The

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mother couldn't understand that she could sit there and tell him, Okay,

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we getting ready to leave in ten minutes. Get your

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shoes on and go get your cloth, your shorts on.

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We getting ready to leave. Next thing, she know. Not

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even ten minutes later, he's still sitting in front of

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the TV, and she said, why are you not listening

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to me? Get up, She'll go cut the TV. Get

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up and go check. She had follow him in the room,

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so I was I was like, Lord, something else is

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going on here. So I went and observed him in

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his classroom. He's sitting in the front row. All of

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a sudden. You can see him. He's writing, he's looking

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up at the teacher. He's writing, and then all of

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a sudden, he what maybe eight minutes, eight minutes, he'll

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raise his hand and he'll say, ask the teacher, where

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are you? I don't know where you are? Because he

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wasn't looking in the book, he was writing his notes.

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He got distracted just like that. That easily. I said, no,

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this is that's not that's not AD, that's not add,

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that's not a tenth, that's not no, it's something else

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going on. And I'm praying to God. I'm listening to

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God in my right ear. And the Lord said, have

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her go to a E in t ear, nose and

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throat doctor. Take him to a specialist, an E and

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T specialist. So I said, I said, if you don't mind,

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have you taken him. I know he goes to his pediatrician,

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but have you taken him to an E and T

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he knows some throat. She goes no, I said, I'm

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just feeling in my spirit. And I said it like that,

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I'm feeling in my spirit. Take him to a doctor.

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See if you could get a referral. And back in

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those days you had to get a referral. See if

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you can get a referral for him to go to

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an E and T. She called me a week later

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before before I was scheduled to go back out there.

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She said, oh my god. As she was crying. He said,

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oh my god, thank you, thank you, thank you. What

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she found out through the ent was that the boy

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was having silent seizures every ten minutes, every eight to

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ten minutes, and you couldn't look at him. It wasn't

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a physical thing, but it was shut down. They put

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him on seizure medicine. Boy, it was fine, and I say,

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you don't need to come back to me. He don't

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have attention deficit. He's having a seizure that's blotting out

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his ability to hear and to think, and so it

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distracts him, so it shuts him down. He don't even

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know it. Poor baby been experiencing that since he was

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a baby, and the mommy didn't know it. Listen, gotta

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pray amen. So that sounds scary for those who have

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this PtD, Yes, it is, because you got to make

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sure that you really have it. Now it could be experiences.

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Listen to these buzzwords flashbacks reliving the event. Upsetting nightmares

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are actively dodging people or activities in places, conversations that

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act as a reminder of the event, feelings of hopelessness,

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emotional numbness. That's why I would say to you, guys,

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if you go down that hole, everybody needs to go

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to their valley. Everybody needs a ballet experience and a mountain,

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and many mountain experiences, highs and low. Sometimes you've got

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to go low to self assess, to take a look

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at the man in the mirror. You can't do that

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on a mountain. Got to go low in the valley.

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But I tell you don't stay there too long because

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it'll become comfortable, it'll become confusing, it'll become distracting, and

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it'll start to drain you. It'll actually just take away

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your energy and your strength because you're like, there's no

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way of getting out of here. Oh my god. And

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then you start thinking about things I've also shared with you.

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Your subconscious is not your best friend. It holds all

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the men, all the terror, all the trauma, all the negativeness.

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All you can remember in second grade when that teacher

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said something to you. You are fifty eight years old,

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00:25:11.559 --> 00:25:14.039
and you remember what a teacher in the second grade

455
00:25:14.160 --> 00:25:17.759
said to you. That's a problem. Why are you holding

456
00:25:17.839 --> 00:25:20.720
onto that? Why are you allowing your mind to hold

457
00:25:20.799 --> 00:25:23.480
onto that. You've got to tell your mind. I speak

458
00:25:23.519 --> 00:25:26.440
to you, flesh, I rebuke you in the name of

459
00:25:26.519 --> 00:25:31.759
Jesus Lord. Make me hold, make me over, revive me,

460
00:25:32.319 --> 00:25:38.160
regene me, renew me, repurpose me. He'll do it, He'll

461
00:25:38.200 --> 00:25:41.400
do it. How many people will you find that like

462
00:25:41.599 --> 00:25:44.279
to be angry? Many will say I don't like it.

463
00:25:44.400 --> 00:25:46.440
I don't like being this way, but I can't help it.

464
00:25:46.759 --> 00:25:49.400
Why can't you help it? If you don't like it, change, Well,

465
00:25:49.440 --> 00:25:53.000
I don't know. I can't change. Oh, you can't change.

466
00:25:53.119 --> 00:25:56.599
So you've convinced yourself that you can't change. You convince

467
00:25:56.640 --> 00:25:58.880
yourself you have to have that drink to bring you

468
00:25:58.960 --> 00:26:01.720
off the edge. Anvince yourself you got to go get high.

469
00:26:01.720 --> 00:26:03.599
You get now you're vaping and all this kind of

470
00:26:03.720 --> 00:26:06.640
that make you feel better. You've convinced yourself, Hey, who

471
00:26:07.000 --> 00:26:10.279
who did that to you? Your flesh, the humanness of

472
00:26:10.400 --> 00:26:12.240
you said, you know what, we don't have to take that.

473
00:26:12.359 --> 00:26:15.039
Go get something to drink, Go get something, go binge, eat,

474
00:26:15.279 --> 00:26:17.079
go eat a lot of go eat half a gallon

475
00:26:17.119 --> 00:26:19.880
of ice cream. You'll feel better. You you'll have cavities,

476
00:26:20.799 --> 00:26:22.319
and then you got to go to the dentist, and

477
00:26:22.319 --> 00:26:23.839
then you gon be bad because you don't have the

478
00:26:23.839 --> 00:26:26.799
insurance for it. It's a on your arm. You have

479
00:26:26.839 --> 00:26:28.880
to put your armor. You have to put your armor

480
00:26:28.920 --> 00:26:29.920
God on in the morning.

481
00:26:30.279 --> 00:26:34.720
You know that's something that's yourself, Yes, exactly itself. Go ahead,

482
00:26:34.960 --> 00:26:38.160
go ahead, because you can talk. You can talk yourself

483
00:26:38.160 --> 00:26:41.000
into something and talk yourself out of something. And so

484
00:26:41.599 --> 00:26:45.880
what I was just being transparent half half a go

485
00:26:46.079 --> 00:26:48.920
to or go to that you can kind of get

486
00:26:48.920 --> 00:26:52.279
yourself when you find yourself and that that thought process,

487
00:26:52.799 --> 00:26:56.079
and it's not healthy because when you stay there, it

488
00:26:56.359 --> 00:26:58.839
becomes very unhealthy. And you don't want to get to

489
00:26:58.880 --> 00:27:02.440
that point where you can't see yourself lifted up. And

490
00:27:02.519 --> 00:27:06.559
so I would suggest that you identify the go to s,

491
00:27:06.559 --> 00:27:11.079
which excuse me, people that you can talk to, people

492
00:27:11.119 --> 00:27:12.960
who are gonna uplift you.

493
00:27:13.039 --> 00:27:14.880
It could be friends, somebody.

494
00:27:14.799 --> 00:27:20.880
Trusted person, your clergy, your therapist, someone that you can

495
00:27:20.920 --> 00:27:23.319
talk to to get you out of that. And then

496
00:27:23.359 --> 00:27:27.960
also reading the Bible and then maybe putting in scriptures

497
00:27:28.960 --> 00:27:32.880
audiobook or audio scriptures, so it can drown out what's

498
00:27:32.920 --> 00:27:35.559
going on in here. Because a lot of times when

499
00:27:35.599 --> 00:27:38.240
you have that thought all this and you need something

500
00:27:38.319 --> 00:27:43.240
that that's gonna drown that sound out to relieve it

501
00:27:43.319 --> 00:27:46.839
some and then just be mindful of that. You know,

502
00:27:47.079 --> 00:27:50.160
if it's coming too often, if you notice this, if

503
00:27:50.200 --> 00:27:53.000
you find yourself not wanting to do stuff and stuck

504
00:27:53.039 --> 00:27:56.759
in a position that that's not healthy mentally or emotionally,

505
00:27:57.119 --> 00:27:58.480
you need to really seek help.

506
00:27:59.319 --> 00:28:01.720
You need to see you really do And here's some

507
00:28:01.799 --> 00:28:05.880
common causes. Check this out. Combat or military exposure. Now

508
00:28:05.880 --> 00:28:08.559
we know that's the number one you've been in the military.

509
00:28:09.079 --> 00:28:11.079
It is going to be rare. I know of one

510
00:28:11.160 --> 00:28:14.680
young man that was in military and went into law

511
00:28:14.759 --> 00:28:19.079
enforcement and has come out unscathed. But he is deep, deep,

512
00:28:19.400 --> 00:28:23.079
deep into God. He is deep into God and Jesus

513
00:28:23.079 --> 00:28:25.519
in the Holy Spirit. So if he had and he's

514
00:28:25.519 --> 00:28:27.759
been on the show once we were honoring Fathers and

515
00:28:28.000 --> 00:28:31.000
he was on one time. But that's the only person

516
00:28:31.079 --> 00:28:33.359
I know they ever put on two sets of uniform

517
00:28:33.680 --> 00:28:36.960
and didn't act out. He was not angry, he didn't

518
00:28:37.000 --> 00:28:39.559
I mean, he rarely raised his voice when he was

519
00:28:39.599 --> 00:28:43.279
out of uniform. So that takes a lot of work

520
00:28:43.319 --> 00:28:45.279
on yourself and realize it. But let me go back

521
00:28:45.279 --> 00:28:48.880
to this list of common causes, combat or military exposure,

522
00:28:49.279 --> 00:28:53.640
violent personal assault or abuse. There's a domestic violence as

523
00:28:53.680 --> 00:28:59.519
that abuse as a child, serious accidents, car crashes, natural disasters,

524
00:28:59.720 --> 00:29:02.880
God help us out, and much prayer to the Philippines.

525
00:29:02.880 --> 00:29:06.200
They just had a seven point eight earthquake. Please, and

526
00:29:06.759 --> 00:29:08.480
the kids were out and look like they're in the

527
00:29:08.519 --> 00:29:12.920
courtyard and buildings was just falling. So you know, our

528
00:29:12.960 --> 00:29:14.799
hearts go out to them, and please have prayed that.

529
00:29:15.119 --> 00:29:16.880
And I think they had found thirty two. But this

530
00:29:16.920 --> 00:29:18.559
is this morning when I saw it, about thirty two

531
00:29:18.559 --> 00:29:21.359
people that were injured or may have passed. It may

532
00:29:21.400 --> 00:29:23.880
be a fatality. I'm not sure what the current numbers are.

533
00:29:23.920 --> 00:29:27.039
But anyway, but natural disaster, I can't even imagine. I

534
00:29:27.079 --> 00:29:28.880
would love to go to Hawaii, but I really don't

535
00:29:28.880 --> 00:29:30.200
want to go because I don't know when they gonna

536
00:29:30.200 --> 00:29:32.559
have a tsunami. I know that sounds ridiculous, Like you know,

537
00:29:33.400 --> 00:29:36.599
miss Gray, they don't have been all the islands on Hawaii.

538
00:29:36.599 --> 00:29:39.000
I don't know that. I don't know that, so I

539
00:29:39.039 --> 00:29:41.400
don't want to go near the ocean when we especially

540
00:29:41.400 --> 00:29:44.240
this summertime. I just I'm not scared. I just don't

541
00:29:44.279 --> 00:29:46.599
want to go, you know. But talking about that, because

542
00:29:46.599 --> 00:29:49.759
I can't imagine living in those countries have that have

543
00:29:49.880 --> 00:29:52.519
an earth they're known for earthquakes, or they're known for tsunamis,

544
00:29:52.519 --> 00:29:55.880
they're known for a volcano explosion, you know. I can't

545
00:29:55.880 --> 00:29:59.839
even imagine that, or the sudden unexpected death of a love.

546
00:30:00.480 --> 00:30:03.440
So those are some basic common causes. That's one, two, three,

547
00:30:03.599 --> 00:30:07.960
four or five. Okay, So where do we go from here? Now?

548
00:30:08.079 --> 00:30:11.799
Now that we've identified what PTSD means, and I'm not

549
00:30:11.960 --> 00:30:15.799
belittling it. I'm not taking its power, its influence, its

550
00:30:15.839 --> 00:30:19.400
effects from it. I'm not doing that. Even if you've

551
00:30:19.400 --> 00:30:21.680
never been in the military, if you don't meet that criteria,

552
00:30:21.720 --> 00:30:25.720
but something's happened to where you are traumatized, I should

553
00:30:25.720 --> 00:30:28.920
be traumatized. I don't have toes either. I shouldn't be

554
00:30:28.920 --> 00:30:31.240
on here talking to y'all after this happened to me.

555
00:30:32.240 --> 00:30:34.079
And that's why the Lord allowed me to go back

556
00:30:34.079 --> 00:30:36.480
to some of my practitioners and they keep in touch

557
00:30:36.519 --> 00:30:39.359
with them so they could see, Okay, that was the

558
00:30:39.920 --> 00:30:43.160
traumatic mean, this is the renewed me. This, this is

559
00:30:43.200 --> 00:30:46.039
the meat that people know. And even better, I should

560
00:30:46.039 --> 00:30:49.079
be traumatized. When I tell people the story, they'll be like, oh,

561
00:30:49.119 --> 00:30:51.400
I'm so sorry. I said, no, no, no, I give God

562
00:30:51.440 --> 00:30:55.359
all glory out of this. You wouldn't believe my testimonies.

563
00:30:55.480 --> 00:30:58.599
You wouldn't believe my testimonies. And you too can have

564
00:30:58.640 --> 00:31:03.519
a testimony that you you conquered, you overroaded. Can anyone

565
00:31:03.640 --> 00:31:08.160
find renewal? Yes, yes, but you gotta want it bad.

566
00:31:08.599 --> 00:31:10.200
You got to want it. I'm sorry, my way to

567
00:31:10.240 --> 00:31:11.839
it come up over here because I've got it. Let

568
00:31:11.880 --> 00:31:14.880
me take it off for comments here. I'm sorry, guys,

569
00:31:15.200 --> 00:31:17.720
but yeah, you gotta want it bad enough. When I

570
00:31:17.759 --> 00:31:20.720
realized when God spoke to me in the hospital and said,

571
00:31:20.759 --> 00:31:22.359
what I need you to do is sit up extra

572
00:31:22.400 --> 00:31:25.240
an extra fifteen minutes in that chair. Once pt and

573
00:31:25.279 --> 00:31:28.559
Ot gets you up, I say, oh, I'm going home.

574
00:31:28.880 --> 00:31:30.440
He said, yeah, you going home. I really thought I

575
00:31:30.480 --> 00:31:32.279
was going to die in the hospital. I didn't know

576
00:31:32.319 --> 00:31:35.240
I had died already twice. I hadn't read my progress notes,

577
00:31:35.400 --> 00:31:37.279
so I thought I was not going to be coming home,

578
00:31:37.680 --> 00:31:39.240
or I'll be going to a nursing home, and that's

579
00:31:39.240 --> 00:31:41.480
why I would die there. And then I realized, oh,

580
00:31:41.519 --> 00:31:45.160
so I am going home. God, yeah, God, it's so funny.

581
00:31:45.160 --> 00:31:46.640
He said, yeah, because you got to finish your book.

582
00:31:47.480 --> 00:31:50.119
Oh I ain't going home and make everybody happy, going

583
00:31:50.200 --> 00:31:52.559
home to finish your book, he said, if you don't mind,

584
00:31:52.920 --> 00:31:56.880
And that was why am I so angry? That was

585
00:31:56.960 --> 00:32:02.359
that book for teenagers and tweens. So I know. I

586
00:32:02.400 --> 00:32:04.599
know I've lost my parents. My father died in my

587
00:32:04.759 --> 00:32:07.680
arms three months before I was get married the first time.

588
00:32:08.160 --> 00:32:10.880
My mom had Alzheimer's, didn't know my didn't call me

589
00:32:10.920 --> 00:32:13.240
by name for four you. Oh, I know about trauma.

590
00:32:13.680 --> 00:32:15.799
I know about trauma. Divorced the first you know, my

591
00:32:15.839 --> 00:32:19.200
first divorce, didn't get married to get divorced. Then I

592
00:32:19.319 --> 00:32:22.680
marry a second time, the marriage YU yuck. But he

593
00:32:22.799 --> 00:32:25.200
dies so I didn't have to get a divorce. So

594
00:32:25.240 --> 00:32:27.559
I know about trauma, but it's what you do with it.

595
00:32:27.920 --> 00:32:31.119
And once I realized that I am living, and God

596
00:32:31.200 --> 00:32:34.200
is getting sending me home to finish this book, and

597
00:32:34.240 --> 00:32:35.759
I don't know what else he's gonna have me do.

598
00:32:36.400 --> 00:32:38.559
And I know my limbs are probably gonna go at

599
00:32:38.559 --> 00:32:42.200
some point. But I'm going home and that was enough

600
00:32:42.279 --> 00:32:46.799
renewal for me. That was enough purpose and reason for me.

601
00:32:47.359 --> 00:32:49.319
Was it hard to get past the anger related to

602
00:32:49.319 --> 00:32:51.960
the trauma? Yeah, because I mean there was another piece

603
00:32:52.000 --> 00:32:54.880
that was related to this besides the sepsis, And yeah,

604
00:32:54.960 --> 00:32:57.240
I was mad. I was like, are you serious? You

605
00:32:57.400 --> 00:33:01.119
targeting me? You know, are you serious? And then I'm like,

606
00:33:01.160 --> 00:33:04.000
wait a minute, oh oh, And then you know, of course,

607
00:33:04.079 --> 00:33:06.519
God you searched that and said what you're doing? Who

608
00:33:06.599 --> 00:33:08.880
you talking to? And I'm like, oh, I was talking

609
00:33:08.880 --> 00:33:11.160
to myself. What you're telling yourself? And then God had

610
00:33:11.200 --> 00:33:14.960
to remind me you went through this because of me.

611
00:33:15.559 --> 00:33:21.000
I chose you. Ah, y'all, y'all don't know nothing until

612
00:33:21.079 --> 00:33:24.359
God tells you. I choose you for such a time

613
00:33:24.599 --> 00:33:27.920
as this, And it's not based on your education and

614
00:33:28.039 --> 00:33:31.000
whether you could flex your muscles or whatever. It's based

615
00:33:31.039 --> 00:33:34.599
on what He already downloaded in you before your mother's

616
00:33:34.599 --> 00:33:37.400
womb knew you were coming. I'll say it till I

617
00:33:37.559 --> 00:33:40.680
take my last breath again. But when your daddy tells you,

618
00:33:41.680 --> 00:33:45.119
it's because of me, and he warned me. Remember, guys,

619
00:33:45.160 --> 00:33:46.960
those of you who've been on long enough, you heard it.

620
00:33:47.000 --> 00:33:48.559
I've told you. I told you about the part of

621
00:33:48.599 --> 00:33:51.319
the Testimy was in August, two months before this happened

622
00:33:51.359 --> 00:33:53.440
to me. God is speaking to me. He's talking to me.

623
00:33:53.759 --> 00:33:55.160
He said, oh, by the way, I need you to

624
00:33:55.200 --> 00:33:57.200
do something for the kingdom. And I'm like, okay, because

625
00:33:57.200 --> 00:34:00.880
I'm a daddy's girl, bring it. What more go ask

626
00:34:01.000 --> 00:34:03.759
that unless you're ready to hear the answer or live

627
00:34:03.759 --> 00:34:06.559
out the answer. I'm like, yeah, sure, And I forgot

628
00:34:06.559 --> 00:34:09.199
all about it so much so I'm in the hospital

629
00:34:09.320 --> 00:34:11.679
coming out of a coma. I'm all wrapped up, can't

630
00:34:11.760 --> 00:34:15.039
move or anything, and I'm like and then God, month

631
00:34:15.119 --> 00:34:17.159
weeks later, I was at the hospital for ninety seven

632
00:34:17.239 --> 00:34:21.360
days a week from October to January. The week weeks

633
00:34:21.400 --> 00:34:23.960
later months it had to be after Thanksgiving even maybe

634
00:34:24.119 --> 00:34:26.760
he found say you remember the conversation we had in August,

635
00:34:27.119 --> 00:34:28.679
and I'm crying. This is one of those moments. I'm

636
00:34:28.719 --> 00:34:31.079
in the hospital and I'm crying and I'm like, oh God, now,

637
00:34:31.159 --> 00:34:33.320
this don't know what's gonna happen, and you know, these

638
00:34:33.320 --> 00:34:35.920
people are pushing me to be amputated now, and I'm like, oh,

639
00:34:36.119 --> 00:34:38.679
you know, he said, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey,

640
00:34:39.119 --> 00:34:42.000
do you remember the conversation we had in August? I said,

641
00:34:42.000 --> 00:34:45.559
a conversation we had you had in August? What? Oh?

642
00:34:45.800 --> 00:34:50.760
The one where you oh? Oh? But this though, this

643
00:34:50.840 --> 00:34:52.960
is the way, God, this is the way you're gonna

644
00:34:52.960 --> 00:34:54.960
get glory. The kicker was gonna get gold. I'm gonna

645
00:34:54.960 --> 00:34:57.360
break people more people to you this way. He said,

646
00:34:57.760 --> 00:35:00.360
who are you talking to? I said, oh, all right?

647
00:35:00.599 --> 00:35:02.559
He said, I know. He said, I get you some rest.

648
00:35:02.800 --> 00:35:04.920
I woke up after that rest, and I said, okay.

649
00:35:05.280 --> 00:35:13.280
He set me straight, he gently, but you know, like

650
00:35:13.320 --> 00:35:16.280
a parent would. I'm gonna set you straight. He's like,

651
00:35:16.320 --> 00:35:20.639
who are you talking to? Watch your tone? Watch your tone?

652
00:35:21.000 --> 00:35:23.920
Thank you? Watch your look? Who you who? You're rolling

653
00:35:23.920 --> 00:35:26.920
your just rolling the neck. I'm gonna do a sidebar here,

654
00:35:27.119 --> 00:35:29.440
these kids rolling their neck and out. You wouldn't live.

655
00:35:29.480 --> 00:35:31.679
You wouldn't live in our generation. You would have been

656
00:35:32.159 --> 00:35:34.639
knock across the room. You wouldn't you wouldn't and you

657
00:35:34.639 --> 00:35:40.199
wouldn't have never eaten again. Our mothers and grandmothers didn't play.

658
00:35:40.239 --> 00:35:43.079
Do you hear me? Grandma? Can I want some more food?

659
00:35:43.119 --> 00:35:45.000
More food? You might eat what's all your plate, but

660
00:35:45.119 --> 00:35:46.559
can I have a piece of cake, eat what's all

661
00:35:46.599 --> 00:35:48.679
your plate? And then they put the cake up in

662
00:35:48.719 --> 00:35:50.920
front of you and put it put it way. No,

663
00:35:51.000 --> 00:35:54.440
ain't nobody's at three o'clock. Ain't nobody eating no cake? Oh?

664
00:35:54.440 --> 00:35:57.239
I want cereal for breakfast? No, you had egg, you

665
00:35:57.280 --> 00:36:00.760
had protea, you had a vegetable. I want serious serial

666
00:36:00.840 --> 00:36:04.360
What that's a snack that ain't no meal? Oh yeah,

667
00:36:04.400 --> 00:36:06.800
some of y'all wouldn't survive in our era. I know

668
00:36:06.800 --> 00:36:09.199
I wouldn't have survived in slavery days. So I know

669
00:36:09.320 --> 00:36:12.599
most of y'all would not survive during my childhood because

670
00:36:13.320 --> 00:36:16.159
you know that's when the neighbors could get after you. Say, y'all,

671
00:36:16.159 --> 00:36:18.559
I heard, Yes, I heard you were not do good

672
00:36:18.599 --> 00:36:22.519
at school. Today You're like, who told her? Missus Joels

673
00:36:22.559 --> 00:36:26.880
had got kids? And I don't want to tell you, daddy. No,

674
00:36:27.119 --> 00:36:28.960
Please don't tell you my daddy. Please, don't you need

675
00:36:29.000 --> 00:36:32.800
to tell you. Let me tell you, daddy. Okay, I'm

676
00:36:32.840 --> 00:36:35.800
not digressing, I'm coming back. I'm circling back talking about

677
00:36:35.800 --> 00:36:40.400
PTSD trauma. Back in my day, we didn't talk, we

678
00:36:40.400 --> 00:36:43.320
didn't call trauma. It was under the within the walls

679
00:36:43.360 --> 00:36:48.559
of the VA, the Veterans Administration. That's where they picked

680
00:36:48.639 --> 00:36:52.000
up that word PTSD. That was not outside in the community,

681
00:36:52.360 --> 00:36:54.400
no matter what. If you saw somebody get shot and

682
00:36:54.440 --> 00:36:57.119
fall out in front of you, that was not you

683
00:36:57.159 --> 00:37:00.159
were traumatized maybe, but they weren't not using those words. Oh,

684
00:37:00.159 --> 00:37:01.679
you're probably a little scared, but it's going to be

685
00:37:01.679 --> 00:37:04.480
all right. They didn't use medication. You'll get over it.

686
00:37:04.800 --> 00:37:07.639
The times have change, and you've got to still take

687
00:37:07.679 --> 00:37:11.039
control of your thoughts, your behavior, the words that come

688
00:37:11.079 --> 00:37:16.000
out of your mouth, your actions, your behaviors. You can.

689
00:37:18.599 --> 00:37:21.920
You're just kind of comment and on the PTSD when

690
00:37:21.960 --> 00:37:26.840
it relates to military and just the bit that I

691
00:37:26.920 --> 00:37:30.559
do know or have seen or heard about. People don't

692
00:37:30.679 --> 00:37:36.360
understand when you're in that role as a person that's

693
00:37:36.480 --> 00:37:39.880
in the military, what that could look like, you know,

694
00:37:40.039 --> 00:37:42.920
not knowing if you're going to be called to war

695
00:37:43.159 --> 00:37:45.920
or if you're going to be going to places where

696
00:37:45.920 --> 00:37:50.239
you're not used to what you're going to experience, either

697
00:37:50.559 --> 00:37:54.599
en route while you're there or en route back to

698
00:37:54.679 --> 00:37:57.480
where you need to be. And I just want to

699
00:37:57.519 --> 00:38:01.760
take this opportunity to really think those who Syria was

700
00:38:01.840 --> 00:38:05.480
dinner many a night back. Yeah, just to thank those

701
00:38:06.039 --> 00:38:09.400
who sacrifice, because it is you know, I've known, I

702
00:38:09.480 --> 00:38:12.840
know many people that that we're in the military. My

703
00:38:12.960 --> 00:38:16.480
dad was was a veteran, a veteran, was a veteran,

704
00:38:16.960 --> 00:38:20.159
and then many people, my family members and in my

705
00:38:20.360 --> 00:38:21.960
circle that I know.

706
00:38:23.519 --> 00:38:24.920
Has served in the military.

707
00:38:25.159 --> 00:38:29.719
And no matter what branch of service that you serve in,

708
00:38:29.760 --> 00:38:34.440
each one experiences their own their own challenges, you know,

709
00:38:34.679 --> 00:38:38.159
or roles. But it's not an easy feat. You know,

710
00:38:38.280 --> 00:38:40.519
it's it's.

711
00:38:39.719 --> 00:38:40.639
It could be.

712
00:38:42.239 --> 00:38:44.079
You know, it does have some perks, but it has

713
00:38:44.119 --> 00:38:47.519
some other stuff behind it as well, especially if you're

714
00:38:47.679 --> 00:38:51.239
a person that in a military and you're in a relationship,

715
00:38:51.320 --> 00:38:55.000
if you're a parent, if you're married, or you know,

716
00:38:55.079 --> 00:38:58.000
it does take a toll on it because of the demands,

717
00:38:58.519 --> 00:39:01.960
and no one really knows what happens because a lot

718
00:39:01.960 --> 00:39:04.280
of times they don't talk about it. But these are

719
00:39:04.280 --> 00:39:07.679
the silent things that the men and women go through

720
00:39:08.280 --> 00:39:11.039
day in and day out, and some things you just

721
00:39:11.079 --> 00:39:17.360
cannot wave away. They really struggle to manage every simple

722
00:39:17.400 --> 00:39:20.000
things that might seem simple to us. And so and

723
00:39:20.079 --> 00:39:23.320
I know in the Virginia area because it was you

724
00:39:23.360 --> 00:39:25.559
know that in the area that I'm you know that

725
00:39:25.599 --> 00:39:30.719
I'm from. It's It's it's multiple military bases and Fourth

726
00:39:30.800 --> 00:39:34.119
of July might seem fun for some folks, but they

727
00:39:34.199 --> 00:39:38.519
ask you to be kind and be mindful that firecrackers

728
00:39:38.559 --> 00:39:43.400
and things that are military people are not always in

729
00:39:43.480 --> 00:39:46.400
agreement with or it's not a fun thing for them.

730
00:39:46.679 --> 00:39:50.119
It triggers a lot of PTSD because if you listen

731
00:39:50.159 --> 00:39:53.400
to it, it could sound like a missile or gunfire

732
00:39:53.760 --> 00:39:57.320
or whatever that means, and that can trigger. So I

733
00:39:57.440 --> 00:39:59.599
just want to kind of put that out there and

734
00:39:59.639 --> 00:40:03.840
then people just research it. I would just encourage people

735
00:40:03.880 --> 00:40:06.840
to research what that looks like and so we can

736
00:40:06.920 --> 00:40:08.280
become more simple.

737
00:40:08.440 --> 00:40:10.960
Sympathetic, and more mindful.

738
00:40:11.639 --> 00:40:15.119
Yeah to the situations and how it affects families and

739
00:40:15.199 --> 00:40:20.320
children with situations, especially if, like you said it, somebody backfiring.

740
00:40:20.400 --> 00:40:21.920
You know, if you're sitting in your home with your

741
00:40:21.920 --> 00:40:23.880
family and you're backfiring, and.

742
00:40:23.800 --> 00:40:26.719
To see people who you look up, maybe the.

743
00:40:26.719 --> 00:40:29.480
Father who's just been a big person and he's getting

744
00:40:29.519 --> 00:40:33.199
under the table because he's hearing that, and it doesn't

745
00:40:33.360 --> 00:40:36.760
you know, some people say, wow, really, really it could

746
00:40:36.800 --> 00:40:41.079
be it's quote unquote simple as that, but we really

747
00:40:41.119 --> 00:40:42.760
want to kind of put it out there and thank

748
00:40:42.840 --> 00:40:45.960
the men and women who do, who have who are

749
00:40:46.639 --> 00:40:49.840
serving this country and who place their lives.

750
00:40:49.519 --> 00:40:52.519
On the line every day and not knowing what that

751
00:40:52.559 --> 00:40:55.039
would look like at the end of the day. And

752
00:40:55.079 --> 00:40:57.800
so I just want to put that No. Prophet Giles

753
00:40:58.199 --> 00:41:01.960
Joshua Giles josh with a J and Giles g I

754
00:41:02.159 --> 00:41:05.159
l e S. I follow him. He's one of the

755
00:41:05.159 --> 00:41:07.800
prophets that I do, I can relate to and relate

756
00:41:07.840 --> 00:41:10.360
with and everything. And today he was talking about the

757
00:41:10.400 --> 00:41:15.079
battlefield of war, and with his fear and intimidation, I say,

758
00:41:15.119 --> 00:41:17.679
oh my God, we're talking about PTSD because this is

759
00:41:17.679 --> 00:41:21.039
what this is what the revelation he received the God

760
00:41:21.280 --> 00:41:24.360
says that the battlefield that we're going through now is

761
00:41:24.400 --> 00:41:27.280
you're going to experience it in your environment, whether it's

762
00:41:27.039 --> 00:41:30.519
your your space, your workspace, your community, you know, storm,

763
00:41:30.639 --> 00:41:33.960
you know you're gonna experience this. It's going to experience

764
00:41:33.960 --> 00:41:35.760
in your environment. You having problems on the job, you

765
00:41:35.800 --> 00:41:40.760
having problems with your neighbors, second relationships, it's in your relationships.

766
00:41:40.840 --> 00:41:42.760
You're not getting along with this person, you're not getting

767
00:41:42.800 --> 00:41:45.400
along with your significant other, whatever. This is where that

768
00:41:45.440 --> 00:41:48.920
battle feeling of war. Warfare is coming the double. He's

769
00:41:49.039 --> 00:41:51.840
very he's near, he's at his end. The moment the

770
00:41:51.840 --> 00:41:54.159
Bible was written, he was already at his end. But

771
00:41:54.239 --> 00:41:57.079
he is physically at his end now. So he's turning

772
00:41:57.119 --> 00:41:59.000
up the heat. He's gonna do whatever he can to

773
00:41:59.039 --> 00:42:03.559
do he can't do, to to keep us distracted, to

774
00:42:03.599 --> 00:42:06.199
steal from us, to kill us. Whatever. Then we go

775
00:42:06.239 --> 00:42:07.880
through these and then we're gonna pick up because we're

776
00:42:07.920 --> 00:42:11.360
gonna talk about I think at Alzheimer's next week or

777
00:42:11.360 --> 00:42:15.119
either migraines. But we're gonna still stay on the mind. Okay, emotions,

778
00:42:15.159 --> 00:42:17.440
you're gonna have warfare. Your emotions. You're up and down,

779
00:42:17.480 --> 00:42:19.920
you cry, you're lonely, you don't know what you want

780
00:42:19.960 --> 00:42:22.800
to do. Well, you're you're, you're you're experiencing all kinds

781
00:42:22.800 --> 00:42:26.199
of things and stuff is still emotional. And in your

782
00:42:26.239 --> 00:42:29.360
money and in your money because you're working that job.

783
00:42:29.400 --> 00:42:31.719
You're getting the same paycheck, you're getting the same amount,

784
00:42:31.760 --> 00:42:34.719
you're getting the same deductions, and and you're you're you're

785
00:42:34.800 --> 00:42:36.920
still mad. You're mad, and it's like, who are you

786
00:42:36.960 --> 00:42:39.159
mad at? There's nothing we could do about that. Leave

787
00:42:39.199 --> 00:42:41.199
the job. But now we don't even have that choice

788
00:42:41.199 --> 00:42:43.039
hardly any more, to leave a job and go find

789
00:42:43.039 --> 00:42:46.320
another job because everything is kind of tightened and just

790
00:42:46.360 --> 00:42:50.800
really crazy now, and and appointments and and and and

791
00:42:50.880 --> 00:42:54.119
trying to get somebody. I just heard a near city,

792
00:42:54.800 --> 00:42:58.119
somebody very near and dear to me is in the hospital.

793
00:42:58.480 --> 00:43:00.880
They did something to it with this heart and everything,

794
00:43:01.239 --> 00:43:03.800
and the doctor, the surgeons. There's only three surgeons on

795
00:43:03.840 --> 00:43:07.719
the floor, only three surgeons in a hospital taking on

796
00:43:07.760 --> 00:43:10.800
the cardiac floor. And they were the families waiting to

797
00:43:10.840 --> 00:43:13.159
get it. So feedback and like, what's going on? What

798
00:43:13.199 --> 00:43:15.239
are we doing? When is he? You know, did everything

799
00:43:15.239 --> 00:43:16.960
go well? And you know, and stuff like that. So

800
00:43:17.039 --> 00:43:19.519
this is what you know. We got to, you know,

801
00:43:19.639 --> 00:43:21.719
pump it up, pump the brake a little bit. You

802
00:43:21.800 --> 00:43:24.000
got to say where I'm going. I'm not in a hurry,

803
00:43:24.360 --> 00:43:27.199
I know. I got to get information. You calm yourself

804
00:43:27.280 --> 00:43:32.280
down first so that won't transfer over to somebody else. Okay,

805
00:43:32.719 --> 00:43:35.039
So I want to talk about that, and I want

806
00:43:35.079 --> 00:43:37.280
to say this before we leave. It's already two minutes.

807
00:43:37.280 --> 00:43:39.880
I can't believe this. It was just seven twenty six

808
00:43:39.920 --> 00:43:44.760
a few minutes ago. Forgiving and forgetting It comes back

809
00:43:44.800 --> 00:43:49.039
to that forgiving and forgetting, asking God to help you.

810
00:43:49.440 --> 00:43:52.320
And the forginning is not so much to wipe your memory.

811
00:43:52.760 --> 00:43:55.159
It's just to take that trauma off. It's to take

812
00:43:55.199 --> 00:43:58.280
that edge off. It's to take that pain away. Because

813
00:43:58.320 --> 00:44:00.400
right now you can still think of something and tears

814
00:44:00.440 --> 00:44:02.719
come to your eyes. And it happened when you in

815
00:44:02.719 --> 00:44:05.480
the second grade and you sixty two years old. You're

816
00:44:05.480 --> 00:44:07.800
holding onto that. Why are you holding onto that? You

817
00:44:07.800 --> 00:44:10.880
youngsters out there are young viewers out there. Be careful,

818
00:44:11.320 --> 00:44:14.639
be slow to anger. You're too young to have anger problems.

819
00:44:14.719 --> 00:44:17.519
To be honest with you, you're too young. Check yourself

820
00:44:17.639 --> 00:44:21.000
now and begin to forgive and forget. You got. It's

821
00:44:21.000 --> 00:44:23.639
a work in progress. It's going to happen probably throughout

822
00:44:23.639 --> 00:44:25.039
the rest of your life. You may have to put

823
00:44:25.039 --> 00:44:27.519
that in that deliverance column I talked about, you know, save,

824
00:44:27.639 --> 00:44:29.400
set free, and deliver. You may have to put that

825
00:44:29.440 --> 00:44:32.400
one on it because sometimes forgetting and forgiving. Yes, this

826
00:44:32.440 --> 00:44:35.360
has been helpful to me. Oh thank you. And the key.

827
00:44:36.199 --> 00:44:38.440
Oh no, that's somebody else. That's a daughter. I think

828
00:44:38.519 --> 00:44:41.079
things are hard. Yes, this is okay. I think that's

829
00:44:41.079 --> 00:44:44.599
the daughter. Yes it is Amen. So I just want

830
00:44:44.639 --> 00:44:47.360
to say, you know, so you've got to forgive and forget.

831
00:44:47.800 --> 00:44:50.320
Why are you? And the first step will be I

832
00:44:50.360 --> 00:44:53.159
want you their homework will be fine. All the scriptures

833
00:44:53.199 --> 00:44:56.719
on forgetting and forgiving start right there, because if you've

834
00:44:56.760 --> 00:45:00.159
had a hard time forgiving people and forgetting about things

835
00:45:00.159 --> 00:45:02.280
that have happened to you, that should be your first

836
00:45:02.280 --> 00:45:05.239
Bible study for yourself. And you need to write down

837
00:45:05.400 --> 00:45:08.599
all the scriptures and in your physical Bible and your

838
00:45:08.639 --> 00:45:11.079
phone Bible. They need to be highlighted because you're going

839
00:45:11.159 --> 00:45:13.719
to have to go back to remind yourself and let

840
00:45:13.760 --> 00:45:16.360
the word cleanse you like it should, like it will.

841
00:45:16.760 --> 00:45:18.480
And then the second then you got to get some

842
00:45:18.519 --> 00:45:20.559
scriptures and say, okay, now this is what I'm gonna

843
00:45:20.639 --> 00:45:23.880
lean on because I this this, These two here speak

844
00:45:23.920 --> 00:45:26.320
to me. You recite them one hundred times a day.

845
00:45:26.639 --> 00:45:29.800
That's meditating on his word. If you're serious. Now, if

846
00:45:29.840 --> 00:45:32.159
you you want to get out of bondage, we'll see

847
00:45:32.199 --> 00:46:02.639
you next week, same time, same station. Night, not y'alls,